Women have been accused of kujiachilia, while men also have pot bellies, it is women who are ridiculed and bashed while the later go.
Truth be told, women add weight for various reasons ranging from family planning, hormonal imbalance and child delivery thus many are still battling with baby fat years later.
During the Classic 105 breakfast show hosted by Mike Mondo who was sitting in for Maina Kageni fans men were given a chance to speak candidly on If they would dump their woman after she gains weight and the responses are heartbreaking.
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Here is what they had to say:
“You cant leave a woman because they have grown a potbelly, especially if you are married, just encourage her to work out till she gets where she is comfortable. Leaving her is like you admitting that you only want to be with slay queens.”
Another Classic 105 caller adds:
“Women let go especially after they deliver, as a man, my potbelly ni bidii yangu, but for a woman to have a pot belly it means that she is eating too much fatty food and doing no exercises at all.”
Just when you think the men are done justifying themselves, another male caller says:
“When I married my wife she was slim, and I love slim women as the years went on she has added weight and I am ok with how she is now, I cannot leave her what I wouldn’t want is for her to add to an extent of becoming over weight.
Personally I have added 10 kgs and I am now at 92 from my previous weight and its not like I’m just seating, eating and doing nothing. I just don’t know where the weight is coming from. But men should also lose weight, its not only women who should do this.”
Listen below for more on this gripping conversation…