9 habits that make someone a toxic person to date 

 

After multiple unsuccessful attempts at dating, here is  a list of toxic dating habits you need to break to find love for real this time.

  • Writing people off for insignificant things: Writing someone off immediately for silly things like theiir choice of place to hang out or the type of drink they order
  • Expecting an immediate spark: you’ve likely made some assumptions about their personality based on their profile, their photos, instead of being keen on what else they’ve not revealedin.love.2
  • Getting too many second opinions: Girls love to get second opinions from all their BFFs about her new catch, further complicating the dating experience
  • Just going along with things for the sake of having an experience called dating
  • Not being honest with yourself about if it’s the right time to date or why you want to date too soon after leaving someone else.
  • Fear of commitment; You unknowingly chose men who want to have fun because also deep down you are also afraid of commitment
  • Change the type pf person you date: Some times switching the type f person could serve as a breath of fresh air and the new experience might just surprise you
  • Work on yourself to attract the kind of guy who commits: You can’t go out there and try to find a guy who ticks all your boxes if you don’t have those boxes filled either.
  • Keeping score: that’s not a healthy way to continue forward if all you can keep track of is what they said, did or didn’t do for you.

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Where’s Cupid? 5 reasons why people think they are unlucky in love 

 

Who doesn’t play around with thoughts about being unlucky in love? Many of us struggle with this and are often left feeling jaded.

We question why some are always lucky to land the man or woman of their dreams and everything is lovey dovey. So what happens to the rest of us who are ‘unlucky in love’?

Here are reasons why we are unlucky in love.

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  1. You’re dating to have fun: Being with someone to pass time Kenyans have normalized this ‘just having fun until I’m ready’ thing. The truth is, it’s often not the fact that you are “cursed” in love. Instead, it’s your own actions that are preventing your desired outcome.
  2. The excuse that I’m bad at relationships: People are not bad at relationships, our casual attitude is what makes our relationships appear unlucky in love.
  3. Not labelling a relationship: When we are unable to answer the ‘what are we’ question we make things casual so that we don’t scare away the other person therefore, we continue to hook up with him/her endlessly.
  4. Just incase: Many of us are guilty of dating multiple partners, just in case one doesn’t work out, we have another to fall back on and to test them if they are for keeps.
  5. Obsession with the ex: When you still pinning your hopes on your ex coming back, we ruin our chances at real love. The sooner you snap out of this delusion, the higher chance you have of finding something better.

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‘Teach a man to spend money on you’ Kenyan woman advises

 

How many times have you heard out there a married man bragging that his woman is fine, he doesn’t need to worry about things at home? Sound familiar?

This situation is very common according to one woman who called in to the Classic 105 show, to share tips on family finances.

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Just read this quote first before we get into it.

Girls, it is your right to expect a man to pay for your dinner, your movie ticket, your club entry fee, or anything he has to pay for in exchange for your time. began comedian TV show host Steve Harvey.

The upset woman said to Maina Kageni that

the number one mistake women make with these men especially when you land yourself a stingy man is showing them you can be independent, especially financially.

You show a man you can take care of all your financial needs, rub it in his face? The day you come to him and ask for a coin, trust me aki sha zoea, whatever he will give you will be little or nothing knowing that you have money, when he gets used to being shown that you are financially independent?

You don’t hear them bragging out there ati my mama is a mama who sorts herself out. so this thing of miss independent it blows. the day you are needy that man won’t care. 

So what should a woman do?

From the word go let that man spend on you let him take care of you teach him how to spend on you, so girls out there, let them listen 

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The type of music you need to spruce up a romantic night

 

What are some of the romantic songs you would play for your boo? I have come come up with a list of songs, that have been played over time and are timeless.

You don’t only need to wait for Valentines just for you to show some affection to your boo or for anniversaries or special occasions. You can do it as often as possible to keep the flames of your relationship still burning.

It  has been argued time and time again that Kenyan men have no hint of being romantic, neither do they know how to show affection to the ladies.

