How long have you been with your man and why hasn’t he married you yet asks Maina

 

On the morning conversation on Classic 105, it was all about how ‘Ladies mumechomewa picha’ by Manu Chandaria.

Mzee formalized his mariage last week after 64 years of being together. They went to the AG’s office, signed a piece of paper and spent 9k and went back home.

Mwalimu questioned why Kenyan women are always in a hurry to marry men.

 hii haraka ni ya nini many Kenyan ladies want to marry so quickly. They take men mbio why the hurry why do they rush us so fast, where is the hurry?

Maina wasn’t convinced with this argument demanding to know how long women should take before asking for commitment.

if you don’t make your man commit, what do they do?

What are you doing with a man for seven years and he is not marrying you, how!! shouted maina

Do you know the kind of life that Manu Chandaria has given that woman? She has lived like a queen for those 64 years!

No no no they started from the bottom argued Mwalimu

Maina opened up debate to listeners on air and those online to contribute.

Ladies how long have you been with a man? A woman should never move into a woman’s house before marriage, you can build chemistry out there.

Ladies why have you been with a man for so long without getting married?

What are you doing in a mans house for five years giving him babies, aieee!!

How long have you been with your man and why hasn’t he married you yet?

A man called in with some deep thoughts

Why are you helping people who can’t help themselves, they bring themselves to us, and then they sit there like a tick. Kenyan women are gold diggers, they stick like ticks they don’t want to move out, they mark their territory and so they can’t be helped. We won’t marry them.

Another man said

I call it the emancipation of the boy child, finally we have a trick as a boy. I don’t have to marry her until I’m 100, I don’t have to sign papers, I am in a long term relationship about six years, and I don’t intend to marry her, let’s build a future together first, there is no hurry

Maina was astounded by his confession and advised his unidentified woman,

‘If your that’s your man, woman you are living a wasted life, sweetheart your are not a wife you are a maid with no options, six years and he has not married you ,what is he waiting for jesus christ to comeback?

If it’s been two years and he’s not talking of a future together, he is wasting your time, If he doesn’t even give you an engagement ring he is wasting your time, if he is living with you and doesn’t marry you he is wasting your time

Male caller

kitu ya kujiuliza ni moja tuu what was the objective of being with this woman? If it was children why waste money marrying her, we don’t just do things with no objectives in mind, like me let me not cheat you, you will never find me in a car written just married. I have better things to do with my money, the definition of money is go to her parents and that story ends there si they know me? This stupidity of marriage is useless, concentrate on life, she is here hearing em and I am not shaken, she is standing here listening to me

Another man’

there is no Kenyan woman who will stand with you from the bottom up,

Another man

I don’t think it makes sense to have a wedding if we are living together already, I am not married at 35 I’m not dating and if that time comes I don’t think it will happen immediately it will come after two or three kids

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Lulu Hassan and her husband gyrate to dancehall tune (video)

Lulu Hassan and Abdallah Rashid have one of those relationships that are written about in romantic comedies; the ones many women swoon about ( real men never swoon!) when they think of their dream relationship.

The two, who co-anchor together on Citizen T.V during the weekend, have added more reasons this past week as to why so many admire their relationship.

Lulu Hassan with Abdallah Rashid
Lulu Hassan with Abdallah Rashid

The couple were spotted fooling around before their show began and it was a sight to behold.  Lulu, who was clad in a form-fitting red dress, showed off her silky smooth dance moves to the excitement of her husband Rashid who was also moving about to a popular dancehall song.

Lulu Hassan posing
Lulu Hassan posing

She captioned the video which she posted on Instagram with the following;

All work and no play….
Warming up for next sato ..cc 

Check out the video below;

Many of her followers were amazed at her dancing skills and commented as such. Some of their comments are below;

terryannechebet Awww!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
talliaoyando I am ready. And please mniambie dress code pia 😍😍😍🔥🔥🔥
rocker__kelsey 🙌nice👏
ali_kubo 😂😂😂 Boss lady hapo hutoshi mboga
diafuadear ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
rosette_hannah_ngendo Awesome !!!Goals
chumbyn I love you guys
jessicarndege 🤣🤣 loulou unaona Aibu 😅😅
j_j926 nice moves 👌 truly attended men’s conference 😀😀😀

Many companies normally have a policy in place where they don’t allow spouses to work together in the same department. Their reasoning is that they don’t want any personal problems spilling over into the workplace.

