A Lagos based socialite named Pretty Mike has got the internet buzzing after turning up at a friends wedding with his six wives. The wives were all pregnant and he invited each individually to introduce them and rub their glowing bellies.
The internet is now referring to him as doing ‘King Sh*’ a term used to show a man is the GOAT.
The man introduced them as his baby mamas and not one of the ladies looks salty about this show off might.
Mike in his bio insists he is a club owner. and for the wedding appearance, he was in the company of six heavily pregnant women. Mike claimed that they were all his baby mamas. Interestingly, all the ladies wore matching silver outfits and Mike looked dapper in a lovely pink suit.
“The matter is still in court but there are some things I can talk about”
An one of these things is the little detail of just when they broke up, was it during the trial or before?
“For many women there is always that man you meet then things go south” she painfully began recounting her love journey with Jowie in 2018.
“This man was that person for me, the one that you feel like if i ever had regrets this is it, if regrets was a person this is it, i dont like to speak about him coz people are gonna say oh your bitter, I just don’t talk about him out of respect for him moving on. I want to correct the fact that he said we broke up when we were in prison, we had broken up before prison, he is not someone would like to mudsling, and I will talk about it wholey when the case is over. I have heard so many stories about our breakup, but we will talk later”
She also spoke about meeting him for the first time and instantly liking him
“He was very nice. I will never come out and say anything contrary to that, and I think it’s important to know someone, I knew him for a year, at the time, I felt I knew him and I thought at the time we were ready and he never pressured me. and without getting into details because of the gag order everything was going well in my career path, until one day when time stood still”
Amina Mude and her husband KTN news anchor, Ben Kitili exchanged sweet nothings on Monday, commemorating their 2 year wedding anniversary.
All this didn’t seem possible a few months ago when Amina revealed that she and her man had separated, writing at the time,
“Ben and I are currently ‘separated’. I don’t know what the future holds but am grateful for the beautiful memories and definitely the beautiful kids we made. It’s been one month of pain and tears but I know that one day the light will shine,” wrote Amina Mude.
But Amina would quickly retract her earlier statement blaming her earlier announcement on a “moment of anger”. She said bloggers blew her statement out of proportion when they reported that the pair had broken up.
“In life it’s very important to own up to your shortcomings! ❤❤❤ Hey babe @benkitili I remember when we got married, you told me ‘listen Mulky after all is said and done, marriage is not a bed of roses’ I just smiled and thought ni zile advise zako mingi za life. But last week it was so clear that you were right, one moment of anger made me write something stupid and the bloggers blew it out of proportion,” wrote Mude.
She continued: “I have learnt my lessons the hard way. As a wife, it’s my duty to respect and protect my Husband. And so, I want to clear the air, Ben and I are married. He will always be the man I love and honour all the days of my life #learningfrommymistakes #forwardtogether.”
Amina also deleted a significant number of her photos on Instagram, leaving behind posts related to her weight loss journey.
Ben himself has never directly addressed his marriage troubles, it seems that the couple has been working had at maintaining their relationship, something I commend them for.
And why I am writing this article?
To remind men and women that they shouldn’t announce their relationship issues to the on-line in-laws while they are on-going. Do it after you have settled issues and you are at a great place and time-The way Michelle Obama announced the marriage issues that she had had with Barack long after the fact when things were good on the homefront.
The reason I advise this is that some people in Kitili’s scenario would have seen his wife’s confession as the ultimate form of disrespect. Opening up their marriage to the carnivorous public instead of solving their issue behind closed doors.
Amina is lucky that Ben was willing to forgive her moment of “anger” and move on. Some men (and women) would not ignore the slight and instead see it as the end of their relationship.
Who doesn’t play around with thoughts about being unlucky in love? Many of us struggle with this and are often left feeling jaded.
We question why some are always lucky to land the man or woman of their dreams and everything is lovey dovey. So what happens to the rest of us who are ‘unlucky in love’?
Here are reasons why we are unlucky in love.
You’re dating to have fun: Being with someone to pass time Kenyans have normalized this ‘just having fun until I’m ready’ thing. The truth is, it’s often not the fact that you are “cursed” in love. Instead, it’s your own actions that are preventing your desired outcome.
The excuse that I’m bad at relationships: People are not bad at relationships, our casual attitude is what makes our relationships appear unlucky in love.
Not labelling a relationship: When we are unable to answer the ‘what are we’ question we make things casual so that we don’t scare away the other person therefore, we continue to hook up with him/her endlessly.
Just incase: Many of us are guilty of dating multiple partners, just in case one doesn’t work out, we have another to fall back on and to test them if they are for keeps.
Obsession with the ex: When you still pinning your hopes on your ex coming back, we ruin our chances at real love. The sooner you snap out of this delusion, the higher chance you have of finding something better.