I would like to challenge and give them this task of making the relationship more spicy and entertaining, not only in the bedroom but also outside it.

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For starters, you will never go wrong with Lionel Richie, the  most successful male solo artists of the ’80s, arguably eclipsed during his 1981-1987 heyday.

Richie dominated the pop charts during that period with an incredible run of 13 consecutive Top Ten hits, five of them number ones. Some of the his songs you could listen to are,

  • I call it it love
  • Lady

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Another all time favorite, is the late Whitney Houston who was cited as the most awarded female artist of all time by Guinness World Records and remains one of the best-selling music artists of all time with 200 million records sold worldwide. Her music is timeless and gives you goosebumps just by listening to the late icon’s voice. Her songs are:

  • I will always love you
  • I wanna dance with somebody
  • I look at you
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Fantasia who rose to fame as the winner of the third season of the reality television series American Idol in 2004, sweeps everybody with her angelic voice, that puts you in a baby making mood to a hot date type night. Her songs that will keep you all night;

  • When I see U
  • Enough

 

Image result for mariah careyAnother songbird that could get our knickers all entangled up is none other than Mariah Carey. With her  five-octave vocal range, melismatic singing style, and signature use of the whistle register makes all lovebirds just cuddle up and make merry for her voice and personality just turns you on. Songs that will keep you energetic and lovey dovey are;

  • We belong together
  • Without you
  • Always be my baby

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Charlie Wilson aka Uncle Charlie an American R&B singer who’s voice doesn’t need no recognition. As the lead singer of The Gap Band, Wilson defined the sound of R&B and funk in the 1980s with hits like;

  • You dropped a bomb on me
  • There goes my baby
  • You are

Call these songs bedroom music, or quiet storm, or mood setters, if you really want to be polite about it. But basically, they are love mvking songs—songs about getting a little somethin.’

But these are just some of them to chose from, don’t be boring when it comes to being in a relationship.

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Otile Brown and Nabayet’s relationship will not last-Here’s why

This past week, Otile Brown went all the way up to visit his long-distance girlfriend Nabayet. The “Dusuma” singer all the way to Ethiopia to see the woman who has had a big place in his heart for more than two years.

The last time they were spotted together was back in December 2019 months before break up rumours emerged online. Nabbi had been stuck in Australia for months due to the COVID-19 pandemic that interfered with international travel.


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The beautiful and light-skinned Ethiopian queen jetted to her home-country recently, and after Otile finished shooting his music video in Tanzania, he jetted straight to Ethiopia to see her.

The couple shared a video hanging out together with Nabbi’s caption reading, “I am holding your boy hostage in Addis Ababa, and he ain’t coming back,”

In the video, the pretty Ethiopian lady is seen planting soft kisses on Otile Brown’s forehead, showing her fans and followers how she missed him when she was away. They also went to a high-end restaurant where they were seen sampling Ethiopian cuisine.

‘I knew you were gonna be my headache,’ Otile Brown to his ex Nabayet

Thing is while people might see his gesture as being very romantic, I don’t see it the same way. I think that the couple is trying to keep alive a relationship that isn’t meant to be.

It is well-known that long-distance relationships are the toughest things to navigate and while the couple might be trying to keep the spark burning, I think it might be on its last legs.

The old school phrase, “Out of sight, out of mind” comes to mind for me. The two are still clutching at straws to keep what should have been a fling into a long-term relationship.

And while I might sound jaded, my question to you the audience is this? “What is the point of a relationship where you see your significant other for less than a whole month in a year?”


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Is that really the type of relationship that the romantics among us dream about? I don’t think so. Anyone who wants to have a long-term relationship with someone else desires to see them a lot. The desire levels between the two leaves a lot to be desired.

In conclusion, I think what Otile and Nabayet have is a short-term arrangement(one they might know on a subconscious level). One that offers the two clout and publicity-one that isn’t meant to go the whole distance but that is working for them right now.

But I could be wrong.

