Category: Love

Dear Kept man, here are tips for successfully dating a rich woman

Posted on by Maureen Waruinge

We are in a new era where younger men are dating older women and some do it for her money, and what they can gain.

So fellas if you are her toy boy, here is a list of rules you should follow to make sure you successfully date her.

1. When she laughs, laugh harder

Self explanatory.laugh(1)

2. Be romantic

She lives in a world where people are fake to her, so she is looking for true emotions. Here’s where your charm should come in.  Make her emotions come alive and things will fall in place. Trust me, chicks dig this.

3. Be sexy and attentive

Be attentive to her emotional clues. Some women have a hard time telling a man just what she needs emotionally, so as a kept man, your attention to her clues is key. Make her feel special.

4. Don’t try to keep up with her spending habits
Avoid talking about always being broke, it’s a turn off, secondly foot some bills especially if its not too much, she will appreciate it and will repay in double.arguea-about-money

5. Don’t be too obsessed with the income gap

Although it will always be that she earns a gazillion more shillings than you, fellas use your charm on her and show her its not money that counts. Show her you are a caring, funny, kind and interesting man in spite of the matter. a real woman won’t make you spend money you don’t have and she will understand your financial situation

6. Be a gentleman
A little chivalry never hurt. This is where you bring out your manners, opening doors for her, calling her frequently during the day to check if she;s fine, get her car fixed because she doesn’t have time, and make yourself useful around her house.

7. Show her you are a motivated man
Showing your woman you are working towards making your life better will make her happy. A woman like to see a man who is working toward a goal.couples-music-min

8. Show her how creative you can be
Dates don’t always have to be about having money. Cook for her and trust me fellas she will love the effort. We have always heard that its the effort that counts. In case you are stuck, refer to Nameless who said he takes Wahu on cheap dates because it’s the effort.

9. If all else fails, win over her friends

Why? they will convince her you are a great guy who deserves a second chance .Make them your allies and you will score major points.

 

Dear Classic 105 fam, do you think you could try these tips and let us know how it went?

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Prezzo’s former ex Amber Lulu reveals that she is heavily pregnant

Posted on by Geoffrey Mbuthia

It was bound to happen again. Yep, I am talking about another of Prezzo’s many exes getting pregnant. This time I am talking about his Tanzanian ex, Amber Lulu.

Yesterday, the singer and socialite dropped a bombshell for many of her followers on Instagram when she made the huge revelation that she was with child.


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Her disclosure was accompanied by a baby shower for her and Lulu duly thanked all those people who had supported her  ‘I am an expectant mother and would love to take this opportunity to thank everyone who played a part in my baby shower. Thank you all for your love and support. Without you, it would not have been possible.” Lulu wrote on IG.


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We still aren’t sure who the father of the socialite’s baby is but an angry response to one of her followers showed that that wasn’t a subject that she wanted to broach.

‘I want to be Diamond’s 4th baby mama’ Amber Lulu ready to fight Zari for singer

She tersely told one commenter that the father of her unborn child was the Holy Spirit. In a later post, Amber clarified that the father of her unborn baby wasn’t legendary music producer P Funk Majani’s baby.

”I want it to be clear to everyone that Majani is not the father of my unborn baby. He is a person I respect and we have been working together for a very long time now. These rumours have brought problems to me, the same applies to his side because he has a wife and kids,” Amber wrote.

Amber Lulu in swim wear
Amber Lulu in swim wear

Her pregnancy is a fulfillment of something that Amber had desired to have with Prezzo when they were dating a few years ago but that wouldn’t happen as their relationship wouldn’t go the distance.

Amber said the reason she broke up with Prezzo is that he was “a womaniser” and did not really love her.

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What does Eddie Butita look for in a woman? Comedian answers

Posted on by Geoffrey Mbuthia

In my recent interview with Eddie Butita, the musician told me that his 2020 had been a marvelous one with some doors closing in his life while bigger ones opened.

In that same interview, I asked the chocolate-skinned comedian what his plans were for 2021, considering his successes digitally as an entertainer?

He said that he had many plans but the one he was most focused on was promoting his new online network for the youth. “I’ve already started on is an online network that I have been creating called SPMbuzz. It’s running already. it’s an idea where I want to engage youth in the things that are taking place. Topics like social issues, lifestyle, things like that, basically we are representing all feelings in one platform.”

