Category: Love

Get a girl now – Diamond and Hamisa told after cute video emerges of the two

Posted on by Geoffrey Mbuthia

Diamond Platnumz has had a hell of a life so far. The Tanzanian superstar has not only made himself one of the biggest musicians in Africa, but he has also succeeded in his personal life.

Yes, he might be a father Abraham who has gotten 4 kids with 3 different baby mamas but at least he has passed on his genes with clinical accuracy.

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And it seems that his fans want him to add a fifth child with his second baby mama, Hamisa Mobetto. This came about after a video of the Tanzanian video vixen in the company of her Diamond Platnumz and their son Daylan went viral.

The two have been on excellent terms this past year inevitably got their millions of social media followers talking since the video’s release.

Baby on board? Hamisa responds to claims she is carrying Diamond’s 5th child

In the video which was released in bits, shows Diamond and the son Daylan inside his car before Hamisa later on showed her face, revealing that she was the one taking the videos.

That got fans going gaga with many suggesting that the pair should get another child as they looked so good together, while others took it as an opportunity to attack his other baby mamas,  Tanasha Donna and Zari Hassan.

Below are some of the reactions;

evakeji211 Wow misa we need a baby girl soon❤️❤️ may god bless u all

abdyfatma1 😂😂😂😂 Kina tifa watachezeshwa jeje leo hadi wakome

official_mwalimu_kenyanboy Jamani aka kafamilia nakapenda Sana ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

johynnatz Mungu wanguu zarii atakufaa

katusiime51 Tanasha Donna wea a uuuuu😂😂😂😂😂😂come see

While some might think Tanasha and Hamisa are enemies according to the comments, the women actually get along. Just recently Tanasha celebrated Hamisa’s son Daylan after she posted a video of him. She wrote, “My munchkin jamaniiiii 😍🥰 His lil brother is waiting for him.”

The two are friends, even helping each other on Tanasha’s latest song, “Liar”. The area where fans might have a point is that Zari might not get along with the rest of Diamond’s baby mamas, something all the ladies have been covert about.

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My mother abandoned me to go and pray at the church Kanyari started at – Woman tells Maina

Posted on by Geoffrey Mbuthia

Maina Kageni brought up an insteresting topic today as he spoke about mothers who abandon their kids. Maina who grew up the child of a single mother after his father died when he was very young, wondered how that could ever happen?

Maina noted that fathers could do it easily and that it was second nature for men. “For a woman, it must be hard to leave your kids behind. It is easy for a man to leave his kids. It is second nature.”

The charismatic presneter recited a story he had had previously of a single father who had taken care of his 3 kids after his wife abandoned them 9 years ago.

He lives a life that is hard to imagine. He is a single father with 2 boys and one girl. His wife left 9 years ago and they have never been in touch. She left and she is still around. And she has never called him. What would cause her to do this?

The man’s story befuddled Maina and he opened up the conversation to the gallery. The opinions shed a lot of light on something that rarely happens in mother nature.

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One of the most interesting comments was from a woman who explained why she had left her hsubnad. She noted that she never ever planned on seeing her kids again!

I am from Nakuru. I left my husband with a 2 and 4-year-old. There is a point it reaches as a wife, you are so disturbed by the man that you want to leave the man. You try to leave with the kids but the man forbids you from leaving with the kids. I don’t have other kids and I have never re-married. I don’t plan on getting in touch with them. You go and go forever. I don’t think about my kids every day.

Some of the other comments are below:

Women are proper selfish. I lived in Tanzania for 3 years. The only thing my wife would do was come and check on the kids and then leave. She said that she couldn’t stay in Tanzania. So I decided to move abroad for her. Within a year, she divorced me and married a mzungu. But I am happy that she is close to the kids-A man said.

My mother left when I was in class 4. She contacted us and I have not heard from her since 1998. I don’t know where she is. I think about her. If she calls me, I would try to re-ignite our relationship-A man said.

There are just women with the guts. There are some who will never return depending on how she was treated. An example is my sister. She left her husband with two toddlers after she was nearly beaten to death-A woman said.

Motherhood is a sacrifice. No woman should never leave her kids. I just think there are some women who are just heartless-A woman said.

