I added him to the title for my house to prove my loyalty to a cheating man

Ladies, what is the dumbest thing you’ve ever done for a man?

Every woman has been here at least once and there is no shame.

We learn and we grow.

From letting him use your car for his errands, to paying his rent and paying for his cousins baby showers here are confessions from women about their real life experiences.
1. I loaned him money for child support instead he got another woman pregnant wrote @vonnirvirgo

2. @Anothermelanin wrote My cousin threw a baby shower for her boyfriends cousin….turns out the girl was his baby mama

3. @drealbbjudy wrote..I added him to my title on my house at the time 90 per cent was paid for to prove my loyalty. The deal was if he cheated, he would walk away and sign it back to me, if I cheated I would walk away and get half upon the sale of the house once sold. Well, he cheated I didn’t. I had to pay him 100k dollars to get his name off the title after I left cuz he cheated repeatedly even after the break up women were still sending me dm’s asking about him. And then he asks to meet up after some time had passed and I had moved on. I went to meet him. He was very apologetic even offered to give back the money if we got back together. Almost fell for it until he said ,,,yea you the one I wanna marry ..then it hit me ..he was willing to give up 100k dollars for the big win …half of everything which is over 60 million dollars ,,I think the TF not ..mot triffling person I ever met..

4. Another @joibee wrote..I almost got him an apartment and he told me I couldn’t move in with him

5. @raerileyreality wrote..went with him to buy a ring for his sister only to see what i thought wasa his ex wearign it, i also let him stay in my mums house then his friend robbed it, and then paid his rent when his wallet was stollen only to  find out hes pent the money to fly out  with another woman,

6. @jubilee2120 wrote.. I bailed him out of jail paid his attorney fees, bought his kids gifts for Christmas and he still cheated and lied.

7. @brpoke_oprah wrote.. he totaled my car then we got a new one he had another accident, then he told me the reason he wrecked the car was because he was trying to speed home so he can surprise me

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Dj Creme de la Creme sparks marriage debate after calling it a ‘scam’

 

When there is trouble in paradise, many people resort to labeling marriage a scam. And that is what Dj Creme did in a pos6 on Instagram that is going viral online.

The Dj, who is married to Denise, his long time partner and mother of his two children.j creme de la creme

KOT have dug in saying in every marriage there is a winner and a loser.

@DenviQ_Kenya
By all means, marry if you get a good wife, you’ll become happy, if you get a bad one, you’ll become a philosopher.
Marriage is a good thing if you get married to the right person.

@Mepeasempresido
Beauty has sent a lot of ladies to marriage. But character is busy on the other side returning them back to their fathers house Cat face with tears of joy

@omwambaKE
Marriage has never been a scam. Respect Marriage. If your marriage is going haywire, blame yourself. Many have said they are skeptical about getting married.

Even Amerix and Maverick Aoko have shared their opinion below.

@amerix
Marriage is not a scam,

Marriage is war,

It is a battle between a terrorist (the woman) and a hostage (the man)

You may lose several battles but never lose the war.

Never get into it if you are a simp or looking for unlimited sex or trying to save a slut.

@AokoOtieno_
I don’t appreciate that Celebs cast aspersions on marriage everytime theirs Fail. Hii marriage is a scam declaration ni umatako. From Willis Raburu’s wife to DJ Creme. Hey, thousands of youth follow u. It’s yours that failed. Ulioa Hoe for image, jipange.I root for marriage.

 

Dear Classic 105 fa, in marriage who is getting the better end of the deal?

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Next Level Music CEO Rayvanny to celebrate his 28th birthday in Nairobi

 

Tanzanian singer Rayvanny will jet into Kenya on August 22nd, announcing that special date is his birthday that he gets to mark with his Kenyan fanbase.

He excitedly wrote ’22/8 Special day my birthday I will be in Nairobi”.

After announcing this, he shared videos of how he is co parenting taking his son on a shopping spree, where the little boy got to pick out whatever he wanted. They then proceeded to a lunch date and Rayvanny captioned the sweet moment ‘My G Jaydanvanny”
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Rayvanny has been trending after going Instagram official with his new girlfriend Paula Kajal, and even serenaded her on her birthday last week in Zanzibar on vacation. Her mother Fridah attended the celebration and shard her joy at her daughter being loved.

And a couple of days later, it was Frida’s  birthday and Rayvany returned the favor and ‘chopped money’ on her.

Vanny has also dropped a collabo with Nigerian singer Guchi titled Sweet on July 29.

 

Dear Classic 105 fam, are you excited for Chui?

