If you sit around and wait for someone to show some interest in you, you’re going to settle for whoever comes first.
Instead of waiting around hoping and wishing he will reach out to you, notice you or ask you out, isn’t it better to just know if he’s interested?
Aren’t we also at a point in this digital life where more women should be comfortable making the first move?
Read 4 reasons that should convince you sis to make the move:
1. Dudes are kinda up for it, but won’t admit it
You fear he will be intimidated or think you are a pushover right? You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Though seriously sis, some dudes love it when girls make the first move and it takes a lot of pressure off of them. Also, everyone feels nervous putting themselves out there so why not make the first move?
2. It’s easier now than ever
With dating apps taking over, life this way is much easier, so why not take a chance?
3. It puts you in control
Too many times, girls wait for the guy to text them first, which is really ineffective because if you want to talk to someone, you should just do it. Also, by girls making the first move, it definitely puts them in a position as a strong, confident women. Making the first move can be difficult, but it’ll definitely make you feel like a badass even if it does not work out in the end.
4. Why not?
There’s no reason, girls can’t make the first move. If you’re interested in someone why wait around for them to make the first move? It’s 2018 girls, put on some red lipstick, do a teeth check, and take the world by storm.
We are heading into 2020, it is definitely the time for women to stand up and make the first move.