My mom left us, she was a single mother and she passed on in 2008. I was sent home for fees of 500 shillings. She left to go to church and I never saw her for a whole year. I had to pick tea and get menial jobs to support me and my sister. I had to go and look for her the next year after suffering so much. I went to Kitengela and saw her at the church that laucnhed the likes of Pastor Kanyari. Those churches where you pray so much until when the pastor is satisfied and releases you. I saw her praying so hard and I didn’t want talk to her. That promted her to come back. I went there in 2007 April and she died a year later. But for a long time I was very bitter with her-A woman said.

Women are very calculative. They can see into the future. They will not leave their kids to irresponsible men. These women leave their kids, not because they hate them but because they know their husbands will give those kids a better future than she can.

What do you think?

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The lame excuses Kenyan men give to avoid spousal support

Posted on by Maureen Waruinge

 

A heated discussion on Classic 105 about US rapper Dr Dre’s ex wife asking for Sh200million (2 million dollars) monthly spousal support seemed to have awoken a sleeping giant.

Dr Dre’s wife broke down the spousal maintenance demands such as $135,000 a month on clothes, $20,000 a month on phone and email, $10,000 a month on laundry, and a whopping $900,000 a month on entertainment.

Men reacted harshly to womens demands post a divorce insisting women take advantage to milk money out of men.

But the law remains, and many of us need to get educated what the Kenyan law says about child and spousal support, otherwise all remains ‘noise’.

Let’s begin with the first excuse why men ‘can’t pay won’t pay’ spousal support:

  1. She will spend it on another man: One man said ‘can you imagine paying her then she moves in with another man? how?’
  2. She has her own income: A man upset Maina when he said ‘we split our items pesa ajitafutie pesa ni yangu atafute yake, when our contract expires she goes empty handed’.
  3. She is greedy: Another man called in saying ‘these women should know one thing you cant leave me and demand for support, this economy is hard right now, she can leave and go fight fend for herself, i would never give her a cent, hata ndururu’
  4. She is a scam: Just read what this man said ‘have you ever seen someone put fuel in a ting tinga you won’t use, if you want to leave go ahead without a cent from me’
  5. She should carry her own weight: A very disgusted man said ‘when you got tot a restaurant you are accustomed to eating, when you leave the restaurant doesn’t owe you a thing, or a plate of rice, the children remain eating not her, if she leaves she cannot go with a single coin of mine’

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10 things you should not do if your spouse wants to leave

Posted on by Maureen Waruinge

 

It’s human nature to want to fight back and win what you consider. But the last thing you want to do is make it worse by doing these 10 things the minute they leave, and PLEASE just give it time.

Avoid doing these ten things to improve your chances of winning them back:

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1. Taking elders to her home to intervene

This is such an African thing of taking delegations of elders to her home to have them intervene and discuss such personal matter sin large groups. He or she will not be pleased.

2. Acting out

We tend to want to show that we don’t care and aren;t affected by the other persons actions, so we act out and induge in clubbing, drinking, lots of intimacy with whoever we encounter and flirting

3. Incessantly begging

Do not plead, pursue, or pressure your spouse as it wil have the opposite effect and turn them off.divorce-5

4. Gifting them

Trying to win back her/his love by buying things like clothes, chocolate, flowers, or other luxury items with the hope this will bring them back. Especially not if you never did this throughout your relationship. They will see through your weak attempts. at apologizing.

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5. Moshene/Gossiping

Do not ask family or friends to encourage your spouse to stay with you. Discussing such personal matters with these people will upset your spouse and make things worse.

6. Begging

Do not point out all the good things about marriage or about you.

7. Manipulating

Telling them those three little sweet words that they previously never heard from you. Or telling them that their parents, family and friends will be sad at the fact that you are walking away from a bond everyone loves. Don’t be this person.husband-wife-nagging-each-other

8. Nagging

It shows you are desperate or needy by sending texts or phone calls to get them to reconsider.

9. Being needy

Forcing your spouse to relive moments by sharing stories about the good times you had and sharing images on whatsapp about grand ol’ times shows you are needy. They don’t need this right now.

10. Spying

Snooping on their social media to see who they are talking to or hanging out with, or getting private investigators on them doen’t help.

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“I love you the way you are!”-Terence Creative tells wife after trolls attacked her body

Posted on by Geoffrey Mbuthia

Terence Creative is one of the most popular comedians in Kenya. He and his wife Milly Chebby have each amassed a huge following on their respective social media pages and as such regularly interact with their thousands of fans.