So would it be different from an international platform like Twitter or Facebook? “No, it’s like a media network just running on YouTube,” he replied.

Will we keep calling for harambees!? Eddie Butita speaks on Omosh situation (exclusive)

And what was the feedback to SPMbuzz from Kenyans? “Since it’s a new idea we are giving it time to see how it will develop into something good,” Eddie replied.

As an entertainer what was his opinion of the government’s handling of covid-19 as an entertainer? He told me he wasn’t happy noting the double standards he and other entertainers face.

“There are double standards. I don’t understand why every time there’s a speech about the new protocols no one touches on entertainment,” he complained.

Adding,

“They will talk about bars being opened or matatus but they never talk about entertainment, so we are confused. I don’t know if I will be able to do a gig, whether it will be closed or not. It’s a grey area. They’re ignoring this industry that is making a lot of money. They are restricting entertainers from the same things they are allowing other people to do,” he warily added.

The final question I put to the comedian was about relationships. I asked him what he looked for in a woman? Eddie who has frequently been linked to fellow comedian Eunice Mammito answered with a short and succinct answer.

“Greatness!” was his one-word response.

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Watch this space! Comedian Paul Kimani reveals that he will be proposing this year (exclusive)

Posted on by Geoffrey Mbuthia

Comedian Paul Kimani has been a success in the entertainment scene with Kenyans embracing his act as MCA Tricky wholeheartedly.

The man had a very successful 2020, that he touched on in his interview with me but one thing that I noted was that he had stopped posting anything related to a romantic relationship in his life.

What was going on in that area of his life?

“In that area of relationships I pulled a leg back, so I can look. I am getting old you know. I am starting to think like an older more mature man. I don’t want to have the games of girlfriend and boyfriend. I want to try something perfect, let me say that.”

MCA Tricky with Reina
MCA Tricky with Reina

And what had happened to the lady he had been linked with in the past, who was called Reina?

“I cannot call her my ex because, and the reason for that is that saying she is an ex means you kosanad vibaya. Reina is still my friend. We are not together anymore.”

And has the comedian who is often linked to Akothee’s daughter begun seriously looking for a woman to become his wife? Yes, he has, telling me that he has been dating someone for some time. “It is already there and it has been there for some time.”

Rue Baby with MCA Tricky
Rue Baby with MCA Tricky

When can expect good news like an engagement announcement? “This year will not end. Next time we speak, it will be very clear.”

So will it be a proposal or walking down the aisle? “It will be a proposal, something that will let people know how serious I am. I will make it official everywhere,” he finished.

Listen to the audio of the comedian speaking about the above interview with this writer below:

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I was in love with Nameless even though sponsors pursued me-Wahu comes clean

Posted on by Geoffrey Mbuthia

Singer Wahu and Nameless have been one of the best couples in the country. The couple who have been blessed with two kids have been married for over 15 years and they still look stunning and in love.


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In a recent interview with Jalang’o, Wahu disclosed something that most people weren’t aware of and showed how deep her love for Nameless went.

”They were there but me I was in love… The thing about it is, what is that sponsor bringing to you? Money. Most likely you are not the only one. I normally tell girls, build for yourself. Whatever that guy is making, imagine you can also make it yourself.”

This I how I would like Wahu to remember me in the end – Nameless speaks (exclusive)

She went deeper adding that the reason she wrote the song, ‘Sitishiki’ was because a man working for the UN had approached her trying to scuttle her relationship.


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Nameless himself says that he first saw Wahu on TV while she was doing a commercial and fell in love with her. After then, they made a follow-up on each other through a mutual friend. Wahu is currently 40 years old while Nameless is 44.

Despite the lengths they have gone for each other, last week Nameless explained that their marriage had also encountered some issues contrary to the image that it was perfect.


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He disclosed that they had even separated for a period of 3 days.

“We don’t call it separation, but I have moved out for a short just to have a break. We were fighting a lot and had a lot of issues, and you don’t know how to deal with that, so you just take a break. But it’s short then after sometimes, two, three days you are back in,” Nameless said.

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Kate Actresses’ answer about husbands reaction to onscreen romance

Posted on by Maureen Waruinge

There are some actors and actresses whose on screen chemistry is so good, one is left wondering, is there something more to it?It’s so unbelievably good that whenever both of them on screen you believe in their love.

