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Flirting 101: What to do

Flirting can either get you a woman or make one detest you, it just depends how you are doing it and to whom. The thing with flirting is, a small gesture can make a situation either fun or a complete disaster.

Here are simple ways to flirt.

Make Idle talk Do not underestimate the power of idle banter. It opens the doors to communication, which is the most important point in any relationship. It shows how you’re interested but not a nosy Parker. It also tells you whether there is any chemistry between the two of you. No need to appear all smart and intellectual here. Just talk about anything under the sun!

Use The half-smile Smiling really wide is no good. It makes you look needy and lame. Smirk, instead. It’s a more confident way of acknowledging someone’s presence without making you appear like a simple-minded fool who is looking for approval.

Original compliments As much as women like compliments, nothing is more of a turn-off like a fake, lame compliment. So, if you really want to flirt, make the effort to notice something genuinely nice about the other person. It could be a facial feature that makes the other person look appealing, or some quality about her that is actually true. It goes a long way.

Remember the small things When you first talk with her, remember the small details that she tells you, and keep them in mind. Later, when you’re doing the casual banter, bring these things up. It gives a clear signal that you care and straightaway puts you ahead of other guys who may or may not be trying!

Humour You may get naughty. You may even crack lame jokes. But whatever it is you do, be sure to keep things light. No need to be a stand-up comedian here, but no one likes a morose guy. Also, no use playing the bleeding heart card. It is a major turn-off and you may come off as someone who is looking for a shoulder to cry on and more. Everyone isn’t that kind, but everyone does love a laugh!

-TOI

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