WAP rapper Cardi B files for divorce from Offset

Cardi B has filed for divorce from her husband and fellow hip-hop star Offset, from the band Migos. The New York rapper described their marriage as “irretrievably broken”.

The couple were wed in secret in 2017, and have a two-year-old daughter named Kulture.

Court records obtained by the PA news agency show that Cardi is asking for “primary physical custody” of the child, and wants Offset to contribute for “support and maintenance”.

Cardi, 27, whose real name is Belcalis Almanzar, filed for divorce on Tuesday in her husband’s home state of Georgia, where the couple has been living.

Legal documents state that Cardi B and Offset – whose real name is Kiari Cephus – are now living in a “bona fide state of separation”. There are “no prospects for a reconciliation,” they said.

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Cardi B, whose hits include WAP, Bodak Yellow and I Like It, is asking for their assets to be split evenly.

Cardi B and Offset married in a private ceremony in 2017, and did not publicly reveal the news of their nuptials until around a year later.

She announced they had split in December 2018, amid rumours of his cheating.

After apologising on Instagram for being being a “selfish, messed-up husband”, Offset then asked for forgiveness on-stage in front of a crowd at her Rolling Loud concert, where he pulled out a sign made of roses that read: “Take me back Cardi.”

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The rather public display of affection and apparent remorse was received poorly by Cardi B’s fans online, with some calling the move “toxic”.

However, she urged people not to bash him for trying. “I’m not saying that I’m gonna get back together with him, I just don’t like that bashing online thing,” she wrote on social media at the time, before the couple got back together.

In an interview with Cosmopolitan earlier in the same year, the provocative Grammy-winning Bronx performer said she wanted to work on the relationship, noting what he did was “not right” but that “I ain’t no angel”.

She celebrated their second wedding anniversary with a post on Instagram last year, alongside a picture of the two of them together. “We keep learning and growing. That’s what marriage about,” read the caption.

However, the relationship now appears to have come to an official end.


Wahu reveals the books that have inspired her successful 15-year marriage (exclusive).

Wahu Kagwi is a veteran of the Kenyan music industry. The gospel singer has seen it and done it all inspiring many young girls and women to strive for better in their lives.

She has been a great role model for many with her remarkable career and her blessed marriage showing that the oft-repeated phrase, “having it all” can indeed happen.

The singer who recently celebrated her 15th wedding anniversary was a candid interviewee, answering the first question I asked her about the book/books that had really helped her in her long marriage with Nameless?

She said that it was two books. 7 habits of highly effective people. 7 habits of highly effective families, the Bible and the power of a praying woman.”

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Nameless who had himself praised, “7 habits of highly effective people” in the past convinced his wife to read it, “He preached it like it was the Bible,” she giggled.

“It’s a really good book. This book is about being effective in every area of your life. I drew a lot of parallels with the Bible. There is a lot of content that mirrors the teachings of Christ in 7 habits.” she explained.

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And whose advice had really helped their marriage? Wahu stated that her older brother who was a motivational speaker was that person, saying;

“I can’t really say a couple. We have had friends that care and we’ve known them forever. They are good for bouncing off ideas. Of course, my brother who is a life coach. There are all these rules about not letting a family member be the person we go to but we told him to figure it out and deal with it. We told him that we liked him and that he should be balanced as he is my big brother.” she said as she laughed.

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10 things you must know before getting a boob job like Vera

Kenyan socialite has revealed in a youtube interview that she spent Sh2million to get a boob job.

The curvy socialite has always been pretty open about wanting to fix her body, and I guess having money helps.

“I wasn’t proportional…I used to be thick but not proportional so I just decided to be proportional and added mu Boobs and I at least don’t wear bras anymore…. It costed me $20000 (Sh.2 million). I got it done in Beverly Hills. They are actually good…. Because they don’t interfere with your breasts as you can still breastfeed. The Breast has like a ka-pocket that is empty, so they normally put the implant in that pocket, so it doesn’t interfere with anything in your breasts” Vera Sidika told Jalas

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So dear sistas, if you have some cash to blow and want to enhance your assets here are ten things you must know:

  1. Vera said she went to the best doctor. So according to her research not all “plastic surgeons” are board-certified. Don’t rush the process and sift through their credentials with a fine tooth comb, to find one you feel comfortable with.

