Once a woman hits 30, society expects her to find a good man to settle down with and immediately have babies. When that does not happen in that order, expect criticism.
Unlike men, women are considered to have a shorter ‘shelf life’ thus it is advisable to have children while they still can, unless one is experiencing some difficulties in getting pregnant.
Russell Ballrd once said
” There is no one perfect way to be good mother,each situation is unique.Each mother has different challenges different skills and abilities and certainly different children.The choice is different and unique for each mother and each family.”
Well, it seems daughter to Keroche Industries boss Anerlisa Muigai is under pressure by the public on when she is getting babies given that she is of age.
She took to her social media page to slam those questioning her on motherhood, asking them to mind their own business.
“Don’t ask why at my age i don’t have kids.I don’t bother about your bank accounts.”
One of her mantra’s is ‘This girl knows she got it, she knows she can take on anything and no challenge is too challenging to conquer. #GodFirst #positiveVibesOnly’
Talking on the issue she said
“When you are seen with a muscled person, ooh she is dating her gym instructor. When you see me with a good looking guy, ooh she is making a mistake, when I hide somebody ooh huyo ni bWana ya mtu.I used to live a life caring what people thought that is why I felt the need to respond to everything.I stopped caring what people think when I realized none of you people can pay even quarter my bills.”
The 30-year-old lass also told off critics who’ve been asking her to settle down and start a family.
“When I decide i am single ooh you rare getting old you need to get married and get kids and when i decide to hang around certain people ooh I am A lesbian.. you know what IDGAF what you all think.”