Shockingly, This Is The Reason Most Men Fear Women Who Are Labeled As ‘Iron Ladies’

Situations, relationships and the current times have apparently created a ‘monster’ known as the ‘iron lady.’ This ambitious, hardworking, sexually liberated, allergic to lazy men and no-nonsense woman has left Kenyan men shaking in their boots.

With these qualities, these women have few suitors, mainly because no man wants a vocal, independent woman who will hold him accountable for his actions. Many men want a submissive, silent partner who says ‘yes’ to his every demand. They are required to settle for what the man is earning and surrender an opportunity to grow in the corporate world so as to feed her husband’s ego. Sorry to burst your bubble guys, but those days are long gone.

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Women have become key components for the growth of any business. They have even gone as far as making it in male-dominated positions and careers. This unique species is feared by men so much so that other women believe that if they get a Masters degree or buy a swanky house or car, they are bound to remain single for the rest of their life.

READ; Living With An Infidel, Physically And Emotionally Battered – Do Women Have 9 Lives?

We have all heard of women who are single simply because their success scares men. Some, who are invested in a relationship prefer hiding their success in order to keep a man which brings me to ask; must women dull their shine so that men can be comfortable?

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Well, ladies, men believe these so-called “iron ladies” make terrible wives. They apparently don’t take the time to nurture the family. This essentially means they do not attend to his every need. These women cannot be ‘tamed’ and that is the main reason men fear these women.

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These women have no time to feed a man’s ego and this irritates men to the core. They will never need a guy to fix the bulb, pay debts, change a tyre or buy gifts for them mainly because they’ve got it covered. Money can buy almost anything these days right…

So take heart iron ladies, at least you now know why these men will disappear once they learn your power.


Why these women cheated on their husbands, how to avoid the same fate

If your relationship is teetering, it might not take much to push her into another bed. Check out these reasons;

Why She Cheats: Her Age

Marsha, a paralegal in Boston, was everything a man could want in a wife: She was beautiful, intelligent, and funny, not to mention limber because of her devotion to yoga.

But then, as her 40th birthday drew near, she slept with her instructor.

“She felt her looks were fading,” says marriage therapist Paul Hokemeyer, Ph.D. “The affair made her feel more desirable.”

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What to Do About It

Be the man who makes things happen. Bonus: When her mind’s on molten lava, the last thing she’ll be thinking about is her yoga instructor.

Why She Cheats: The Money

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Emily, 35, had every reason to be furious with her husband. After she’d made a few too many purchases on her debit card, he cut up the plastic in front of her in a humiliating power play.

“I had to tell him where I was going and he would give me a spending limit,” she says.

The nice way to describe this: He was trying his best to keep the budget in check—and stepped about five miles over the line.

Problem is, exerting too much financial control, especially when you do it like a condescending jerk, breeds major-league resentment and can push your partner to seek payback, Hokemeyer says.

And that’s exactly what Emily did.

What to Do About It 

Don’t seize control or point fingers.

Instead, share the financial responsibility by using a budgeting app which notifies both of you as spending limits draw near.

This way you’re both accountable for the money going into and coming out of your account.

Why She Cheats: She Just Wants More

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Who doesn’t want to be the guy who can’t go out in public without his wife leaning over and whispering, “I’m not wearing panties. Let’s go see if we can find an empty closet.”

But sometimes, in the real world, crazy sex isn’t everything it’s cracked up to be.

That’s how the trouble began for Lisa, a 31-year-old saleswoman. She wanted sex every night and her boyfriend didn’t.

“He only gave it to me once a week. What’d he expect?” she says of her stepping out.

Well, for starters, that you wouldn’t cheat on him. But when sexual expectations don’t match, it can quickly lead to trouble.

What to Do About It

The two biggest reasons women cheat, says sex researcher Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., are that they feel undesired or unattractive, especially as they become older.

Sex is one way to fix it, but another is to appreciate her for who she is, not who you want her to be.

Living With An Infidel, Physically And Emotionally Battered – Do Women Have 9 Lives?

