The ultimatums Kenyan women have given ‘lazy’ spouses

 

Women have revealed their thoughts on unemployed spouses and it’s pretty harsh.

Mwalimu Kingangi on Friday started a very interesting conversation about role responsiblibites in terms of money, noting that ‘a woman will rememeber the first time she gave you 50 bob.’

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He was upset that many wives have been bragging about paying bills and outing men who are unemployed. He figured that women are not understanding that unemployment is a temporary situation, and this men should be respected.

Mwalimu said

You will never hear a man say how he paid bills but when a woman does pay bills for a man, she will announce it to the world, t will be front page news, you are telling the entire world how you are helping your husband, why do women have to announce. Do you know you would rather take money from a shylock than ask a wife for money. 

So Maina sought to know from ladies: why are you like that? Is it that you feel unappreciated, is it that you feel that you do so much for this man and it’s not appreciated?

Let’s have this chat ladies, and be honest. Women opened up with all sorts of accusation you need to read below:

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Woman caller: God did not say women should provide and that is why we complain, we are not bragging, she is saying you are just another bugger, if you are useless man one day you shall be called bugger

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Another woman concurred noting that

we are living with Kenyan men that are bums, we are paying all bills and they they have nothing to say because they are doing nothing, why should I be paying his bills? I have a man I supported for ten years. I left the bugger,  I  took him to school I paid his fees, I paid the mortgage and all he does is wear a nice suit, buy nyama choma, and entertainment friends, what will he say he did for his family? Nothing!!!

Dear Classic fam, are these women being petty or are their grievances justified? Drop us your comments.

 

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Kingang’i interrupted as woman loudly explains how they cheat

 

A woman won the praise of Maina Kageni after explaining to a confused Mwalimu Kingang’i what happens when wives are dumped in the village.

In a clip heard on air, the woman confronts Mwalimu after he said that the village is the best place for a married woman to live as the man hustles in Nairobi.

Before he could continue, the woman blurted out

If there are no jobs in Nairobi, why have you decided I go to the village and leave you behind in Nairobi? To do what if you also don’t have a job?

Are you counting cars? Huna kazi sina kazi umebaki ukufanya nini kuhesabu gari?

Mwalimu tried to offer an explanation for his statement, and said

Mimi nimebaki niangalie hewa ya pesa, you know things are thick, you know one of us has to stay and most likely it’s not you..

but the woman interrupted, explaining that

You stay in Nairobi at your own risk and if you think you are torturing your wife by telling her to stay int he village, wee kaa hapo, who do you think is ploughing me (unafikiri nalimwa na nani Wakunaji ni wengi…..)

You want me to slay with cows in the village? We met in Nairobi and started our life in the city, why do you want to kick me to the village?

You are sick there is no way you are remaining in the city, doing what? And furthermore let me tell you a secret, who do you think is sorting me out? You know those workers you hire? The one who has a six pack and milks the cow and digs the shamba, that is whom is sorting me out ehe, eheh ehe!!! (you figure it out )

Maina Kageni dug in with a similar view to the woman offering this advise to men for free

you stay in Nairobi at your own risk if you have a wife in ushago and think you are stressing her, heeh you stay there…

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Shagz is the best place for married women – men reveal relationship opinions

 

 

A 33-year-old man caused a racas on Classic 105 after stating that wives should be taken to the village, where  they are more valuable to the family.

The man said

we cannot keep moving fom one place to another with our wives, we must leave our wives at home so that they can stabilize our homes,

I’m 33 and she is 28 and she has been in ushago for three years since graduating.

His comments riled Maina who responded

why marry someone like that and two if your education means nothing why go to school and who said it’s your decision to determine where a woman lives?

