The discussion this week on Classic 105 has been about accepting the reality that is second wives.
Most contributors confessed that they are either second wives, or are thinking about it seriously.
Take this unnamed woman who was unable to convince Maina that second wives bring stability in marriages. Her story is made for movies.
‘I met our husband when he was 33 years and was already married, he didn’t have anything (broke), me coming to the picture we have opened a business together. I have made his life better, this wife she was just sitting pretty I have made sure she is part of the company. Am I really bad, ameleta ID hata hajui she is a director of this company. It’s a high time people knew second wives are not that bad.
This prompted another woman to narrate how she is tired of her husband and is ready to welcome a second wife.
I think sometimes sharing is caring. I have personally asked him to get another wife. It’s important msaidiane (help each other), sometimes it’s the man who you feel you don’t understand, so saa zingine maybe he needs to get another wife, a sample so we see whether he is the problem or it’s me, to see if he will improve or appreciate the first wife better.
Can you possibly wrap your head around this fact? She adds
I’ve been married for about ten years and we have children hatusumbuani, we are each looking for money, and the small quarrels, so I want him to relieve me of stress and take it elsewhere.
Relationships are overwhelming, and he should kindly inform me if they also have kids, respect me, all I need is respect if we have to share akiskia aende naye kabisa ( if they want they can go and stay together I don’t care), me I don’t care, you can’t force emotions of someone, so if he feels he wants someone else let him go, for me I don’t think it’s worth fighting for a man,
I’m only 35, I don’t mind him getting another one, and I am okay with this all I need is him to be open and tell me
Crazy right? Like I can’t even begin to fathom this entire story.
Dear Classic 105 fam, have you ever heard such madness? Drop us your comments about your experience, serve some tea people!