From start to finish their connection is so genuine.

And this is one of the questions Kate Actress was asked by a fan in a Q&A recently. Someone wanted to know whether the live chemistry has ever been a problem in her relationship.

If you recall, the chemistry on the silver screen between Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie resulted in a real marriage, and Brad divorcing Jenifer Aniston after accusations of cheating.

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So this was probably this fan was wondering, and Kate did well to dissuade their fear.

She answered in the screenshot above.

Dear Classic 105 fam, which actors and actresses made you believe in their love because they carried their roles to perfection?

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“My mum gave televangelist Benny Hinn sh500,000” Maina Kageni says

Posted on by Maureen Waruinge

What is the obsession Kenyan women have with pastors?

A confused Maina brought up this topic for a second day in a row because of all the incredible confessions made on air during the morning topic.

Mwalimu cheekily answered Maina that ‘ndio Baraka ziingie ndani ndani ndani!’

*if you know, you know*

Maina also revealed that his own mother Wangui has also fallen victim to this behaviour.

He told Mwalimu who wasn’t surprised about it that

“My mum gave half a million shillings to pastor Benny Hinn when he came to Kenya. Ngai Sh500k”

His comments provoked one city woman to disclose that she has bought her pastor a tv, given them office space and regularly buys them clothes from Dubai.

A shocked Maina exclaimed that

“What is it with ladies love being chief financiers of their pastors?”

Mwalimu chimed in saying in kiswahili that ” my wife Mwongeli is like that even when the pastor calls she tells me to keep quiet, ati ni kama vumbi ya Kitengela unaambiwa wewe ngoja ipite”praying woman

World renowned televangelist Benny Hinn toured Africa several years ago, and Kenya was one of stops where he ministered to thousands at Uhuru Park.

At the time he was popular for his healing miracles and at his crusades it’s alleged that he cured attendees of Aids, cancer, blindness and deafness.

Have a blessed day dear Classic 105 fam.

 

 

I bought a TV for my pastor and spoil him with clothes from Dubai

Posted on by Maureen Waruinge

A Wednesday morning conversation on Classic 105, led to one city woman confessing to what extent she goes financially for her pastor.

Maina and Kingangi were talking about Kenyan womens obsession with male pastors that led to three questions Maina wanted answered.

He asked women to tell why they prefer opening up to pastors more than their husband and why they hand over money so willingly, plus why they call them daddy!cuc laughing

One city woman called in with her personal experience below.

“Let me tell you maina, women prefer pastors to hus and because mostly women need a listen ing ear, they appreciate us, which is what pastors give us.

I would like men to learn the psychology part from pastors, I talk to my pastor we need someone who is just listening and then we feel pastors are interfaces on behalf of the people.. so we tell the pastors everything,  to offload, they listen to us we open up more whereas our husbands go roaring to us and we just disappear to the kitchen. I cannot offload to mu husband the pastors do well, they make us feel so important. They tell us sweet words then you realize ngai my car is gone. I bought my pastor a whole new tv and even paid for delivery fee to his house. I have also given him part of my office where he meets congregants. I partitioned my office for him , then we go to the supermarket for shopping, anachukua trolley yake mimi ninachukua yangu, then I pay the bill. I even used to buy him clothes from Dubai”

Dear Classic 105 fam, does this sound crazy cray cray?! What’s the craziest story you have heard of women doing for their pastors, and did it make sense?

Diamond advises baby mama Hamisa how to get along with his mother

Posted on by Lily Mwangi

 

There has been so much drama in the house of the Platnumz’ after news broke out that Mzee Abdul is not Diamond’s biological father.

This came from an interview Ricardo Momo -Diamond’s real brother- did. He dropped bombs and they were all backed up by Sandra Dangote, his mother.

Speaking for the first time on this, Diamond had an interview at Wasafi FM during Lil Ommy’s show The Switch and he admitted all that was said was true.

Then he opened up about Hamisa’s relationship with his mother, Sandra Dangote, and he cautioned that ego must not take cover one’s life.

“Hamisa is a mother and so is my mother. Each of them has a position in my life.  You see when two people are not in good terms, it is up to the two of them to sit and talk. Also as young people, we need to be humble. Do not fight an elderly person, just respect them and let them be.”