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8 predictable but absolutely common lies men tell in relationships

There are many reasons why he might lie; either he doesn’t want to hurt you with the truth, he wants to avoid drama, he wants to impress you or he thinks you won’t appreciate him being honest.

So let’s get down to the list of lies he and others obviously tell women. Kubali kudanganywa ladies.

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  1. I’ll be home in 20 minutes: He always has to make a quick stop, but he also knows that not telling you his whereabouts is a tricky matter, and so the excuse of I’ll be there in 20 minutes arises. Quick question though girls. Do we always have to know everything bae does and at what time. This kind of reminds me of Size 8 who pesters and nags husband Dj Mo with incessant phone calls. Chill, he will be home.liesmeme
  2.  Just go have fun babe: Because his male ego is so fragile, he can’t fathom you going out and enjoying without him.  To hide this, he will encourage you by saying ‘ Just go have fun, I trust you’ . It’s lies. He is a wreck thinking about all those hottie men out there hitting on you and he is going nuts.

    I don’t want a divorce! Size 8 gives reason for her constant nagging

  3. She’s just a friend, nothing else: Big eye roll. 4387-anim
  4. It’s not you. I just have a lot of stuff going on:
    It actually is about you and your relationship. You are not part of his plans just yet. Try and find out what the real problem is because if issues are swept under the carpet, he becomes more withdrawn.

    My ex lied he slept in a matatu from 7pm to 4am to hide an affair

  5. I’ll call you: Wauuz this is the mother of all lies girls. How many times has your man  – crush, boyfriend or whatever you call him, not called you when they said they would? 492384298-anim
  6. I’ll leave my wife for you: He does this for the benefit of your self esteem.
  7. I don’t think your thighs are too big: This one I must admit we do pile on the pressure for them to tell us we are skinny. Girl simply stop asking him if you are fat or thick, or whatever sensitive words we should be using in this cancel culture of 2020.
  8. Your the only girl I talk with: So why is he texting her?  If he bluntly tells you that you are the only girl who he is with at the moment, please do not fall for it siz.

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Ukiendelea kukaa na hiyo roho chafu hivyo soon utajinyonga akii!-Bahati tells troll

Kevin Bahati and his wife Diana Marua might not be the most liked of celebrity couples but damn, aren’t they quite popular!

The couple who have two of the most followed Instagram pages online come in for a lot of hate from many Kenyans who are often camped in their comment sections where they call them out regularly.

The most recent case of a Kenyan going in on the couple was witnessed this past week who had bashed him with his wife Diana Marua after sharing a selfie they took while in Bahati’s home village.

The musician captioned the post with lyrics from his song #Wanani, where he sings about inviting people who envy him to his wedding. The caption read;

Twende Nyumbani Tukamuone Aunty… Nawenye Wivu Tuwaite Harusini.

Kama Uhai angepewa Mummy,

Angefurahi Kukuona Hunny. ❤️ #Wanani Wedding Loading. ……. %

But his post got one Kenyan lady going by the name of Catherine all hot and bothered. The sister told the Bahati’s that they have nothing special that people can envy. “Wivu ya nini sasa…what do you guys have that is so special”


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But the Bahati was having none of that nonsense on his Instagram page and went hard stating that the fan in question was hating on his family yet she can’t even post her own photos online.

That wasn’t all, Bahati even warned Catherine that she linked committing suicide if she went on having such negative energy.

“@Catherine, First we have Faces that we are proud of to post. I wonder how you look kama ukona na zero posts. Ukiendelea kukaa na hiyo roho chafu hivyo soon Utajinyonga akii” replied Bahati.

While his response might seem overblown(and it is), I understand where the singer is coming from. The singer and his wife easily have the most haters online who constantly lampoon the couple for every little detail in their lives.

I know that it can get frustrating sometimes and a gasket can be blown like in this instance.

 

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Her marriage lasted 3 months! The reason Esma Platnumz is not able to keep a man

Diamond’s sister, Esma Platnumz’s got married 3 months ago in a glitzy and glamorous wedding but it seems that the relationship is over and done with. This according to Esma who revealed this information last week and blamed her husband for being the cause of its demise.

Esma Platnumz with her husband
Esma Platnumz with her husband

But her husband Msizwa refuted her claim saying as the husband in the relationship only he could divorce her. But while the relationship status might hang in the air depending on who you ask, for me the marriage is all but done.

There is no going back despite what Msizwa is saying. But I digress. My reason for writing this article is Esma’s recent post attacking some of the women Diamond brings home.

“@diamondplatnumz you are going to add a few kilos by the time Zari is leaving. She is not like those women who feed you on fries. When I visit and find them there I will chase them away,” added Esma.

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Esma Platnumz with Diamond Platnumz and Tanasha in the past

Her post seemed like the kettle calling the pot black, according to many of her critics who called her out, a sentiment I agree with.

How can she offer relationship advice but still not be able to maintain a successful marriage? Doesn’t she see the irony of the circumstances she is in?

At least Diamond’s women can give the excuse of not being married to the star where they asked why their respective relationships ended? The phrase, “Why buy the cow if you get the milk?” would adequately refer to Diamond and his women.

Esma Platnumz with Diamond Platnumz
Esma Platnumz with Diamond Platnumz

You see they have an excuse not to fully invest in the philanderer who changes women more than a socialite changes her nails. So if it fails, they can say they didn’t put all their effort in-Husband things for husbands, not boyfriends!

But Esma doesn’t have that excuse. Mziswa although a polygamist had committed to her, then what was her problem really? I think Esma isn’t made for marriage life-She loves her independence. She wants to be married but behave like a single woman while in it.

Esma Platnumz-The case of women who want to be brides and not wives

Funny thing is that her ex Petit Man had foreseen the difficulty of dating his baby mama. During her wedding, Petit Man insisted that Esma ignores very serious problems in her character, something that will continue to make any other marriage doomed.

Esma Platnumz with Petit Man
Esma Platnumz with Petit Man

The man said in a past interview;

“I have missed her alot. Esma is so proud and cursed. It’s tricky handling Esma because of her pride, her attitude and I’m sure there is no other man out there who can put up with her like I can. No one. Sidhani kuna mwanaume mwingine anaweza kuvumilia ujeuri wa Esma.”

At the end of the day, Esma will never have a long-time relationship unless she deals with the person in the mirror-the one who loves her independence more than she loves being tied down. But can she?

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They drink Jack Daniels like a man! Maina told about bibi mang’aa

Maina and King’ang’i spoke about wives who create chaos and suffering for their very loving husbands. The host was shocked that women like this (mabibi mang’aa) existed.

The presenter wondered how this could take place in a country where the men were reported to be the heads of homes. King’ang’i explained to him that it was happening more than people actually knew and that the husbands of these women were normally some of the coolest men out there.

I know my wife is cheating with many men and I can’t leave-Man tells Maina

Comments from listeners are below;

I can’t remember the last time I got home before my wife-A man sadly said about his bibi mang’aa.

Some times you visit someone and you see the way the wife behaves, I tell myself that I would like 10 minutes with that woman so that I can deal with her and make her a good wife-A man said.

Don’t such women know that they are inflicting fear on men who want to get marrie?-A woman asked.

Those kids called kababa are doomed. You are the head of the home and should behave as such. This women start by testing you. How can a man confess that his woman is seating on him? Leave her and go to another one that you can handle. Whether you are a billionaire, all women love an authoritative man-A man said.

Jacque Maribe’s father tenderly comforts distressed-looking Jowie(photos)

They are the first generation of women after the Beijing conference. That is why they are behaving like that-A man told Maina.

My grandfather once told me that there are no good women-A man told Mr. Kageni.

A woman has become like the men she is supposed to marry, drinking and acting like men-A woman told Mr. Kageni.

Those crazy women are there. Wanawake visirani wako. They should learn how to control their emotions. You don’t want to deal with one-A woman said.

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Kenyans should be saddened by Frankie and Maureen Waititu’s relationship drama

Frankie Kiarie and his first baby mama’s relationship break down has played in public for the last few months. Since the emergence of Corazon Kwamboka, all decorum and sanity between the two celebs has gone out the window.