Lulu Hassan with her husband Rashid Abdallah
Lulu Hassan with her husband Rashid Abdallah

Clearly, Citizen T.V has its own way of doing things or they just trust Lulu and Rashid that much! One can’t fault them as the reactions from viewers has been excellent.

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Zari says Diamond has not seen his kids for 9 months!

Zari was recently interviewed by Millard Ayo. The Ugandan socialite revealed a lot about her life, love, kids and business interests.

But as you most likely know, what most people care about when Zarina speaks is her complicated relationship with her ex Diamond. In the interview, she dished out some ‘tea’ about Diamond and his relationship with his 2 kids.

Diamond-Platnum's-family in the past
Diamond-Platnum’s-family in the past

In a fresh twist, she trashed Diamond’s claims that he finally got to interact with his children after being “blocked” from seeing them.

In the interview with Millardayo, Zari vehemently denied claims that Diamond had reached out to their kids Tiffah and Nillan. According to Zari, in fact, Diamond has been out of touch for the past nine months, with no form of communication between them and the children.

I haven’t talked to Naseeb in nine months. He hasn’t seen nor spoken to his kids in nine months so for him to come out to say he recently reached out to them is a lie. I know it’s been a while since we broke up so I need to say this for clarity. This is where the confusion is.

Zari with the children she shares with Diamond
Zari with the children she shares with Diamond

So who is telling the truth? This situation does not make sense. On Sunday, July 14, Diamond shared a cute photo of his children in what looked like a Facetime chat, with Zari saying that he took a quick screenshot of his kids but that he didn’t speak to them.

Diamond-Platnumz's with his kids in the past
Diamond-Platnumz’s with his kids in the past

Diamond’s ex disclosed what irked her the most was the fact that Diamond allegedly made a fool of her. She said;

For Naseeb it was plain disrespect. I am a powerful woman I have an image to maintain. The respect was not there. Not only that so many times I asked him about the things I was hearing from the blogs and he denied everything.

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Diamond Platnumz puts to rest rumors why he hasn’t proposed (YET)

Diamond Platnumz and Tanasha Donna revealed that they are expecting a baby boy. This will be Diamond’s fourth child. He has two kids with ex-lover Zari Hassan and one with model Hamisa Mobetto.

In an interview with Tanzanian media at the backstage of Wasafi Festival, Diamond first spoke about why he didn’t propose to Tanasha;

I knelt down and kissed the bump and stood, people thought I had proposed but no. Everything has its plans, Tanzanians like to predict things and I don’t like to be predictable. I didn’t want my engagement to be done in a place like that.

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Adding that;

I just wanted it to be my mother and lover’s birthday for them to just enjoy. That event will happen. That wasn’t the right day from the way I want to propose to my girlfriend. So many people have done it like that and now it’s outdated.

 

He says the baby show is underway and fans should wait for the another big event;

By the way, there is a baby shower that will be done soon. There are a lot of events happening too.

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Ali Kiba’s wife is SO OVER those annoying divorce rumors

 

Rumors about a split between Ali Kiba and his wife Amina have been swirling for the last week or so, and his Kenyan wife has reached peak frustration with the speculation.

She put to bed any questions regarding her marriage very matter-of-factly saying

Sura na baraka zake ndoa ya haki Allah shahid tumapendana na kulea mtoto wetu she wrote, revealing how she copes with the narrative about her marriage .MANENO YAO YAMEGONGA MWAMBA 👌👌 Sisi twapendana daima 💯😘💕🌷
I love All💕😍 Penzi lingali hai sanaaa bby @officialalikiba ❤❤ na My son 👉👉👇👇 @officialkeyaan @officialkeyaan

Blessed Njugush kicked out of his home by wife Celestine

 

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However it’s business as usual on Ali Kiba’s pages, where he has not shared a picture of his wife.

Kiba is now sporting a new hair do. He has bleached his hair a dirty blonde, and seems to be loving it.

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He has even grown a goatee, and it’s giving all sorts of new vibes.

 

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Why you should not take photos with your phone at weddings

Keep your phones away! Professional photographers are hired for a reason. Those photos are probably what the couple and most guests look back on when it comes to unwinding or reminiscing about the big day.