And such interactions don’t always go well for them as not everyone will always support you in the comments section. His wife has been on the end of a lot of hate for some time over the size of her body.

Any photo that Terence posts of her, will normally receive comments speaking about his wife’s body size, telling her to lose weight.

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This week, Terence decided to re-affirm his commitment to his often-maligned wife, with one of the sweetest messages a husband can give his wife.

The comic penned a note that revealed how much he loved his wife, taking the time to praise her size as he posted a beautiful photo of his bikini-clad wife in a swimming pool at Lake Naivasha Resort.

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Morning my beautiful,curvy precious thing,thanks for your kindness you have such a big heart too,I have a space in it so I can attest to it,people call you names and probably they will never stop coz people got issues,thanks for changing my life and making me love myself more,I learnt it from you.Thanks for making me master peace and the art of not giving a fudge of what our tormentors say,well this is to remind you “I love you just the way you are,you don’t have to change a thing” I love you more mi amor 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕 #justthe2ofus #MunguMbele #mwangis4rever @millychebby 🧡🧡🥰🥰🥰💕♥️🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

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Most Kenyans took his message positively and praised Terence for his wonderful dedication to the mother of his child. But as with all things in life, there were some who were upset with post and still commented on Milly’s body. Some of those comments are below:

_assad__ 👏👏👏👏🔥apige zoezi😂

amomio196 she beautiful but mshow afanye diet

mutuku9446 @terence creative you are a brave man👏👏👏👏👏👏

While Terence has stood up for his wife from the constant attacks she gets for her body size, she too stuck with him when cheating allegations against him rocked his marriage last year.

The scandal threatened to derail his career and marriage but her constant support was enough to tide the rising storm. The two show me what a good marriage can be-Full of challenges but also fulfilling if people d0 the work.

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Lillian Muli-I am not hit on by men, I pursue them

Posted on by Geoffrey Mbuthia

Citizen TV news anchor Lillian Muli is one of the most interesting of media personalities in Kenya. The mother of two is one of the veterans who has seen the TV industry morph from one that only had 2 stations into one with so many stations that one can’t keep count.

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While her success in the work-place is laudable and impressive, her personal life has been full of ups and downs, something that she has been candid about sharing.

Lillian was recently asked about the worst pick-up lines that she had ever encountered but revealed something that will most likely raise some eyebrows.

The TV anchor explained that she had was the one who would pursue men and as such couldn’t remember any puck-up line that she had gotten. “The worst pickup line ushawai pata kwa msee ni gani?” the local presenter asked.

“Honestly, I can’t answer that because mimi huwa sikatiwi, mimi ndio the other way round,” responded Lillian Muli.

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Ms. Muli who has been blessed with two sons from two different fathers explained that her worst regret was in taking alcohol, then not been able to control her temper afterwards.

“What I have ever regretted kama nimekunywa drink ya wazee, maybe just losing my temper kiasi ambacho hakistahili,” said Ms Muli.

Lillian is known to be impulsive and once went all out in castigating her second baby daddy, Jared Nevaton. In a surprise move in late 2018, the TV anchor took to social media to castigate the Shabana FC boss as a ‘community’ husband. She wrote;

“I’m officially single and will now focus on raising my boys. As public figures, we meet all sorts of people and most just want trophies whether you are well known or not be very careful who you allow into your life don’t go giving your heart to everyone.

She added;

“Sociopaths will keep you entangled in their web of lies and you will be one of their many victims. When you actually believe someone is true to you only to find out they are community husbands you are safer stepping aside.

She would later clarify her standpoint in early 2019 saying that she had re-united with Jared.

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Nameless reveals the one book that really helped his marriage (exclusive)

Posted on by Geoffrey Mbuthia

Nameless, real names, David Mathenge has lived a life that most would admire. The man has accomplished a lot; A great career, a loving wife and two beautiful daughters.

Nameless, his wife Wahu and kids in a loving embrace
Nameless, his wife Wahu and kids in a loving embrace

I recently spoke to the celebrity and he was very candid with me about his marriage. He and Wahu have a very close friendship with DJ Mo and Size 8; who celebrated their 6th wedding anniversary earlier in the year. Like DJ Mo, I asked the ‘Nasinzia’ singer the best advice he had received regarding marriage and who had given him that advice?

Nameless, Wahu, DJ MO and Wahu
Nameless, Wahu, DJ MO and Wahu

His answer was fascinating with the singer saying that the advice came in the form of a book. At the time the couple was having issues and his brother-in-law called him to tell him to read a particular book, as he knew the struggles he was going through.