And one can understand why their relationship drama will still go on. The ex-couple were blessed with two sons in their time together.

This is a fact that they will make them forever linked together try as they might is tough to sever it and their recent fights have revolved around their kids.

A quick recap

Maureen at first accused the gym instructor of not being involved in his kids’ lives a few months ago, something Frankie quickly responded with contradicting receipts.

But that didn’t stop the battles between the two. Frankie ratcheted up the ante earlier this month, claiming that his ex had refused him from seeing his kids.

Maureen came back with fire and told off her ex saying that he should move on as his claim didn’t hold any water. The battleground between the two has been quiet this past week but for how long before the war-ground is littered with more accusations?

But that isn’t the reason I asked this question? I am saddened that such a pair that held such promise and were the original couple goals for many women (and some men) has become the laughing stock for many of the Mtaachana mob.

If a couple like Frankie and Maureen who made their names online espousing what a great relationship could be and should be and now are fighting like Trump and Biden, what hope do normal mortals have for modern marriage?

While I might seem cynical, anyone with Google can do a search on the highs the couple reached and how far they went in making marriage and relationships the things to have/be in.

But maybe I am just seeing the trees and not the forest. Maybe, Frankie and Maureen are the famous Supernova that burned to bright for their own good.

Bu what do I know?

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Bridget Achieng speaks candidly about Risper Faith’s liposuction (Exclusive)

Bridget Achieng is not a lady who is a shrinking violet. The popular socialite-cum-business lady recently spoke to me about one of her great friends, Risper Faith.

Risper for those of you who aren’t aware underwent liposuction to deal with the excessive weight in her abdomen, something she revealed last week.


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Bridget said that she understood where her friend’s motivations were coming from and was happy for her. But she stated that she herself wouldn’t do it as she answers only to herself.

She called me the other day about it. You know we are very tight, you know motherhood and all. We talk, if she doesn’t know something she will ask me as I am a single mom who makes decisions for herself. For her she is in a partnership with her husband and so all her decisions have to be made with him. When you are married you can’t make a decision by yourself. Risper can’t just wake up and go.

She added,

Me I can leave the house at 12 midnight and no one will ask me sh!t. She called me about what was going on a few days ago…Risper is my girl but at the moment I am not in that place in my life. Me I am yoloing, nobody is asking me why have you added weight. 

But Bridget was quick to give support her homegirl saying,

But I am happy for her. At least she is comfortable. Brian is a nice guy. He has changed Risper a lot. I understand the risk she went through going for that procedure. There are potential side-effects that people don’t tell you about, that you will forever have and you know that she is a CS mom like me. So at any point, there is no time she will 100%. But I understand. She wants to be sexy mama milf. Hahaha!


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The scars are there for life – DNG talks divorce after 9 month marriage

Dng is one of the most popular hypemen in Kenya. The man who calls himself Waziri Wa Sherehe, rarely if ever speaks about his private life, mostly concentrating on his career.


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Davidson Ngibuini, alias Dng was recently interviewed on the YouTube page, Cleaning the Airwaves and opened up about his failed marriage to Yvette Nungari after just nine months.

“I got married in March 2015 but filed for divorce in December 2015. I think I fell in love with the idea that this marriage could work since I always wished to settle down and have a family of my own.”

The musician explained why his relationship to Yvette (whom he met in Dubai) didn’t work out.

“Fundamental ideological differences made my marriage not work. things like traditions, locations where we lived, and where the family was to be and wealth,” he said.

Dng added that he messed up when he ignored numerous red flags. “I was in love, i expected things to work, so i didn’t look at the red flags seriously, which I should have. The understanding that I had about a relationship is different. I now understand that people must be willing to walk in the same direction and walk with each other openly and be honest with each other. Those are lessons I shouldn’t have learnt had our marriage worked.”