2. You might temporarily lose feeling in your nipples
don’t let this freak you out because the nerves in your nipples can get stretched and might be stunned for a few weeks after surgery..

3. Breast augmentations or reductions could affect your ability to breastfeed
Vera insists this won’t happen to her. If the incision is near the nipple as the milk ducts and glands will be affected. Therefor a a qualified doctor will do a good job.

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With a reduction, you’re more likely to be removing areas of the breast that produce milk. Vera denies this saying she can still breastfeed. Let’s wait for her to give birth.

4.If you want it done in the USA , it will cost you from $3,947
This average total, according to the 2019 statistics from the American Society of Plastic Surgeons, is based on the surgeon’s fee only and does not include the cost of anesthesia, facilities, and materials (stitches, bandages, drapes, etc.). The price will also depend on your doctor, patient needs, and the surgery location.

5. Ask yourself some psychological questions like, how much does my look bother me, can I handle taking time off from work and my family, plus the risks you are exposing yourself to.

6. Hey mama’s you don’t have to wait until after you have kids, which could be decades when spacing
In between kids, you can get a boob job done. It’s a total myth that oen must wait until amemaliza kuzaa.

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7. You’ll need someone to help you in the days after surgery
If you are doing it abroad, it’s even more tricky as either you travel with a family memeber to help you or you pay up many dollars to get help in the country. You are going to be sore and with all the meds to reduce pain, one needs company.

8. What you see when you wake up isn’t what you end up with
Right after your surgery you’re going to have swelling and bruising, tht might shock you,but all tis will heal in time. it may take about 4 to 6 weeks, and thats where a helper comes in in point 7 above.

9. Don’t be fooled by pictures posted on social media

Things online look easy, cute and not a big deal. Just look at Doctor Miamis profile. Also investigate your doctor’s social media presence.

10. There are different types of procedures. Which do you want, and why?

All the best mys Kweens.

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Tanasha proves to Zari she is not after child support from Diamond


Back when Diamond hooked up with Tanasha, a salty Zari took to social media to warn her to be ready to be a single mother.

Zari referred to them as two idiots and Tanasha responded kindly saying

“I can never disrespect a woman I have never met and don’t even know simply so I can get a point across. I have no reason to hate to be honest. I am just a NOBODY who is out here grinding and tryna get these cheques, way too mature to tear another woman down. Yours sincerely, idiot,” posted Tanasha on Instagram.


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Tanasha Donna is really trying to be the best mother she can to her son, Naseeb Junior, as a single mother.

She has severally said in interviews that Diamond is not financially supportive when it comes to their son. She has said that she does it all by herself and it may not be easy but anything for her son.

Taking to social media, she was happy to announce that she finally has another home. She had shown us videos a while back of her working her way to secure the house and seems it has come to be. In as much as so many people doubted her move and of course trolled her.

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“@naseeb.junior your laugh is infectious my son… 🥰😂 Glad you love your new home… Your momma works day & night to make sure you good & she’s only getting started.. trust me. 🌎 It’s never easy doing it alone, pressure is real, but so worth it & as long as I’m alive, You will never lack… I promise you. Alhamdulillah. 🙏🏽 Allah is on our side. #weblessed 🙏🏽🥰🧸❤️❤️.” Tanasha Donna posted

Interestingly, last week in an interview with Lynn, she said she still loved Mr.Platnumz but she has moved on.

The same week, we saw Diamond, his baby mama, Hamisa and their son spend quality time together which got the attention of Tanzanians. He is stepping up his game and cleaning the record he had as a deadbeat father. From Zari to Hamisa so soon, we may hear a different story from Tanasha.

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Take heart Ruth Matete – These other celebs have also experienced grief and loss

Ruth Matete has gone through so much pain this year that I can’t even begin to contemplate how bad it has been for her.