A huge percentage of women, if not all, have probably been with men who have either cheated on them, battered them, financially disabled them or ended up humiliating them beyond measure. So why will these women rise to see another day, put a smile on their faces, go about making their careers beautiful with all the heartache? Is it the pain that drives them or

So why will these women rise to see another day, put a smile on their faces, go about making their careers beautiful with all the heartache? Is it the pain that drives them or do they have 9 lives?

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From time immemorial, women have been treated like disposable objects to men and mistreated. Their abilities not seen or appreciated.

Ladies, Here Are The Telling Signs He’s NOT Busy, You’re Just Irrelevant To Him

Their hearts are broken over and over again yet they go through the pain of bearing children, raising them on their own and still expected to have a career. Regardless, they end up letting their guard down when a man is involved. The question begs, why should they?

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Men were meant to be the heads of the home, priests who guide the family and lead them to what is Godly. In this day in age, however, women have taken up this role while their men are busy entertaining younger women. Many are wallowing in filth as they disown the very people that loved them when all they had to offer was love.

And for what reason? “The sex is boring, she gained weight, she earns more than I do, it gets boring being with one woman, the other woman made me feel like a king,” are just some of the nonsensical reasons for their behaviour.

My response? If your wife for 10 years hadn’t nurtured your kingdom for that long, these shisha smoking, Guarana drinking, yolo confused youngsters would surely spit on your face!

But at the end of it all, I feel that women indeed have 9 lives. This is  quite enough space to take a man’s crap and turn it into something beautiful.


The Effects Of A Broken Heart – Devoted Couple Who Were Married For 75 Years Who Died Just Days Apart

A devoted couple who were married for 75 years have been buried side-by-side at the church where they wed – after one passed away within days of the other due to a “broken heart”.

Jim, 101 and Hilda Leach, 98, celebrated their diamond wedding anniversary on December 9th, 2016, marking 75 years since they tied the knot in World War Two.

Just days after their family party in Rushton Spencer, near Macclesfield, Cheshire, Jim passed away peacefully with Hilda by his side on December 17th at their home.

But their family said heartbroken Hilda did not want to be parted from her husband – and on January 2nd, she also passed away.

READ; Ladies, Here Are The Telling Signs He’s NOT Busy, You’re Just Irrelevant To Him

Now the couple – who had two daughters, five grandchildren, and four great-grandchildren – have been buried during a joint funeral at St Mary’s Church in Bosley, Cheshire.

The church is also the same spot where in the couple got married, just as Jim was heading off to fight in the war.

Daughter, Anne Brooker said: “They were together for 75 years and mum said there was nothing to live for after dad died.

“Dad had seen everyone at the anniversary and said his goodbyes and it was his time to go, and when dad went it was time for mum to go too.

“It was a shock when mum went so quickly after losing dad but they kept going for each other. It was really emotional saying goodbye to both of them at the funeral.

“They got married in that church, their coffins were together at the service and they were buried together. They were together right until the end.”

As World War Two broke out, he met trainee chiropodist Hilda by chance at a dance.

Instantly smitten, the couple were engaged for a year before Jim was conscripted into the Army in 1941 so they had a quick wedding.


Daughter Anne described both her parents as “determined”, explaining how her mum stunned doctors years ago by fighting back to full health after contracting polio and being told she would never walk again.

She explained: “Mum and dad were both very determined. They were a wonderful couple.

“Family and community were very important to both of them. We’ll miss them very much.”




Divorcées confess exactly what ruined their marriages

When two people promise to spend a lifetime together on their wedding day, they expect those vows to last forever. But even after swearing to be there through the good and the bad, sometimes the bad is enough for one person to serve the other with a stack of divorce papers.