Hannah Stanley, a wedding and lifestyle photographer, and owner of Hannah Way Photography in Fort Worth, Texas, recently shared a wedding photo that was ruined by a guest’s phone.

Stanley, 25, was photographing the bride’s walk down the aisle with her dad when a woman jumped in front of her to take her own photo.

 

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Hannah said: ‘To the girl with the iPhone…

“Not only did you ruin my shot, but you took this moment away from the groom, father of the bride, and the bride. What exactly do you plan on doing with that photo? Honestly. Are you going to print it out? Save it? Look at it every day? No. You’re not. ‘But my bride would have printed this photo, looked at it often and reminisced over this moment as her dad walked her down the aisle on her wedding day. But instead, you wanted to take a photo with your phone, blocking my view, and taking a photo that you will not use. ‘Guests, please stop viewing weddings you attend through a screen but instead turn OFF your phone, and enjoy the ceremony. You are important to the bride and groom, you would not be attending the wedding otherwise. So please, let me do my job, and you just sit back, relax and enjoy this once in a lifetime moment. Sincerely, Wedding photographers.”

The post quickly went viral with over 170,000 shares and lots of people agreed.

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One person said: “I totally get it. THIS IS WHY the requests of no phones and cameras. Let the photographers do their job! I have been pushed out of the way, flashes go off at the time of a shot, and this done to me! It is just RUDE.”

There is a reason why the bride and groom decide not to allow mobile phones and personal cameras to their nuptials. This is one of the reasons right here. Guests need to enjoy themselves and not worry about capturing the moments on their personal mobile phones, the pictures will be sent out to them in due time.

 

 

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Billionaire Manu Chandaria finally weds after 64 years of marriage

Manu Chandaria, 90, on Friday solemnised his marriage to his wife, Aruna Chandaria, 85, at the attorney general’s Sheria House offices in Nairobi.

To show how frugal the billionaire is, a Civil Marriage by notice costs Sh3,900 while a Civil Marriage by Special License costs Sh 9,700.

Late Tanzanian billionaire Reginald Mengi’s mega-mansion

The interesting thing about the couple is that they have been together for the past 64 years! According to newspaper reports, the two got married at an informal wedding that only took two and a half hours at Visa Oshwal centre in Mombasa in 1955.

Manu Chandaria speaking to Uhuru Kenyatta
Manu Chandaria speaking to Uhuru Kenyatta

In a past interview, Manu revealed that the secret to marriage is simple, “’Aruna is 85 and I am 90 but she has the last word.’

Aruna was born in Thika while Manu was born in Nairobi, but both families moved to India during World War II.

By 1955, they had convinced both families to allow them to marry each other and Manu, who was 26, then married Aruna, who was only 21.

Manu Chandaria speaking
Manu Chandaria speaking

Aruna made the decision to be a housewife and build a home, where she developed her hobbies that included tapestry, cooking, gardening and growing orchids while Chandaria took care of business.

In the civil ceremony today Manu is seen dressed in a black suit and a tie marching Aruna’s golden-orange Sari.

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Do Kenyan men understand the meaning of being given a second chance asks Maina Kageni

Yesterday in some peoples eyes, a miracle happened and that was Esther Arunga who was staring down at 25 years in prison for admitting to lying to police.

People reckon she has been through enough, and needed a second chance.

Maina Kageni reacted to her 10 month sentence saying

That’s what you call a second chance and I want to ask a question coz Kenyans take so much for granted. Do Kenyans understand the meaning of a second chance. Do men understand the meaning of being given a second chance?

He contnued pointing out second chances are important

The biggest culptirts are men. You mess up and she keeps forgiving you and taking you back and you just don’t get it.

Ladies have you ever given a man a second, third and fourth chance and he just doesn’t get it. Do we understand the value of a second chances, do we understand the value of forgiveness.

Do men get it? This is the weekend you will disappear this weekend and reappear on Monday with the same excuse.

Why don’t men get the idea of a second chance guys?

What’s your story?

@moniqueKimm..

@ItsMainaKageni You keep calling a man when you’re newly wed but as time goes by these men harden us,second chances don’t exist any more cause they take your love for granted!That’s why women are giving up cause u can’t be lied on forever!

