Wyre reveals that his wife is his harshest critic (Exclusive)

Wyre dropped by our offices today.

The artiste spoke about a variety of things; from his career to his marriage. We asked the singer why he had decided to re-commit to his wife of 10 years, Hanifa late last year? He said that it was to show they have a great marriage.

Wyre on stage
Wyre on stage

He also added that it was for grounding, saying that for him family was everything. He said that family reminded him that he was human and that it was what he ‘lives for’.

Wyre and his wife Hanifa on their wedding day
Wyre and his wife Hanifa on their wedding day

He finished answering the question by saying that there was nothing more special than family for him, saying,

It is all I ask for, it is all I live for.

Wyre said the biggest lesson he had learned in marriage was that both partners should always be willing to listen to each other. He also confirmed that they had some challenges in their marriage but that he did not regret the journey.

Wyre and his wife Hanifa on their wedding day
Wyre and his wife Hanifa on their wedding day

He said that he wasn’t the type of person to put every detail of his personal life in the limelight. He said that he was cognisant of the fact that once you put your family in the public light, they become a target for everyone.

Wyre with his son in the past
Wyre holding his son in the past

He said that he could handle the pressure that comes with the publicity as it is part of his job but at the same time he didn’t want people walking up to his family when he wasn’t there.

He also told our interviewer that his biggest critic musically was his wife and that she was brutally honest. He added that he would be releasing an album this year but that it still doesn’t have a working title.

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Governor Ferdinand Waititu’s beautiful daughter is a lawyer

Kiambu governor Ferdinand Waititu recent troubles have re-opened a door into the lives of his family; especially those of his two daughters, who are accomplished in their chosen careers.

Josephine-Ndungu, Waititu's daughter
Josephine-Ndungu, Waititu’s daughter

Waititu is a father of two daughters, Monica Ndung’u and Josephine Ndung’u. The two are from the governors coupling with his wife, Susan Ndung’u.

Ferdinard Waititu
Ferdinard Waititu

Josephine is a lawyer. A combination of glamour, pizzazz, and brains. She is pretty and wears fabulous clothes  She recently graduated from law-school. Despite her father’s confusing tale of academics, Josephine finished the top of her class.

Josephine-Ndungu, Waititu's daughter
Josephine-Ndungu, the governor’s daughter

Her sister, Monica is a doctor at Kenyatta National Hospital. This week Monica has been a person of interest amid reports that millions of shillings were wired through her bank accounts.

Monica-Njeri, the doctor

The EACC said that there was cogent evidence that the governor awarded lucrative tenders through proxy firms fronted by himself and close members of his family.

“Preliminary investigations show that contractors paid monies to senior county officials, their companies or relatives through proxies,” EACC chief executive officer Twalib Mbarak said in a statement.

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Eko Dydda’s wife confirms that he cheated with her best friend

Eko Dydda’s wife, Cynthia Ayugi came out this week with a cryptic message hinting that her husband had cheated on her.

Her message read;

Breaking someone’s marriage is not Godly. I invited you as a friend, today you tell Eko Dydda not to bring me home because love your love will not grow. It’s not a battle,@ekodydda you don’t have to hide it any more your ‘DOPE’ is free to love you, sometimes it’s healthy to walk away. Today is that day, I will not hide it for fame, money, I will stand with the truth and will never ever lie to people.

Eko Dydda with his wife and children
The rapper with his family in a file photo

Mpasho.co.ke called her about the message and she said that people should read between the lines concerning the post. The Star’s Elizabeth Ngigi, later on, called her and she much more forthcoming.

Cynthia also told her that she and Eko did not live together anymore because of his infidelity. She added that her husband had been lying to the media and that she was staying with the kids.

Eko Dydda with his wife and children 3
Eko Dydda with his wife and children 3

She told her that the last nine years had been a nightmare for her. She also disclosed that a close friend of hers had been the Judas in her life. She said that the close friend was the one who had stolen her husband from her, saying,

The world should also know that not every woman should be trusted because I trusted my best friend, only to know she was finding her way in my marriage.