But what does it really mean to have “irreconcilable differences“? From extramarital affairs to personality clashes, this is what ultimately caused these people to throw in the towel on marriage;


“About six years into my marriage, I found out my husband was cheating on me when I walked in on him with one of our neighbors. We had been married for a good chunk of time, but I had no choice but to file for divorce that same week. It wasn’t something I could forgive and forget. It was painful to say goodbye and start life over, but sometimes that’s just how life and love is. You think you know someone and that you’ll stay with them no matter what, but that’s not realistic. People break your heart no matter how many times they promise they won’t.” —Trisha A., 32

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“The only thing we ever talked about toward the end of our marriage was how we didn’t have enough money for anything we wanted. We were renting an apartment and wanted to buy a house, but we couldn’t afford to because we had stacks of credit card debt and student loans to pay off. It became a nightmare because every conversation and fight was about making more or saving more money. We drove ourselves into misery and just both decided this wasn’t the life we wanted to live. We decided to go our separate ways after two years of marriage and two years of dating.” —Carla H., 29

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“My job was super demanding. I was promoted to the role of VP of marketing for a tech start-up I worked at for three years. I was working 70 hours a week, minimum, plus weekends. My husband didn’t like this at all. Mainly because he would come home from work before me and have to make his own dinner and do his own laundry. I was anything but a housewife. He should have known that when he married me. I think he did. He just thought eventually I’d give up my career. But I kept getting promoted and loving what I was doing. In the end, he asked me to pick my job or him. We got a divorce. We were only married for a year-and-a-half, so it wasn’t that hard to split up.” —Jana L., 35

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“One thing I wish I did before I even said yes to getting married to this person was talk about serious topics like having kids and how we would raise these kids, meaning what values and religious beliefs we’d instill in them. About a year into the marriage, I mentioned that I wanted to start trying to have kids. He looked at me with utter shock. It turned out he didn’t want kids, ever. He swears he mentioned that to me when we were dating. I think he did once, but super casually. I thought he didn’t really mean it or he would change his mind. But he refused. I admit that I messed up by not having this conversation with him beforehand so that I knew he was so against having kids. Having kids was something I wanted enough that it made me realize I need to get out of this marriage.” —Mary J., 28

“When your family doesn’t gel well, nothing will. My parents didn’t like him or his parents. His parents liked me, but not my parents. Our backgrounds were completely different: My family is from Africa and his is from Texas. Because our family fought so much, it made us fight. Their differences became our differences, and it just wasn’t working out anymore.” —Jocelyn K., 27

Revenge is best served cold; this man learnt his lesson when he cheated on his scorned wife enough times

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. Until every man learns that, the rate of male mortality can only increase. While you’re busy thinking you’re hurting your wife beyond measure, be careful, watch your back because every woman has a plan and a come-back. The lady below gave her husband not a taste, but doses of his own medicine when she decided to get revenge for all the years she’s endured his cheating. Read on;

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“I cheated on my husband and am the happiest woman in the world. Ever since I got married to this animal I call my husband,he has constantly disrespected our marital vows and rub shit on my face. He does not just sleep around but I don’t know if he gives them my number to call me and mock me. I get lots of calls from different small girls insulting me and calling me names. Still my husband will have the guts to come home and throw my legs open, give me lots of infections and give me money to treat my self. 

I endured this for 4 years and decided to leave the marriage but I promised to cheat on him before I do. So I targeted his elder brother slept with him, targeted one of his elder sisters son who just clocked 18 years, slept with him and lastly I slept with his boss in the office which I have decided to be his mistress since marriage is just child’s play. When I was done I told him all about it, packed my things and left him but I was very lucky he did not kill me that night because he was mad and breaking things in the house. I heard he fought his elder brother and broke his head lol. I also heard he wants to kill himself, lol. That was how I left him. Am currently with his boss now and my life is better. His boss wants me to be his baby mama, so I need you all to advise me. Should I have a baby for his boss or just keep it straight and just sex? Don’t even tell me about karma cause I was innocent when other gals destroyed mine.”

Girls, why are you still with a man who is a serial cheater? Asks Maina Kageni (AUDIO)

A lady called Maina yesterday and said that she is tired of submitting. She has been submitting but her man has been cheating left, right and centre, being aggressive when confronted and is not willing to talk about it. She said she is fine with her child, she doesn’t need that kind of treatment.