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Man hides side hustle over bullying by wife about spending money

 

A frustrated husband told Maina Kageni that his wife is standing in the way of his financial goals and resorted to hiding over that fact.

He told this during a morning conversation about wives not being supportive of their man’ dreams, where many men told that ‘these women shoot down your ideas’.

The frustrated man joined in the conversation that he has given up trying to win over her support.

“Let me tell you Maina, never ever tell Shiru that you are planning to start anything, you know these people are very deficient of patience so when you tell them, sasa ana focus on the money that you will put in and she wants to spend the money immediately, so i never tell her about my idea, I practice medicine and I have a pharmacy on the side and she doesn’t know about it, because if I tell her she will kill that dream. She will dump all the expenses on me because she sees there is more money to spend”

Maina sympathized with his situation as a woman called in blaming this behaviour on wives jealous of their husbands achievement.

Ladies why don’t you encourage your men? When your man comes with an idea why shoot it down? Maina added

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Ladies, why don’t you encourage your mans business ideas? Maina asks

Wives have been accused of being their men’s biggest dream killers and that that lack of support affects families.

On the Classic 105 TBT conversation men confessed to Maina that their wives shut down all their hustles.

“Yesterday we were talking about how depression and there is something I picked up  that the reason why your men never talk to you is that apparently you being his woman is his biggest dream killer. Your man sees you as his biggest dream killer. There is nothing that you ever tell him to give him hope, nothing ever makes sense and that’s where they drift apart. I found that profound.”

Co host Mwalimu King’ang’i agreed saying “saa zingine ni vizuri kujifanyia vitu ikianguka imeanguka, you know you have this business idea kama ya maji  na ukumambia atasema wewe siwa kwanza na haitafaulu. She discourages you that’s why we don’t confide in her, una fanya ikianguka inanguka”

Ladies when your man comes with an idea, why shoot it down? Maina added

A man told of his agony describing how his wife almost ruined his expanding Taxi business.

“It was her birthday last Christmas, so I delivered a gift to her coz I was working, I couldn’t be with her, and you know what she told me? ati biashara ayngu itaanguka ati hata hiyo kazi unafanya huitandelea. They will tell you words that will cut across every bone, so painful I did not respond to her comments, I just left, and you know what? The following year, I got cash and bought another car. I am a Taxi guy .I decided I will not tell her about it, and she found out from her friend that I had added to my fleet, She tried to warm up to me, but I wasn’t interested I rejected coz I didn’t know her intentions, everytime I suggest something to generate income she shoots me down”

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Possible reasons men don’t speak about depression and mental health

The growing burden of depression and mental health lies with men according to figures that tell 432 people died from suicide, mostly men.

The figures also say that Kenya is fourth in Africa and ninth in the world with leading cases of mental health.

On the Wednesday morning conversation July 28th, the depression statistics was the focus of attention. Maina heard from men that there are reasons they don’t open up.

One man said it is embarrassing for men to talk about it.Mental-Health-Issues-May-Be-Caused-by-Internet-Addiction-1024x681

Men also said women were the cause of their depression and so it wouldn’t make sense to talk to their spouse.

Another said he would rather die with his state than tell anyone, including his buddies for fear of being ridiculed. He said “I don’t have anybody to talk to coz I can’t talk to another man coz he has the same as me, and if I talk to a female it emerges that I am cheating, so what do I do? uanabaki na shida zako”

Another responded on Classic Twitter handle saying “men have no one to talk to, we don’t have a support system and the solution is to sit at the bar tukikunywa balozi”

A similar thought was expressed “we cannot talk to our wives about depression, they see us like failures if we talk

And lastly another said “men ego can’t allow them to tell a woman, we can’t air your trouble to another man because they will say huyo hana pesa”

Dear Classic 105 fam, how can we all play a part to end stigma and tackle mental health issues?

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‘Never be unfaithful even if you think you won’t get caught’ Tedd Josiah shares

 

The ability to fully trust your spouse is one of the most important parts of a relationship. Trust according to many relationship gurus, is the foundation from which a strong connection can be built by couples and without it, there may not be growth and progress emotionally.

And these are some of the questions music maestro Tedd Josiah posed to hi fans on Instagram.

His tips for building a healthy relationship are below. Do you agree Classic 105 fam?tedd joiah 1 (1)

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Form two student arrested after killing class six lover

 

By Manuel Odeny

Migori police are holding a form two student in custody over the murder of his girlfriend on Wednesday dawn following a relationship disagreement.

The student at Nyango Mixed Secondary School in Suna West sub-county is being held at Piny Oyie police station as police have launched investigations over the murder of his girlfriend.

