In many marriages or living situations, spouses go the extra mile for their loved ones.
It is not uncommon to hear a man or woman say they paid for their spouse to get a better education. The motivation being that things will get better financially for the family.
A female breadwinner revealed on Classic 105 that she put her husband through University, but he is ‘ungrateful’.
She explains her predicament
When I met my husband we both had diplomas and were employed in the same place, so when an opportunity arose for him to go to school, I supported him to go to campus.
She worked hard to support her husbands through school
I was paying fr his campus, I gave him Sh240k lumpsum money, coz he was going for regular courses to cater for fees and accommodation, so when he finished campus and he came back home, he wanted a better paying job.
He wanted to move into another job, and once again the loving wife helped him out
There was a job, but he didn’t get through, so he asked me for a favor to get it. I helped him get the job. In his former job he was earning 30k but the new offer was 170k,
The strategy of supporting her man did not work in her favor, as he soon showed his true colors
and the thing is when it was my turn to go to school, he didn’t support me, he didn’t even attend my graduation, but we are still together, I still love him, and now we are even building a house.
Girls, do you expect a big pay off later when you help your man?
what has been your experience, share below.