She then added that Eko Dydda should stop saying that he does not comment on negative things as he is the one who caused it.

Eko Dyyda and his family in a file photo
Eko Dyyda and his family in a file photo

How will this whole affair end?

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Khaligraph Jones speaks about when his wife is giving birth (exclusive)

Khaligraph Jones has been in the news recently for all the right reasons with his song, ‘Superman’ ruling the Kenyan rap charts.

Another reason is that his wife Georgina Muteti is heavily pregnant, a fact that the rapper is very proud of.

Khaligraph Jones pregnant wife scan 1
Khaligraph Jones pregnant wife scan

We recently spoke to him about the pregnancy and his wife. We asked him why he had decided to finally show off the face of his wife, Georgina.

He quickly responded that he did not like speaking about his wife in media interviews. But we cajoled him. He refuted the claim that people could see her face and said that the image obscured her face well enough.

Khaligraph with his wife
Khaligraph with his wife

We also asked the rapper when his baby was due. He was cagey, saying that we would know it when Georgina gave birth. After some persuasion, he revealed that the due date was ‘any time from now’.

Khaligraph-Jones-with Georgina
Khaligraph-Jones-with Georgina

We also spoke to the rapper about his new song, ‘Superman’ and the impact it has had on his reputation. He insisted that any song that he releases does well, saying,

The song I released before Superman was with Masauti and it served its purpose. The same thing with ‘Superman’. We knew exactly what we wanted to achieve with it and we did. The positive aftermath is visible.

A henched Khaligraph Jones
The henched rapper

He added that he was going to America later on in the week for a couple of events, revealing that the reason for his success was the cumulative work that he had been putting in over the length of his career.

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Binyavanga Wainaina dead. A short profile of the great author

Binyavanga Wainaina, the legendary author, and activist died at the age of 48, the family has confirmed. He was 48. Below is a quick history of one of Kenya’s most famous exports.


Binyavanga Wainaina was born in Nakuru and attended Moi Primary School in Nakuru, Mangu High School in Thika, and Lenana School in Nairobi.

He later studied commerce at the University of Transkei in South Africa, where he went to live in 1991.  He also completed an MPhil in Creative Writing at the University of East Anglia in 2010.

Career and legacy

In July 2002 he won the Caine Prize for his short story “Discovering Home” He is the founding editor of Kwani?, the first literary magazine in East Africa since Transition Magazine.

He established it in 2003 and it has since become an important source of new writing from Africa; several writers for the magazine have been nominated for the Caine Prize and have subsequently won it.

Binyavanga Wanaina
The controversial artiste

In 2003, he was given an award by the Kenya Publisher’s Association, in recognition of his services to Kenyan literature. Among the prestigious publications he wrote for was; National Geographic, The Sunday Times (South Africa), Granta, The New York Times, and The Guardian

Wainaina was a critical thinker and showed off this trait in his satirical essay “How to Write About Africa”, published in Granta magazine in 2006, which attracted wide attention.

Binyavanga Wanaina
The controversial artiste

In 2007, Wainaina was a writer-in-residence at Union College in Schenectady, NY (USA). In the fall of 2008, he was in residence at Williams College, where he was teaching, lecturing and working on a novel. He was also a Bard Fellow and once the director of the Chinua Achebe Center for African Literature and Languages at Bard College

His debut book, a memoir entitled One Day I Will Write About This Place, was published in 2011.

Personal life 

Binyavanga was a homos3xual and publicly came out in 2014. He did so by first writing a short story that he described as a “lost chapter” of his 2011 memoir entitled “I am a Homos3xual, Mum”, and then tweeting: “I am, for anybody confused or in doubt, a homos3xual. Gay, and quite happy.

Binyavanga Wanaina
The controversial artiste

On 1 December 2016, World Aids Day, Wainaina announced on his Twitter profile that he was HIV positive.

May he rest in peace.