Mwalimu, who loves to push Maina’s boundaries supported the mans views commenting that

Ladies need to leave their degrees at the door once married

Many men responded to the dumping wife in the villages, with some pretty warped thoughts on women and their role in a marriage
Bronson kip..
why’d she come with me to Nairobi then she becomes a barrier whenever i do what i do that doest need her? She better stay at home doing something constractive

slayquuenwithcowmeme
Dr.Ndegwa..
Siwezi uza ng’ombe 10 kusomesha bibi University alafu nimrudishe mashinani kuchunga ng’ombe 5. A spouse should be a teammate. Build together at one spot. I am
doug onali chanchima..
Morning bibi ni kule mashambani mie in town to struggle for the better life of her

skepticalbabaymeme

Oscar Saina..
maina economic situation in kenya will make bibi akae nyumbani ajenge empire
Dan Patrick..
but mr Maina, can u compare a wife in gishagi making 5k a day with city wife making 30k per month…?? If it develops my family ill go for it.. #MainaAndKingangi

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Harusi tunayo! Committee members that will be in Maina Kageni’s wedding

Today’s morning conversations got Mwalimu King’ang’i and a caller planning for Maina Kageni’s wedding committee. This best breakfast show was about men having total trust on their mothers rather than their wives.

A caller said;

“You can trust her with something but not everything. Mwalimu si utafutie huyu jamaa bibi hata kama ni wa mwezi moja tu? By next year, hiyo kitu tutakua tumemaliza, commitee ndio tunaform. Tutafutane wewe, Captain Kale, Wakanai, mimi, tutafutie huyu jaama bibi.”

Another caller insisted that Maina should get married to have the first-hand experience when it comes to trust in marriages.

“We have passwords for everything, they also don’t trust us that why they have passwords for everything they have. Ukionyesha mwanamke wako your true colours, wewe sasa ndio utajua kwamba haujui. We have to have control on everything.

My mother is a woman she has that intuition. Akikuambia chunga, be careful. Sometimes, you can be asleep with your lady, you wake up in the middle of the night, the lights are off but she is just seated on the bed staring at you. Will you trust that person?

Hata hao wa Nyeri walikua na trust, wanaamka wanapata hakuna transformer. Trusting these women is like trusting Sonko with a secret.

Hata kwa hiyo committe nitaingia tukutafutoie mtu ndio ujue what we go through. “

‘If you don’t have money stay with your mother’ Maina advises broke men

Listen to the conversation;

Radio Africa reaffirms its position as Kenya’s leading radio network

Radio Africa has reaffirmed its position as Kenya’s leading radio network.

In the latest Kenya radio listenership numbers published by international research firm, Classic FM, Radio Jambo and Kiss FM are the most listened to radio stations.

Classic leads with a general listenership of 1.5 million people from 6 am to 12 midnight from Monday to Friday, followed by Radio Jambo with 1.18 million people and Kiss wraps up the top three positions at 1.12 million people.

Maina Kageni in a red shirt
Maina Kageni in a red shirt

The results released in August indicate that Classic FM’s Maina and Kingangi in the morning remains the most listened to breakfast show.

This is followed by Radio Jambo’s Gidi na Ghost breakfast show with the famous Patanisho feature.

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According to the results, Radio Africa now commands 48 per cent of listening with its six stations targeting different markets – Kiss FM, Classic FM, Radio Jambo, East FM, Gukena FM, Smooth FM and Homeboyz Radio – which recently joined the media group.

Radio Citizen comes in the fourth position with a general listenership of 1.1 million people follo

Radio Africa Group General Manager Martin Khafafa said, “We are relentlessly committed to the vision of delivering a relatable, relevant and fun listening experience for our listeners. We continue to be the home of Kenya’s most talented communicators and superstar”.

 According to Khafafa, RAG is planning to relaunch the KISS breakfast show this month with the controversial and hard-hitting Andrew Kibe and Kamene Goro in a show that industry analysts will shake the market.
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Maina laughing

Insisting his mission is to hold position 1,2,3 and 4, Kafafa said, “It is expected that after the new KISS breakfast show goes on air, Radio Africa will relaunch Homeboyz Radio.”

Khafafa said Radio Africa has once again demonstrated complete dominance of the radio market.

He said the company’s values remain centred on innovation, customer service and quality which continue to pay off and it will not relent in the quest to give advertisers audiences that give them an instant connection with their brands.

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‘If you don’t have money stay with your mother’ Maina advises broke men

If you are looking for love and don’t have money stay with your mother, was the strong message Maina Kageni had for broke men.