When asked why he does not support Hamisa musically as he does Tanasha. He simply said,

“When it comes to music it is tough. By the time we are going to get a child, I loved either of these women. It hurts me to see any of my baby mamas follow the music route because it is cruel. I am usually like can’t you even venture into business? I will fund it.” Diamond Platnumz

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I have a husband and several boyfriends at the same time

Posted on by Maureen Waruinge

A woman explained to Maina Kageni what it’s like to have a husband and several boyfriends at the same time.

Yes she has a husband and an undisclosed number of side dishes and all because her husband cheated first.

The confession was made during a discussion about men who forgive their spouses for cheating. Maina said he would be very surprised to get a confession from a man who has forgiven his wife because gents are not known to do this.

“I want to hear from just one man who has ever forgiven his woman for infidelity, just one, not two or three.  I want one man to tell me based on clear evidence not just rumors. Men have always told me that marriage is founded on forgiveness and they cannot imagine fathom their woman with another man, talk to me!”

And one woman decided to give her experience of being ‘forgiven’.

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“I’ve been forgiven by my husband. He was told by somebody that I was cheating on him, and he confronted me and it happened when he also had a girlfriend so we were equal. He knows that I still have a boyfriend and he continues with his girlfriend. I have moved from one to another different boyfriend and he knows there are many, he only has one girlfriend for the last ten years, mimi naruka from one person to the other, we talk about it plus he has seen my text messages and there is nothing he can do about it, and i have asked him to first leave his girlfriend and they have two kids. So I won’t eave hm. I have invested alot together, we do business together so there is no way nitoke huko and I know there is no way he can leave that lady and even me there is no way I am leaving my boyfriends also, we stay like that”

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I am revenge cheating on my unfaithful partner – woman admits

Posted on by Maureen Waruinge

A woman confessed on Classic 105 that revenge is a dish best served cold to unfaithful spouses.

This made part of the confessions several woman told Maina to defend their decision to also cheat.

The scorned woman whispered to Maina that it is a common practice among Nairobi women to revenge on cheating husbands.

She said that many husbands assume their wife is stupid when she finds out he is cheating and remains quiet. But she revealed that wives who keep quiet are silently planning a revenge mission that will destroy that man when he finds out. She declared that ‘it’s fair game’.

Here is her confession

“The revenge is being planned. Let me tell you Maina. Revenge is a dish best served cold na saa zile unaona mwanamke amenyamaza, you have fasted thinking and prayed over him but he doesn’t change. So that’s why people revenge and the only thing/reason the woman stays is because she has already revenged and she feels good and will never cry again, Kurevenge is doing the same thing, you know in marriage we are already seduced and since you are human you find another man you like. I revenged after praying and fasting for him but he never changed, so I also cheated with a stranger I found attractive.”

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Another woman called in and confessed just as much.

“Let me tell you Maina there are different types of women; those who will forgive and forget and move on, na kuna wengine who will pack up and go, but the ones you should fear are the ones who stay silent and the plan. Those women usually plan the revenge that will be taken even satan will just sit down and take note, huyo mwenye ananyamaza ogopa those that pretend they are keeping quiet hata shetani will take note, ile mathambi utafanyiwa!!! they shoudl take care,”

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The streets are hard – The reason Tanasha is still trying to get back with Diamond

Posted on by Geoffrey Mbuthia

Tanasha Donna has been in Tanzania visiting Diamond Platnumz the past week with their son Naseeb in tow. Apart from doing a music video with Nandy-which she said was the prime purpose of her visit down-south, her other actions with the father of her son have raised eyebrows.

Why? She has not only been looking loved up while there but it seems that the former couple hasn’t missed a step since their nasty break-up last year.

A video shared on social media of the Tanzanian singer and his former Kenyan girlfriend performing on stage together has left tongues wagging. Donna arrived in Dar es Salaam in the weekend and was picked by Diamond’s car and driven to his mansion.

Later Saturday night, Diamond accompanied Donna to a concert in Dar, where she was scheduled to perform.

“Always Vibe to have NJ’s Momy in the Country,” he captioned a video clip of the two together. While performing their song Gere, he jumped on stage, with the two dancing and hugging amid cheers from the excited crowd.


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In the video, Diamond is seen whining his waist as his baby mama grinds on him seductively, sending the crowd into a frenzy making many wonder if the two could get back together?