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These 5 things determine if you are wife or husband material


Almost no conversation goes on amongst Kenyans without the mention of ‘wife’ or ‘husband’ material.

Whether we are discussing celebrities or our pals, we all refer to some mannerisms as wife or husband material.

A study sheds light on what men and women perceive as marriage traits – and it seems they have very different views.

The survey, which asked respondents what the top five ‘marriage material’ characteristics were, showed the differing views between the s3xes.

Honest/trustworthy – 78 per cent
You just know – 52 per cent
My friends and family like them – 46 per cent
Romantic – 33 per cent
Career driven – 13 per cent

We’re sexually compatible – 64 per cent
Willingness to look after me – 43 per cent
Enjoy sports or let me watch – 41 per cent
They are attractive – 33 per cent
My friends and family like them – 29 per cent

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The one thing that makes Kenyan women shout at their men in public

Ladies why do you feel the need to shout at your man in public?

An article in a local daily dubbed ‘The angry woman syndrome’ formed the basis of the morning conversation on Classic 105.

On the morning conversation on Tubonge Tuesday, Maina Kageni sought to know why Kenyan wives are always angry and why they don’t care about shouting at their husbands in public.

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A female caller narrated to Maina why she vents on the streets.

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Another said ‘inatokana na lack of conjugal rights. Nitakwambia kwanini. Mimi nilikuwa fresh form four nikapata kazi ya nymba ambayo nimefanya kwa seven years. Huyu husband na wife wanakosana juu ya bedroom. Mwanamke anaambia mume ni bure, shida si pesa, ni hawa watu wawili kutoka kwa bedroom. Fuatilia Maina shida si pesa. shida ya hawa wanawake si pesa, mimi natimiza zangu na sioni hiyo shida.

Maina responded saying ‘I didn’t even imagine that would even be an issue. Wow. ladies you are not saying that are you? So it’s all there. is that it?

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Sharon also called in and weighed in on the matter.

‘ukikuta umeshoutiwa know that you have failed as a man, know that you are not man enough for her. you are just a disgrace unajua it is the work of a man to shape the character of his wife, so if he can’t control his woman calm her down, she will get frustrated and shout every corner.’
We ain’t bitter, they just can’t hear us.. How do yu make a man who goes on Friday and shows up on Sunday hear you! How…. They are big babies they only listen that way! @Itsmainakageni @classic105kenya #MainaAndKingangi

Another lambasted men saying
@ItsMainaKageni @Classic105Kenya This is not a ladies wish to ve such a bad temper its the way tormentation has invested in us especially when ur the first born and ur seen like a nobody and being mistreated too…..#MainaAndKingangi

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Felix differs warning
Maina most of this drama queens are usually ladies who struggle in academics or were academic dwarfs. I did that research. I had a girl friend like that it pained me more to be shout at by an empty debee.

what is your opinion about angry wives shouting on the streets?

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Belgian King would rather pay Sh500k daily fine than do a DNA test in paternity case


A Belgian appeals court has ruled that the country’s former monarch, must pay €5,000 (Sh 505, 747) for each day that he refuses to provide DNA in a case brought by a woman who claims to be his love child.

King Albert II, 84, was ordered by the Brussels court to attend an appointment and provide a DNA sample in the presence of a justice official. He will be fined for each day he fails to respect that appointment.

Artist Delphine Boel, 46, has been trying to establish paternity for years and her story has often made headlines.

Albert has never publicly denied being her father but has refused to provide DNA despite a November court order to do so.

If Boel’s case was successful, she would be 15th in line for the Belgian throne.

In November last year the court ruled that King Albert must provide the DNA which came as a surprise after a lower court ruled Delphine Boel could not rely on such forensic evidence to establish paternity.

Boel claims that King Albert II had an affair with her mother Sybille de Selys Longchamps.

The ruling gave Albert three months to provide a DNA sample which would be used to determine if he was Ms Boel’s father.

Boel started court proceedings in 2014 and her lawyer Alain De Jonge at the time said that his client is not motivated by money as she is a member of a major Belgian industrial family worth $1 billion.


Lessons we can learn from Kambua’s successful marriage

Kambua Manundu recently announced that she was pregnant. The gospel singer has been married to husband Jackson Mathu since 2012.

Kambua on her wedding day
Kambua on her wedding day

In those 7 years, the two have had to endure questions about why they were still childless. Now no more; after Kambua’s triumphant announcement.

Kambua pregnant
The singer pregnant

What simple lessons can we learn from their marriage?

God must be the bedrock of a successful marriage

Kambua and her pastor husband have always maintained their trust in God despite the relentless speculation about why they were childless.

Jackson Mathu preaching
Jackson Mathu preaching

Kambua proved this with her constant posts on her social media page encouraging childless women and speaking of a God who was always present and listens.

Till death do us part

In most African cultures, many men would leave their wives, or get second wives if they did not bare them a child within the first few years of marriage. (The caveat is that the man has no issues with his own fertility!)

But Jackson clearly isn’t that type of man as he has been with Kambua for all these years and has stood by her side with nary a scandal or complaint from him.

Kambua with her husband
Kambua with her husband

Like Rachel, Jacob’s husband in the Bible stories, who was childless for many years before the Lord opened her womb; Mathu has seen the goodness of his God.

The two have been a united front all these years, best friends if you please

The Bible speaks about a man and his wife becoming one after matrimony. This couple is a perfect example of that. Jackson and Kambua are best of friends.

Kambua with her husband
Kambua with her husband

Their relationship is a testament that a successful marriage can stay together(even without kids) as long as the couple are friends who love each other.


In this day and age when people share every facet of their lives for the world to see on social media, this couple has resisted this. This has proved to be a stroke of genius as it has been very hard to hear about a scandal involving the couple.

Older men and younger women can make an awesome pairing

The couple has a nearly 10 year age difference, something that people attack the singer for; even calling Jackson an ancestor. Could their age difference be a reason the two are still together? I think it could be, as men get older they mature(not all!) and get wiser handling the affairs in their lives. Jackson is, in essence, the rock to his wife, a stoic that can navigate his marriage victoriously.

Are there more reasons you think their marriage is still successful?

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Khaligraph Jones shares cute image of expectant wife Georgina

Khaligraph Jones shared an image of his pregnant girlfriend on his social media page yesterday. It showed a proud and muscular Khaligraph standing behind the mother of his soon to be child.

Khaligraph with his wife
Khaligraph with his wife

His caption also seemed to suggest the rangi ya thao was starting to notice the gains he had been making in the gym. Something he did not do was, however, reveal her name to the masses but us sleuths were able to unearth the rare gem of a woman who had got the heart of the buff rapper.

Georgina Muteti
Georgina Muteti

Khaligraph’s wife’s name is Georgina Muteti and the rapper confirmed that he was married to her in an exclusive interview on Mpasho.co.ke earlier in the year.

This is the second photo that the rapper has released showing that there was a baby on the way. The first images were hospital scans showing his wife’s uterus but no photos of Georgina herself.

Khaligraph Jones pregnant wife scan
Khaligraph Jones pregnant wife scan
Khaligraph Jones pregnant wife scan 1
Khaligraph Jones pregnant wife scan

This year has already been a great one for the rapper. His new song, ‘Superman’ has been doing very well on the charts with many seeing him as the arguably the face of Kenyan rap. (Yes, even despite King Kaka’s prestigious visit at Cannes).

King Kaka at Cannes Film Festival 2019
King Kaka at Cannes Film Festival 2019

Although one must not forget the ugly allegations that bedeviled him from ex-girlfriend Cashy about him being physically abusive towards her.


Cashy also went on several interviews to accuse Khaligraph of trying to steal her shine as she was also expectant and has since birthed a healthy baby.

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Prison warder Pauline Wangari murdered by man she met on Facebook 


A man arrested in the brutal killing of prison warder Pauline Wangari met her on Facebook.

