A list of the qualities women want in men has upset many.
Among the list is a man should earn a six figure salary and live in certain neighborhoods to date and eventually marry some Kenyan girls.
One woman who had a bad experience in her marriage defended girls rights to demand men be financially stable, rather than waste their time with deadbeats.
She told Classic 105’s Mike Mondo that
I’m talking from a point of experience. You support your husband because your putting in 50 per cent on the table of the family budget. You help him with everything, to build an empire.
You are woman carrying his children and then along the way when he feels comfortable because you have been supporting him, he feels he wants another woman to enjoy my sweat.
Look at the people who have been supported by their wives, other than having a mpango wa kando what else do they have? What does the man give despite insults at the end of the day? So let our daughters not contribute to the family.
Is this true that when you help a man grow financially, that eventually he is going to leave you asked mike Mondo.
Mwalimu wasn’t convinced that all men are bad, defending them by saying
It’s a few rotten apples, right now ladies need to help their men said Mwalimu.
Leave the few rotten apples a majority who have been helped by their woman are appreciative and if you do something good for men they never forget added mwalimu. The problem is bad news travels father than good news he reiterated.
Mike opene dup the conversation to listeners and online users.
I’ve been listening and my issue was I’ve been dating this guy. I delivered a baby in 2017. At their home we didn’t even have a toilet so I had to build a toilet. I built a three bedroom mansion, I built a gate of 35 thousand shillings. I bought a probox to do business, I have bought him a car and in April I found condom and I asked him what he was doing. He said he was given by those PSI guys.
Another female caller disclosed her story about being dumped for a younger girl
I’m paying a very big loan and he is enjoying himself with other women.
The situation is however not so bad for all woman. A female caller urging for restraint.
Relationships are about building each other and I understand why they can be bitter with a man after building him. My advice to women in relationships is give and take. If you reach a situation where you are the only giver and don’t get anything in return there is something wrong. When it is one sided you become bitter. You have to be careful to grow together ans that it’s not one sided.