How many times have you heard out there a married man bragging that his woman is fine, he doesn’t need to worry about things at home? Sound familiar?
This situation is very common according to one woman who called in to the Classic 105 show, to share tips on family finances.
Just read this quote first before we get into it.
Girls, it is your right to expect a man to pay for your dinner, your movie ticket, your club entry fee, or anything he has to pay for in exchange for your time. began comedian TV show host Steve Harvey.
The upset woman said to Maina Kageni that
the number one mistake women make with these men especially when you land yourself a stingy man is showing them you can be independent, especially financially.
You show a man you can take care of all your financial needs, rub it in his face? The day you come to him and ask for a coin, trust me aki sha zoea, whatever he will give you will be little or nothing knowing that you have money, when he gets used to being shown that you are financially independent?
You don’t hear them bragging out there ati my mama is a mama who sorts herself out. so this thing of miss independent it blows. the day you are needy that man won’t care.
So what should a woman do?
From the word go let that man spend on you let him take care of you teach him how to spend on you, so girls out there, let them listen
What are some of the romantic songs you would play for your boo? I have come come up with a list of songs, that have been played over time and are timeless.
You don’t only need to wait for Valentines just for you to show some affection to your boo or for anniversaries or special occasions. You can do it as often as possible to keep the flames of your relationship still burning.
It has been argued time and time again that Kenyan men have no hint of being romantic, neither do they know how to show affection to the ladies.
I would like to challenge and give them this task of making the relationship more spicy and entertaining, not only in the bedroom but also outside it.
For starters, you will never go wrong with Lionel Richie, the most successful male solo artists of the ’80s, arguably eclipsed during his 1981-1987 heyday.
Richie dominated the pop charts during that period with an incredible run of 13 consecutive Top Ten hits, five of them number ones. Some of the his songs you could listen to are,
I call it it love
Another all time favorite, is the late Whitney Houston who was cited as the most awarded female artist of all time by Guinness World Records and remains one of the best-selling music artists of all time with 200 million records sold worldwide. Her music is timeless and gives you goosebumps just by listening to the late icon’s voice. Her songs are:
I will always love you
I wanna dance with somebody
I look at you
Fantasia who rose to fame as the winner of the third season of the reality television series American Idol in 2004, sweeps everybody with her angelic voice, that puts you in a baby making mood to a hot date type night. Her songs that will keep you all night;
When I see U
Another songbird that could get our knickers all entangled up is none other than Mariah Carey. With her five-octave vocal range, melismatic singing style, and signature use of the whistle register makes all lovebirds just cuddle up and make merry for her voice and personality just turns you on. Songs that will keep you energetic and lovey dovey are;
We belong together
Always be my baby
Charlie Wilson aka Uncle Charlie an American R&B singer who’s voice doesn’t need no recognition. As the lead singer of The Gap Band, Wilson defined the sound of R&B and funk in the 1980s with hits like;
You dropped a bomb on me
There goes my baby
Call these songs bedroom music, or quiet storm, or mood setters, if you really want to be polite about it. But basically, they are love mvking songs—songs about getting a little somethin.’
But these are just some of them to chose from, don’t be boring when it comes to being in a relationship.
In a recent interview with Chumba Cha Umbea, the actress said seeing Zari pregnant with Diamond’s kid, in such a short time, hurt her immensely. “The first, second month and Zari is already pregnant. It really tormented me for a long time, almost a year. I was very certain that I was the problem,” she explained.
Through the interview, Wema confesses that learning about Zari’s first pregnancy with Diamond hurt her for a while; but after the baby was born, she slowly started letting go. “I used to look at Zari like she was living a life that was meant for me. So it hurt, just seeing Tiffah being born. But it’s just life,” she said.
Wema also wished that she had become a mother and wondered what she lacked to have such a life.
But his post got one Kenyan lady going by the name of Catherine all hot and bothered. The sister told the Bahati’s that they have nothing special that people can envy. “Wivu ya nini sasa…what do you guys have that is so special”
But the Bahati was having none of that nonsense on his Instagram page and went hard stating that the fan in question was hating on his family yet she can’t even post her own photos online.
That wasn’t all, Bahati even warned Catherine that she linked committing suicide if she went on having such negative energy.
“@Catherine, First we have Faces that we are proud of to post. I wonder how you look kama ukona na zero posts. Ukiendelea kukaa na hiyo roho chafu hivyo soon Utajinyonga akii” replied Bahati.
While his response might seem overblown(and it is), I understand where the singer is coming from. The singer and his wife easily have the most haters online who constantly lampoon the couple for every little detail in their lives.
Diamond’s sister, Esma Platnumz’s got married 3 months ago in a glitzy and glamorous wedding but it seems that the relationship is over and done with. This according to Esma who revealed this information last week and blamed her husband for being the cause of its demise.
