Flamboyant Nairobi Governor Mike Sonko, has advised men to learn how to balance the love they show their mistresses with that they give to their wives. The proud dad who has been married for 21 years said the key to a successful marriage is love and respect.
The proud dad who has been married for 21 years said the key to a successful marriage is love and respect.
In an Instagram post, Sonko claimed men should desist from loving their mistresses more than they do their wives. To him, the wife deserves to be regarded as the first priority and main then everything else will fall into place.
According to the politician, marriage is all about forgiveness and perseverance. Being a man followed with so much controversy, he has been caught in the allegations of having a mistress with the then Woman’s Rep. of Nairobi County Rachel Shebesh who almost broke his marriage.
However, a few of his followers felt like the governor’s sentiments were vulgar as they encouraged adultery. One follower wrote, “Ati balance the equation?? What nonsense. You are here promoting adultery. If you get married, its a commitment not a joke. Stay faithful to your spouse. Would you also encourage wives to cheat. I truly pity your wife. She deserves better” A second follower wrote, “Why get married in the first place if you’ll cheat? Be single… Once someone decides to walk in the door of marriage cheating should be a past tense and it’s unacceptable. The more reasons I fear marriages now days, it’s like fashion everyone is wearing it.”
Other netizens felt like his words spoke nothing but the truth. One person commented saying, “Ngaiiii Huyu anaweza Fanya nikuwe nashuka Hii jam ya Thika road nipande nduthii… 👏👏👏 ..Such women ni 0.04% worldwide. Good lord kama Hawa tafadhali 👏👏” While a second person wrote, “We are balancing Sir, very important, to have a bit of this and more of that…… Mr Governor”
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This the reason why my marriage with the 1st lady of Nairobi has been so successful for the last 21 years. However for your woman to give you this kind of treatment you must love her and give her the respect she deserves. Sio kupenda mipango za kando zaidi kushinda ma wives, No, No, just balance the equation and you will never have domestic issues in your marriage as we say ndoa nikuvumiliana. Ni wanaume wangapi hupigiwa simu hivi na wives zao on daily basis na musidanganye?