I had an emotional awakening and my brother-in-law told me to read the book, 7 habits of highly effective people. When i read it I was in a state of trying to search for what is my contribution to the issues in my marriage. My mindset at the time was like I was a mjuaji. But after reading the book I started looking at how I could improve myself in the marriage and not on the other person’s performance.

Wahu and Nameless with their daughters in the past
Wahu and Nameless with their daughters in the past

He added,

If you keep focusing on the other person and the other person focuses on you nothing changes. When your partner starts seeing you do that, they also want to replicate and it kind of spirals in a positive way. It was about increasing my emotional intelligence.

Nameless shares intimate and NEVER BEFORE SEEN photos of his wedding with Wahu

Clearly, it has worked as the couple recently celebrated their 14th marriage anniversary.

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6 relationship questions guys are too afraid to ask their baes

Posted on by Maureen Waruinge

 

Conversations between men and women interested in each other romantically can be quite telling.

Guys are often nervous to ask certain questions because they’re worried that they might not like what they hear, and that it could turn them off to their partner. Then there’s also the risk of offending your partner or making them angry by bringing certain topics up,

I randomly asked my friends in a whatsapp group this question and it led to an interesting back and forth between guys and girls, and despite laughing, hopefully you and your bae can talk about this stuff, and handle the adult way. Perhaps?

Guys how honest can you be about these six things?

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  1. Would you be less atraccted to me if I was bald?
  2. Are you and *insert name* having a thing? He is too scared and worried he might be making a big deal out of nothing
  3. How many men have you slept with?
  4. Are you seeing someone else while dating me?
  5. Am I the best you’ve ever had?
  6. How does my mbogi stack up against your exes?

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8 signs you should go on a second date if you can’t decide

Posted on by Maureen Waruinge

 

How do you decide if someone is worth going on a second date with?

Are there signs it’ll be a waste of time?

We are definitely not saying your date should be exactly like you, God knows I can stand this, but if the red flags are popping off, about those non-negotiable habits he seems to be exhibiting, then that a done and dusted typa situation. Bounce babe.

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Here are eight reasons it’s worth giving a second date a chance

 

  1. He texts or calls you to thank you for a good day: it shows that he or she is thoughtful and that you are on his or her mind and a second date would be a great idea.
  2. They come to your location: if you didn’t have to drive or take a cab to meet them at an inconvenient location, then it’s worth considering a second date
  3. If they paid fare
  4. If they show interest in meeting up again very soon and not in the future
  5. If they were not distracted by their phone during the date, then it’s worth a second try
  6. They ask lots of questions to get to know you better and it’s not all about being intimate
  7. If they returned the same positive energy you gave making you curious what a second date would be like
  8. You genuinely enjoyed their company and put you in a positive mood and created that excitement we call butterflies.

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‘I told you to take care of your womenz’ Maina says about Mike Oliver scandal

Posted on by Maureen Waruinge

 

Maina Kageni keeps giving fellas free advise how to treat Kenyan women, but his timely and important relationship tips seems to fall on deaf ears. Now see what drama we are being treated to on social media thanks to a mzungu.

A mzungu man Mike Oliver has been trending after sharing pictures of the Kenyan women he has bedded, and lo and behold the drama he has created has ticked off many men.

Men have castigated women for their ‘lose morals’ and labelled Mike ‘ the master’  for eating in plenty.

Mike Oliver has defended his actions on Facebook saying ‘I just showed them a dollar’ adding that Kenyan women love money and the thrill of being with white men.

On the Tuesday morning conversation, Maina Kageni told men to always listen to him when he advises about what Kenyan women want.

Mike Oliver was all over social media yesterday and Kenyan men were so mad at him .Mike told them to flatten their bitterness curve towards him and stop minding ‘my life’, drink lemonade and flatten your curve. The thing is alot of these ladies whom he posted were in steady relationships a and alot of men saw their ladies in trending photos. What  is your problem with Mike Oliver?

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To which his co host Mwalimu Kingangi responded bitterly

‘ni mzungu  I don’t know. you need to ask Kenyan ladies what is wrong  with them when they see a mzunguWwe are not bitter, we are just surprised’.

