Vera Sidika has gotten over her ex Otile Brown.
She is swiftly moving on but not before exposing all the toxic things Otile Brown put her through.
In an interview heard by this writer, Vera opened up on her former relationship saying that their break up was real despite many arguing that it was a publicity stunt.
She says that their break up were real
“Both break ups were real. It was not a public stunt. The first time he said he did not love me anymore, that was strange given that I had just featured in his video which I did not charge him for.
It felt like he had gotten what he wanted so he did not need me anymore can you be with someone today and then tell them you do not love them anymore the next day. It’s strange.”
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After the first break up he came back a month and a half later and begged me to forgive him and get back with him. I was at a point where I was trying to move on, you see its very different when you have created a bond with someone its easier to fall back in.
So I thought maybe he wanted to be a better person and maybe he had changed thus I gave him a second chance. It lasted a week because when we got back together he was in Dubai, I was also there for my birthday.
When he left he did not talk to me. Before he left he asked me for cash to buy a car and I was asking myself why would this guy ask me for money only days after we reconciled.”
Just when you think Vera is done with exposing her ex bae, she goes on to narrate how Otile never contributed a dime despite living in her house.
“He has never treated me even for my birthday I never got a gift. I am not complaining though because when I love someone I support them.
It used to feel like, this is a relationship but if someone is living in your house for a month or two yet they cannot even buy you dinner or even buy grocery you are like??
We used to live together but he has never contributed for anything. He had his own place though but we used to spend a lot of time together.”
On whether she saw red flags before dating Otile Vera says
“I saw the signs that he wanted me for the money, even before we started an ex of his sent me photos through a fake account of both of them in her car, she also sent me photos of her dented car.
It is during that time when he also dented my range rover which I had to fix myself after efforts to get him to do it failed miserably.
He was dating this girl who sent me messages telling me how Otile would use me, to get to propel his career when I asked him about it he did not deny the fact that the woman in question used to give her money. But added that he was not using her”.
“The woman further to tell me how Otile was violent even sending me photos of herself with bruises adding that they even had a police report.
It was a honey moon period and I just wanted to hope that he had changed. I did not want to judge him based on what people were saying. Two weeks into the relationship he asked for Ksh 200,000 for his video.”
I have so many videos, voice notes and so much evidence of things he has done to me they are terrible. It was a toxic relationship its best to let it go, it was not worth it.”