Why do you want to get a woman and you don’t have money? he posed. Why should you expect a woman to sacrifice her best years and then when you get money you find a young woman

This comes after a young man called him narrating how he is broke and looking for a Kenyan woman to marry.

The young man is 30 years and heartbroken no woman wants him

I’m 30 and I’m a hustler. Women are going for older men to support them financially, yet I have no such capacity to give her money and I want to get married. They tell me to tafuta pesa then you come for me, at 30 years (this will be very difficult) si hiyo inakuwa ngumu , yet these are the same ladies who will show up later with children from the old men asking us to marry them.

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Maina was not moved an inch and continued his tirade against young, single and broke men

Dynamics have changed and income now plays a big role. 

Please don’t call Kenyans girls gold diggers, they just know what they wan

In this economy, you want a woman to wait ten or twenty years for him to make money?

Wait until you get money to get married Maina said

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Men confess about the types of women they don’t want to marry

A story that’s made the Monday pullout on the Standard quotes men as suggesting there are no women to marry.

Apparently many Kenyan women are undomesticated, needy, lazy, thankless slay queens, madam freebbies, team clueless, and women who play hard to get and much more.

A couple of men told Maina Kageni that there are no women to marry in Kenya.

The men told me that there are no worthy women to marry, that  women have too much baggage, that there are so many eligible bachelors, just that there are no women worth calling marriage material

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Maina’s co-host Mwalimu Kingangu slammed women adding

Kenyan men are getting a raw deal, yet men are in so much demand, we are an endangered species. They women are kichwa ngumu

Maina opend up debate to listeners with this question

Are Kenyan women unamarriable?

Kenyan women intimidate men: because a woman will not sit in the house and wait for you to do everything for her,

Do Kenyan women come with too much baggage?

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A majority of male callers were of the opinion that women are just gold diggers. Sample their views below

charles maina…
WOMEN ARE NATURALLY EXPENSIVE,
Take the one you can afford and stop saying that women Love money
Lakini,electricity,women and hot porridge are the three things I fear in Kenya😂#MainaAndKingangi

Dickie Múrími… Gone are the days when love was love nowadays money has replaced the real love .. bitter truth 😥😥 #MainaAndKingangi
Jose Dot Mali Ya Mungu..
I’m waiting to see that day a lady banker getting married to a mkokoteni guy @itsmainakageni #MainaAndKingangi

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Cheruiyot🇰🇪..
Do you expect us to marry all these girls who get married in campus do kinds of abortion? am 28 and not in a harry, on the other side wengine wanakula pitza to they are lazy to gor for it they ask for delivery imebaki walishwe #MainaAndKingangi

Douglas Davins..
I have never seen a man leave a woman because she is broke. In fact, I’ve seen men working for years to support a woman to support a woman who never got lucky to be employed. Don’t tell me its a mans duty to provide while u use equality where it suits u.. #MainaAndKingangi

 

What’s your opinion of this line of thinking? Drop your comments below.

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My wife eyes me like the Tom Mboya statue after checking my phone

 

The conversation on Classic 105 was about women going through their mens phones.

This topic was based on evidence Mary Kaitany produced in court in the divorce proceeding against husband Linturi.

Kitanys testimony included a revelation that she found illicit content on her husbands phone. She told a packed courtoom

“Initially it was cheating and just like other women, I would sneak into his phone. I became suspicious of his moves because he would come home later, didn’t want to give me my conjugal rights and he would be quarrelling,” Kitany said.

Woman on phone
Woman on phone

Classic host Maina Kageni was rather shocked by how messy the divorce case appeared.

Is there a Kenyan man without nudes on his phone? Is there a Kenyan man whose hone you wont go through and get upset? Why do you entertain those things, so why don’t you see them and delete them?

Is there a Kenyan mans phone you can go through and not find anything incriminating? If Kenyan men were to be divorced based on contents on their phone would anyone be left married?

Ladies why do you go to his phone?how do you get his pin number and what are the logistics to get it?