For her, Covid-19 is most likely a footnote in 2020, the bigger story for the gospel singer is that she lost her husband BelovedJohn Apewajoy barely four months after they had gotten married.

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That event while tragic was made much worse after the Nigerian government prevented her from burying John, only allowing her to do so, 3 months after his untimely death.

Ruth took a break from social media to try and mourn in private, only emerging last month to update her fans on her progress.

Ruth who is pregnant with the late John’s son shared a heart-rending message yesterday. Ruth explained how tough the experience had been for her saying that she believed that she might have been taking a long time in the mourning phase.

“Truth is some days are very hard. When death knocks at your door, there’s nothing you can do. Some days, voices in my head tell me am taking too long in this mourning phase.”

But Ruth has promised herself that she will not be too hard on herself vowing to be patient in her journey.

I patiently wait for the day God will heal me totally. But then again, some days I doubt if this kind of pain can totally heal. So I ask God to give me a new heart instead. Till then, I’ll smile when God gives me a chance to. I will laugh when God allows me to. But above all, I will keep serving Him.

Ruth’s journey with grief mirrors some other prominent celebs who have also undergone the loss of a loved one. Some other celebs who have gone through harrowing experiences with loss are below;

Size 8 and Dj Mo

The couple had a miscarriage in late 2018 that threatened to harm the integrity of their marriage. Dj Mo said that they made sure they didn’t blame each other over the loss although they said the pain was too much.

Grace Ekirapa

The Crossover101 host has narrated how tough it was for her to lose her mother while she was still a young girl, saying that her mom who died nearly two decades ago had left a void that she couldn’t ever fill.

Willis Raburu and Maryaprude Raburu

Raburu and his then-wife Marya lost their baby girl on January 1st, 2020. That loss would be the beginning of the unraveling of their relationship.

The two are currently no longer together and one would be hard-pressed to give a reason for the break-up other than the grief they experienced after they lost their child.

Tedd Josiah

The experienced veteran music producer lost his wife and mother to his baby girl in October 2017. Since then, Josiah has mourned and remembered his late wife Regina Katar in numerous posts, showing that every person has their own way of dealing with loss.

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Woman gives Mike Mondo perfect solution to make men more romantic

Mike Mondo stood in for Maina Kageni on the morning show today morning. The charismatic Mike had an interesting topic to discuss this morning.

Mike brought up the topic of why men stop being romantic once they have gotten married/gotten into a long-term relationship.

“We (men) stop being romantic after we met or get married. There is a lack of consistency that happens. No more been taken to other places.

Mike even referred to a personal anecdote that he had heard himself, talking about a female friend who hadn’t received a birthday gift from her husband for more than 5 years.

“Where did the love go? No more flowers. She has been married for 10 years and hasn’t received a birthday gift the past 5 years.”

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He then asked men and women to chime in on the topic. The general consensus was again split into gender lines with the men insisting that they were being pragmatic while the women bemoaned that men would go slow on the romance after marriage.

One particular lady had a funny method of how she was able to get her man to spend his money on her, saying;

Things have really changed. Guys don’t like spending money. The first time he will take you to a fancy date. The next date is in his house. When you get married they don’t feel the need to keep on treating you. I am the one who takes him out now and that has made him feel ashamed. That has made him make plans and vacations now that I take him out.

Other comments from Kenyans are below;

Mambo ya date inasahauliwa after mumepata watoto-A man said.

There is no time for outings. Tulia kwa hao-A man said.

How you live in the house will depend on how you dated in the first place. That’s how it’s supposed to be-A man said.

Men are hunters. After you have caught the prey, do you still keep chasing? Once you have gotten her, there is a responsibility to make the house. You get new priorities-A man said.

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“Mimi si Mzungu!” Diana Marua tells Bahati as she rejects his gift on camera (Video)

Diana Marua and singer Kevin Bahati share almost everything they do on multiple public platforms. The couple have weathered many storms as far as hate from a section of Kenyans goes but it seems that the criticism is a form of fuel to their fires.

