Today’s morning debate on Classic 105 was based on whether ladies should feel indebted to a man who has helped them out financially, when it comes to love.
The debate was brought about after a woman confessed that she was not interested romantically in a man that had paid her fee since she was 16 after she lost her parents.
I’m a 26 year old woman and my Parents died when I was 14 years old. I dropped out of school because no one could afford to pay my fees.
I met a guy when i was 16 and he sent me back to school. He sold fruit on the street so that he could pay my school fees.
He later got a job as a truck driver and sent me to University.
I am now working as lawyer. My problem is that i feel i cant continue with this relationship because this guy is not the type of man i would like to marry one day.
How best can i tell him that he is not my type without hurting his feelings? I want somebody in my own class not a truck driver please help me.
Here is what one fan had to say
I would urge that woman to walk away because nowadays we are walking with an axe in the car over such behaviors.
There is nothing as difficult as keeping a woman who is not in love with you.But as they say Karma is a b*tch and it will catch up with her.
He will get very hurt, so I would just advice her to walk away.
Another caller adds
That lady is being very inhumane, because that guy stood by her when she had no one.
Another caller adds that its unfair to leave the guy given that he put his dreams ion hold to let her pursue hers.
If she feels he is not his type let her help him to a level where she feels he meets her standards.
Yes he is a truck driver and she is a lawyer so what? Let her help him buy lorries which he can be managing if she does not want to get married to a truck driver.
The lady should help the man achieve bigger dreams because he sacrificed himself so that the lady could study to the level she is.
One fan however seems to disagree with every one saying that the lady should support the man.
So educating a 16 years old who was in a vulnerable position guys now want payback. Really at 16 could you make decision on marriage?
Shame on the man Tenda wema nenda zako. So should all those who sponsor orphans marry them. St*pid