A man called in with his hilarious story of how his wife got hold of his PIN number to access the contents of the phone.

when you are happy in your marriage and are at home, they will try and sneak through your phone me I had a problem with my wife one day, I think they have eyes like a chameleone, one looks infront the other on the side, you see when your opening your phone when she’s next to you she is facing forward you are facing down and she has already crammed the PIN no matter how long it is.

The worst thing is you will never know when she has read your messages you have it in the evening you go sleep at the same time but when you wake up she is so mad at you. She is looking at you like that statue along Tom Mboya street.

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One day she told me something and what I heard was from the context of a text message on my phone. Unfortunately I had not even opened that text so I asked her kwani these days I live with a witch, coz I didn’t hear you come out of bed, not even a sense of movement,

So what did his wife see: a text or whatsapp message?

I work at a high comission so we have these groups so somebody had said and I like the way this guy is tall coll and hardworking you know it was just a compliemnt but to her it intepreted different.

In my phone I assure you there are no nudes.

Dear classic 105 fam, do you believe him or nah? Also drop your thoughts on womens habit of snooping in a mans phone.

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To snag a man, let him do the chasing – Classic fan Captain Kale advises

 

FACT! Most men love a good chase.

It turns out that men today say our ancestors were right- that ladies shouldn’t make the first move.

Can you imagine having to tell your children that you chased your husband and perhaps proposed to him?

Of course not.

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Some women don’t want to admit it, but we all want a guy to approach us, fall madly in love, and not be able to wait to call us.

So how do you make that happen?

Classic 105 fan Captain Kale says it’s not that complicated. He was responding to a conversation on the morning show which sought to find out why women are labelled as cheap.

He said:

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“These women have no reason to say we are cheap. How do you expect a guy who lives with his mother akuletee nyama? When a man leaves you don’t go saying that Kenyan men are bad or cheap.”

Kale insists it’s not nearly as difficult as girls make it to be.

Or is his truth about girls who make the first move very hard hitting?

Kale added about the importance of not ruining a good thing, and why he needs to call you, and when it’s okay to give it away.

‘These women don’t even have reasons. They don’t have any proof, these women are old and go looking for boys in campus, these women should go back to how it was back in the day and they wait for us to katia them. Us Kenyan men are very few and we are special’

Their answers show that the odds are against those trying to muster up the guts to do the asking first.

Do you agree Classic 105 fam? Drop your comments below

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Boda Boda rider reveals how they manage to date Kenyan girls

You may find them disorderly on the roads, but they are snagging Kenyan girls faster than the average man.

What’s the secret to landing that girl, that the average Brayo or Mikey can’t?

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I mean just sample this tweet from a girl

 

 

A man confessed to Maina Kageni that in between cars honking and the rushing wind, they are able to seduce and land the girl of every mans dream.

He said:

‘I meet five girls on average and manage to bed two. I do boda work, I stop my bike and they agree to go to a room. It just falls into place, out of five girls that I do, its only two I might chew, we take them slowly on our bikes while we ingiza her box’

Even KOT have noticed the Boda Boda power over girls. Here are hilarious reactions

charles maina..
I fear them so much kwanza wa murang’a, kuna mmoja alichukua girlfriend yangu those days 😂😂😂😂😂#MainaAndKingangi

Sarahllito🌼💮🌸..
Apr 8
Uta ride bodaboda… Uta ride bodaboda… Utah do what 😂😂😂🙆🙆🙆

Purity Ng’ethe..
😂😂😂😂mimi aki na si chuki ama nini msee wa nduthi hawezi niingisha box aaaaiii aca #MainaAndKingangi

charles maina…
Apr 8
Hii nimekataa, 😂😂😂😂😂 hawa wanatumia mpaka kamuti #mainaandkingangi

Rodriguez..
Kwani nowadays ladies are that cheap??

wamichira..
They have access to sure bets(warembo)

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See how easy it is?

1 in 3 Kenyan women go on dates just for FREE FOOD – Maina reacts to study

 

Wait just one minute! Does this mean that Kenyan girls who post Instagram pics of food while on a date are there for the food?

A study suggests that women go on dates just for the fee food.

The 30 percent women are not interested in the man just the FREE FOOD.