The pair seem to just thrive and even in this year when Corona has done a number on many Kenyans, they are growing stronger and stronger.

One of the places where they have thrived is on their family YouTube page where they post snippets about their life. The page currently has 206k followers and is one of the most followed, showing that the couple has a life that Kenyans deem to be interesting.

And one of their latest videos shows that their formula is? That is to air their dirty linen in public, prooving that even they have issues.

So they sell an authenticity that gels with a starving public tired of celebs who fake it with their make-up, filters and perfect little life.

One of their most recent episodes showed the depths of their relationship honesty. In the episode, Diana is seen standing up for herself complaining about a certain gift the Wanani hitmaker had given her.

Bahati had noted that Diana was a dedicated gym-goer and so decided to gift her with a smartwatch that would show her how many calories she is shedding and what not.

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He gave her the gift after she had finished a gym session but her reaction wasn’t what the singer was expecting. The mother of two told him he could keep it as she wasn’t happy with the gift.

She told him that she was expecting a brand new phone from her lover and not the watch. She even accused the father of her two kids of buying the watch for himself that he would pass off as her gift only to keep it after she declines it.

“Really? Is this yours or mine. I thought you were getting me a phone. I don’t need a watch. I appreciate but you can do better honestly. Mimi si mzungu. My expectations were higher. It’s not even feminine,” she remarked.

That kind of realness! I might not like their show, but I respect how honest they are with each other. Check out the video below:


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Check out the beautiful photos from Queen Darleen’s awesome baby shower

Diamond Platnumz’s sister Queen Darleen got hitched late last year to husband Isihaka Mtoro. The marriage that came as a shock to many has flowed smoothly since then with zero scandal emerging from the couple unlike Darleen’s half-sister Esma Platnumz who has already had a prominent scandal no less than two months after getting married.

And it seems like everything is working like clockwork for Darleen as she is already with child, showing that the couple wasted little time consummating the marriage.

The Bachela singer went public with her pregnancy on July 18th, during the #IAMZUCHU concert. Queen looks like a whole different woman now that she’s heavily pregnant with a glow that shows that pregnancy really does suit her.

This past week the couple held Queen’s baby shower and they went all out, even streaming the event on live on Wasafi TV in an event graced by her close friends and family.

Images from the affair were later shared on her social media showing that many of her friends had donned in all-white as the theme colour for the baby shower.

Queen got married in a secret affair when she got married to her longtime boyfriend Isihaka Mtoro as a second wife.

“Nimekuwa na mwanaume wangu toka mwaka jana. Ni kweli mimi ni bibi wa pili na sasa hivi ni halali wangu. Kusema kweli harusi imekuwa ya kushitukiza vile lakini mambo yamekuwa vizuri,” said Queen Darleen after her wedding.

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My wife should ask for permission five months prior to see her relatives

Is a marriage healthy when one spouse has to ask for permission to do anything, even leave the house to go shopping?

That is the challenge facing one Kenyan marriage after a man bragged how hi wife is required to ask for permission at least five months in advance, if she wants to see her relatives.

The humiliation and embarrassment he puts her through stems from the fact that way too many Kenyan women have the freedom to do whatever they want nowadays.

Therapists and other marital experts says that different decisions require different input from your spouse. For instance if you want to make a major career move, then that requires your spouses input, but others like going to the supermarket only requires notifying g him as courtesy.

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So this husband doesn’t believe his wife can be entrusted to make a good decision.

He told a stunned Maina Kageni that

‘There are these things called womens rights, they want to won things, they need freedom to go anywhere without being asked questions. But sio kwangu. She cannot go anywhere even if I’m not performing, they should remian at home look after me and kids. If I’m not performing I can give her money to make up for it. But she should ask for permission because I own her, even her name changes to mine. I expect my wife to ask for permission if she wants to go somewhere she is mine and she should behave the way I say and she should tow the line because she got that rib from me. I can’t allow my women to hop from bed to bed without permission. She should ask for permission five months prior to see her relatives’

A little bit harsh if you ask me, but to each his own.

