Flirting is a harmless way of showing someone you like them but you should be careful how you go about it. There are things that may seem harmless to you but yet could be a definite turn off to the other person. Here’s a list of some of them
Talking about other people who like you – Well, frankly speaking, it`s all about me. Don’t make this fatal mistake. When you tell a guy that he’s the winner among all the other guys who also like you, he may think something like “You may count for our friendship and nothing more. You see, I already have a “partner’s list” to choose from.” He may think you are a light-headed girl who’s not interested in long-term relationships.
Over confidence – When flirting with a shy guy, don’t be too confident and don’t try to show that you don’t have any insecurities. When flirting with a confident guy, though, don’t be too mean. Many girls tend to be mean with confident guys because they think it can help them look more confident too. In fact, this type of behavior can scare any guy away.
Laughing all the time – Well, laughing at his jokes is a must, but don`t go too far. Don’t start giggling every time he tells a joke, especially if you don`t really find it funny, because it`ll look unnatural and he will understand that you actually don’t like it.
Drinking too much – Some little alcohol will not spoil your date. What’s more, it can make you feel relaxed and even more confident. However, moderation is always important. You should avoid getting drunk when flirting, as you wouldn’t like him to see you rolling on the floor, moaning and crying. Modern guys are looking for the girls with no bad habits like drinking or smoking.
Lying – Lying is awful and can ruin any type of relationship. Tracing whom you lied to and what you lied about in order not to get caught is a heavy burden. Moreover, it’s a bad idea to start your relationship with a lie. If you want your crush to love you, not your lie, it’s better to tell the truth only. No sweet little lies!
Being too cold – Women love drama and like to test men. I used to follow the strategy “I don’t care about you, so love me” and I must confess that it was a mistake. When you make a man think that you don’t like him just to find out if he’s straightforward enough to deserve your love, it may bring the desirable result. But think twice, would you like to be in a relationship where you’re loved only when you don’t like your partner?