Women have on several occasions confessed to tricking men so that they can move in with them and men are not impressed, with many saying wanakandamizwa.
There are also things that they unconsciously do and it does not sit well with men.
Here are some of the things that women should drop ASAP
1. Kukatalia kwa nyumba yake
Ladies, whether you help pay the rent or not you have no right kukatalia in a man’s house. Don’t forget that man is not your father so he owes you NOTHING.
2. Appointing yourself as the wife
As long as he has not introduced you to his closest friends and family, acha kiherehere ya kuambi awatu kw plot ‘by the way am nani’s wife’ – who appointed you?
3. Don’t visit his house uninvited
Women we are tired of all the drama once you find out your man showcasing his bedroom skills to someone else.
So instead of kumeza panadol juu ya heachache ya mtu mwingine, just visit only when invited if you can’t kaa kwenyu maisha ni ngumu kwa kila mtu.
4. Stop creating trouble with his neighbors
I know you might think that just because you are dating you might think you have the right to create trouble with mama wa kufua nguo, caretaker or even mama mboga.
But believe you me as long as it’s his house and he has not put a ring on it, you have no say.
5. Disorganizing his household items
With the determination to prove you are a wife material you might be tempted to rearrange or reorganize furniture or even sort out his clothes, but before you do kemea hio pepo.
Until he tells you to just seat and enjoy his company or watch the newest series.