But her husband Msizwa refuted her claim saying as the husband in the relationship only he could divorce her. But while the relationship status might hang in the air depending on who you ask, for me the marriage is all but done.
There is no going back despite what Msizwa is saying. But I digress. My reason for writing this article is Esma’s recent post attacking some of the women Diamond brings home.
“@diamondplatnumz you are going to add a few kilos by the time Zari is leaving. She is not like those women who feed you on fries. When I visit and find them there I will chase them away,” added Esma.
Her post seemed like the kettle calling the pot black, according to many of her critics who called her out, a sentiment I agree with.
How can she offer relationship advice but still not be able to maintain a successful marriage? Doesn’t she see the irony of the circumstances she is in?
At least Diamond’s women can give the excuse of not being married to the star where they asked why their respective relationships ended? The phrase, “Why buy the cow if you get the milk?” would adequately refer to Diamond and his women.
You see they have an excuse not to fully invest in the philanderer who changes women more than a socialite changes her nails. So if it fails, they can say they didn’t put all their effort in-Husband things for husbands, not boyfriends!
But Esma doesn’t have that excuse. Mziswa although a polygamist had committed to her, then what was her problem really? I think Esma isn’t made for marriage life-She loves her independence. She wants to be married but behave like a single woman while in it.
Funny thing is that her ex Petit Man had foreseen the difficulty of dating his baby mama. During her wedding, Petit Man insisted that Esma ignores very serious problems in her character, something that will continue to make any other marriage doomed.
The man said in a past interview;
“I have missed her alot. Esma is so proud and cursed. It’s tricky handling Esma because of her pride, her attitude and I’m sure there is no other man out there who can put up with her like I can. No one. Sidhani kuna mwanaume mwingine anaweza kuvumilia ujeuri wa Esma.”
At the end of the day, Esma will never have a long-time relationship unless she deals with the person in the mirror-the one who loves her independence more than she loves being tied down. But can she?
Maina and King’ang’i spoke about wives who create chaos and suffering for their very loving husbands. The host was shocked that women like this (mabibi mang’aa) existed.
The presenter wondered how this could take place in a country where the men were reported to be the heads of homes. King’ang’i explained to him that it was happening more than people actually knew and that the husbands of these women were normally some of the coolest men out there.
I can’t remember the last time I got home before my wife-A man sadly said about his bibi mang’aa.
Some times you visit someone and you see the way the wife behaves, I tell myself that I would like 10 minutes with that woman so that I can deal with her and make her a good wife-A man said.
Don’t such women know that they are inflicting fear on men who want to get marrie?-A woman asked.
Those kids called kababa are doomed. You are the head of the home and should behave as such. This women start by testing you. How can a man confess that his woman is seating on him? Leave her and go to another one that you can handle. Whether you are a billionaire, all women love an authoritative man-A man said.
It seems like Diamond Platnumz’s family is cursed as far as relationships go. The famous Tanzanian family is facing the sad news that sister Esma Platnumz’s marriage has ended after less than 3 months.
Esma who was married to Msizwa Maulid, took to Instagram on Thursday, November 5 to break the news to her followers.
During a Question and Answer (Q&A) session on her page, Esma, who married Msizwa on July 30, 2020, said she has opted out of the relationship because her estranged husband was “hitting on every woman on his Instagram page”.
“[My marriage to Msizwa] was very bad. While with [my ex-husband] Petit Man, I couldn’t get offended when he was flirting with women on social media because he was famous. So, his friendly attitude on Instagram was understandable. However, I got married to a man who was not famous. As a result of my marriage to him, he instantly became famous and chose to revel in the fame. He would forget that he is someone’s husband and take pleasure in entertaining other women in his inbox,” said Esma.
Esma got married in a highly-publicised wedding to Msizwa as his 3rd wife. And why did she decide to marry such a man? “I wanted to learn a lesson. For you to learn some lessons in life, you must offer yourself as a sacrifice.”
Hahaha! Her reason for getting marriage takes the cake for me in terms of poor logic.
Davidson Ngibuini, alias Dng was recently interviewed on the YouTube page, Cleaning the Airwaves and opened up about his failed marriage to Yvette Nungari after just nine months.
“I got married in March 2015 but filed for divorce in December 2015. I think I fell in love with the idea that this marriage could work since I always wished to settle down and have a family of my own.”
The musician explained why his relationship to Yvette (whom he met in Dubai) didn’t work out.
“Fundamental ideological differences made my marriage not work. things like traditions, locations where we lived, and where the family was to be and wealth,” he said.
Dng added that he messed up when he ignored numerous red flags. “I was in love, i expected things to work, so i didn’t look at the red flags seriously, which I should have. The understanding that I had about a relationship is different. I now understand that people must be willing to walk in the same direction and walk with each other openly and be honest with each other. Those are lessons I shouldn’t have learnt had our marriage worked.”