Kirengo assistant chief Fred Opiyo told the Star over the phone on Wednesday that the suspect was celebrating his parents for building for him a bacherlor’s hut called Simba locally when the incident happened.

“The deceased is a class six girl aged 15 years old and a student at a local private primary school and we suspect might have spent the night at the deceased’s house when the incident happened,” Opiyo said.

He said the body of the girl was found about hundred meters from the deceased’s home with a deep cut on the head after they were alerted by villagers.

“The suspect tried to ran away to his aunt’s homestead where he was arrested by the family who brought him to the police station,” Opiyo said.

Villagers said they were shocked by the death especially as schools in the area had re-opened.

The body of the deceased was taken to Migori Referral Hospital mortuary awaiting post-mortem examinations as police are expected to charge the minor before a court of law.

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Betty Kyallo and Nick Ndeda savagely tease fans about vacationing together

 

 

As far as dating is concerned Nick Ndeda and Betty Kyallo have ben alleged to be secretly dating.

An amused Betty to stir the pot, tagged Nick on social media asking him if he is ready, and we went wild. Who could have imagined? First of all where is Somali bae?

So Betty and Nick took off for a vacation in Nakuru and on the way at the View Point, shared a drink together and tagged each other. They laughed and captioned how gorgeous it is. Their love or the scenery? Please tell us.

In a follow up video, Betty sings inside the tour van, but doesn’t show Nick again, only arriving at the destination to take fans on a tour of their room.

The bed is decorated in flowers in a heart shape, as wine is set up for the couple. See images below of what will be their romantic getaway.bk 1 (1)

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9 signs your man isn’t over his baby mama

 

If your husband is co parenting with his baby mama, there may be challenges along the way. And one way to iron this out is to have a solid agreement between your dude and his ex, how the children will be cared for.

And this is important for a man to be clear that it’s for the children and nothing more.

But if his behavior in anyway suggests he still clinging to his past, here are signs he is upto no good.

1. The ex uses the children as an excuse to call him every time. Yes we understand that each parent must be made aware about milestones, but surely some can wait.
2. She wants all phone calls to be on her line yet the child is old enought to own her/his SIM card plays the middle man.

3. He’s concerned about who she is dating, insisting it’s because you want the right man around your baby mama. Really! If you have moved on as  a man, then you don’t get to have a say who she dates. Why does he care about her private life, if he is not still into her?

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4. The baby mama insists on being present for visits to monitor what the man is doing. Really? Are they a couple?

5. He doesn’t want you around her when their child marks important events like birthdays. He says she will be mad.

6. He live by her rules and that she can change the co parenting when it suits her. If he allows his baby mama to dictate to you his current chick about their child, sis, where there is fire, there is smoke.

7. He needs privacy to have phone conversations with his baby mama

8. He runs to her when she calls for help to fix things like her car when it breaks down. Sis be very suspicious if he is at her beck and call like this. No exe couple would be this free with each other.

9. He acts tensed up when he meets her pals when you are out abd about. If your man is actign weird about such an encounter then this is a sign he could be hitting it and her friends know it, but you don’t.

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Masaibu ya GOAT wives: 11 common complaints first wives have

 

First wives have been dubbed as GOAT Wives, more so after the drama between Amber Ray and Amira over businessman Jima Roho Safi.

And now that Amber Ray has been dumped and Jimal gone back to the first wife, here are some things you need to know about what women put up with.

 

  1. You feel overwhelmed by house chores coz he never helps

2. He doesn’t remember key dates

3. You two have the same arguments every day

4. He parties or drinks too much

5. His family drives you nuts

6. He is gone all the time from home

7. He is friends with his exes online

8. He doesn’t understand how hard you work, either at home or in the office

9. He doesn’t compliment you or your appearance.”

10. He doesn’t make time for you + kids

11. He doesn’t support you emotionally

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‘When did you know he hated you’ confessions that are so embarrassing

 

A topic online asking women to disclose personal instances of humiliation/trauma touched the hearts of users.

The topic was posed by @Oloni on Twitter and got hundreds of reactions.

