‘My husband became a bully and was never satisfied’, was how one woman began her conversation with Maina Kageni, after disclosing how she used to give her unemployed husband her salary, to make him feel like a man.
‘He told me I look like I can be ‘pakwad uji’ ( I look like I can be misused and not independent)’, she confessed.
‘If he would ask me for 50k, I would go and drain my account and give him and then to him submission was me dressing in a certain way, not painting my nails, dressing in a certain way, so I really changed who I was. After two years I was lost, depressed, because on the other hand there was no love from him’.
Girls how far would you go to make your man feel like the head of the home? Ladies what are some of these things you do for your man, that seems crazy.
Does a working woman have to give her salary to her husband? And should he be allowed to determine how to spend it solely?
This was the question Maina Kageni posed to listeners, after a woman disclosed she hands over her salary to her jobless man, who in turn decides how much pocket money she should have.
Girls, have you been in this situation, where a man takes your salary decides how much busfare you should use, and how much you should spend on your weave, perhaps he even doesn’t want you to do a manicure?
Douglas Kiplagat[email protected] Sasa maina nikuulize unatarajia hao ma slayqueens wa Nairobi wakupatie pesa?? hata awanunuangi toothbrush ikue hio#MITM
Reginah Nimz…@ItsMainaKageni The only time I can give him my cash is when he looses his job,aI give him fare 2 go hustle 4another job! #MainaAndKingangi
purity shannie…#MainaAndKingangi ..let me manage my income bwana.. @ItsMainaKageni @Classic105Kenya
Calvin Queens…[email protected] @Classic105Kenya What is the problem in giving your man money? I don’t see any problem. Bora asimisuse. #MainaAndKingangi
maureen tasha…Not money but give you space to think on big project but ukishindwa I will do it wacha nijitolee kutoa kama umekwama #MainaAndKingangi
Vivian Aluse….Sitaki kupeana pesa ziende in another pocket,, willing ata iendee kwa his account, I don’t mind.. #MainaAndKingangi
Vivian Aluse….Am loving it,, I can give my hubby money Kama he’s only one for me #MainaAndKingangi
Aidyl Waitwika…@Classic105Kenya @ItsMainaKageni #MainaAndKingangi thats total madness ndingihota, no way
john mwaniki…#MainaAndKingangi some men are disgrace, 6yrs without a job and busy managing wife salary shame on him bure kabisa
Carol…[email protected]tsMainaKageni For me i wud give him a certain percentage the rest goes to my pocket and some to the joint account #MainaAndKingangi
Listen to the complete audio as men and women debate the matter: