A list of TV personalities who have been charged with murder

We take a look at prominent TV journalists and TV hosts whose careers went down the drain after they were charged with murder, directly or indirectly.

While some were charged, some jailed, others are still awaiting the ending of their cases.

1. Esther Arunga

Esther Arunga has been in the news the past few days after she admitted to having lied to protect her husband for the death of her 3 year old son.

Esther’s son Sinclair Timberlake died as a result of blunt force trauma to his abdomen in June 2014.
Sinclair suffered fatal injuries at his family home at Kallangur, north of Brisbane.
Esther Arunga
His father and former Kenyan presidential candidate Quincy Timberlake was charged with his murder.
Esther Timberlake on Monday pleaded guilty to being an accessory after the fact to manslaughter.
The 38-year-old admitted misleading police in order to help her husband escape punishment.
Crown prosecutor Danny Boyle told the court Esther called triple zero just before 2am on June 18.
When paramedics and police arrived, she told them her son had fallen down the stairs.
But an autopsy revealed Sinclair died
“As a result of a severe blunt force such as punching or stamping or similar” and his injuries were inconsistent with a fall.

2. Louis Otieno

Former NTV reporter Louis Otieno came into the limelight over his alleged connection in the murder of Careen Chepchumba.

Careen was found dead in her apartment seven years ago and Otieno was one of the suspects. The police cleared him of any wrongdoing.

Louis Otieno
Louis Otieno

After that his career never picked up again.Not much is known about his life.

3. Moses Dola

Former journalist Moses Dola was this year sentenced to 10 years for allegedly killing his wife Wambui Kabiru at their matrimonial home in Umoja Estate on May 1, 2011.

According to Dola the argument arose from the high gospel music which he was playing and which the late Wambui felt would wake up the baby.

Partly giving his testimony Dola says

“Just as I was picking our son, she shot up and charged at me.

She asked where I wanted to take her baby. In her charging she was holding the scissors. It was a split second event.

Unfortunately, it pricked (sic) my hand but I managed to squeeze her hand and she released it,”

Wambui queried

‘Wewe ukiamka kwa hii nyumba kwani kila mtu lazima aamke (If you wake up in this house, must everyone else wake up?).

The judge was told that Wambui reached for the scissors but Dola tackled her, and they both fell on the bed.He testified:

She hit her head on the bed, but because we fell on the mattress I did not realise that she was injured.” According to Dola, his wife’s last words were “ona umeniumiza” (see you have hurt me).

According to Dola, he went to his brother in law’s house in a bid to seek a truce with his wife. After that both Wambui’s brother and Dola went to drink.

Former journalist Dola and his late wife Wambui Kabiru

He testified that he was to take his bother in law to a baby shower later in the evening and thus they parted ways and he headed back to the house to freshen up.

When he got to the house, the court heard, Wambui was still lying in bed and did not respond when he called her name.

4. Jacque Maribe

Former Citizen reporter Jacque Maribe is the latest TV personality to be charged  with aiding murder.

Maribe whose case is still ongoing was arrested alongside her fiancee Joseph Irungu alias Jowie over the murder of business woman Monicah Kimani.

Their case is still ongoing.

Jacque Maribe and Jowie in court

 

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5 unrealistic things guys expect from girls

Trying to make sense of what a man wants from you can be difficult.

 

But here is a rundown of some of the things that guys expect from girls, that tend to cause a strain in relationships.
1. He needs a friend with benefit, but will never marry a girl who has had many relationships

Expecting a girl to be your friend with benefit for life is unrealistic. Won’t she find someone to marry, and wait just one minute is that even possible to be a friend with benefit for life?

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I have heard it said from many men that there are two types of chicks – the one to have funwith and – the one to marry.

 

2. Girls are expected to be natural ( we love you natural girls) but at the same time she must be super stunning

Even the moon has dark spots.
Okay, a girl can look good while being natural. But how can she manage to look SUPER S3XY without makeup. Sure, girls have natural beauty, but it doesn’t mean that you can expect her to look like you wish. Shouldn’t guys expect that a girl be caring, honest and all those nice things?

