Women must constantly hide their achievements from their fragile husbands, according to Mwalimu Kingangi.
Mwalimu this morning wanted to discuss the responsibilities of successful women to their families. He felt that rich women are making their men feel like less of a man.
the husband to the late Joyce Laboso at her funeral said when Laboso came home to him, she used to leave all the titles and power trappings at the gate and would be his wife at home. Now tell me how many powerful women can do that? I won’t mention names, you know them and when she goes home she should be a wife and mother, make sure your husband is happy and make sure you do homework with the kids,
Here is his list of conditions for successful women to do at home
- Be submisive
- Hand over your salary
- Cook for him
One of the women on the show pointed out that a successful woman must remain humble in front of her husband so that he never feels threatened by her success. According to her, a woman shouldn’t gloat of her achievements, because it will belittle her husband. Instead, a woman must make her husband feel powerful by showing him how inferior she is.
I earn more than him, he has all my ATM cards, some I have. I bought the house I educate the kids, once in awhile I cook, and this is my second marriage. why is she educating the kids? Because I’m in a better position, his salary wont allow the kids to go to the school I want, na pesa yake ananunua chakula
Maina Kageni rolled his eyes as far back as he could saying
ladies please listen to me if you let your husband get used to such situations of you paying all the bills, aki you have shown him bad manners
Since financial situations and relationships are hugely personal, what has been your experience? Drop your comments below