DNG’s timely advise to Nyashinski about marriage

The artiste also explained that he wasn’t going to go broke trying to impress a woman. “I was not going to take bank loans to impress a woman by getting them a good car and to show the society that I have made it,” he said.


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On the divorce, he said that it was one of worst things that he has ever gone through in his life. “Time is a beautiful healer. It took me about a year but the scars are there for life. The memory is there; though it’s a non-issue, it is still there,” he said.

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“Move on” Maureen Waititu tells Frankie as he posts evidence against her

The drama with Maureen Waititu and Frankie Kiarie reached a head this past weekend after Maureen responded to Frankie’s allegation that she had refused him access to see their kids.


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The Rubicon has well and truly been crossed by the couple and there is no turning back. In a long YouTube video, Maureen refuted claims that she wasn’t interested in getting back with Frankie.

“Those people saying am just bitter and that I want Frankie back, I don’t. I know what I want. I do not want someone who does not respect me nor my kids. I am in a happy place, my business is doing ok and I am ok.”

Ask Frankie the last time he bought clothes or toys for the kids – Maureen Waititu says

She then went ahead to turn tables claiming that it was Frankie who needs to move on from her, saying; “If I am the one who needs to move on why do you keep dragging my name down with you? you don’t have to drag me down for you to rise.”

Meanwhile, Frankie shared an alleged screenshot of a text message he received from Maureen in March this year. In the screenshot, Maureen, who seems to fed up with Frankie’s behaviour, tells him that he will never see his kids again.

Frankie Kiarie screenshot message about Maureen Waititu
Frankie Kiarie screenshot message about Maureen Waititu

“Mark my words, my kids will never step into that filthy house. i’ll let your mother and your entire family know. ruining your kids lives because of hoe’s a**. wow!” reads part of the text.

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I always knew it was going to be a girl! Ruth Matete’s father speaks

After all the craziness and sadness that has surrounded her this year, gospel singer Ruth Matete is finally the newest mother in town.

My uterus was messed for me to conceive, Ruth Matete narrates why her exes left her

The musician welcomed a baby girl Toluwa Apewajoye on the 19th of October at Ruai Family Hospital RFH. In an interview with Mpasho’s Elizabeth Ngigi, the singer father Abel Amunga said that he was excited to finally be called a grandpa.

The proud grandfather then related that his daughter had delivered through CS as she had to deliver slightly earlier due to high blood pressure.

“She had high blood pressure and in order to save both the mother and the child, the doctor recommended a premature CS be done which was successful and both are safe and healthy. Ruth was expecting her baby in mid-November but the baby came three weeks earlier. the doctors tried to push it up to around 37 weeks but it was not possible.”

Ruth had previously admitted that she would be delivering a baby boy. What had happened since then? Her dad explained that her first and second scans revealed a son but her third scan revealed a girl.

“From the time she went for her third scan, we’ve always known it is a girl. I knew it was a girl from the word go and I spoke out of inspiration like I always do. A lot of people looked at her traits and expected she was expecting a girl but the first word that came from my mouth, I said it is a girl.”

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How to spend a romantic weekend with your spouse

After a long week of working, you need to spend time with your family and rest.

This is how you can spend a romantic weekend with your spouse;

1. Massage

This will help your muscles to relax and improve your body blood flow.

You can go to a spa with your partner or do the massage at the comfort of your home. You can also massage your partner and alternate the procedure.

It prepares your body for the other week of working.

 

Tokeo la picha la massage

2. Date

Take your partner on a date and have some alone time, just the two of you.

This will help to strengthen your relationship and show your partner how much you love and care for them.

3. Sharing house chores

This may seem menial and almost commonplace but in reality, it is very romantic.

Watching your spouse doing house chores and helping out helps a lot.

This involves teaching your partner to do some of the chores that they know nothing about.

It helps in strengthening your bond.

4. Watching movie

This will make you relax and relieve all the stress you had throughout the week.

Watch a movie that both of you like and make a great memory out of it.

Tokeo la picha la watching amovies

5. Picnic

Weekends are always known to be resting time.