The researchers at the Azusa Pacific University tried understanding the concept of ‘foodie calls’ where an individual intentionally goes on a date to enjoy free food and is not romantically interested in the other person. In fact, it can happen when the person is broke or is simply tempted to try a new restaurant. This study was published in the ‘Society for Personality and Social Psychology’ journals and was done on two different groups of women.

Classic 105’s Maina Kageni says the research is shocking.

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Maina reacted saying

To me that’s crazy ladies, women you’ve been used of being extremely cheap, ati on the first date you will go to a room

Maina posed this question

Would go on a date just for free food?

A female caller response surprised Maina

It’s true. Kenyan women are the cheapest with 10k you can have as many women as you want. Ukiwa na 2k unabuy mzinga na pesa ya gari asubuhi ( With 2,000 bob you buy her alcohol and money for a ride the next day) 

A certain allegation was also made by a man who shared his story of meeting a girl on Facebook, and their first date. He said she agreed to go to a room after the date

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Men responded that they believe Kenyan women go on dates for free food, and alcohol.

‘ I go on a date knowing I will take pictures for snapchat’ another woman confessed to Maina.

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‘I touched something very cold’ Man whispers to Maina about a leg

 

A man who ignored the advice about not letting social media fool you is regretting it.

His fascinating story begins on Facebook where he said

I dated a chick kwa facebook and I told her I want to know more about you. She said we meet for a date in town.

It all seems innocent right? Wrong!!

The man met the girl and was blown away by her beauty. The two Facebook friends met and after the ‘nice date’ they moved to a lodging for some good time.

So after meeting, I saw she was physically disabled and didn’t tell me that, so when I met her face to face I was taken aback. We went to the room, and she told me to switch of the lights and we started romancing

Maina wasn’t impressed and shouted back ‘Yani, the first time you met her, you took her to a lodging, oh my God what is this?

‘First of all. never take a woman to bed on the first date’ Maina Kageni interjected before the sorrowful man went on with his story about being completely blindsided on social media.

The man was not ashamed one bit and repeated ‘Yes I took her to the room, kwani’

He goes on to add

I touched her then I felt something cold like air, I panicked and asked myself is that real, I felt metal (machuma) I was scared to death. She told me she didn’t have one leg, I was scared I asked her are you a human being, let me tell you Maina I was in shock, so Facebook is all about lies

 

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‘We will see our children when we feel like it’ men tell side chicks

 

If you are a mpango wa kando stay in your lane ladies.

This was the message men asked Maina Kageni to pass on to Kenyan side chicks who feel they should be paid attention, just like wives.

Their message was

Please tell our ladies with whom we have children out there that we shall come into the lives of those children when the time is appropriate, don’t force the agenda,

That could be when they start schooling, that could even later in their life, don’t rush us.

Maina Kageni turned this into the morning conversation asking ladies if they were comfortable with the message.

Do you agree with them that men you have a child with and he is married with a family of his own, that his time is not your own, atakupimia masaa,

Do you understand where they are coming from ladies?

Several women called in responding with their own life stories with married men

One female caller shocked Maina when she said

It’s true, they will jipanga their time. Like for me nilipata ball and I never knew he was married, he came to see my child when he was two years and from then he comes when he feels like, he sees the child counted times, like four times in five years

And does he support his child financially?

No, maybe when he comes he says maybe nitalipa school fees, unamuwacha tuu, the first time when he say our child was when he was two years, you can’t force him, he will come when he feels like and say where is my daughter?

Another woman also concurred with her story

I have my man and he isn’t bothered being ther emotionally and financially, he has never seen our child. MMy baby is two years now, he has never seen her, he says when the time is appropriate, and when I was pregnant we were together, na kuzaa alikuwa, ehe,

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‘He did the right thing’ Maina Kageni on Sonko revealing Ken Okoths ‘secret’

Nairobi Governor Mike Sonko caught many by surprise during the memorial service of the late Kibra MP Ken Okoth, after announcing Ken had a ‘secret’ son.

Sonko, who seemed determined to let the cat out of the bag, stated that the son to Okoth was also named Okoth.

Adding it was only fit for his immediate family to stop pretending he does not exist.