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These are the signs of a controlling husband: 

He separates your from your family and friends

He constantly criticizes you

He manipulates you into getting what he wants

Overly jealous

They need to know everything

Girls do you have such a husband and what do you do? Drop your comments below.

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I have to beg my husband for permission to post on Facebook

Misery loves company, or so a bitter wife suggested in a confession to Classic 105.

What prompted her harsh criticism of her husband? A discussion about wives needing space in their marriage.

Men and women revealed a huge divide in how spouses take this statement.

Host Maina Kageni even commented about it saying ‘the way men understand it is different. Girls can you please tell them what you mean when you say you want freedom?’

A bitter wife whispered her thoughts about needing space, saying she is also restricted from being online. Yes, while the rest of us are posting all manner of rubbish, she can’t share a selfie or anything.

She bitterly complained to Maina that

 ‘I can’t post a picture online without my husband giving me grief. You know it’s been tough. I haven’t been working since corona and our Industry was heavily affected, I can’t tell you where I work, but it’s bad. Yani I can’t just leave the house without telling him, I feel like I am just exhausted, Maina you just lose yourself when you get married to a man, yet I’m still me, maina it’s crazy’


Stories of men banning their wives from socia media are not too common as only a few can be controlling.

Do those who do so perhaps fear the interactions their wives will have and perhaps reason that she will sleep with anyone and everyone?

Dear men, please tell the Classic 105 fam, why you feel threatened by your wife using social media.

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5 things a wife means when she says she needs space

Is it always bad news when a wife tells her husband she needs space?

We all need our alone time, and spouses should respect that.

‘The way the men understand it is different’ Maina said while tackling the topic on Friday morning.

So here are the most likely things she means to help you understand her and avoid unnecessary conflict in your marriage. Take it from this sister.

1 She just needs some space.When a wife says she needs her space it means she is looking for downtime to recharge.  She  overwhelmed with school, work or have personal issues at home, so having you in that mix is just too much for her to handle.

2 She misses her life before you came into the picture

She would love to reconnect with the things she used to do before you. Maybe she traveled alot but since being with you, she hasn’t done the things that made her happy. So she is highly contemplating rekindling that part of her life. See it’s not that bad.

Give her time to travel, hang out with girlfriends etc.

3 She’s tired of seeing you all the time

Her every waking moment is spent looking at your face, and sometimes fellas, sometimes it’s exhausting *insert horrified fce*. She’s sick of your face and some time apart could help get rid of that irritating feeling she experiencing questioning your marriage and why you even exist

4 She’s done and dusted with the marriage

Uh oh, now this one means trouble for you bro. She needs to get away from you and rethink the marriage and needs space.


5. She wants to resume her hobbies

It’s often said that women lose themselves when they get married. And something in the relationship sparked her need to get back to factory settings. As a man you can do simple things like allow her to be her former self, and see how your bae will light up your world.

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My mother abandoned me to go and pray at the church Kanyari started at – Woman tells Maina

Maina Kageni brought up an insteresting topic today as he spoke about mothers who abandon their kids. Maina who grew up the child of a single mother after his father died when he was very young, wondered how that could ever happen?

Maina noted that fathers could do it easily and that it was second nature for men. “For a woman, it must be hard to leave your kids behind. It is easy for a man to leave his kids. It is second nature.”

The charismatic presneter recited a story he had had previously of a single father who had taken care of his 3 kids after his wife abandoned them 9 years ago.

He lives a life that is hard to imagine. He is a single father with 2 boys and one girl. His wife left 9 years ago and they have never been in touch. She left and she is still around. And she has never called him. What would cause her to do this?

The man’s story befuddled Maina and he opened up the conversation to the gallery. The opinions shed a lot of light on something that rarely happens in mother nature.

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One of the most interesting comments was from a woman who explained why she had left her hsubnad. She noted that she never ever planned on seeing her kids again!

I am from Nakuru. I left my husband with a 2 and 4-year-old. There is a point it reaches as a wife, you are so disturbed by the man that you want to leave the man. You try to leave with the kids but the man forbids you from leaving with the kids. I don’t have other kids and I have never re-married. I don’t plan on getting in touch with them. You go and go forever. I don’t think about my kids every day.

