A lot has been written when it comes to Diamond Platnumz’s love life. That the man can’t hold down a relationship for more than a few years is known. The why has become subject for debate among pundits and fans alike.
Theories have been put forth as to why East Africa’s most bankable musician can’t seem to maintain a long-term relationship with some pointing at his mother’s undue influence on him.
The other is that his sister Esma might also have had a negative impact on his relationships with the many women that her brother has been linked with.
The rumours and aspersions have finally led to Esma to respond and she did so with fire and force. She called out Tanzanian critics for pinning the blame on her regarding Diamond´s failed relationships.
She stated that she had not time to waste on other’s relationships while her own was failing;
“Kwanza watu watambue kuwa mimi sihangaiki na uhusiano wa mtu kwa sababu ndoa yangu mwenyewe inawaka moto. Halafu wanafikiri wakiniita Yuda (Judas) nitabadilika kuwa Petro (Peter). Haiwezekani,” she said.
For those not aware, Esma’s relationship to her baby daddy, Petit Man has been faced with multiple on-and-offs. Having broken up at least thrice, got back together, before finally partying ways.
According to the businesswoman, she is probably better off living on her own with her two children because men have proven difficult for her.
Diamond’s sister isn’t shy about stating what she thinks of the women he dated. For both Zari and Tanasha, she praised them when they were still dating her brother but as soon as they broke up her opinion would change and become overly critical.
Like in Tanasha’s case, Esma redacted her comments praising her saying that the Kenyan model had been unfit. “Kama nilimsifia (Tanasha), ujue alikuwa akifanya jambo jema. Lakini kama alivurunda ndiyo maana nikasema hivyo,” she said.
Her wishy-washy nature tells me something-Esma is like a flag at full mast, going wherever the wind blows. That wind is what Diamond (or Mama Dangote I am not sure which) wants.
So might be saying the truth-She doesn’t cause Diamond’s relationships to fail. She is merely a cheerleader.