Take your partner out for a picnic, observe the features and environment and the pastures.

Take pictures of each other, laugh and make great memories.

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6. Fun games

Playing with your partner plays a great role in your marriage.

It will help in creating a greater bond.

Play games that you love and also train your spouse new games that they knew nothing about.

Playing also helps in refreshing your body and mind.

7. Cooking

Take this time and make your spouse the best dishes that they love.

Teach them how to cook for the meals they do not know how to cook.

You can also make it more fun by competing on knowing who is the best cook between the two of you.

8. Sharing past memories

You can take this moment to remember your past moments even before you got married.

You can look at your old pictures together and compare with your current to see if there is a difference and make some comments on each other.

Healthy benefits of taking ginger and lemon as your daily routine

9. Workouts

Take this time to observe your health too.

You can go to the gym and workout or even do some home workouts together.

Do some morning or even runs to maintain your weight.

Tokeo la picha la morning run

10. Walks

Take a walk in the evening with your partner and whisper sweet romantic words to them.

Tell your partner how much you care and love them.

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Frankie and Maureen Waititu’s relationship was always bound to end in the gutter

The relationship between ex-lovers and relationship goals couple Frankie Kiarie and his ex-wife Maureen Waititu seems to be eroding faster than fake bling exposed to the elements.

Yesterday, the already strained relationship suffered another body blow when Frankie alleged that Maureen had refused him from seeing his two sons.

In an Instagram post, he made to his son Lexi on his birthday the muscly father of 3 said he was hoping his son would get the message that he should always be true to himself and live his dream.

…Since I have no access to you, I’ll pass these words on and hope they find you. Be true to yourself always.

The biggest story in his birthday message to his son was the line above. To say that I hadn’t seen this coming, would be a lie.

The signs had been brewing over the past year. The couple split up in early 2019 with their break-up being kept hush-hush by the both of them.

But rumours started spreading about the fate of the picture-perfect as the two hadn’t been seen together on their popular Instagram accounts. As most people know, Instagram is a huge predictor (and very accurate I must say) of a couple’s relationship status. But I digress.

The celebs soon confirmed the news in their own individual way with Maureen being the more outspoken of the two. She confessed in multiple interviews and messages how the break-up hard been so tough on her that she had to see a therapist.

Frankie was more muted and respectful but became more forthcoming after his relationship with Corazon Kwamboka went public.

Till then Maureen had been emotional but had still tried to exercise restraint while speaking about the father of her two kids.

Corazon enters the scene and things went to shit…

I believe Corazon was the tinderbox that set the underlying and pervasive tension between the two alight. Since her entrance into the picture, the ex-couple has been going at each other’s necks regularly.

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The claims and counter-claims that have emerged between the couple have not only shocked the public but entertained them (schadenfreude I guess).

While some might enjoy the drama, for me it is a sad reminder of what a few months can do to a relationship between two people who had kids and history together.

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But it was bound to happen. Corazon not only emerged as the woman who had replaced Maureen but she came along with a bun in the oven-Not a side chick but a woman who will forever be linked with Frankie.

She gave birth in the month of August 2020 and since then Frankie has lavished her with praise and attention-the consummate partner and father.

I don’t think his affections, attentions and intentions for Corazon have helped the already strained relationship between him and Maureen.

And I don’t see things improving on that front. Best case scenario is that it will end in court between the ex-couple. But I could be wrong and the two could exercise some maturity and forward-thinking in lieu of the kids they have together.

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There are 2 sides of a story – DJ Mo’s alleged side chic Margaret Wanyama now says

Margaret Wanyama has done a complete 180 after she exposed Dj Mo for allegedly cheating on his wife Size 8. The socialite has started an online campaign asking that her name be cleared from the whole messy business.

In an expose carried by Mpasho’s Grace Kerongo, Margaret said that her account had been hacked by her bitter ex-friend and that she did not expose the gospel DJ or leak his family jewels to blogger Edgar Obare.