According to police reports, the man identified as Ochieng met Wangari on Facebook and had visited her for the first time in Murang’a the day she was found murdered.

The reports further allege that after s3x, the two quarreled as a furious Wangari shouted at him.

She revealed to him that she was a police officer and the suspect became violent, however the cause of their fight has not been revealed.

Three suspects were arraigned in court on Friday morning, and will now be detained until the end of May as police investigate the murder.

The three suspects Joseph Otieno Ochieng, Rogers Namukolo and Mary Amollo were arrested on Thursday on their way to Kisumu according to Criminal investigations officer Phoebe Okomo.

They are accused of murdering Pauline Wangari, who was found with several stab wounds in her house in Kiharu estate, Murang’a town on Wednesday.

suspects in paulien wangari murder
Suspects in murder of prison warder Pauline

KOT have reacted sharply to her death:
R.I.P Pauline Wangari.
God will Power.

What happened to
TRUE LOVE in Kenya???

Why kill because someone
Somewhere has refused to
Love you back..!!

we want an End
to These Love Triangle
Horrible Dates in 254.

Pauline Wangari was murdered by a guy she met face-to-face once.

Where is this love taking us now?
Wait, just wait!
So Pauline Wangari was murdered by a guy she met on Facebook and even invited him to her place at Murang’a?
But she had a boyfriend??
Are you thinking what I’m thinking?

I won’t speak, if I speak feminists will finish me but allow me to say

Facebook Relationships have become one of the “Many ways to die”…! Poor Pauline Wangari. She met a murderer online… Sad indeed

Kenyan men are suffering because women are living a fantasy life – Mwalimu Kingangi

Are Kenyan women unrealistic or simply ambitious?

This was the topic of discussion on Friday during the Maina and Kingangi show.

Ambition is generally understood as a good thing, but is there a fine line between a healthy will to succeed and an inability to appreciate what you have in the present? And are Kenyan women in particular pained by the constant sense that they could be doing more?

A man called in saying

Kenyan women live in a fantasy world. Most of Kenyan women live in fantasy worlds that’s why they love soap opera, there is no way you can be home all day and then lack money, if they stick to their own lane, marriage would be perfect.

Mwalimu Kingangi agreed wholly with this theory saying

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Kenyan women are not realistic, ni tuko na ten thousand lets live with that money realistic ni we don’t have money you being real, yani tuko na pesa ya kuishi umpja tukae Umoja, tutakaribia Nairobi pesa ikiingia.

He posed this question to Maina Kageni.

Do you realise Kenyan men work so hard?

To which Maina responded: men are you working hard for the right things? Why is it hakuna pesa but you always have money for drinks for your boys?

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Ladies, you are being told you are not realistic in your approach to marriage and men. Is this true?

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Kenyan celebrity mothers can take a few lessons from Meghan Markle

Meghan Markle and Prince Harry welcomed their first child, a son, on Monday 6, May 2019.

The royal couple named their first child Archie Harrison Mountbatten-Windsor.

Unlike many prominent people or celebrities who hide their children’s face until they’re grown, Archie’s parents unveiled his face two days after his birth.

Meghan and Prince Harry
Meghan and Prince Harry with their newborn

Prince Harry’s brother William’s third child’s face was unveiled a few hours after birth.

Well, most of the local celebrity mothers take time to unveil their baby’s face. For some it is borne of a feeling of insecurity, for others, it’s to protect their children from trolls while for others still, it is for religious reasons -like with Muslims.

It’s an Islamic tradition that a baby’s face is only unveiled 40 days after its birth.


Michael Jackson was the first celebrity who kept the face of his children from the limelight and below is a list of Kenyans who’ve done the same.

  1. Janet Mbugua

Janet Mbugua

2. Jacque Maribe


3. Jane Ngoiri

Jane Ngoiri son


4. Brenda Wairimu

Juliani and Brenda Wairimu with their daughter
The couple with their daughter

5. Amina Abdi

Amina Abdi


Others, who also kept their babies faces private include Size 8 and DJ Pierra Makena. In Siz 8’s case, the gospel artiste cum pastor gave birth in November 2015 but hid her daughter’s face until January 2016.