In another video,  Tanasha is seen trying to kiss the “African Beauty” singer while they were still on stage but with him looking like he had avoided her attempt.


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This brings up the question? Could Tanasha possibly want to get back with the man who had hurt her so bad last year. In an interview last year with True Love magazine she admitted she had left after she realised that she was the only one interested in salvaging her relationship, saying,

“At some point, I got a bit lost because now a child is involved and now, I’m thinking about my son, not just me, I don’t want my son to grow up without a father. I’m really trying to fight for this relationship, but I can’t be the only one fighting, so I had to think of what’s best for me and my son too. Towards the end, things were getting rocky, for about 6 months but we were still trying to see how we can make it work, and then it got to a point where you see the other person has just lost interest,” she said.

The interview above is highly instructive when one looks at her current behaviour of looking like she wants to get back with Chibu.

What has changed since then because Diamond is still the same man he was last year? I think the realisation has set in that getting a man of Diamond’s calibre ( despite his faults) to settle with her as a single mother will not be the easiest possibility.

Diamond is one of East Africa’s most eligible bachelors. He might have baby mamas upon baby mamas but that hasn’t affected his attractiveness negatively.

Tanasha might be realising that a child affects a woman’s relationship value negatively while it doesn’t for a man like Diamond.

Just ask American rapper Future; The man has 8 baby mamas the last time I checked and that isn’t stopping other women from still pining for his attention.

Women want the man other women want, a man who is normally the best man in terms of status, money and looks. Diamond is that man at the moment.

While women want the best, men will smash a wide range of women-from the CEO to the househelp, something that is a non-starter for most women and a problem for most high-achieving women. The men they want (and are attracted to) will sleep (and sometimes commit to) with women who’re much less accomplished than them.

Not only that, most women will not go back on standards they have set for themselves as far as men go. Tanasha has tasted the sun that is Diamond, anything less than that going forward is settling as far as she is concerned.

In her head, being in a tough (and crazy) relationship with the father of her only child is better than being on the streets with men who can’t hold a candle to him.

Diamond and Tanasha holding Naseeb Junior
Diamond and Tanasha holding Naseeb Junior in the past

But I could be wrong…

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Zari and Hamisa react after fellow baby mama Tanasha’s visit to see Diamond

Posted on by Geoffrey Mbuthia

Singer Diamond Platnumz knows how to change the news quickly so as to suit his preferredd narrative. Just a few weeks after his mother revealed the shocking news that Abdul Juma wasn’t his biological father, the Tanzanian singer decided to allow his 3rd baby mama, Tanasha to come and visit him with their son in tow.

That is all everyone is focusing on now as Tanasha who left Tanzania in a huff in early 2020 took their beautiful son, Naseeb Junior to see a father he hadn’t seen for close to a year.

Just like the way Zari’s visit to see Diamond late last year caused a furore, Tanasha’s visit has had pretty much had the same effect.

Diamond Platnumz with Zari and the kids
Diamond Platnumz with Zari and the kids

And what were her fellow baby mamas reactions to Miss Donna’s visit to see Chibu? Exasperated…This after a great number of fans reached out to them with information that Ms. Donna had landed in Tanzania to see her baby Daddy.

“Zari Tanasha Naye kaleta mtoto, unajiskiaje huko ulipo,” asked a fan. Miss Zarinah wasn’t playing around, telling the fan to learn how to mind his business, with a reminder that Diamond has other kids.

“Asante kwa umbea, wacha nijinyonge…learn to mind your business, Mwanaume si ana watoto wengine. Smh!” read Zari’s response.

And Mobetto wasn’t left out being told by fans that she should be preparing to take her son Dylan to spend time with his father as soon as Tanasha leaves.

Diamond Platnumz with Hamisa Mobetto
Diamond Platnumz with Hamisa Mobetto

However, she chose to borrow, Mama Dangote’s saying that “Ukoo Umejaa” as a perfect response to those pressuring her to take her son to Diamond’s mansion.

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Dating a serial cheater-Lillian Muli reveals biggest regret as she speaks about dating

Posted on by Geoffrey Mbuthia

Celebrated media personality Lillian Muli has been quiet the past few months. She has been able to keep herself away from the constant media speculation as she has been leveraging her fame and popularity to endorse products.