Mwalimu felt that these men have no idea they are cereal cheaters. According to him, women throw themselves on these men and apparently because they have a ‘good heart’, women label it as cheating. He said that a woman wants to be the only one in a man’s life and that’s almost impossible.

Maina then asked; “Girls, you know he is a serial womanizer, why are you still with him?”

Listen in;

Trouble in paradise? You can now get a divorce through a phone app

It can feel like 21st century life is completely controlled by our phones.

We use them to work out when to go to sleep, what to buy, where to go on holiday, what to eat.

There’s very little you can’t do with an app.

And now we can add getting a divorce to that list, because someone’s just developed an app which will help you terminate your marriage.

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Amicable claims to be a ‘faster, fairer, fixed-price way to separate’, which helps users make arrangements for their children, split their finances fairly and deal with paperwork.

The app offers arbitration, a divorce coach and lots of practical advice to help people reach a fairer divorce faster, to simplify the process and reduce their costs.

‘Our aim is to create a dialogue between parting couples so they can, for example, successfully co-parent children after a split and not make an enemy of their ex,’ they say on their website.

‘We want to help all couples stay amicable throughout their divorce or separation.’

The key thing is that the app claims to offer a cheaper divorce services than most traditional outlets.

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‘Amicable’s aim is to give you options to sort things out starting with the cheapest way of doing things,’ they explain.

The actual app is free and is designed so that you could use it to do your divorce yourself.

‘Our divorce coach service gives you some extra help to make agreements and help with all the legal paperwork.

They also offer free divorce advice, as well as running a blog which has lots of first-hand pieces from couples and parents who have gone through the process.

The question now is: whens the first app wedding occurring?

To the lovebirds, these are the 5 dangerous marriage trends to avoid In 2017

At its heart, marriage is very similar across times and cultures. Men and women were designed for one another. In other ways, marriage is continually changing.

In 2017, there are five dangerous trends to avoid in marriage:

Placing children before marriage to the detriment of both

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Children are important, but one of the best ways we can love them is by loving each other. Remember: when you put your children before your spouse, both lose. When you put your spouse before your children, both win.

Denying that struggling in one of the three major roles of a spouse isn’t that significant

A spouse is called to be three main things – friend, partner and lover. Too many husbands/wives ignore one of those areas and deceive themselves into thinking they make up for it in another area.  While it’s useful to build on strengths, each of these three roles must be mastered for a successful marriage.

Failing to create proper boundaries to protect themselves and their marriage


Good people will make bad decisions, in part, because they will have failed to create basic boundaries to protect themselves from temptation. If you don’t have several guardrails in your life – rules to live by in regards to the opposite sex, friends who care enough to ask the tough questions, and a true awareness of your ability to make horrible decisions – you are risking a lot.

Ignoring routine marriage maintenance

Couples must continually find ways to reconnect, check-in, and make sure the key components are working properly. Too many couples go months without a real conversation, a nice date, a break from the routine, or making a true connection. We are fooling ourselves if we believe our marriages can thrive without taking time to work on the marriage.

Waiting too long to get help

Every couple will likely need help both individually and together at various times throughout their marriage. Be quick to call a counselor if you go through a rough patch, have an issue you can’t make progress on, or just want to get a marital check-up.

‘I’m allergic to my husband’ woman suffers from a rare disorder of the immune system making her allergic to almost everything

Twenty-nine-year-old Johanna Watkins from Minnesota cannot kiss her husband Scott, or even spend time in the same room as him. She suffers from Mast Cell Activation Syndrome, a rare disorder of the immune system, which means she is allergic to almost everything, including her husband’s scent.

Johanna and Scott Watkins’s date nights are very different from other couples.

“Scott and I will try to watch a show together. We can’t be in the room together, because I’m allergic to him, but he will be three floors below me in a room on his laptop and I will be on mine and we’ll watch the show at the same time and then text about it as we’re watching it,” says Johanna.

Johanna lives in an attic room all by herself with sealed windows and doors, and air filters to purify the air. She has a severe form of Mast Cell Activation Syndrome (MCAS) in which the cells that are meant to protect her from outside threats mutate and start attacking her body instead.

