We are often told that men just want sex, food and love to be happy. They claim to be simple and say women often make things hard on themselves.
Well, are they really that simple? There are certain things that men want in their women, but these four top the list:
1. Playfulness – For men it’s about the experience you create with them. In as much as you may talk and connect, a man loves a woman whom he can be free and connect with at a deeper level. They connect well through play and action something which many women ignore. You can join in for football, playstation, Scrabble and even engage in “useless” banter every once in a while.
2. Independence – Do not be fooled that men want a weak woman. A smarter, mature woman will win anyday. This is because this woman will always push him to do more and be better. A woman who has her thing going on and doesn’t depend on her man for everything is a winner. Men like women who can get things done without them but still acknowledge their presence.
3. Emotional maturity – Given, every once in a while there will be disagreements and arguments between you and your man. But the way you sort it out is what matters. You will not shift blame or criticize him, but instead a woman who shares her feelings in a non dramatic manner will always have a man’s heart. No screaming, shouting, calling each other names, simply talking like two adults respectfully.
4. Intense attraction – Fact: Men aren’t as scared of commitment and relationships as they are of being in a relationship where there is no passion or attraction. Many women kill the attraction because they try too hard or make things look serious too soon. Relax and let things happen naturally. There’s nothing more appealing to a man than a woman who knows how to relax and have fun. You can do this through playful teasing, flirting, humor, and being unpredictable (in a good way).