 Ben Pol proposes to Anerlisa Muigai on the beach in romantic moment


Tanzanian singer Ben Pol and Heiress Anerlisa Muigai have been in Mombasa for a getaway that turned into a beautiful marriage proposal moment.

Anerlisa shared a picture of the moment Ben Pol got down on one knee to ask her to marry him.

The two began dating in February 2018, and mark a year in their relationship.

News of the engagement has excited their fans.

Anerlisa revealed the beautiful moment with a simple caption’

I Said YES 

With Ben Pol responding with heart emoji’s

Ben Pol was wearing a white outfit as he went down on one  knee, in what appears to be an emotional moment.

Anerlisa also dons a white trousers and a floral top as she covers her mouth in shock, as he slips the ring on her finger.

Their fans and celebrity friends congratulated them,  including the Wasafi team.

The engagement picture comes a day after it was alleged she is pregnant, claims she has denied.

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A timeline of the ongoing drama between Zari and Diamond Platnumz


Diamond Platnumz on Wednesday accused his ex Zari of having cheated on him twice, while they were together.

He insisted she had an affair with her gym instructor plus Nigerian singer P Square.

In an all revealing interview on Wasafi TV, Diamond washed his dirty linen saying the reason he cheated on Zari was because she wouldn’t agree to relocate to Tanzania, where he lives.

He further noted that since she lives in South Africa, the distance is too great and he is a man with needs.And that is how he ended up with Hamisa Mobetto his second baby mama.

So here is a timeline ONCE AGAIN of their ongoing drama:

February 14th 2018: Zari drop a picture of a black rose announcing she is done with Diamond. Reason? He is disrespectful and nobody needs that!

Months later Diamonds mother and his manager engage in shuttle diplomacy to win her back. She rejects all attempts, and asks him to move on.

Late 2018: Information leaks that Diamond is dating a Kenyan girl Tanasha Donna.

They confirm their relationship, after social media refuses to give them a break They then flood the interwebs with pictures of their loved up moments. So sweet!

Block mode activated: Zari blocks Diamond and his family on social media

December 2018: Diamonds mum indicates she approves of his relationship with Tanasha. They have a cute family moment during lunch and Diamond shows off the lavish mansion that Tanasha will occupy when she is Mrs Dangote.

January 2019: Zari after much speculation eventually blocks Diamond on social media. She calls him a deadbeat dad who hasn’t seen his kids in months, then later writes that she is now a single mother.

Meanwhile, it is also at this point that Tansaha shares why she fell deeply for Diamond. She also speaks of how she met Diamond, comments that upset Zari.

Read how she slammed Tanasha by clicking on the link below

Zari responds to Tanasha Donna’s remarks about meeting Diamond

February 2019: Zari shares that she has a new man.

Perhaps feeling left out for all the attention Diamond and Tanasha are receiving, Zari leaks info on Instagram stories that she also has a man. The mysterious man named King Bae is yet to be unveiled to us till now.

February 2019: it is also during this month that Diamond excites fans saying he will marry Tanasha on Valentines, but their plans don’t work out.

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March 2019: A woman (socialite) spills the beans that Diamond is cheating on Tanasha, after sharing whatsapp messages about the affair. There were also leaked pictures of Willy Pauls video vixen in a bed that resembles Diamond.

Why everyone was in an uproar is because Tanasha had also shared a photo of the same room, sending tongues wagging.

She shares screenshots of conversations, and he denied it. Tanasha calls people haters for wanting her downfall, with angry message on IG.

Co-wives battle: Zari and Tanasha go at each other with these cryptic messages

Zari responds to the cheating news, by warning Tanasha that once a cheat always a cheat,

Tanasha decides that the devil is a liar and slams Zari in cryptic message.

Diamond in a hard hitting message also assures Tanasha that he would never cheat on her.

