Ladies, Why Would You Stay With a Man For More Than 2 Years If He’s Not Committing?

I think we need to address this issue once and for all.

There’s a lady friend who called me crying, because her man called it quits over the weekend to get married to another woman. This is a man she’s been with for 7 years.

I couldn’t help but wonder why she would put up with the man for a whole 7 years, investing in the relationship emotionally and financially, yet he hasn’t committed to you or settled down with you.

Ladies, why would you allow yourself to be in a relationship for more than a year and yet the man is not showing any signs of commitment or marriage? I think the most a lady should persevere is 2 years maximum, honestly!

Girls, how long have you held on to a relationship that never led to marriage or commitment?

Mwalimu King’ang’i feels that it’s good to take time to know each other and doesn’t see a problem if a man takes years before he commits to a woman. How now?

Ladies, please talk to me and explain why you would stay with a man for than 2 years and he’s not proposed or settled down with you? Talk to me! #MainaAndKingangi