@Classic105Kenya#MainaAndKingangi

@pieremutongah27…

Replying to @kipskiplagat @Classic105Kenya and @ItsMainaKageni

Sometimes you just have to lie coz that’s what they want to hear. Lie when its necessary not always. Dont tell her everything also. 🙊🙊🤭🤭 #MainaAndKingangiv

@AnzigaleMike..

The saying, “Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me” has always stood true in my mind, especially when it comes to relationships.

@itsmainakageni @classic105kenya #mainaandkingangi

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Miracle! Zari allegedly gets married to King Bae

Zari Hassan has apparently gotten married to her anonymous beau called Michael aka King Bae. Yes, this according to several blogs and fans that say that the couple walked down the aisle in a lowkey wedding ceremony, which was attended by family and close friends.

Zari Hassan

Last month, Zari revealed on Instagram live that her wedding would take place on Nelson Mandela day, which was yesterday.

Zari with Zodwa
Zari with Zodwa

Zari’s close friends took to social media to congratulate her with BFF Zodwa Mkandla sharing a video of Zari flaunting her ring.

Another fan of the socialite wrote saying;

Today…….we are the champions! We win…..🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌 I am not mad at original ape aka Mange anymore….you know why? She is a loser…..she has to talk about zari to bring people to her page so that they can see her adverts….she is using Zari’s name to bring people to her page….’

Read part of the harsh message.

Zari married
The alleged ring

Zari herself wrote a message on her Instagram page saying;

God is not done with me…. I’ll be a testimony one day. I’ll be in history books too. 

While Zari’s fans might be ululating over her ‘marriage’ news, I think this smirks of desperation from the mother of 5; Diamond has moved on and to a much younger and more attractive woman and I believe that hurts Zarina’s sensibilities.

Diamond touching Tanasha's belly
Diamond touching Tanasha’s belly

If there was indeed a wedding I believe that we would have seen pictures upon pictures by the Ugandan socialite because that is who she is. Where are those pictures?

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Here’s something you didn’t know about your husband disappearing on weekends

Tonight is the final of AFCON 2019, and he will disappear.

If your mans phone is switched off every weekend, here’s what you need to know, according to Maina Kageni.

‘Ni njama’ he shouted to girls.

What prompted this revelation that may prove embarrassing to Kenyan husbands?

He is fed up of women giving their men second, third, and even fourth chances when they make mistakes.

‘I am so mad at him’ friend speaks at burial of massacred Thome family

Girls, if you have ever been called by a cop on Sunday to go ‘pick up’ your manz, who was ‘arrested’, then hubby is up to no good.

Ladies have you ever given a man a second third, fourth chance and he just doesn’t get it. Do we understand the value of a second chance do we understand the value of forgiveness.

Do men get it? This is the weekend he will disappear and reappear on Sunday/Monday with the same excuse.

This is the secret men use: they’ve got someone at a police station, coz they will switch off their phone and that cop will call you on Sunday to tell you come for your man and you will go and he will come out with one shoe, that’s what a lot of men do.

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Esther Arunga given 10 strict rules she must follow for 10 months

Esther Arunga was sentenced yesterday at an Australian court. This following her recent admission that she gave a false account of how her son died.

She was sentenced to 10 months in prison but was released on parole by the court however there are ten strict regulations that she must abide with for the period of the sentence, which will be supervised by the Queensland Corrective Services (QCS).

Esther Arunga with Quincy Timberlake
Esther Arunga with Quincy Timberlake in the past

The conditions are;

1. Arunga must stay in contact with the probation and parole staff by reporting to an office or having officers visit her home or workplace.

2. At the end of her parole, officers from the probation and parole section of Queensland Corrective Services will carry out surveillance to check whether her risk level is appropriate.

Ciku Muiruri; Esther Arunga was always the problem

3. She is not to commit any crime while on parole, not even a minor offence, as it would taint her record.

4. She will not be allowed to leave Queensland, Australian, without permission from the authorities.

5. Arunga is not to use any illegal drug or even drink alcohol for the 10 months. She will be drug-tested regularly during the same period.

6. Were she to change her job or house locations, she should inform the correctional services unit of her decision within 48 hours.

Esther-Arunga-and-Quincy-Timberlake-
Esther-Arunga-and-Quincy-Timberlake

7. During her 10 months parole, she will be expected to attend programs and counselling offered by the Australian correctional service.

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8. She has to comply with rules set by the correctional service of Australia.