Some of the other comments are below:

Women are proper selfish. I lived in Tanzania for 3 years. The only thing my wife would do was come and check on the kids and then leave. She said that she couldn’t stay in Tanzania. So I decided to move abroad for her. Within a year, she divorced me and married a mzungu. But I am happy that she is close to the kids-A man said.

My mother left when I was in class 4. She contacted us and I have not heard from her since 1998. I don’t know where she is. I think about her. If she calls me, I would try to re-ignite our relationship-A man said.

There are just women with the guts. There are some who will never return depending on how she was treated. An example is my sister. She left her husband with two toddlers after she was nearly beaten to death-A woman said.

Motherhood is a sacrifice. No woman should never leave her kids. I just think there are some women who are just heartless-A woman said.

My mom left us, she was a single mother and she passed on in 2008. I was sent home for fees of 500 shillings. She left to go to church and I never saw her for a whole year. I had to pick tea and get menial jobs to support me and my sister. I had to go and look for her the next year after suffering so much. I went to Kitengela and saw her at the church that laucnhed the likes of Pastor Kanyari. Those churches where you pray so much until when the pastor is satisfied and releases you. I saw her praying so hard and I didn’t want talk to her. That promted her to come back. I went there in 2007 April and she died a year later. But for a long time I was very bitter with her-A woman said.

Women are very calculative. They can see into the future. They will not leave their kids to irresponsible men. These women leave their kids, not because they hate them but because they know their husbands will give those kids a better future than she can.

What do you think?

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List of famous Kenyan men who’ve dated/married older women


The switch has been flipped *pun intended* and society is now contending with younger men dating older women.

The paradigm shift has recently been called into question when Gospel singer Guardian Angel over the weekend said he is dating a 50 year old woman. Guardian is 24 years old. So you can see where the hollaballo is coming from.

So here is a look back at Kenyan male celebrities mocked for dating or marrying older women.

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Guardian Angel

Guardian Angel has caused a stir online after he introduced his girlfriend who is twice his age. Angel, whose real name is Audiphaxad Peter Omwaka, recently announced he is dating fellow gospel singer Esther Musila, who is 50 years old. Kenyans on social media are split whether he is mad or love wins.

I AM PROUD OF MYSELF. #LOVEWINS❣. the singer wrote


He added,


John Allan Namu

The hunky former KTN journalist is married to Sheena Makena, married in 2010 while working at KTN. He was only an intern at Standard Group while Sheen was an editor.

“When were started working together at KTN, I was an intern and i was scared… And she was a scary editor like anybody who remembers Makena was like “if you don’t have your time codes get out’ you know. And interestingly enough we just started to vibe and we talked a lot like when we were in the edit suite we had a lot of stories. I would often get late, a lot of my stories would run late because we were talking and that sort of thing,” John Allan Namu narrated during an interview with Ebru TV.

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He has been nicknamed Mtoto wa Diana, his wife Diana Marua, who is alleged to be way older than him. They are cyber bullied for this fact and once on their youtube channel, Bahati apologized to Diana asaying his fame has hurt her. “Right now Diana is in the public eye because of me. She has been abused because of me. She is hitting a million followers for the wrong stories,” he said.People say she is at least ten years older, but we dont know for sure.

Bahati with Diana Marua

Pastor Pius Muiru
His wife Lucy is older and they have been together over 20 years. The televangelist who runs the Maximum Miracle Centre in Nairobi, lavishes praise on her alot, describing her as a loving, beautiful, compassionate spouse.

Diamond Platnumz and Zari Hassan
Although now long divorced or separated, Zari and Diamond got the streets talking and debating about their age. We knew Diamonds age, but never Zaris’ after they hooked up in 2017. According to claims she made as recent as 2019. she was born in 1980, while Diamond was born in 1989.

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‘Leave with his underwear’ Angry woman advises broken-hearted wives

Women do lots of things you don’t understand when they leave a bad relationship.