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The symptoms and severity of the disease can vary from patient to patient, but it makes Johanna allergic to virtually everything and can trigger life-threatening anaphylactic shock.

Before she married her husband Scott in 2013 Johanna did not expect her condition to become so severe. She worked as a teacher and the couple used to love hiking together. Even then she struggled with unusual rashes, irritable bowel syndrome and migraines, but these ailments became much worse after the couple married.

“There were times three and four years ago, before we got the diagnosis, that if I was extra close to my wife, specifically if my face was close to Johanna’s face, she would cough,” says Scott.

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But it was only last year that the couple realised they had become unable to physically share their life together.

“We had noticed that when Scott would come in [to the room] I would start feeling worse and worse. My normal daily symptoms would just be aggravated,” says Johanna. “And then at one point he went to get his haircut and came back in the room and within two minutes I had started my anaphylactic symptoms and he had to leave.”

A week later Scott tried to see his wife again, but the same thing happened, and they realised their lives would have to change dramatically.

“It was this horrible reality that it wasn’t going to work,” says Johanna. “I was now reacting strongly to my husband. Before this I had reacted to my parents, to many, many other people, but it was horrific when it became Scott.”

The treatment and medication that is usually given to MCAS sufferers does not help Johanna, so at the moment the couple do not know when – if ever – their situation will change.

“There’s not an easy way around this problem. I want to keep Johanna safe and me going to see her compromises her safety,” says Scott. “One of the ways I can take care of her now is by not going to see her. I’m not going to endanger her life. We’re absolutely committed to one another and we’re going to wait as long as it takes to see if there is some kind of healing.”

Doctors are trying different treatments, but none so far have helped.

Ladies, would you tell your girlfriend if you found out her husband was cheating?

The notion goes like; “Women are their own worst enemies,” but in this case, what would you advice a lady to do? Her friend’s marriage seems to be working, everything is okay until you are cursed with the revelation that her husband is cheating. You don’t want to lose her as a friend, you also don’t want to hide news that could potentially save her life. So, what do you do? This remains a controversial topic thus the lady below took to social media in need of advice. Read on;

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“I and my husband have been married for two years after dating for five years, so practically we have been together for seven years, ever since I knew my husband, he has one close friend,his paddy from the university, they are so close, if not inseparable. His friend has also been married for a year, I and his wife got to become friends, not so close though but we relate well as we are almost, if not age mates. She’s a nice warm person. Recently I got to find out that her husband is cheating on her with an older woman, the fact is that he is emotionally attached to the lady. I got to know through a chat he had with my husband on whatsapp. Right now he’s having a little rift with my husband because he told him to stop. Telling his wife is out of the question because I can’t even bring myself to say it, she might not believe me. And I don’t want to be a bearer of bad news. Maybe am being too emotional about it. Please advise me on how to let go of this? “

3 reasons why pre-marriage counselling is good for you

Considering the rate at which marriages transform to divorces, it will be unwise of anyone not to be prepared enough before going into it.

Every form of advice is needed before venturing into marriage, and this is why pre-marriage counselling is a very important thing for couples preparing for marriage.

Below are three reasons why you should never pass up the chance to get pre-marriage counselling…

It’s a form of approval

Going for marriage counselling sessions with your religious head does not only afford you and your partner the opportunity of getting prepared for the married life ahead of you, it also serves as a form of final approval for your wedding ceremony to go ahead, if, after the counselling sessions, your Imam or Pastor says, you and your partner can go ahead and marry.

In addition, there is a strong likelihood that each meeting with them will include some prayer sessions too. That’s an added advantage, right?

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Third party intervention

While discussing marriage and reaching compromises, you and your partner might have a few unresolved issues.

Discussing these issues with a third party [marriage counsellor] will create a better chance of finding a common ground on them.

The experience will surely benefit you

Whether you go meet a professional counsellor or you choose your religious leader, chances are that they are married and they have a lot of experience in what you are yet to begin.

They would be answering your questions from both their experience and the experiences of several other people they have helped over the years.

This can only benefit you and your partner – in more ways than one as a matter of fact.