9. Her physical appearance will be checked constantly checked, her relationships and her home stability will be under scrutiny.

10. She must also maintain good terms with her family.

If she breaches the parole orders, the conditions may be changed or her parole order may be suspended or cancelled and she will be returned to prison.

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‘I am so mad at him’ friend speaks at burial of massacred Thome family

The man and two children brutally murdered by the wife in Thome 5 estate before committing suicide were Thursday buried in an emotional ceremony.

They were all laid to rest on Thursday at Lang’ata Cemetery, Nairobi.

Relatives of Joyce Wanjiru, the woman who killed her husband David Gitau and two children before committing suicide in Marurui, Thome Estate, the day after the incident admitted she had anger issues.

Nairobi woman kills husband, two children over domestic squabble

They described how she was irritable and battered her man, who out of embarrassment could not speak up.

It is believed that Gitau, a casual labourer, was attacked while asleep, as the body was found lying on the bed, witnesses and police said.

The woman then strangled to death their two children aged 14 and three years before hanging herself with a rope in the house.

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TROUBLED SOULS: Sonko Rescue Team helps in laying to rest the family of a 32-year-old woman who killed her husband and their two children before committing suicide. Buried at Langata Cemetery on July 18. Image: FAITH MUTEGI

The bodies of the four were discovered in the afternoon after labourers who used to buy food from the woman at a construction site raised queries over her whereabouts.

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Police said the couple had recurrent domestic disputes, adding that Gitau had several times reported about being beaten by the wife.

During the burial, Gitau’s best friend spoke up saying

“You would never notice if Gitau had problems or not. I am so mad at him, even if he’s dead. He didn’t speak to me. I didn’t know he had problems. We wouldn’t be where we are right now if he did.

Kariuki said his “heart is very broken as we started our friendship back when we were children. Our parents are friends. I used to pass by his workplace quite often and discuss things then go back to our businesses,” Kariuki said at the burial.

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Is your partner still obsessed with their ex Maina Kageni asks

 

Is your man fixated on his ex girlfriend?

Ladies, if your man is in a situation like this, how do you handle it?

This stems from the confession one woman made on Classic 105, about being with her high school crush who is currently married:

‘My married side chick and I plan our off days together’ boasts Thika man

I have had one he was my childhood friends and I knew I was the one until I went to his house and found his current wife. It broke my heart so much I cried so much, and all along I thought I was the one. I had asked him to wait for me. He told me he couldn’t wait. I have all along thought I was his only girl, and it broke my heart so much. Trust me, we have kept in touch with him ever since. His wife knows and she calls me to fuss, but he is with me, whenever I’m heartbroken I will call him, if he has issues with his wife he calls me, if I’m broke he gives me money, if I want to call him when he is at home I use a private number.

A shocked Maina shouted:

What do you mean there is nothing his wife can do about it. Ladies, how do you deal with a situation like this, you know she is there an there is nothing you can do? How do you deal when you know he has this friend whom he relies on and there is nothing you can do, how does it work?

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It just doesn’t seem normal to me said Maina who asked listeners to chip in to the conversation.

Read the crazy marriage confessions below:

A man called saying

My brother Maina unaishi kama hauko kwa hii dunia. I’m married, my wife left me and she doesn’t talk. I even sent wazees but she doesn’t talk. Now I have this new girl who loves me and then my wife comes back knocking saying she wants me back, so Maina it has to be this way, and that’s the plain truth. You see this other woman she has accepted that I’m married, my wife has even tried talking to her. So Maina even if it’s you, what would you do. It’s been a year and three months with the other one, and I see her everyday. She lives near my house with my wife. Even my wife passes her everyday to see what’s up. I think she’s accepted her fate.

Another man also revealed his tricky relationship:

Hii mambo yote ni ya ukweli. We all have that lady we confide in. I am yet to be married, but I have messed a few opportunities because of such friendships, becauae this friend meets the woman I want to marry but there is always tension, so I listen to this friend more than I listen to the love of my life. Let me tell you and it is not fake a lot of men have this type of woman in their life. I almost got married twice and I broke it off on the advice of this woman. This other woman is married with kids, he confessed.

‘My married side chick and I plan our off days together’ boasts Thika man

Whats is your story. Do you still keep in touch with that one who lit your whole world despite being married?

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‘My married bae blue ticks me after I sort her out’ – Man confesses

 

Your chest collapses, your head spins and knees crumble.