 

 

Here are responses

@pinkluck
Noticed the way he spoke about some girl. The awe, the happiness, the pure joy about him made me know that he never thought of me in those terms…

@MarumoKago
He said he can only post his female bestie and not me because the family knew her

@daiyaa
When family members were asking him where he was, he always said « with Thomas ». In front of my face Skull. I still wonder who he was seeing when he was telling ME he was with Thomas

@_chynnamichele
Lol one time he hurt my feelings and I cried and he got the biggest smile and said “are you crying? Girl, have a good day” and left

@Milz_Tea
When he locked me in house on New year’s eve and went to two new year’s party. He didn’t even have food on his house

@ChiedzaRM
Was sick and he never checked up me, later on told me he can’t be with me because I’m always sick and I need a lot of attention

Same person told me I was not, “freaky enough” as he had expected

@taylarisms
We went to a movie with some friends that made me cry and he rolled his eyes and turned to them and said “She gets like this when she’s desperate for attention”

@Anwuli91
Proposed to me and refused to talk about the marriage plans. To the extent he told me because I was asking “too much he was not doing the wedding again”. Lied about everything, never knew when he was telling the truth.

@DeadVibessss
He invited me on a camping trip with his friends & their girlfriends. I had too much to drink and accidentally blacked out for the first time ever. He threw me in a tent by myself all night barefoot, no blankets and covered in my own vomit

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He is just my errand boy – Woman says about funding Ben 10

On the Tubonge Tuesday conversation, men were blasted for being lazy and relying financially on women.

An angry man noted that many young men nowadays have the audacity to beg for money from women to live a glamourous life on social media.

Maina delved into the issue of Anerlisa Muigai advising women not to provide for men, after her failed relationship with Ben Pol.

It emerged that she funded his life, pretty much paying for his cars and vacations.

Maina exposed Ben Pol, slamming him for being lazy.

“Aki Ben Pol we must discuss that we can’t ignore it, you know the young men of today me I don’t know you are living off your woman, then there are those men who floss with their womans things, aki ladies why do you let these things happen?”

A woman confessed to Maian that she has a Ben 10, who is so lazy but she doesn’t mind because he serves a purpose – if you know you know.

 

“Maina let me tell you, I have this guy. He does errands for me. I give him my car coz I don’t have time. He was like my errand boy. but I couldn’t have a talk with him of things important to me like investing, because he is not mature, all I tell him is do this and this for me. I feed him na jioni tunapatana coz he has been home the whole day he will give it to me mzuri sana. He is for fun, I couldn’t have a constructive conversation with him”

A young man corroborated what she said admitting it’s a financial favor in return for the family jewels.

“I dated such a woman hakuna pesa tamu kama kupewa na mwanamke, alikuwa na pesa kuniliko and I dated her while in college, and she a treating me well. It’s just nice you feel good there, from my point of view I don’t see any problem with that Maina, that’s the only way men can survive”

 

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A relationship with a rich woman is always bound to fail – Ben 10’s told

Anerlisa Muigai’s quote about men needing to level up to a woman’s lifestyle was applauded by a man who called Maina Kageni saying young men should be ashamed to be exchanging body fluids for a rich woman’s money.

He noted that many young Kenyan men are living glamourous lifestyles, but all this is thanks to secretly dating older rich women who exchange money for twa twa. He called them lazy and told them to work their a**es off

“The worst thing a man can do is take money from a woman. men should spend on their women not vice-versa. Where does one get the energy to take money from a woman? As a man your work is to provide not to be provided for! Then you go show off”

Here is Anerlisa’s diss that excited Kenyans about men who live off women.

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@breegathoni2

Poor Ben Pol just gets randomly dragged for being fed

@shobanes
Relationship za yengs akiwa mafutani ajaaab mtu hawezi hata pumua na amani.
Every turn ni attack.

@joao_joe1
Utapata hata raia iko hapa kucharaza mizigo but dem won’t let you breath juu ameunda few thousands mbele yako

@DrKanyuira
Aaah Mjamaa angepiga mziki tu aachene na watoto wa geti kali.

@Karis_AFC
Hahaha hawa madem wa geti kali ni wa kupewa cable na kusonga. Usiende kuweka beacons hapo.

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@MurefuFredrick
Amerix hushinda amewaambia hamsikii. A relationship with a richer woman is always bound to fail. Na ikifail ile kuanikwa utaanikwa. The man should ALWAYS be wealthier.

@munene_is_me
Amerix is right. Men should not marry women with a higher level of financial status, age, academic status coz madharau ndogondogo lazima itaanzia mahali.

@TheBethwel
I’ve learnt through observation a good number of them if they argue with their partners…even if the partner has valid points in the argument they end up getting emotional and always remind them that they’re the one who provide most or all of the things they have/own

@Monteca89
She learnt the hard way. Women need a man with a bright future, men need a woman with a bright past.

@MurunduDouglas
This should be two way,MEN leave your women the way you found them or even better look for a partner your level. Yess that’s the energy Ok hand

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Anerlisa Muigai used to airlift Range Rovers to Tanzania for Ben Pol

Tanzanian singer Ben Pol broke up with Keroche heiress Anerlisa Muigai in what he described as a slow and painful affair after a short marriage.

