Nadia Mukami has lost many people she called friends after losing her first pregnancy in 2021.
She had a weird feeling she ws pregnant when attending her friends baby shower. A home test turned out positive.
On her youtube channel, Nadia opened up about a miscarriage she suffered in 2021 owing to career pressures and toxic people.
She told ‘honestly I got pregnant at the height of my career. So it’s alot of things that come in Ive been through the first miscarriage it changed my life for ever. I think the only thing the only thing that could ever break my life I think has just happened, sidhani there is anything else that can break me.’
She miscarried in April 2021
‘It has to be the weirdest place I had to be. I remember leaving the hospital after the procedure to remove the things, I went through counselling , people at the time didn’t know what I was going through. I went for counselling for a very long time,’
Nadia also revealed the names they had selected for their dead baby – Safare, for a boy, and Lola for a girl.
Arrowbwoy agreed saying ‘it was hard’ with Nadia describing the extent she went to hide the pregnancy ‘Imagine I had to hide it, and I had contracts I have to honor and so ono one cares about your personal problems so that’s why I think I have been chosing me, in my jobs, if you are toxic to me mentally, I just cut you off, even when I have many business kama unanipea stress coz I know I’ve had the worst year, last year, so it was more of we unataka kunipea stress we toka coz having to be an artiste still leading in number till now fighting to maintain your career, fighting yani ni mtihani .The fact that I had to get on shows perform, actlike its ok is like he wort part coz everyone looks at you like a role mode, no one gives a damn about your problems and that’s why I think I have chose me’
Nadia said multitasking took a toll on her and she prayed to God and out situations that would have killed her in gods hands. ‘I have fought kama last year that’s why I lost so many people in 2021 coz I don’t have time to explain. i could have walked away coz being in a career where your life is everyones business’
Nadia encouraged women who have lost pregnancies that ‘hang in there’