The artiste also explained that he wasn’t going to go broke trying to impress a woman. “I was not going to take bank loans to impress a woman by getting them a good car and to show the society that I have made it,” he said.
On the divorce, he said that it was one of worst things that he has ever gone through in his life. “Time is a beautiful healer. It took me about a year but the scars are there for life. The memory is there; though it’s a non-issue, it is still there,” he said.
Kate revealed that she was once expelled from school, because of her character and love for drama, at the expense of her studies.
The actress went on to attend 2 high schools and 3 Universities, leaving each one for myriad reasons but thank God for a parent such as Kate’s mother.
Her mom was a rock for her daughter spending KSh400k to take her to an International University in Uganda, after studying at KCA proved difficult, only for her daughter to return home 3 months later, pregnant.
She would later get into Multimedia University after giving birth and leaning in as a new mother but was very lucky to later land her role at Mother-in-law which was the big break that she needed.
But that wasn’t the end of her big blessings. She would later on meet her now-husband film industry heavyweight, Phil Karanja.
Funny thing is that Kate wasn’t a fan of Phil’s but slowly came to appreciate him as they worked more and more together.
But since she was a package deal coming along with her son, his opinions about her new man were extremely important. The boy at the time didn’t like Phil from the beginning, but after some time, the two became close friends.
Bitter and vindictive ex baby mamas behave in the six ways this writer describes below
She doesn’t respect boundaries. By this I mean that she steps out of her place in that relationship, making it stressful for the tow parents to co parent. If you do the most to create unnecessary drama between your man and his current bae, then you are a jealous baby mama.
You blame the other woman for your problems: be it financial or emotional, a jealous baby mama squarely pins her troubles to the new love interest who has taken up your mans time and resources leaving you and your baby broke and unhappy.
She loves to bring up the past. a jealous baby mama will always rekindle memories int he hopes that she will make the other woman jealous and perhaps drive a wedge between the two lovers. My free advise? Leave what were your romantic memories in a vault and move on.
Being nosy: A jealous baby mama goes to all extent to find out details about her ex mans new relationship and will do things like snoop on their social media or meet up with his people to find out whatever moshene she can.
A jealous baby mama will talk trash about her mans new love interest. Some jealous baby mama’s even go to the extent of roping in his family to back bite his new babe to sway their opinion. Most times, this backfires especially when a man has resolved to move on.
Women who are facing threats from their husbands to take on a second wife have some solid advice in the form of Maina Kageni.
In the Tuesday morning conversation, Maina Kageni touched briefly on the topic of President Uhuru’s announcement that he is seeking a second wife. While many cheered him on, others were upset and said it is disrespectful for his wife.
Maina waded into the topic advising women to set boundaries when it comes to such matters.
He said “realize what your worth is. The reason they do this (take another wife) is because you let them. The moment you enforce your red line, he will comply. You need to set standards, you need to say hapa ni mwisho, usi[ite hapa”
A man tried to ague with Maina that even statistics say there are seven women to one man, so wives should share their husbands.
Maina blasted him saying
“At the end of the day, I want you to tell me what your woman lacks, what does she have to do to be enough for you? Me I don’t even think they wonder what you think, coz you are being told to your face you are inadequate for me, but it’s true we need to have this conversation, what does she lack that you have to go out there, you men you think you are perfect enough, no you are not, she is persevering you”
The Rubicon has well and truly been crossed by the couple and there is no turning back. In a long YouTube video, Maureen refuted claims that she wasn’t interested in getting back with Frankie.
“Those people saying am just bitter and that I want Frankie back, I don’t. I know what I want. I do not want someone who does not respect me nor my kids. I am in a happy place, my business is doing ok and I am ok.”
She then went ahead to turn tables claiming that it was Frankie who needs to move on from her, saying; “If I am the one who needs to move on why do you keep dragging my name down with you? you don’t have to drag me down for you to rise.”
Meanwhile, Frankie shared an alleged screenshot of a text message he received from Maureen in March this year. In the screenshot, Maureen, who seems to fed up with Frankie’s behaviour, tells him that he will never see his kids again.
“Mark my words, my kids will never step into that filthy house. i’ll let your mother and your entire family know. ruining your kids lives because of hoe’s a**. wow!” reads part of the text.
2. Remembering your past together hurts: Guys, no matter how long ago your relationship ended, you will feel a sense of loss and a blow to your ego more so if you happen to see photos online of them happy without you.
3. You are angry because you were vulnerable with that person and now they leave you knowing so many personal details about you. You wonder will they spill the information and embarrass you?
4. You ask yourself, ‘am I not good enough?’ Exes who were dumped lose sleep at night thinking what happened.
Dear Classic 105 fam, have you ever discovered your ex moved on and how did it feel? Drop us your comments below.