But the bubbly Lillian is still one person who doesn’t mind engaging with her fans and recently did so on her social media page.

In a Q and A the mother of two was a picture of candid honesty as she addressed her fans head-on. The biggest questios that one of her fans asked was what was her biggest regret in life.

She said that it was falling in love with a serial cheat. And that wasn’t even the bombshell answer that shocked her fans, including myself.

Lillian Muli – I don’t have time for inauthentic, non-value adding relationships anymore

Lillian was asked whether she was dating, replying with a big NO!

Just last year, the mother of two had spoken about regrets in her life, saying that it was settling for less when she knew that she deserved better.

“The only regret I have in life is settling for less when I could have had so much more. Set your standards and stick to them unapologetically,” shared Lillian Muli.

In December of 2018, Lillian went on social media to castigate the baby daddy of her second-born son, Jared Nevaton. In a tragic break up post, Lillian revealed that Jared was a ‘narcissist’ and a ‘community husband’.

She disclosed that she decided to go public with the break up as she doesn’t want to be linked to Jared anymore.

However, in February 2019, the two rekindled their love but it seems that their relationship might be no more based on her answer about dating.

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I made more money hawking sweets than from acting – Papa Shirandula’s Njoro says

Posted on by Geoffrey Mbuthia

Kenneth Gichoya, famously known as Njoro from comedy-drama ‘Papa Shirandula’ has recently opened up about his humble beginnings, disclosing that he used to hawk sweets to make ends meet.

The most fascinating part about the interview was his confession that he used to make nearly 10 times more money from hawking than from acting on set plays at the Kenya National Theatre.

In an interview on Churchill’s journey series, Njoro said he would ask show producers to give him minor acting roles so that he would have more time to hawk sweets.

“I did not want to act but always wanted to remain backstage to do my business, I just wanted to sell sweets. I did the math; actors were paid Sh300 a day, and I would get Sh3,000 from selling my sweets. I was way ahead,” he narrated.

“After finishing the short role, I would go and hawk my sweets. The good thing is that even when I was selling sweets, I was still a funny guy and would make people laugh and happy. The schoolboys and girls would miss yule ‘jamaa wa sweet’ if I failed to show up for one reason or the other,” he added.

Churchill show comedian Njoro says Maina Kageni told him to stop being lazy

He added that his success annoyed his competitors who weren’t doing as well as he was doing, saying,

“I would buy a packet of sweets at Sh75 and it would give me a profit of Sh250. So, I just needed to leave my house with a hundred bob. I would run to Kirinyaga Road and get one packet and by the end of the day, I would end up selling like 10 packets.”

“That is how I managed to buy my second-born child diapers and everything the mother needed,” he said.

In addition to acting, Njoro supplements his income through several business ventures; he owns an entertainment joint, a hardware store and is in the matatu business as well.

“I have delegated some businesses to my wife so she can also have something to do,” said the father of three whose second-born daughter is in form four.

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Is MaryaPrude taking shots at Willis Raburu in new post? You be the judge…

Posted on by Geoffrey Mbuthia

One of the biggest (and best) celebrity relationships in the past few years was the one between musician and journalist Willis Raburu and MaryaPrude.

The two were the vision of perfection and were never involved in a scandal during their close to 4-year marriage. But it all went to sh!t last year after the unfortunate death of their unborn child Ayana on the 1st of January 2020.

The two have avoided speaking about the state of their marriage since then even though it is widely known that they most likely split up between March and April 2020.

‘I regret exposing my wife to the public’ Willis Raburu shares lessons learnt

 In one of her newest messages on her Instagram page, Marya posted a quote that raised some eyebrows as to the object of the message.

The message read, “When you finally learn that a person’s behavior has more to do with their own internal struggle than it ever did with you…you learn grace.”

Chaos theory states that the simplest answer normally is the right one. In this case, is Marya speaking about her failed marriage to Raburu.

Let’s not forget that the journalist has changed quite a bit since his daughter died and his marriage failed.

Willis who used to be a church-going man, is know known to be a gengetone (a highly se3ualised genre of music that contrasts with his prior behaviour) musician, while also changing his hair to indicate a conversion in who he might be.

And while Marya might have left the interwebs to heal and grieve for the passing of her daughter, I think that Willis’ change has been his own way of dealing with Ayana’s death.

