Women – you can’t live with them; you can’t live without them. Although a catchy aphorism, it’s rather useless. If you can’t live with a woman or without her, then you’re basically screwed. Fortunately, it is most definitely possible to form a bond with a lover strong enough to last a lifetime.
While each man will be attracted to a different sort of woman, there are a couple of signs that you should pay especially close attention to.
Here are some ways of knowing that the woman you’ve found may very well be the last woman you’ll ever need:
You Trust Her
Although it’s a given, trust is a crucial aspect of any relationship. What’s most important to keep in mind is how fragile the trust between two individuals is – especially between two individuals who are intimately involved with each other. If you found a woman whom you trust entirely and, more importantly, a woman with whom you can’t imagine breaking that trust, then you may have found the one.
She’s A Positive Force In Your Life Rather Than A Negative Influence
When you’re in love, it can be difficult to understand exactly how an individual impacts your life. Because love is blinding and distracting as it is, realizing the negative impact a person has on you can be almost impossible. If your woman is one of those who will point out flaws with such a negative tone that it’s perfectly evident that their only wish is to hurt you, then break away as soon as you can. The ideal woman is a woman who motivates you both actively and passively to be, and to do, better. One of the greatest gifts a woman can bestow upon a man is a reason to be a better man
She Never Makes Excuses When You Need Her
Dependability, although often incorporated with trust, is a beast of its own. Is your woman the kind of woman whom you can depend on? Some women are more interested in what you can do for them than what you mean to them.
The Sex Is Really, Really Good
There is a certain level of physical chemistry that I believe necessary for a marriage to work. This is one reason I could never understand remaining celibate until after the wedding day – if the sex is really bad then you’re going to have a difficult time being happy within the partnership.
You Both Want The Same Things In Life
This is yet another crucial aspect of relationships that many overlook until it’s too late. It’s easy to love a woman when you don’t fully understand her – and to understand her, you have to understand exactly what it is that she wants out of life. It’s difficult to spend your life with someone when the paths you need to take separate.
You Love Each Other Deeply
Before you go ahead and say, “Yes, of course we do!,” make sure that you understand what loving deeply means. To truly love each other is to love not only who the person is as an individual, but also to love what that person means to you. You have to love the person for who that person is as well as what that person does for you. The deepest love is a love that can combine both unconditional and conditional love to form a bond that cannot be broken by outside force – a mutual love that can last the test of time.