Mike Sonko
Nairobi governor Mike Sonko

Prominent radio personality Maina Kageni is however not impressed with Sonko’s outburst, arguing that that was not the right platform.

Was that the right platform to ropoka,

That is information the family had tried to keep away from the public.

Plus Okoth’s mother was also present.

Maina goes on to ask if Sonko did the right thing given that.

The outburst was not on the program .

No one expected thata his outburst hit peoPLE between the eyes.

In conclusion Maina says

People like Sonko have no reverse gear not brakes. I cannot keep a friend like him.

According to word on the street, Ken and his wife Monicah had trouble siring a child of their own.

The two had met while in college more than 20 years ago.

Okoth’s cremation/burial has been temporarily stopped until a decision is made by the court on the paternity of the child alleged to have been sired by Okoth.

 

‘I can’t be kept in the shadows for 11 years’ Side chick speaks up

 

Should the ‘other woman’ ever tell the wife that her husband is cheating and possibly has children out there?

“Side chicks” have been investigated, discussed and explained in many formats.

A woman weighed on on the topic and making that unexpected call to his wife.

All women who have been in relationships have either felt, explored, or entertained and seek revenge in one way: and that’s the “phone call” to the wife or girlfriend of the man.

This side chick called in to the Classic 105 show and narrated her experience of being with a married man and how she handled being introduced forcibly to his family.

Here is the scenario she painted to Maina and Mwalimu:

I’ve been with a man for ten years and we’ve been hiding and we have a baby. So this weekend I’ve been telling him to go and say to his people, but he is not doing it and it has happened for long so I decided to tell the wife and his father.

She explains her thought process when making the dreaded call:

I called them, I spoke to the dad and I find it so selfish to commit with someone for all those years and hide them. At least they know I can’t continue being hidden you can’t gamble with life so that if he wants me I continue, the wife has always known I am in the picture so it’s just formal.

The father said he cannot accept me because of religion, so when he found out I had called his father he is quiet, but at least now I am known and also I want to whether I will continue being with him, and I love him. God will lead us, as for now if he doesn’t want us I will leave his life, I want people to know I have been in his life for the last 11 years.

Dear Classic 105 fam, we want to know from you: Is she right for having called the family?

Are this woman’s motivations pure as she relayed more details about the affair?

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What does a Kenya woman have to do to keep her man faithful Maina asks

The Classic 105 morning conversation was something that many Kenyans discuss either silently or in groups. And not one solution to the problem has been found.

‘I feel I am in season 5 of my life’ Makena Njeri responds to cheating scandal

What am I talking about? Maina Kageni was asked by a lady to ask Kenyan men on air this question below:

What do we have to do for them to remain faithful to us? What do they want? We are ready to listen

What is it that Kenyan men want their ladies to do to remain loyal? Can you please give them a point breakdown.

‘I paid my own bride price but he keeps cheating on me’ Shouts woman

It’s very simple according to the thoughts of Mwalimu Kingangi who says women should do ‘nothing’.

wakae hivo wachane na sisi. They don’t need to do anything, there are things you can’t change.

You know when a man saw you on day one, that is the image they have, do you get it ? So this metamorphosis yako they are not part of it, they still have that mental picture of when they first met you.

A male caller totally agreed with Kingangi saying

‘There is nothing they can do, hakuna even if you whine your waist, there is nothing, men want diversity and we were made that way by the way.’

A woman also supported this point of view leaving Maina skeptical.

Eko Dydda’s wife Cynthia exposes his cheating

‘I am not a man but I can tell you there is nothing that woman can do. I am a living experience.

I have given everything to the one I have, you can give a man everything but he will still go out, it’s only the man who wants, no matter what you do, it’s his vision not yourself.’

A similar view was held by two others in the thoughts below:

‘Listen good, a man was created with a default setting of being a polygamous man you cannot reset it, even the way you bought your phone you cannot reset it, you either work with it or nothing’

How sad is that posed Maina Kageni saying,

Are you telling me that you will just accept and go to bed knowing he is doing things challenged Maina as he asked for more reactions from listeners.

What’s been your experience girls?

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