This is the response we have all had when messaging bae.

Back when whatsapp introduced a feature known as blue ticks, the world celebrated.

However this feature has come to haunt many men.

Men in their quest to freak out asking Why didn’t she reply me? Am I not important? Doesn’t she want to be friends anymore?

‘My married side chick and I plan our off days together’ boasts Thika man

This fate befell on man who recounted on Classic 105, how his married girl blue ticks him often.

He told Maina, who sympathized with him

There is this lady who used to be my ex and everytime she has issues with her husband she wants me, but when they are on good terms nakula block. But when on bad terms she even calls me telling me she thinks about me, she only reaches out to me when her relationship is rocky, as an ex they only does so when times are rough, otherwise utakula block.

If you’re a dude looking for answers to blue ticking a user on Quora has answers. Read below the reasons:

– She realized you don’t know what you want with her. You are not stating exactly what your agenda with her is. Leaving her guessing is much tougher for her so she opts out instead.

‘I got married while in love with my ex’ – City mum confesses

– You said or asked something that she doesn’t want to respond to, or has no idea how to respond to. Yeah, yeah, I know you’ll ask why she can’t just tell you she doesn’t know what to reply with. But these girls are hard to understand. Even I have no answer for that.

– She learnt something about you that turned her off. No explanation here.

– You did something wrong, did not apologize and are not intending to because you have absolutely no idea what it was that you did.

– You’re just being melodramatic and expecting that the girl will be first to initiate conversation. She may have blue ticked you, but she’s probably missing you and wishing you’d text her. The blue tick might make her feel guilty of texting first. Or maybe she’s just playing a little hard to get. So you got to up your game.

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‘He promised me heaven and gave me hell’ narrates hurt girl

 

 

A young lady has opened up about her painful relationship with a lover.

The relationship became he worst nightmare according to the open letter she wrote;

‘I met this guy at mall on evening as I was doing some shopping. He was such a kind and handsome man that caught my eye the moment I saw him. When I look at him I just have too many questions in mind. Is he the same man at the mall? Does he have a twin that he has never told?’

Tokeo la picha la violence

The lady fell in love with this guy at their first encounter and he really treated her right.

They exchanged contacts and after some time they went on a date and later on started dating.

The guy was so rich that he even asked her to quit the job she was doing. She basically became a house wife and she lacked nothing.

This fancy lifestyle came to an end after she delivered her first child. The man became so hostile and abusive to her that he even beat her up with her child.

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‘I never got to marry him as he kept postponing the marriage. So I was expectant and delivered a baby boy whom he later denied saying he was not the father. My king turned to a demon himself. He used to beat me and his only son who he now referred to as a bastard. In less than 6 months of the relationship I saw different types of girls in our house. At times I could sleep at the living room and his mistresses could sleep in my matrimonial bed.’

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The lady had no choice but to persevere all that because she was an orphan, had no job and place to go. ‘I had lost everything I had thanks to him. I had to stay and face all that brutality and violence. My own husband threatened to kill me and my child. I had to leave to save our lives and start over again.’

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 These are some of the challenges most women face in marriage. Some do this because they want to keep their families together. Is it worth it? Does it have to get to death before someone decides to leave?

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Ciku Muiruri, ‘Esther Arunga was always the problem’

Former Classic 105 presenter and author Ciku Muiruri has aired her opinion about Esther Arunga and the situation that she currently finds herself in.

The former ‘Busted’ host has spoken about Esther and her present predicament in the most controversial of terms. Ciku believes that Esther is the only one to blame for her predicament and not the men in her life.

Her take is below;

I have been seeing all these posts about Esther Arunga and how intelligent she was and how beautiful she was. The posts also talk about Quincy Timberlake (Her husband who was charged with the murder of their 3-year-old son) and how he had a brain the size of a peanut.

Esther Arunga with Quincy Timberlake
Esther Arunga with Quincy Timberlake in the past

Apparently, he did an IQ test and was found to have the same intelligence as that of a mouse (No actual specifics were given as to when this alleged IQ testing took place).

The posts go on to say how poor Esther was brainwashed. I’m calling bullshit on the last part. Before Esther met Quincy she was staying in a digs somewhere in Nairobi with her cousin Hellon and being accused of being in a cult.