If you are an oldie like me and watched the romantic film ‘Waiting to exhale’  the part where actress Angela Basset collects all her cheating mans clothes, takes them to the car she bought him and burns everything resonates with many woman.

She plays the part of Bernadine Harris who finds out her man is leaving her after 11 years in marriage for a white woman. She was angry she started the company working her as* off and denying herself a good life so that her man can have time to make money, but he leaves her anyway.

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Even the cops who came to investigate the matter were lost for words when she said she was burning trash.

But can you blame her?

A woman mad as hell about cheating men called into the Classic 105 show where she narrated what should happen to such men. Weuh!

She said

‘Men can only give you three things; pregnancy, brokeness and heartache. That’s it. That is why we leave when they are at work. You leave with everything including their underwear, that is how you deal with them, mpaka uwaibie au uwanyanganye  because they don’t understand’ 

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The lame excuses Kenyan men give to avoid spousal support


A heated discussion on Classic 105 about US rapper Dr Dre’s ex wife asking for Sh200million (2 million dollars) monthly spousal support seemed to have awoken a sleeping giant.

Dr Dre’s wife broke down the spousal maintenance demands such as $135,000 a month on clothes, $20,000 a month on phone and email, $10,000 a month on laundry, and a whopping $900,000 a month on entertainment.

Men reacted harshly to womens demands post a divorce insisting women take advantage to milk money out of men.

But the law remains, and many of us need to get educated what the Kenyan law says about child and spousal support, otherwise all remains ‘noise’.

Let’s begin with the first excuse why men ‘can’t pay won’t pay’ spousal support:

  1. She will spend it on another man: One man said ‘can you imagine paying her then she moves in with another man? how?’
  2. She has her own income: A man upset Maina when he said ‘we split our items pesa ajitafutie pesa ni yangu atafute yake, when our contract expires she goes empty handed’.
  3. She is greedy: Another man called in saying ‘these women should know one thing you cant leave me and demand for support, this economy is hard right now, she can leave and go fight fend for herself, i would never give her a cent, hata ndururu’
  4. She is a scam: Just read what this man said ‘have you ever seen someone put fuel in a ting tinga you won’t use, if you want to leave go ahead without a cent from me’
  5. She should carry her own weight: A very disgusted man said ‘when you got tot a restaurant you are accustomed to eating, when you leave the restaurant doesn’t owe you a thing, or a plate of rice, the children remain eating not her, if she leaves she cannot go with a single coin of mine’

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10 things you should not do if your spouse wants to leave


It’s human nature to want to fight back and win what you consider. But the last thing you want to do is make it worse by doing these 10 things the minute they leave, and PLEASE just give it time.

Avoid doing these ten things to improve your chances of winning them back:

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1. Taking elders to her home to intervene

This is such an African thing of taking delegations of elders to her home to have them intervene and discuss such personal matter sin large groups. He or she will not be pleased.

2. Acting out

We tend to want to show that we don’t care and aren;t affected by the other persons actions, so we act out and induge in clubbing, drinking, lots of intimacy with whoever we encounter and flirting

3. Incessantly begging

Do not plead, pursue, or pressure your spouse as it wil have the opposite effect and turn them off.divorce-5

4. Gifting them

Trying to win back her/his love by buying things like clothes, chocolate, flowers, or other luxury items with the hope this will bring them back. Especially not if you never did this throughout your relationship. They will see through your weak attempts. at apologizing.

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5. Moshene/Gossiping

Do not ask family or friends to encourage your spouse to stay with you. Discussing such personal matters with these people will upset your spouse and make things worse.

6. Begging

Do not point out all the good things about marriage or about you.

7. Manipulating

Telling them those three little sweet words that they previously never heard from you. Or telling them that their parents, family and friends will be sad at the fact that you are walking away from a bond everyone loves. Don’t be this person.husband-wife-nagging-each-other

8. Nagging

It shows you are desperate or needy by sending texts or phone calls to get them to reconsider.

