The Tanzanian music landscape is littered with so much talent, arguably producing the biggest artistes in East and Central Africa.
Musicians like Diamond Platnumz, Ali Kiba, Harmonize and Nandi have been the mainstays the last couple of years, dominating the Swahili-speaking nation entertainment industry.
But one common thing among its leading lights of Diamond, Ali Kiba, and Harmonize is that they have all been involved in allegations of philandering.
It seems that a month cannot pass without one of the mentioned foursome being mentioned in a cheating scandal(Some false and others that pass the smell test).
The most recent case involves Kwangwaru singer, Harmonize who has found himself front and center in a cheating scandal this December.
Harmonize himself admitted that his cheating on his Italian wife Sarah Michelotti happened last year and a result of the infidelity was a baby girl. His wife Michelotti already pulled the plug on their marriage last week calling him out for his callous behaviour.
Ali Kiba is another man who has been the subject of cheating rumours the past two years despite getting married in 2018 in one of the biggest celeb weddings ever.
And it seems that the only reason that Ali’s wife Amina Khalef might be sticking around is their baby boy-but I might be wrong.
And lastly, the man whose cheating antics would make the others blush, Diamond Platnumz. What more can I say about this man that hasn’t already been written. Chibu is an emeritus professor in cheating.
Now onto the thesis of my article. Why don’t these 3 men stay with their wives/significant others? Why are they always straying?
I have a couple of theories:
Firstly because they can;
An old saying goes like this, “A woman’s loyalty is tested when her man has nothing. A man’s loyalty is tested when he has everything.”
They have status, money, and looks-These triumvirate of factors is the winning formula in getting women to desire/want you. Not only that, they will throw themselves at you.
What do you think men like these who exactly don’t have the self-control of a monk will do?…
Secondly, evolutionary biology theorises that men’s biological imperative is to spread his seed(that’s why men have innumerable sperm). Fun fact-1 in 200 men today is descended from Genghis Khan.
While a woman’s imperative is to secure the best mate(seed) available.
So the trio might just be following those biological impulses now that they can…
But I could be wrong.