He was running for President and she was his running mate. She was engaged to another dude until Quincy came along and Hellon says things changed after that.

At the time, all of you blamed Hellon (whose presidential aspirations disappeared after she took off with quincy). you then blamed Quincy (whose brain as we are told can’t formulate a plan to get anything done, let along elaborate plans to flee kenya and esther’s parents). you are blaming him for brainwashing a (supposedly very intelligent) girl who allegedly watched him punch her 3-year-old son repeatedly in the stomach and in her words… “a grown man cannot survive a punch from quincy so i knew my son would not…” who then went on to tell police that she lied her son fell down the stairs because she was afraid of being alone.

Really? I put it to you that esther, the so hyped ‘intelligent and beautiful’ girl, is the one who did all the brainwashing. She convinced grown-ass men she could make them presidents. She convinced them they could take over the world. She was so delusional that maybe she thought demons were thwarting their chances and commanded the cockroach sized brain to punch their son to death. remember quincy’s first wife? Telling us how esther stole him from her? Arunga has actually never given any one any reason to think she was a victim in this but you always believed she was. why, pray tell? because she reads news? Didn’t we see another anchor the other day being charged with allegedly helping cover up a murder?

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Esther Arunga heading to the courthouse

Esther Arunga always held all the cards. You think she lied to protect Quincy? I don’t buy it. He lied to protect her. Remember how for so many years we believed Whitney Houston was an angel destroyed by Bobby Brown until her brother confessed to having introduced Whitney to drugs long before she ever met Bobby? Whitney told us time and time again that nobody makes her do anything she doesn’t want to do and we didn’t listen. When she died of an overdose she was long divorced from Bobby. he’s still alive. Her daughter, who stayed with her after the divorce, also died from a drug overdose. Whitney was always the problem, not Bobby. open your eyes when it comes to Esther Arunga. She was always the problem. the beautiful, intelligent girl fooled you all.

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Breaking; Esther Arunga jailed for 10 months on parole

Former KTN news anchor Esther Arunga, was on Thursday sentenced to 10 months in prison but immediately released on parole.

On Monday, Arunga admitted to misleading police in order to help her husband escape punishment.

Arunga’s three-year-old son died as a result of blunt force trauma to his abdomen has admitted misleading police after his death.

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Sinclair Timberlake suffered fatal injuries at his family home at Kallangur, north of Brisbane, on June 2014.

His father and former Kenyan presidential candidate Quincy Timberlake was charged with his murder.

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Walking 9,000 steps a day could protect against Alzheimer’s – study

Walking 8,900 steps a day could protect the brain against decline and brain tissue loss from Alzheimer’s disease, according to a study.

Researchers tracked the movement of elderly people and measured the levels of a protein linked to Alzheimer’s to work out the link.

And they added exercise should be used alongside other heart health interventions such as lowering cholesterol, quitting smoking and losing weight.

Improving blood flow has been linked to protecting the brain in the past and people with dementia are often found to have reduced flow to the brain, potentially starving it of vital oxygen and nutrients and hastening its decline.

Researchers from the Centre for Alzheimer’s Research and Treatment did a study on 182 patients at Massachusetts General Hospital in Boston.

Irregular heartbeats may lead to dementia; study shows

These patients had an average age of 73 and scientists measured how much they walked each day using pedometers.

They also tracked amounts of a protein called b-amyloid in their brains and the constitution of vital grey matter. Those who walked further had a slower reduction in their brain capacity, the research found.

Dr Reisa Sperling said:

‘Beneficial effects were seen at even modest levels of physical activity, but were most prominent at around 8,900 steps, which is only slightly less than the 10,000 many of us strive to achieve daily.’

From their research, Dr Sperling and her team said hitting this 9,000 steps-per-day target could stave off the onset of Alzheimer’s disease in older people.

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And they found the exercise still had a beneficial effect even when the results were adjusted to take people’s heart condition and general health into account.

They added lower risk of heart problems was independently associated with slower cognitive decline and grey matter volume loss.

Jasmeer Chhatwal, of the MGH Department of Neurology, and corresponding author of the study, said:

‘One of the most striking findings from our study was that greater physical activity not only appeared to have positive effects on slowing cognitive decline, but also on slowing the rate of brain tissue loss over time in normal people who had high levels of amyloid plaque in the brain.’

The research was published in the journal JAMA Neurology.

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