But the camera never lies as Edgar quickly rebutted with a video showing her in a live conversation with digital creator Chinese Kiki where she admitted to the affair and the information leaking. In the video she had said,

“Sh*t huhappens but it is the past. people move on with their lives. Yes, it happened and ended. gossipers will talk, let them make money. Mtu asionge kile kitu hawajui kilihappen, the gossipers will talk and add salt they can go on to make money talking.”

Huge majority of Kenyans agree with Size 8’s decision to stay in her marriage to DJ Mo

When asked for more clarification she said that the story was in the past and that people should focus on their own life.

“…I will not explain why and I will not give any reason why because it happened, you read (the screenshots) and now that is the past.”

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Haujui ya kesho …. be wise . . Usibanduke….

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Margaret clearly wants the issue of the expose’ to be behind her adding that people still didn’t realise that there were two sides of the story.

“Kitu ilihapen ishahappen and it is something that is personal and they don’t even know what happened, that made me make the decision. There is always two sides to the story. People are just looking at that and saying, ‘Ohh I exposed him.’ And they don’t even know what happened behind the closed curtains.”

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Hamisa Mobetto: A case study of women being their worst own enemies

Hamisa Mobetto unpacked a lot recently when she was interviewed by Wasafi media. The mother of two had a lot to speak about but the vignette that stood out for most was her revelation of the trials she had faced having a baby while dating Diamond Platnumz.

Speaking in an interview with Wasafi TV Hamisa confessed that she had suffered three miscarriages before giving birth to her son, Dylan.

“If there’s someone who was 100 percent sure that Dylan was his kid, it was Diamond. I suffered three miscarriages before I gave birth to Dylan. During the pregnancy, we were together until the day I went to give birth.”

While I am happy for Hamisa and Diamond that they were able to finally get a child from their apparently short liaison, I still think the whole affair stinks to high heaven.

My issue

What get’s me is that Miss Mobetto was perfectly OK to date a man that she knew was already dating another woman. At the time of her affair with Diamond, the singer had already had a child with Zari Hassan his first baby mama.

Not only that, his second-born Nillan with Zari would be born a few months before Dylan was born. Tiffah, Diamond’s eldest daughter was born in August 2014, while Nillan was born in December 2016, with Dylan being born in August 2017.

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This means that Diamond was seeing (sleeping with) Miss Mobetto for some time and not as a fling like we were made to understand. The rumours we had had at the time about the affair was that they met on the set of Diamond’s song, “Salome” where Miss Mobetto was the video vixen.

The joke doing the rounds since then was that Diamond would get kids on the first try because his pull-out game was as weak as Genghis Khan’s. But now that story can be put in the trash-bag as Hamisa revealed that she had 3 miscarriages before she got Dylan.

That tells me that the two had had a long-term situationship-one that can successfully fit in 4 pregnancies(I am not a doctor but the period must not be less than 6-8 months).

According to data; women who know they’re pregnant, about 10 to 15 in 100 pregnancies (10 to 15 per cent) end in miscarriage.

Most miscarriages happen in the first trimester before the 12th week of pregnancy. Miscarriage in the second trimester (between 13 and 19 weeks) happens in 1 to 5 in 100 (1 to 5 per cent) pregnancies.

Women are their worst own enemies

This brings me to my point; Miss Mobetto knew that the singer was in a long-term relationship with Zari but that didn’t stop her from still giving away the guava to him.

That Zari was pregnant with Nillan while Hamisa was sleeping with Diamond didn’t matter one bit to her. In fact, she slept with a married man so much so that she had multiple miscarriages during that time.

Dylan was not an oops baby but borne out of premeditated desire. She knew what she was doing with a married man and didn’t care what would happen when the world(Zari) found out. In Miss Mobetto’s world, it was (Me, Myself and I).

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Zari would later on dump Diamond in early 2018, attributing his philandering to her decision. Many of her fans blamed Hamisa for the break-down of the relationship, something I didn’t quite understand then as I blamed Diamond solely for not keeping his zip up.

But with this new info, I see Hamisa in an entirely different light, that of women being their worst on enemies.

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