3. Be committed but not wedding crazy

Every girl has planned her wedding by the time she is done with college, whether or not she has a man.

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So expecting to date her without any mention of future plans is unrealistic.

The marriage topic WILL ALWAYS come up, and if she is committed to you, the subject will be there.

 

4. Being low maintenance while looking high maintenance

The expectation is that she should be both, but not trying too much.

If you want her to look like a “high maintenance” girl, you need to spend money on her for maintenance. The word itself says “high maintenance,” How can you expect her to look the same with almost no money?

‘No bras for me due to pain and scars in my right breast and lung’ Jahmby

5. Being distant while still showing interest

Now this is confusing to girls. She can’t be turned on and off like a switch.

Guys, either you are in or you are out.

Is this true and what have you done when faced with such a situation?

“Siwezi, si mfeel” Ben Pol says about possibility of reuniting with Anerlisa

 

A video of Ben Pol being interviewed about the possibility of re uniting with Kenyan wife Anerlisa Muigai has emerged.

In the video, Ben Pol severally shakes his head vigorously to say no, after being asked if he will give love another chance.

“Mimi namwombea tuu alkini kumzimia? ah ah ah”

The interviewer repeated the question about getting back with Anerlisa asking “feelings kwake bado zipo?”

To which Ben insisted that “sina hisia wala si mfeel, unfortunately. Sasa hivi mimi namwombea tu heri mpoango yake, lakini kumzimia? ah hakuna kitu ina weza tokea kati mimi na yake mapenzi au mahusiano”

Ben Pol with Anerlisa
Ben Pol with Anerlisa

Anerlisa on her part has been writing cryptic messages about a certain someone. She also revealed that Tanzanians hate her saying “Tanzanians always like to abuse me and call me old but I let that pass because one day I would like them to support our business”

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“When Esther came into my life, I wasn’t ready to get in a relationship,” Guardian Angel

Esther Musila and Guardian Angel have had a whirlwind romance that most people would admire. The couple who got engaged a few months ago is unique in that they have made their relationship work although that Esther is 20 years the musician’s senior, something that is anathema in most African cultures.

But while many might be envious for the love the two have for each other, the couple still has it’s issues like most healthy relationships do.

Esther was candid about this subject this week when she revealed that they used to argue during the first months of dating.

The two spoke candidly about their relationship on their YouTube show dubbed Love Wins, where the awesome twosome talked about marriage and its challenges.

“No one is perfect. When she came into my life, I wasn’t ready to get in a relationship, and one of the weaknesses I’ve had for the longest time is I don’t accommodate people,” Guardian said.

Esther Musila was scared to tell her children that she was engaged to Guardian Angel

The mother of 3 for her part said that their relationship wasn’t easy at the start. “When we started the relationship alikuwa ananiambia (he used to tell me), he can switch off. I remember like those first days when we argued about something; I used to ask him, ‘ooh you’re on your way to switching off’,” she said.

The “Nimependa” singer said that he was amazed that he had stayed with Musila for over a year without switching off, explaining that he could never stay with someone for over 3 months without zoning off.

“You can know somebody’s true colours when money is involved. Mtu akikosa pesa, uone his attitude imeanza kuchange unajua huyu sasa hana pesa,” Musila explained.

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Terence Creative makes bold declaration to Milly Chebby’s body-shamers

Comedian Terence Creative is unhappy with critics and trolls who have been body-shaming his wife Milly Chebby on social media.

In a well-written post on his Instagram page, Terence spoke against cyberbullies telling them that while they might only see her for her body, he sees her for her beautiful soul.

“SASA CYBER BULLY.

You can call her whatever you want and see whatever you wanna see in her but nothing shall ever blind me from seeing her beautiful soul, a kind and loving woman to me and anyone around her. Very cute @millychebby ❤️❤️.”

…days you wouldn’t return home for weeks – Milly Chebby tells hubby Terence Creative

He wasn’t done yet. He reminded his wife that the people who troll her are just sad souls and pathetic attention seekers.

Adding that cyberbullies don’t deserve anger but pity.

“When a fool utters all kinds of insults against you in social media without even knowing you or without any worthwhile reason or provocation, usually they are merely sad & pathetic attention-seeking trolls who we should all feel sorry for. They don’t deserve our anger. They deserve our pity. People who hide under fake accounts and anonymous account. Have nothing good to say. They always talk trash about others. Influence hate , bullying and abuse. They are instigators. They use this accounts to say filthy things and to ruin people lives. What they don’t know is that Karma knows their real identity. ‘I WISH YOU WELL CYBER BULLY.’ #iPityCyberbullies 🙏” wrote Terence Creative.

Milly for her part wondered whether there was a certain body type that everyone is supposed to have?

“I never care about cyberbullies but yesterday they almost got into me I was left wondering is there a specific body one should have? what’s a perfect body for you cyberbullies? What’s wrong with these key board warriors? Who hurt them?Anyway thanks @terencecreative for the words of affirmation 🤗”

Don’t forget that this isn’t the first time that the comedian and his wife speaking up for the mother of his child. In September last year, some Kenyans online attacked Milly after she put up a photo rocking a black Bikini (Biker-short) and a kimono.

I like that despite the constant attacks Terence will not stop defending his wife from all the haters and critics.

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“This one is mine. Trust me!” Frankie says on plans to propose to Corazon

Corazon Kwamboka and fitness instructor Frankie Just Gym have served couple goals since they started dating. The two attended the launch of BAZE platform at the Micheal Joseph Centre where they were interviewed by Mpasho.co.ke.

Corazon said that having Frankie as the father of her child was the best decision she made, citing his good parenting skills.

“I made the best choice having him as the father of my baby because he has helped me from day one. I was so clueless but he had some experience, so he was really helpful. He is a great dad,” she said.

When asked if she looks forward to the proposal, Corazon said;

“I hope he does one day. But am not really looking foward to it. Am taking one day at a time, if it happens and its the right time, I will say yes. Right now am just enjoying getting to know him and being parents.”

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When asked about proposing to Corazon, Frankie said, “This one is mine. Trust me.” Frankie added more on that disclosing some of the reasons why he loves the law graduate.

“She is bubbly, free-spirited and natural. That is one thing I really like about her. We can step outside without her even thinking of putting on makeup,” he said.

“He is a very supportive person as he encourages me and has helped me get through a lot of things in my life,” she said. Speaking on her career she said, “I could practice law, but I don’t. I am an advocate of the high court of Kenya, and anytime I want to practice, I have to pay for my practising certificate. But right now, I am engaged in my business and being a mum,” she said.

The retired socialite also addressed overcoming postpartum depression following their son’s birth. “I realised that I would never be perfect as a mum and will never have everything figured out,” she let on. She described motherhood as the best thing and hinted at getting another child. “It was hard at first, but it’s been an amazing journey. It’s the best thing that ever happened to me, and I want more,” said Corazon.

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We have been married for more than 12 years, don’t have kids and are very happy-Maina told

The morning conversation today was about couples that get married and don’t get kids. One particular caller fascinated Maina Kageni and surprised Kenyans with her own experience been married for many years and not having kids.

She said, “I have been married for more than 12 years and before we got married we made a decision not to have kids. We don’t have children and we have been very happy. He is the love of my life.”

Many Kenyans responded to the anecdotal story. Some of the comments are below;

It’s a foolish decision, Why get married first of all? What legacy will you leave to this world if you die now? Young guys choose your mentors wisely. Without your kids means you’re just in this world as a stranger waiting just to die.

Kids mean everything in marriage. So you can marry and plan you are not going to have kids??????

There’s nothing like conscious decision here!!!!!!!!!! Where would we be if our parents tried this?

True, I’m sure one of them wishes they had a child but doesn’t have the courage to tell the other.

No matter how this may look cool, it’s not supported in our African community. You will age and grow old and want your lineage to continue. Not just companionship and rearing dogs in the house.

Companionship marriage it is.

Then he’ll go siring kid’s in every county thinking he has no kid’s lol.

It’s a decision but with dire consequences you will need someone to call your own not to take care of you or provide for you in your old age but just to see them. Uyo caller mpe miaka kidogo tuu ataanza kutukimbisha apa n by the n atakua ameshoka #childisamusthave #tuambianeukweli.

I am trying to imagine a world without my kids and I can’t get it. My life would never be complete without them. They mean so much to me. Life would so boring if I had to live with ma wife just we too alone. They are the true meaning of life and grind. 

Wow! I love that caller.

I respect their decision but better have even one kid jameni.

Someone is lying here! I doubt they are happy…

A marriage will either age just like wine or sour milk. It will grow better with time or it will grow sour. Your efforts and attitude will be the difference-maker.

Acha nisimame dunia ishuke, alaaaah!!!

Aiish can’t imagine this is happening hapa Kenya.

If also their parents had made the same decision as them they won’t be existing.

Chicken will come home to roost. The man has kids, that one I am so sure of.

The most stupid decision of the decade

Upuzi, what else they do with the organs God gave. Just fun???

Two thugs in a union they are calling marriage.

It’s okay, I respect their decision

Confused poor man.

The dude anaweza kuwa akona watoi huko inje.

This an insult to my ancestors.

It’s a matter of decision with your partner.

Mimi hiyo siwezikubali.

Your choice your future.

Hapa kuna mtu akona watoto mahali

Impossible!!!

Alaa ama ni magay/malesbian!

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What to know about June Ruto’s grand wedding taking place in Karen today

Today, the who is who in politics and the corporate world will converge at Deputy President William Ruto Karen mansion for the exclusive wedding ceremony of his firstborn daughter June Ruto.

William Ruto at his daughter's engagement party
William Ruto at his daughter’s engagement party

June will say ‘I do’ to her Nigerian fiance Alexander Paul Ezenagu.

The wedding will take place at 11:30 am at Karen 97A, Koitobos Road. An adult reception will follow at the same venue.
Early this month, Ruto’s soon to be in-laws from Nigeria visited the family for dowry negotiations and introductions.

William Ruto with his daughter at her engagement party
William Ruto with his daughter at her engagement party

After the dowry ceremony, June posted her thanks on social media.

“Finally: He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favour from the lord. I thank god for the blessings in this memorable moment. today has been an important day as I have my better half @alexezenagu. sincere thanks go to god, my dad, mom, sister, friends and all relatives,” she wrote.

Politicians join Ruto at his daughter's engagement party
Politicians join Ruto at his daughter’s engagement party

Here is the invite for the posh invite-only wedding ceremony.

Wedding invitations
Wedding invitations

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“I almost stole Wahu from Nameless,” State House director of branding Big Ted reveals

The first episode of This Love features Thomas Kwaka aka Big Ted, who reveals that he actually met Wahu before she met Nameless and that he would have been “Mr. Wahu” had it not been for Nameless standing in his way.

This Love, musicians Nameless and Wahu’s new docu-reality series, is now streaming exclusively on Showmax, and it is loaded with some nostalgic moments and revelations.

Big Ted
Big Ted

Created and executive produced by Eugene Mbugua, This Love takes viewers into the lives of Nameless and Wahu, arguably Kenya’s most-admired celebrity couple, as they talk love, life and most of all, their shared passion for music that spans two decades.

While they were initially reluctant about the show when Mbugua first approached them with the idea in 2018, the couple finally agreed because they wanted to share what they had learnt during their 23 years together (and married for 15) which they’ve described as the “midlife” or “the first half of their lives.”


“We’ve been together for 23 years (and married for 15), and we’ve learnt a lot. we’ve gone through the ups and downs… you know how life is. that is what gave us the why, and we wanted to be authentic about this journey,” Nameless says.

With music playing a major part in their lives, Wahu reveals that viewers will also get a chance to see that side of them and how the process has been as they work on their first joint album together, also titled This Love.

“The other thing that we want to do in this docu-reality series, even as we share our story, is to also share our 20-year journey of being musicians. we want viewers to pick a lesson from us (if you’re able to), and there’s no better avenue than this love,” Wahu says.

In this episode, Nameless and Wahu take us back to how they first met by visiting their alma mater, the University of Nairobi.

In subsequent episodes, the 13-part series will also see Nameless and Wahu pay tribute to the late legendary rapper E-Sir, who was a close friend of Nameless.


The show will also see the couple revisit their famous wedding in 2005 and the elements that threatened to break them apart, as well as how they’ve managed to stay together, and so much more about their past and present, their family life and what it takes to finally make music together.

This Love is now streaming exclusively on Showmax, with new episodes releasing every Monday.

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Maina and King’ang’i: Do you date for love or survival?

The Classic 105’s morning conversation was about women who just can’t be with a man who has no money.  But what does love have to do with it?

A listener tweeted;

“There are those men we date for love and those we date for money and all of them know their place.”

Alice who has been in marriage for years called to give her experinece

“I got married for love some eight years ago and the ninth year it didn’t work out. If I’m going to get married agin, I’ll go for money because their shenanigans are the same. I’ve learnt a great lesson. Lets deal with their BS when someone is taking care of me properly.”

Adding;

“It is the same way gentlemen want to look for some nice chest and nice behind, lets look for someone with money”

I have a man at home, in the office and that ex you can never forget – Woman tells Maina

Betty, a caller, said “Without money, there’s no future, there’s no love. I’d rather date an old guy with money than a young one with nothing and I’ll make my future bright.”

A gentleman called to give his experience of how his lovelife changed when he started getting money

“There’s this lady I was dating and we sired a child, at the time I was a watchman. She didn’t even want me to see the child, when I got a better job, I was taken to the children’s court.

We solved out of the court, she got remorseful and apologized, We are now together and I got a second child with her.”

Another gentleman said

“Even marriage is a transactions that’s why you are given a license.  We know women are with us because of money but we turn a blind eye. It is a simple transaction. She is there cause of your money.”

…I am still waiting for him to buy! Njugush’s wife on why she doesn’t wear her wedding ring

Timothy Kimani or Blessed Njugush as fans have come to know him was recently interviewed by Massawe Jappani. The comedian spoke about something only his keen fans would most likely notice.


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That is, that he and his wife, Celestine “Wakabinye” Ndinda no longer wear their wedding rings. And why is that? Njugush said that he removed his wedding ring because of acting.

“My ring is at home because I keep removing it when I act. It kept getting lost every time I removed it during acting so I decided to keep it at home. I wear it when I am not acting, it’s like my Sunday best,” he said.


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His wife on the other hand had another explanation saying that she had lost hers a while back and still waiting for her husband to buy her another one.

“Mine got lost two years ago and my husband promised to buy another one, I am still waiting for him to buy,“ she said. The couple has been together for nine years but married for five years and have been blessed with a son called Tugi.

I don’t have a wife, I have a dem! Njugush corrects Amina Abdi about Wakavinye

Wakavinye during an interview with MC Jessy last year referred to her Njugush as her soulmate, saying that his biggest selling point with her was his sense of humour.


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What many might not know is that Wakavinye was first interested in her hubby’s friend but she would late fall for him. Njugush himself said that what really got him about Celestine was the fact that she would often provide him with shopping and other necessities whenever he did not have money to get by.

That act was enough to make the comedian know that Wakavinye would be the woman he wanted to spend the rest of his life with.

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Bill Gate’s ex Ann Winblad used to pay for everything when they started dating

After the news that Bill Gates and Melinda Gates were getting a divorce, news of the couple’s unique relationship is spilling online.