Maina wasn’t buying this argument adding that

‘I keep telling you men take care of your women, he is a lover not a fighter and that’s what Kenyan men can’rt accept, the is nothing wrong with Mike Oliver, any man who takes care of your women will not have such a problem,’.

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‘The rest of my life will be spent longing to see you again dad’ BBC’s Ciru Muriuki mourns

Posted on by Geoffrey Mbuthia

BBC journalist Ciru Muriuki is one tough woman as evidenced by her long and tough struggle with endometriosis over the years.

And that strength that she has is been put to the test at the moment as she is bereaved. The media personality explained that she had lost her father and the pain was too immense for her to contain.

Ciru Muriuki
Ciru Muriuki

Ciru explained that she was having a tough time with the pain of losing a best friend and the best man she has ever known.

‘I’m back in hospital for my 3rd endometriosis surgery’ BBC journalist Ciru Muriuki

She added that the pain of losing a parent is something life will never prepare a person for, explaining that she will go the rest of her life praying to see him once again.

“What life can never prepare you for…is to lose a beloved parent. My most honored, most cherished father has rested. I have grappled with the unimaginable pain of losing my anchor, my best friend, the best man I have ever known. Words are not enough to express the immensity of this loss. But in all things, we praise the name of the Lord. Dad, I will love you forever. The rest of my life will be spent longing to see you again,” wrote Ciru Muriuki.

Ciru Muriuki with her late father
Ciru Muriuki with her late father

The BBC journalist however, did not reveal the cause of her father’s death. Her message comes two months after she had celebrated Father’s Day with her late dad. Her message at the time read; “Happy Father’s Day Daddeh! You’re the best man I know. I hope to keep making you proud. ❤️”

Ciru Muriuki
Ciru Muriuki

From the family at Classic105, we send you our condolences.

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I don’t mind, 7 daughters, 6 daughters – Ken Mijungu says about children (exclusive)

Posted on by Geoffrey Mbuthia

Ken Mijungu was one of the premier television hosts when he worked on NTV for more than a dozen years before his retrenchment a few months ago.

He has already landed back on his feet and is doing many of his side-hustles. More of that story below:

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One area of his life that many tend to ignore is his personal life. Ken who got married in 2017, has been blessed with a baby girl and keeps his family hidden from the public spotlight.

Ken Mijungu wedding
Ken Mijungu wedding

His reason is that showing of his family isn’t necessary especially for a married man.

“At a point, you realise it is necessary to keep it private. It is not necessary to keep your relationship out there. There is no need because you are a married man, why should you broadcast it all over?”

He added, “You know when at first you get married there is that excitement but when you settle down you want to relax. There is no point in revealing your private life. You want to lead your life and this person(his wife) leads their life.”

On whether Ken would want more kids, the lawyer and journalist espoused that he wanted more kids, regardless of gender. “I am planning for more God-willing. I don’t mind, 7 daughters, 6 daughters, 5, 4, 3, 2…I don’t mind.”

Ken Mijungu with his wife
Ken Mijungu with his wife

Ken also spoke about the reason many celebrity relationships are failing saying,

“People get into marriages for different reasons, then when you have been together for some time you realise it isn’t working. If you are a married man you realise that there are several things that happen…if someone tells you they want to leave let them leave.”

Ken Mijungu
Ken Mijungu

He finished off by saying that people should move on when they see that their relationship isn’t working. “If it’s not working it’s not working. Don’t kill yourself, don’t kill someone’s child.”

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Ringtone finally speaks on what happened to his controversial wife search (Exclusive)

Posted on by Geoffrey Mbuthia

Ringtone is one of the most controversial gospel singers in Kenya. Apart from his contentious standpoint as far as the industry is concerned, the man has gained notoriety for his the way he has been looking for a wife.

His wife search has been broadcast on his social media pages and has earned him the wrath of some Kenyans who have criticised him for his methods.

Ringtone plea
Ringtone plea

And since then he has stopped his wife search. Does that mean he has gotten the woman he was looking for? Or had he given up on getting married?

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I recently spoke to the singer on how the search had gone. He stated that he had stopped the search because it had caused a lot of drama online.

“I made a lot of noise during that time and I realised that I was trending all over Africa and not in a good way. It was becoming a lot of drama but soon I come back with the drama. I was even getting calls from Nigeria asking why the richest gospel musician in Kenya was looking for a wife!”

Ringtone posing

But did that mean he was done with the search? The singer was emphatic that he would resume his search after he made more money for the publicity.