Mum escapes domestic violence – defies odds to rebuild life with kids in amazing way

A woman and her kids built a big house from scratch to escape domestic violence by following YouTube tutorials.

Single mum Cara Brookins, from Bryant in Arkansas, worked with her kids Roman, Jada, Hope, and Drew to plan and construct the five-bedroom property, which they named Inkwell Manor.

Cara, a senior computer analyst and author, told BuzzFeed that it was back in 2007 when she came up with the plan.

She was driving home after a weekend away when she spotted a tornado-hit house reduced to rubble. The scene inspired her to pick up some tools and do some family DIY.

“It made me think, ‘what if we bought some 2x4s and sheet rock and put that together?'” she said.

“What would our dream house be? Would we want to build it?”

Cara’s children were 17, 15, 11, and 2 back when they began building their dream home together. And it was as much about rebuilding their lives as it was a house.

The mum was worried her kids would have “no self-esteem and no confidence.”

She herself had suffered abusive relationships in her 20s and 30s and has twice been divorced.

“The reality is when you’re facing that level of terror, you’re all just in survivor mode,” she told BuzzFeed .

“Each one of you is just trying to make it through the day. I worried that if they left home I’d never see them again.”

So Cara built her own family sanctuary. Somewhere she and her children could start again in safety. She bought the tools, the materials, and followed online ‘how-to’ guides, even laying the foundations, erecting the wooden house frame, and tiling the floors. It took a long while – but they got there.

“We were exceptionally naive, but sometimes ignorance takes the place of courage,” she said.

“As we were trying to do this, we were also learning how to communicate.”

The family have been living in Inkwell Manor for eight years. Cara said her kids did benefit from the experience, and that they’re “fearless,” ready to “dive into anything.”

Cara and her family’s journey is fully documented in her new book, Rise, which comes out on January 24.




“I Love Another Man” People Confess Reasons They Regret Getting Married In Candid And Sad Posts

For many people, getting married is both the happiest day of their life and the best decision they’ve ever made.

However, others sorely regret saying ‘I do’, with reasons ranging from the selfish to the truly heartbreaking.

Plenty are sexual, with one woman admitting she misses ‘hooking up with strangers’ and a husband lamenting his lack of a sex life – although one woman says she regrets becoming a wife because her husband treats her ‘like a sex toy’.

Others are more emotional, as one wife admits she’s ‘in love with another man’, and one husband insists his wife is simply ‘taking advantage of her’.

One upset person said their spouse ‘no longer shows any love’, adding: ‘My heart hurts.’

One woman may simply regret the fact that she married a man, as she confesses: ‘I think I’m a lesbian.’

One person revealed they felt alone in their marriage, despite marrying their ‘best friend’. Some reasons were sexual, with one woman admitting she missed the thrill of sex with strangers.

One woman didn’t seem to have specific problems with her marriage from her end, except for the fact that her husband was making it clear he was so unhappy with her

One woman’s rather selfish reason for regretting getting married was that she missed the attention she commanded when single. Another woman’s concerns were financial, as she admitted her husband wasn’t ambitious enough

Check out the searingly honest posts below. Wow!

Man killed as lover sets house ablaze in Eldoret

A man was killed after his lover doused their house with petrol and set it ablaze at Shauri estate in Eldoret.

The middle aged jua kali artisan was burnt beyond recognition and residents said the two had been having domestic squabbles.

Police are looking for the woman who escaped after the incident. She poured petrol in the house as the man was asleep.

The man’s daughter Mary Njagi claimed that the attacker had been their maid.

Woman bashed on social media for desperately seeking advice on how to break up a marriage

This woman must have been demented thinking everyone would sympathise with her situation when she posted what was considered ‘garbage’, but to her surprise, she got bashing that made her wish she never asked. Read on;

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“I love married men so much,the ring on the finger is a complete turn on for me. All my life I have only dated married men and life has been too easy for me. Married men don’t stress you, they just bless you with cash and affection. They don’t even sex you that much they just want to feel you a little. My biggest challenge now is the married man am currently dating loves his wife so much but I love him more, am pregnant for him but he does not want the child. Please how can I make him drive the wife away and Marry me?”