One of the most fascinating aspects of the 27-year-marriage was the fact that Bill continued to go on vacations with his ex-girlfriend Ann Winblad throughout his marriage to Melinda.

So who is Ann Winblad?

Educational background

Ann is a software expert and venture capitalist from Seattle, Washington who was born on November 1, 1950, in Red Wing, Minnesota.

Winblad earned her Bachelor of Arts in Mathematics and in Business Administration from St. Catherine University and her master’s degree in Education from the University of St. Thomas, St. Paul, Minnesota.

Career

According to her LinkedIn profile, Winblad has an impressive CV having held several posts within Silicon Valley, including runs as Director at companies such as Central Point Software, Hyperion, Net Perceptions, Intrinsa, Liquid Audio, The Knot, Marketwire, Krillion, Inc., Star Analytics, SVForum, Karmasphere, Voltage Security, MuleSoft, Sonatype, Ace Metrix and her current position of nearly 32 years at Hummer Winblad Venture Partners.

She has a net worth of over 1.5 billion shillings.

Her relationship with Bill Gates

When did she and Bill meet?

They met in 1984 after meeting at a computer conference. They then got to know each other better with virtual dates because they lived in different cities at the time.

Ann Winblad
Ann Winblad

The two would go see the same movie at the same time and then discuss it over the phone.

Ann was worth more than Bill when she started dating him.

In a 2005 interview with the San Francisco Chronicle, Winblad recounted how Gates “wasn’t such a big deal” when she started dating him. “And there was a period of time when my net worth was higher than his, and I had to pay for everything. It was a very short period of time, but it was memorable,” she quipped.

Why did they break up? The two broke up in 1987 when the 36-year-old Ann was reportedly more ready to settle down than Bill was.

However, the two stayed so close that Bill even asked for Ann’s approval before proposing to Melinda.

Where did Bill Gates vacation with his ex-girlfriend Ann Winblad? Gates spends a long weekend with Winblad at her beach cottage on the Outer Banks of North Carolina, where they ride dune buggies, hang-glide and walk on the beach.

The pair also traveled to Brazil and Santa Barbara, California during their relationship.

How do they both describe each other?

She said that he was a bige influence on her thinking. “There was a lot of inspiration from each other back then because there was so little collective wisdom,” she said in a past interview.

Bill in the same piece admitted that Winblad “brings a sense of enjoyment and humor to even the most serious situations. Her professional approach reminds me a lot of Warren Buffett. She is incredibly smart,” said Gates, a longtime friend of billionaire Berkshire Hathaway founder Buffett.

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Auntie Boss actress Nyce Wanjeri does gospel song with boyfriend Leting

Award-winning Actress-cum-Comedian Nyce Wanjeri is becoming a gospel musician. Yes, you read that right. The lady, who is popularly known as Shiro by Kenyans for her well-known role in the Auntie Boss show, will be releasing her first gospel song dubbed #Nakuhitaji.

The single mother of one said that she will be releasing the song with her boyfriend, Leting.

“I will be releasing my first song, original composition. Nyce Wanjeri featuring Leting aka Kiptoo. I will be featuring him, it’s a thanksgiving song, for category people will put it in the gospel but most mostly it’s a song that I want to thank God with, I want to tell God that through this journey it’s only Him.”

Adding,

“It’s not by my powers not by any one’s power, but through Him and every single day no matter where I’m nitaendelea kumhitaji. The song is called #Nakuhitaji and its coming out soon, we will share the dates.”

Nyce’s boyfriend is a singer and guitarist at Halisi Nation, a group of three young talented musicians. Other Band members are; Elly Sings and Mey Soy.

In a previous interview, when I quizzed her about how they had met, Miss Wanjeri refused to comment but was quick to divulge the merits.

“I like so much about him. I love people for who they are and not what they can give. He is humorous, he is also really supportive. He is an all-rounded character, in essence, he is all in one.”

And this isn’t the only song, Nyce will be featured on, she has collaborated in another song called #UkotuSawa done by Vivianne and Prezzo.