April 2019: Diamond in a shocking interview claims Zari cheated on him with Peter of P Square and a gym instructor. He alleges he saw texts between Zari and Peter.

She immediately responded, slamming him for his claims

Exhausted yet? It will be interesting to see how much more these ex lovers go at each other.

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Diana Marua responds to criticism about leaving out Bahati’s son

Diana Marua is clearly affected by any story that has to do with her children.

She only has one child with Bahati, Heaven, but from what we see on the show Being Bahati, she also plays the role of a mother to Bahati’s other children.

Bahati Diana Marua
Bahati Diana Marua

She posted a picture of her husband and Heaven captioning it,

My God-given responsibility is to make sure that before anything else, they find a comfortable place in my heart to call home. They come first before my needs and nothing is more rewarding to be told “I appreciate you” by my hubby @bahatikenya and being given the warmest hugs and kisses by my baby @heavenbahati every day!! ❤🙏

Bahati lives with his son, Morgan but in pictures or even the show, he is rarely seen. Of course Instagram in-laws will be concerned wondering what’s going on? Why isn’t Morgan in the picture?

One brave Juliet questioned Diana Marua and since this is a sensitive topic, she replied to her saying she should be reasonable.

don’t be too quick to start saying things just because you can. I’m sure you don’t take photos of your mum and dad/brothers and sisters together all the time. that doesn’t mean they’re not acting like your family

The post did not stay for too long, Diana went ahead and deleted it.

Trying to avoid unnecessary drama in her marriage is not easy. Just a few days ago on Being Bahati, Diana had to calm her husband down.

She announced that she will be going to Italy to fulfill her lifetime dream as a cook in one of the most prestigious hotels in Italy.

This made Bahati mad saying that he will not be eating in that house:

Actually in this house I’m not going to eat. I have to get used to staying hungry because when you go to Italy, I will be hungry.


5 unrealistic things guys expect from girls


Trying to make sense of what a man wants from you can be difficult.


But here is a rundown of some of the things that guys expect from girls, that tend to cause a strain in relationships.
1. He needs a friend with benefit, but will never marry a girl who has had many relationships

Expecting a girl to be your friend with benefit for life is unrealistic. Won’t she find someone to marry, and wait just one minute is that even possible to be a friend with benefit for life?

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I have heard it said from many men that there are two types of chicks – the one to have funwith and – the one to marry.


2. Girls are expected to be natural ( we love you natural girls) but at the same time she must be super stunning

Even the moon has dark spots.
Okay, a girl can look good while being natural. But how can she manage to look SUPER S3XY without makeup. Sure, girls have natural beauty, but it doesn’t mean that you can expect her to look like you wish. Shouldn’t guys expect that a girl be caring, honest and all those nice things?

3. Be committed but not wedding crazy

Every girl has planned her wedding by the time she is done with college, whether or not she has a man.

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So expecting to date her without any mention of future plans is unrealistic.

The marriage topic WILL ALWAYS come up, and if she is committed to you, the subject will be there.


4. Being low maintenance while looking high maintenance

The expectation is that she should be both, but not trying too much.

If you want her to look like a “high maintenance” girl, you need to spend money on her for maintenance. The word itself says “high maintenance,” How can you expect her to look the same with almost no money?

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5. Being distant while still showing interest

Now this is confusing to girls. She can’t be turned on and off like a switch.

Guys, either you are in or you are out.

Is this true and what have you done when faced with such a situation?

Eight red flags to look out for in your relationship that signal it’s time to leave now


Australian dating and relationship expert Louanne Ward understands how easy it is to let emotion take over and ignore signals that things might not be as they seem.

She said many people ignore these warnings and enter into a relationship that might not be suitable despite the fact red flags were there from the outset.

Here, Louanne offers an eight-step guide that will help you recognise some of the more common indicators.

1. Rushing a relationship

‘Sometimes we meet somebody who swoops you off your feet and tells you everything you want to hear and they whisk you off on this lovely, magical journey,’ Louanne said in a recent Facebook video.