“I am still looking to get a wife, the only thing that I am looking for is money for the billboards. I will put them everywhere in Dar-es-Salaam and Nairobi.”

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She made us get suspended! Willis Raburu says about crazy ex

Posted on by Geoffrey Mbuthia

Willis Raburu hasn’t been forthcoming about his marriage to Maryaprude and who can blame him?

Most people would like to avoid speaking about their personal lives especially when that part of their life isn’t a bright spot at the moment.

But their are things that the multi-talented and hard-working TV personality is okay speaking about. Willis who hosts the popular 10 over 10 show was interviewed recently by MC Jessy and their conversation heralded some interesting truths.

Mc Jessy with Willis Raburu
Mc Jessy with Willis Raburu

Willis explained that he wasn’t always the goody two shoes personality that many see of him today. The burly news anchor revealed that he had once been kicked out of school.

And the reason will shock. It wasn’t the usual culprit of drugs, stealing or truancy. No…It was all because of a woman! Willis’ first  girlfriend to be precise.

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Mr. Raburu narrated that despite his father being strict, his son was a joker and his liaison with Grace – his bae, back then – made it worse.

Willis told Jessy that he was in love with Grace but he wasn’t ready for how far she would go for their love-leading to his first suspension.

Willis Raburu grieves for his late daughter in emotional tweet

She was so crazy that she would always be touching him in class despite an earlier warning from their principal.

This eventually led to the two being suspended after they were caught by the school authorities, an event that Willis said was very embarrassing for him at the time.

“Alikuwa kichwa ngumu, sampuli ya hii ya Moses Kuria. It was really a case, we were supposed to! And they became serious about it and they (school teachers) even started weeding people out. Next time ukipatikana suspension.”

Willis Raburu chilling
Willis Raburu chilling

Talk about puppy love! The presenter also added that he had scored a D+ at Maths in Chemilil Sugar Academy despite working hard.

“I was in Chemilil Sugar academy. My hardest subject was Mathematics. No matter the efforts I put in my studies I managed to get a D+,” he said.

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4 major signs a man is ready to marry

Posted on by Maureen Waruinge

 

You can stop trying to manipulate, sweet talk or pressure him into asking you to marry him. If he isn’t ready, nothing you do will change or make him marry you girls.

Here are the four signs that we will get into below.

1. His oat-sowing days are over 2. He’s financially independent 3. He’s discovered his desire to be a dad 4. He starts acting like a husband.

I want to marry one woman only – Diamond Platnumz opens up

So let’s get down to it in length.

He is done sowing his wild oats

In most cases, it’s a matter of getting “it” out of his system onto other serious matters in life.

If a man has that period in his life where he is all over the place, having multiple intimate relationships, he is not ready to marry.  However ladies, if you do notice that he has slowed down and is chilled, you’ve got a winner siz. This is a testament to how much he has matured.

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He’s financially independent

I can’t begin to tell you how many times I have heard it from men that they are not ready to take on a wife and begin a family until they have money, while for women it’s the contrary. Some men don’t want to get married until they can afford to finance the wedding themselves. Others want to wait until they own a home. It’s also important to men to be able to cover emergencies—for you, themselves, and future children— without the embarrassment of borrowing while a married man.

Ladies, who wants a man with no financial plans in mind?

It was rock-bottom – Ben Kitili’s wife Amina says about separation post

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He’s hinted at wanting to be a dad

Men have a common fear about fatherhood. If a man is ready and declares he wants to jump into the unknown, he is ready to marry and settle down.

He starts acting like a husband

When your boyfriend start enjoying being around children, even offers to babysit someones kids, you will know that he can handle being around his own children in the future. If he is also thinking about how to pay for children’s needs, it might hint at his desire to settle down.

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Fellas am I wrong? Drop your comments below.

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Man surprises wife with DNA test results on her birthday

Posted on by Maureen Waruinge

A viral video of a birthday surprise gone wrong has elicited millions of comments.

She was expecting a vacation in Dubai, but surprisingly it was a DNA test result, as her boyfriend found out that the daughter he had all along thought was his, was sired by another man.

The woman in the video happily guesses whether the birthday present is a necklace or a trip to Dubai, only to be confused when she pulls out a stack of papers.

Her expression grows even more confused when she realizes that her man handed her a DNA test, and questioned again why he gave her the paperwork.