The two got married in March 2020, and Ben Pol filed for divorce early March 2021.

Speaking in a July 18th interview with ‘Simulizi na Sauti’, the ‘Moyo Mashine‘ singer painfully revealed he has moved on and no longer has feelings left for Anerlisa, insisting ‘simfeel’.

“Yes, I filed for divorce and the process is going on. We separated last year for like one and half months, then in September, we got back together and in February this year, we separated again. I think I did my best from my end to keep our love, but I can’t change anything.”

Anerlisa Muigai
Anerlisa Muigai

Ben Pol lived a lavish lifestyle flossing for Kenyans that he was a man of means, but all that was thanks to Anerlisa who funded his vacations and cars he showed off on Instagram, living the ‘soft life’.

She dragged him hitting back that “Don’t upgrade his life leave it as it was. Look for a partner your level or an already established partner”.

Maina on Tuesday July 27, gave his take on the story saying they are both his friends, but divulged some details all the same.

“Anerlisa Muigai woie my ka sweetheart, me I don’t know why women help men, why are you being helped? Me I have never understood I don’t even know how a man can literally stretch out a hand and beg for money, aie. Ben was flying first class to Hollywood, eh nawe even if you are my friend Ben Pol bro ni nini? Ako Tanzania amerudi huko”

Malimu Kinga’ng’i sympathized with Bens position saying “atauza kashata huko asipotoa ngoma ingine”

Maina laughed adding “You know that lady alimzoesha hiyo maisha he even had cars airlifted to Dar for him, ma range rover, aie, he was left with nothing she took everything, he has nothing”

Ben Pol proposing to Anerlisa
Ben Pol proposing to Anerlisa earlier this year

 

 

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“Don’t date beneath your pay grade” Maina Kageni tells women

Ladies don’t let these men drive your Range Rover if he is not in your tax bracket, were the words of advice Maina Kageni had for women while discussing how Anerlisa Muigai funded the lifestyle of Ben Pol.

Last week Ben Pol in an interview told that he left Anerlisa because he lost all feelings for her and their frequent breakups resolved the end of their marriage.

Anerlisa hit back and in several captions advised that she has learnt and will date men in her class.

In the Tuesday conversation July 27, Maina used this example to advise ladies that “dating a man beneath you will always get these problems. That’s why they say birds of a feather flock together”

Ben Pol and Anerlisa together
Ben Pol and Anerlisa together

Mwalimu King;’ang’i slammed Maina saying

“Let me put myself in his position, even him he had alot to offer. She loved him, he is handsome, he is talented, he even had money zikatumika zikaisha sasa unataka afanye nini, ulikuwa na pesa zako umependeka, vitu zimeenda mrama, don’t tell me now all of a sudden I am not good, it doesn’t make sense”

Maina brushed off his comments insisting that women should date men their class and that broke men are no good.

“When women date beneath their pay grade what do you expect, aki Anerlisa and I think one day you need to come here and give me that story, because I can get the attraction but why you opened up your pocket to him I don’t understand. When you see a man driving a big range rover and he even posts on IG, it’s not his stay in your own lane. How do you floss with things everyone knows is not yours?”

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Insecure actress Issa Rae announces surprise wedding in France

 

Insecure actress Issa Rae secretly got married in the South of France.

The “Insecure” writer and star posted 10 photos of the dreamy moment on Monday July 26, much to the delight of her fans.

“A) Impromptu photo shoot in a custom @verawang dress,” she joked in the caption.

“B) My girls came to help me, but they all coincidentally had on the same dress! They were sooooo embarrassed,” she continued.

“C) Then I took a few flicks with Somebody’s Husband.”

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Noti Flow quizzed about Mustafa and Prezzo after dumping LGBTQ partner

It’s been a few weeks since Noti Flow left by her lesbian lover and since then has been trying to get over that relationship as she told her fans in a QNA this past weekend.

The two women broke up “over a stupid lil argument & she went all crazy” sensationally claimed Noti Flow.

King Alami and Noti Flow have been together for a few months and saying she still cares about her but won’t take her back “She almost killed me. We fought” captioning about the break up.noti flo diumplover (1)

One wanted to know why she doesn’t try men after her LGBTQ partner, and she responded ‘I don’t hate men I( jut prefer women I realized Di*k is not for me”.

This response got a curios fan about her exes Mutapha and Prezzo. She was told to go back to them after being reminded that she had a good time with the singers.

Noti Flow sarcastically commented saying “Who’s that” and exclaimed about Prezzo indicating it’s a silly question.

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