And as intoxicating this can be, the expert said this situation can be fraught.

‘These people are trying to manipulate the outcome of how things are going to work out and they are controlling the situation,’ she said.

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2. They are on social media but have no photos

If you’ve met through social media, watch for red flags, advises Louanne. One in particular is the person you’re dating has no photos of themselves online.

‘They say they are really private but often have lots of friends. They comment and like others’ posts but rarely post anything themselves,’ she said.

The reason this sort of behaviour suggests an issue is that it can indicate a person may have something to hide, the expert explained.

‘If you’ve connected with somebody on social media, this is something to be extra cautious about because if they’ve started a relationship with you on social media, it’s their potential fishing ground.’

3. They pursue you but tell you they don’t know what they want

There’s nothing more confusing than a person who makes the effort to date you but then says they don’t know what they want.

‘[They say] they really like you, they enjoy spending time with you, you’re really cool but they just don’t know what they want, or that they’re not even sure they’re looking for a relationship,’ Louanne said.

The coach is quick to point out that it’s important to read this as a sign this person isn’t available – and she recommends leaving as quickly as possible.

Louanne continued if you choose to ignore this type of behaviour because you believe the outcome could be different, despite their ambivalence, this may indicate you have a problem with self-esteem and self-worth.

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4. Watch for sudden outbursts of anger

Anger can be a tricky emotion to express in a relationship.

However, a sign there’s a potential problem is when a person you’re dating appears to lose their temper too often – and for no reason.

‘You start dating a wonderful person and things are going well but they are very quick to anger for no reason and they can turn on you quite quickly,’ Louanne said.

She added this type of behaviour can take a range of forms including storming out of the room, sending nasty messages or hanging up the phone during a conversation.

Louanne said while a person might apologise and offer a range of excuses, this sort of inconsistency can become an emotional rollercoaster.

‘If this is repeated behaviour, this is a red flag. It’s a definite no for someone to put you on a rollercoaster of anger and apology.’

5. One person controls the contact

During the early stages of a relationship, it’s normal to send each other a flurry of messages.

But the issue is when one person appears to be more in control of the situation.

‘You might send them a message or phone them and they don’t pick up or they don’t reply to your message straight away. Sometimes they can leave you dangling for hours or days,’ Louanne said.

‘Because when somebody needs to control when they can and can’t speak to you, it’s often an indicator there is a third person involved.’

6. They keep you at arm’s length and won’t commit

The expert said an inability to commit is often masked in vagueness – something that should be seen as a red flag.

‘You ask them to do something and they will say “I will have to get back to you” or “I’m not quite sure” or they just avoid making plans.’

It might be that a few weeks have passed since you’ve seen them, and while they will stay in touch, there will be no concrete plans to meet, Louanne continued.

‘Another telltale sign and a big red flag that you may not be the only person that they are seeing.’

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7. S3x is always a topic of conversation

There’s nothing wrong with talking about s3x but when this is the only topic of conversation or a go-to, Louanne says take note.

In particular, the coach said to watch for a person who might constantly question you about what you’re wearing or compliment you excessively on your body.

‘If these are people you haven’t sleep with yet, read this behavior as early stage red flags.’

Louanne also said another thing to watch for when being pursued by somebody who is highly s3xual is they may start sending you nvde photos of themselves and may expect you to send photos back.

‘As the relationship starts to develop, you may find yourself in a position where you’re sending photos that may make you feel uncomfortable,’ she said.

Louanne cautions: ‘It is a red flag when someone is asking you to do something that’s outside of your comfort zone.’

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8. Constantly telling small lies

In the early stages of a relationship, white lies might seem small and insignificant, but these can indicate a pattern of dishonesty.

Louanne said there are a couple of different reasons this is a red flag.

‘One is the person may be a compulsive liar or the person could be potentially seeing others, or they are trying to manipulate a situation to get their own way.

‘They are used to using lies to get their own way.’