Should the ‘other woman’ ever tell the wife that her husband is cheating and possibly has children out there?
“Side chicks” have been investigated, discussed and explained in many formats.
A woman weighed on on the topic and making that unexpected call to his wife.
All women who have been in relationships have either felt, explored, or entertained and seek revenge in one way: and that’s the “phone call” to the wife or girlfriend of the man.
This side chick called in to the Classic 105 show and narrated her experience of being with a married man and how she handled being introduced forcibly to his family.
Here is the scenario she painted to Maina and Mwalimu:
I’ve been with a man for ten years and we’ve been hiding and we have a baby. So this weekend I’ve been telling him to go and say to his people, but he is not doing it and it has happened for long so I decided to tell the wife and his father.
She explains her thought process when making the dreaded call:
I called them, I spoke to the dad and I find it so selfish to commit with someone for all those years and hide them. At least they know I can’t continue being hidden you can’t gamble with life so that if he wants me I continue, the wife has always known I am in the picture so it’s just formal.
The father said he cannot accept me because of religion, so when he found out I had called his father he is quiet, but at least now I am known and also I want to whether I will continue being with him, and I love him. God will lead us, as for now if he doesn’t want us I will leave his life, I want people to know I have been in his life for the last 11 years.
Dear Classic 105 fam, we want to know from you: Is she right for having called the family?
Are this woman’s motivations pure as she relayed more details about the affair?