9. Being needy

Forcing your spouse to relive moments by sharing stories about the good times you had and sharing images on whatsapp about grand ol’ times shows you are needy. They don’t need this right now.

10. Spying

Snooping on their social media to see who they are talking to or hanging out with, or getting private investigators on them doen’t help.

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“I love you the way you are!”-Terence Creative tells wife after trolls attacked her body

Terence Creative is one of the most popular comedians in Kenya. He and his wife Milly Chebby have each amassed a huge following on their respective social media pages and as such regularly interact with their thousands of fans.

And such interactions don’t always go well for them as not everyone will always support you in the comments section. His wife has been on the end of a lot of hate for some time over the size of her body.

Any photo that Terence posts of her, will normally receive comments speaking about his wife’s body size, telling her to lose weight.

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This week, Terence decided to re-affirm his commitment to his often-maligned wife, with one of the sweetest messages a husband can give his wife.

The comic penned a note that revealed how much he loved his wife, taking the time to praise her size as he posted a beautiful photo of his bikini-clad wife in a swimming pool at Lake Naivasha Resort.

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Morning my beautiful,curvy precious thing,thanks for your kindness you have such a big heart too,I have a space in it so I can attest to it,people call you names and probably they will never stop coz people got issues,thanks for changing my life and making me love myself more,I learnt it from you.Thanks for making me master peace and the art of not giving a fudge of what our tormentors say,well this is to remind you “I love you just the way you are,you don’t have to change a thing” I love you more mi amor 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕 #justthe2ofus #MunguMbele #mwangis4rever @millychebby 🧡🧡🥰🥰🥰💕♥️🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

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Most Kenyans took his message positively and praised Terence for his wonderful dedication to the mother of his child. But as with all things in life, there were some who were upset with post and still commented on Milly’s body. Some of those comments are below:

_assad__ 👏👏👏👏🔥apige zoezi😂

amomio196 she beautiful but mshow afanye diet

mutuku9446 @terence creative you are a brave man👏👏👏👏👏👏

While Terence has stood up for his wife from the constant attacks she gets for her body size, she too stuck with him when cheating allegations against him rocked his marriage last year.

The scandal threatened to derail his career and marriage but her constant support was enough to tide the rising storm. The two show me what a good marriage can be-Full of challenges but also fulfilling if people d0 the work.

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Lillian Muli-I am not hit on by men, I pursue them

Citizen TV news anchor Lillian Muli is one of the most interesting of media personalities in Kenya. The mother of two is one of the veterans who has seen the TV industry morph from one that only had 2 stations into one with so many stations that one can’t keep count.

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While her success in the work-place is laudable and impressive, her personal life has been full of ups and downs, something that she has been candid about sharing.

Lillian was recently asked about the worst pick-up lines that she had ever encountered but revealed something that will most likely raise some eyebrows.

The TV anchor explained that she had was the one who would pursue men and as such couldn’t remember any puck-up line that she had gotten. “The worst pickup line ushawai pata kwa msee ni gani?” the local presenter asked.

“Honestly, I can’t answer that because mimi huwa sikatiwi, mimi ndio the other way round,” responded Lillian Muli.

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Ms. Muli who has been blessed with two sons from two different fathers explained that her worst regret was in taking alcohol, then not been able to control her temper afterwards.

“What I have ever regretted kama nimekunywa drink ya wazee, maybe just losing my temper kiasi ambacho hakistahili,” said Ms Muli.

Lillian is known to be impulsive and once went all out in castigating her second baby daddy, Jared Nevaton. In a surprise move in late 2018, the TV anchor took to social media to castigate the Shabana FC boss as a ‘community’ husband. She wrote;

“I’m officially single and will now focus on raising my boys. As public figures, we meet all sorts of people and most just want trophies whether you are well known or not be very careful who you allow into your life don’t go giving your heart to everyone.

She added;

“Sociopaths will keep you entangled in their web of lies and you will be one of their many victims. When you actually believe someone is true to you only to find out they are community husbands you are safer stepping aside.

She would later clarify her standpoint in early 2019 saying that she had re-united with Jared.

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