This are some of the responses that made her wish she never asked;

break_or_makeup;” when you sell shame and buy disgrace 😏 it’s alright.”

ms_seyii; “This is where the importance of a wife’s prayers comes in..her plan surely will never work…remember No sinner will go unpunished!! Even after u repent!!”

yteeza; “You want advise to break a home?I pray the fire of the Holy Ghost will consume you. Have you forgotten what karma is? Let me remind you. It’s a bitch and will come back for you if you don’t leave that man alone.”

sophy_anderson;”Repent my sister, there’s no hope there because what God has joined together let no man put asunder.”

eno_louis; “I smell Idiocy… NEXT!!”

damuzikdiva; “I command the ministering angel of God that are watching over that man’s wife to chase u with a flaming broom of fire. For the fact that u wish evil on another, u will not know peace! If u dare to abort that child, the blood would be upon your head. Amen!”


Singer Fantasia Taylor talks about patience in seeking marriage and why she was so sure she was ready for marriage three weeks after meeting her husband (VIDEO)

The American Idol winner, who married hubby Kendall Taylor in 2015, 3 weeks after meeting him, seemed pretty confident saying ‘I do’. She took to her Instagram page after her wedding to share a bevy of beautiful wedding photos;

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Fantasia Barrino, Wedding

One adorable pic showed the now 33-year old singer flashing a giant smile while hugging her man just moments after they said “I do.” Barrino made for one gorgeous blushing bride as she stunned in her white wedding gown. The dress featured lace sleeves with flower details paired with a white crown around her head. As for her bouquet, Barrino held on to several red roses accented with jewels.

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Fantasia Barrino, Wedding

She posted this beautiful message;

“How Happy I am.. This Man.. God made him just for Me and me Just For Him.. This Man.. Covers and prays for me and my children EVERY morning.. This Man.. Loves My Father in Heaven and his name is God.. This Man allows me to just be a woman.. No more Hurt because King Kendall will never let that happen.. I’m off to just kiss, Hug and play in some water with This Man.. Look at Him in the pic YEP!! HE COVERS ME.. Be Happy with me you guys cause I’ve been thru SOOOOO much. Some stuff was my wrong decisions but all I ever really wanted was this.. Real Love. This Man and this smile is real.”

The couple is still strong and happier than ever. She was recently interviewed by Madame Noire where she opened up about her marriage and how she knew he was the one three weeks after meeting him.

Check out the video;

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Heads Up Guys, These Are Some Sure Ways To Get Your Wife To Stop Nagging

‘Nyweh Nyweh Nyweh’….I’d like to think this is the sound guys hears once the wifie starts nagging and for many, it’s not a pleasant experience.

The reason women get a bad reputation for nagging, which is not the most efficient way to get things done…yet continue to do it anyway.

This is primarily due to a lack of communication. Communication is one of the things that can make or break a marriage – depending on how efficient it is.

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So why does your wife nag?

She’s not your maid

If your typical routine is to come home from work, sit on the couch and not move until it’s time for bed, then there’s your problem. That’s the reason she keeps asking you to do the same things over and over. Take a few seconds and look around before leaving a room; The less of a mess you leave, the happier your wife will be.

She isn’t sure you’re listening

If your wife asks you to take out the garbage, how long does it usually take you to do it? If you’re a person who doesn’t respond right away, or someone who forgets the favor while staring at the TV, that’s why she has to rephrase and repeat the question…constantly.

She can’t do it all alone

Contrary to popular belief, not all women want to do everything a man does. And if you’ve done her a favor in the past (like putting holes in the walls for pictures) chances are she’ll wait for you to do it again next time. If this task will take two days to complete, think about taking a day off of work and work on it or schedule out your weekend plans accordingly.

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You don’t spend enough time with her

When you get married, any and all best friends should take the back seat. Your wife should be your best friend. She should be the one you go to for advice. If you have a problem between the two of you, you discuss it with her, not your friends.