The man then tells the woman that he knows that her daughter is not his, and he gave them until the end of the month to get out of his house.

He gifted her the DNA test results on their daughter’s birthday.

Fear women… 😭😭😭#NaijaViralz pic.twitter.com/aS2y9gde60

The reaction of social media users tells that men fear they may be raising children who are not theirs.

 

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8 predictable but absolutely common lies men tell in relationships

Posted on by Maureen Waruinge

There are many reasons why he might lie; either he doesn’t want to hurt you with the truth, he wants to avoid drama, he wants to impress you or he thinks you won’t appreciate him being honest.

So let’s get down to the list of lies he and others obviously tell women. Kubali kudanganywa ladies.

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  1. I’ll be home in 20 minutes: He always has to make a quick stop, but he also knows that not telling you his whereabouts is a tricky matter, and so the excuse of I’ll be there in 20 minutes arises. Quick question though girls. Do we always have to know everything bae does and at what time. This kind of reminds me of Size 8 who pesters and nags husband Dj Mo with incessant phone calls. Chill, he will be home.liesmeme
  2.  Just go have fun babe: Because his male ego is so fragile, he can’t fathom you going out and enjoying without him.  To hide this, he will encourage you by saying ‘ Just go have fun, I trust you’ . It’s lies. He is a wreck thinking about all those hottie men out there hitting on you and he is going nuts.

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  3. She’s just a friend, nothing else: Big eye roll. 4387-anim
  4. It’s not you. I just have a lot of stuff going on:
    It actually is about you and your relationship. You are not part of his plans just yet. Try and find out what the real problem is because if issues are swept under the carpet, he becomes more withdrawn.

    My ex lied he slept in a matatu from 7pm to 4am to hide an affair

  5. I’ll call you: Wauuz this is the mother of all lies girls. How many times has your man  – crush, boyfriend or whatever you call him, not called you when they said they would? 492384298-anim
  6. I’ll leave my wife for you: He does this for the benefit of your self esteem.
  7. I don’t think your thighs are too big: This one I must admit we do pile on the pressure for them to tell us we are skinny. Girl simply stop asking him if you are fat or thick, or whatever sensitive words we should be using in this cancel culture of 2020.
  8. Your the only girl I talk with: So why is he texting her?  If he bluntly tells you that you are the only girl who he is with at the moment, please do not fall for it siz.

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Kanye West visits hospitals after chastisising wife and mom-in-law

Posted on by Geoffrey Mbuthia

Kanye West has had a month of June and July that will live in infamy for the many crazy (might be true) pronouncements that he made. The rapper started out by claiming that he would be contending for the American presidency in 2022.

That wasn’t even the worst of it, the rapper started attacking his own wife and her mom-in-law in a string of tweets that went viral.

Kim Kardashian with Kanye West
Kim Kardashian with Kanye West

The rapper apparently visited a hospital for anxiety but decided against staying when he noticed how many people were there.

This is according to a source who spoke to TMZ.  He then arranged to have an ambulance come to his ranch, where EMTs reportedly checked his vitals, including heart rate and blood pressure, before determining he was not in any danger.

Kanye is no stranger to visiting hospitals as he was once hospitalised in 2016 after suffering a mental break-down.

Kanye West in silver
Kanye West in silver

The medics left shortly after with Mr. West being seeing riding an ATV around the property shortly after. This comes after the rapper had issued an apology to his wife on Saturday;

“I would like to apologize to my wife Kim for going public with something that was a private matter. I did not cover her like she has covered me.to [sic] Kim I want to say I know I hurt you. Please forgive me. Thank you for always being there for me,” West, 43, wrote.

Kanye West with Kim Kadarshian with their kids
Kanye West with Kim Kadarshian with their kids

Although West did not specify what “private matter” he was referring to, it might be related to his admission during a South Carolina campaign rally last weekend that the couple considered abortion when they were expecting their first child, daughter North, 7.

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Reports indicated earlier in the week that Kardashian, 39, was “furious” over the abortion claims but kept it to herself.

He then claimed in a now-deleted tweet that he’s been “trying” to divorce Kardashian, 39, ever since she attended a prison reform event also attended by rapper Meek Mill.

Kanye West with Kim Kardashian hugging
Kanye West with Kim Kardashian hugging

Kardashian broke her silence on his previously revealed bipolar disorder, noting that things can be “complicated” when it comes to her husband’s mental health.

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