But what do I know…Mambo ya watu wawili…

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I have my doubts about the revelation that Mzee Abdul isn’t Diamond’s father

Posted on by Geoffrey Mbuthia

East Africa’s most popular family, that being Diamond Platnumz’s and his extended family are in the headlines for all the wrong reasons.

The year had already started poorly for Esma as she revealed that she had aborted her estranged husband’s baby because she didn’t love him. Also, that she might not be the daughter of Mama Dangote.

Esma Platnumz with Diamond and Tanasha and Sandra
Esma Platnumz with Diamond and Tanasha and Sandra

Then add to that, WCB TV has been closed by the government for 6 months after they were deemed to have flouted decency guidelines.

But all these pale in comparison to the news this past weekend that Diamond’s biological father wasn’t Mzee Abdul Juma but a man called Salim Nyange.

Diamond Platnumz and Mzee Abdul
Diamond Platnumz and Mzee Abdul

This information was revealed by Mama Dangote herself and Chibu’s own relative Ricardo Momo who said that he and the Tanzanian star were blood brothers.

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Not only that, Diamond’s grandmother on his father’s side was recently interviewed where she confirmed the information that Salim, her son, was the singer’s son.

While Mama Dangote, Ricardo Momo and Diamond’s grandma have all confirmed the news, I still have a niggling feeling about the confession.

Why?

Firstly, the Platnumz’s family has been known to lie in the past and not have any qualms about it. Did they finally “come clean” so they could remove the donkey that was Mzee Abdul and the many questions fans had about why Diamond wasn’t taking care of him? It is a rather convenient way of dealing with him.

Secondly, Diamond and his family can’t keep a secret-especially one as big as this. Then add in the fact that apparently, his baby mamas knew that Mzee Abdul wasn’t Chibu’s father and I smell a rat! Zari and Tanasha wouldn’t be able to keep such a hot secret especially after their terrible splits with him.

Diamond Platnumz with Zari and the kids
Diamond Platnumz with Zari and the kids

Thirdly, the fact that Mzee Abdul had no inclination that his son wasn’t all this time shocks me. The reason is most father’s who have suffered paternity fraud normally have suspicions about children they don’t believe are theirs.

Also, why did Diamond make a meal of spending time with Mzee Abdul over the years (even allowing him to come to his pre-wedding with Tanasha), if he wasn’t his father?

Diamond and Tanasha at the birthday
Diamond, his mother and Tanasha at the birthday

The whole thing smacks of a poorly written Hollywood drama-one that has more plot holes than a collander.

But what do I know…

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Juliani’s example for dealing with an ex that Maureen and Frankie should learn

Posted on by Geoffrey Mbuthia

Musician Julius Owino aka Juliani might not be the most recognisable celeb in Kenya but that doesn’t mean his music hasn’t had a big impact on audiences.

Not only that but the man also made one of the best celebrity relationships back in the day with his liaison with Brenda Wairimu that produced a bouncing baby girl.


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The two aren’t together anymore with Brenda rumored to have moved with a famous Instagrammer. But even though the two have a great relationship as co-parents, there are some who still want to pit them against each other.

One particular fan of Juliani on Twitter claimed that Juliani’s standards had gone down and said that the reason for that was Brenda Wairimu. “Juliani was dope before kupatana na brenda wairimu”.

That incendiary statement could have been met with silence or a like from him but he took the high road and defended his baby mama, saying, “Achana na Msichana wa wenyewe. Hakuna kitu ashawai fanya mbaya. If anything alinipa the best gift ever the most amazing baby Girl,” reads Juliani’s response.


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Juliani and Brenda have a daughter named Amor Owino and have agreed on a co-parenting arrangement that works for them.

And how does this apply to Frankie Kiarie and Maureen Waititu?

The two can learn how to treat each other in the public from how Juliani did in his response. The man kept it classy and avoided giving the media something to feed off of because at the end of the day he knows that he will always share a bond with Brenda-their daughter.

This is unlike Frankie and Maureen who made headlines last year after they disparaged each other in the public despite being co-parents to two lovely kids.

They took every opportunity to diss each other giving someone like me a lot of content, something I am not complaining about. But I believe it was the worst thing they could do-they have young kids and they will have to deal with each other for the foreseeable future.

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