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“I was speechless that day!” Pascal Tokodi narrates first time he met wife Grace Ekirapa

Actor-cum-musician Pascal Tokodi and Grace Ekirapa surprised many Kenyans when they announced out of the blue last year that they had tied the knot.

Many wondered whether it was all a publicity stunt as the two hadn’t let on that they were dating, keeping their affair under wraps.

But as time goes by one can see that the two were not pulling our legs and that they did indeed get married. This week, Grace has been celebrating her birthday and Pascal decided to share intimate details of how he had met the Crossover101 host.

In a post seen by Classic105, Mr. Tokodi revealed that their first encounter happened at a Java House and he was a bit shy to make the first move.

Grace is everything that I have been looking for – Pascal Tokodi gushes (Exclusive)

He added that he was also speechless, not knowing the best way to approach her (Grace) until she smiled at him. He went on to confess his love for Ms. Ekirapa, stating that he can’t wait to make her a mother.

“On a certain 4th, You walked in a certain Java, 😌, it was my first time seeing you in person and I remember staring at you as you looked for a place to sit. You should have seen how wide my smile was when you chose the seat next to me.😄.”

Adding,

“You ordered Pancakes, pulled out your laptop and started working, I on the other hand sat there looking at you wondering how I was going to make the first move, for a guy who usually has a lot to say, I was speechless that day, you must have noticed cause you looked up and smiled at me, I smiled back and that was the beginning of everything for me.😌”

He finished off with his promise to make her a mum. “As you turn a year older, I want you to know that you are cared for and loved, You’ll make a wonderful mother and I can’t wait to make you one.😉 You are my person. This is Always and Forever , For People Like Us!!! Would you look at that. Enjoy your Day baby, I love you.❤️ @graceekirapa.”

Upon seeing the message, Grace wrote back saying that that the day is still fresh in her heart and she is grateful for the forever after.

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My dad steals family pictures on Facebook to pretend he spends time with us

 

A son is caught between his feuding divorced parents and all over pictures the deadbeat man takes from Facebook and re-shares to show his friends that he is taking care of his kids.

Instead of asking for pictures or taking his own, the deadbeat dad heads to Facebook and downloads the pictures his ex takes of their kids, to show the world he is active in his kids life.

The son told his story and people are weighing in on the situation with their own experiences with bad parenting.

“My dad be stealing photos from my moms FB. I haven’t spent time with this man like since I was 8 and I haven’t seen him in person since i was about 13. Out here faking” He laughed

Propel weighed in with their own comments that show co parenting is not easy, but doable if the tow aggrieved sit and talk.

@sazza_jay
lmao he’s asking for pics to show his own mother/girlfriend/friends etc to make it seem like he’s involved in his kids’ life when he isn’t.

@HcWritez
For people complaining. A present father would have his own pictures of his own kid.

@AuntieAutist
That part. My ex used to sit in a cubicle that had pictures of my son, wall to wall. That he did not take. Because he was being a selfish di*khole 24/7, not to mention a drunk. So he couldn’t take pictures on his own. Fingers probably too shaky.

@kayla57401789
It is to some women with absent baby daddies who try and use the child he doesn’t take care of online for clout and sympathy.

@Russ_Soull
Facts but a mom that wont let a father that wants to be there, see his son cant take the pictures
if that wasnt the case he wouldn’t even ask to see his son in the first place.

@AIwaysListening
The tweet is one thing. The actual tiktok is another. She said he can spend time with the kid whenever he wants. He chooses to ask for pics instead so he can post them online and pretend he sees his kid in person.

The word “see” has multiple meanings.

@votecumby
My brother thought a good dad put pics of his kid on social media and looked at them often. But the pics with both of them in them were from 7 yrs ago and he never saw the kid. So… I love this watermark idea.

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Anerlisa’s advice to ladies about getting pregnant is nice but with one major CAVEAT!

Keroche Breweries heiress Anerlisa Muigai is one woman who has been born with a silver spoon, something she doesn’t deny.

Despite this, she has tried to parlay her wealth and fame into running her Nero Water Company as CEO. Other than her business exploits, Anerlisa normally sees the clout she has as an opportunity to dole out advice to young ladies and girls.

She recently offered more counsel to the fairer gender concerning an issue that is close to her heart-On the type of men that young women should get pregnant for.

In an Instagram post, she told her fans that a baby is a commitment that women should not be boxed into having by their partners if they are not ready.

She told women that they are better off being left by their partners because of their uncertainty on having a baby rather than being forced into it.

“Dear young girls, do not get kids with somebody you are not sure about. You can date, get engaged, etc, but kids? That’s a whole a** commitment. Rather your partner leaves you because you are not sure about having kids than be forced into it. That is just my opinion, others have different views,” she wrote.

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While I agree with Anerlisa’s general sentiment, I have a problem with her advice on getting engaged to a man that a woman doesn’t see herself getting a child for.

As Anerlisa said, women should not get kids for men they aren’t sure about. In fact, they shouldn’t get engaged to men they aren’t sure about.

How are you going to commit to a man for future marriage and you aren’t sure about him. By the time one is getting engaged, they should be sure and right about the man, having even gotten input from people they trust who have helped vet them.

Another problem I have with the advice is that it doesn’t take into account the effective use of one’s time. I think that women who want kids should only seriously date men who they can foresee having kids with after the first few dates.

Time is a woman (and a man’s) most precious resource, she shouldn’t waste it on men who aren’t worthy in the first place.

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New claim that Kanye filed for divorce from Kim as they had “nothing in common”

The more this story between Kanye West and Kim Kardashian unfolds, the more shocked I get. New information coming out is that the rapper and billionaire fashion mogul is the one who applied for the divorce from Kim and not the other way around, as was first reported.

This according to sources close to the rapper, who said that he thought they no longer had anything in common. Apparently, the man is upset that the initial reports were that Kim is the one who filed for the divorce while it was he, who had in fact done it.

According to Complex, Kim filed for divorce two months ago but now it has been reported that Yeezy wanted Kim to file for divorce first “in order to give her dignity”.

The publication added that Kanye has been saying for a year that he and Kim have nothing in common except their kids.

The source further alleged that Kanye wanted out but Kim allegedly “pulled all the stops to try to save their six-year marriage”.


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Adding, “Actually it was him saying for a year that they have nothing in common except the kids and he wanted out.”

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My ex girlfriend told me she will never let me move on

The topic of bitter exes who won’t let you move on to a happier relationship has been the trending topic in Kenya.

More so with the video that politician Karen Nyamu dropped online reminiscing happier times with ex Samidoh who dumped her.

Besides the video, what was on the minds of Kenyans was that Karen has not accepted she was dumped and that her ex and baby daddy Samidoh has moved on.

A man called in with his personal story of his ex who won’t let him be.

Maina Kageni was of the view that women need to be dumped ‘nicely’ adding that “women need closure, you need to leave them nicely. Do you have one of those exes who cant leave you? Maina asked “BTW Karen if you can all in please do, coz I need to understand what is going through your mind.” Coz you can imagine Samidoh’s wife when she saw this video what is going through her mind?’

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The man from Meru described his horror story after attempting to dump his baby mama and move on in peace.

‘Back in the day I used to work for Nakumatt in Mombasa. So there was this lady I was with for five years. We had a daughter and eventually after Nakumatt collapsed, I lost my job and that when things didn’t work out between us she started blaming me. So it got to my head one time, and I had to leave everything I had ever worked for, including the side hustle. I left everything for her and I returned to Meru. She followed me and she told me to my face that yeah I know things are not working out between us and I know I made it worse, by playing you, but I cannot sit on my own and watch you happy with another woman. She told me that her problem is me being happy somewhere else’

Dear Classic fam, how have you ever handled an ex who won’t move on? Drop us your gems we share with others below.

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