Kikuyu benga musician John De’ Mathew dead after grisly road accident

John De’ Mathew is dead. The man whose real names are John Ng’ang’a and thrilled benga audiences in his heyday has passed on.

De’ Mathew died after being involved in a tragic road accident at Blue Post hotel along Thika superhighway on Sunday evening, August 18.

According to Thika Base Commander, Elenah Wamuyu, the musician’s car rammed into a lorry on his way from a fundraiser in support of a fellow musician.

Ikolomani Mp Bernard Shinali in road accident after sons burial

Gatanga Member of Parliament Nduati Ngugi said the musician died on the spot, after ramming a truck and his body was taken to Thika Nursing Home and later transferred to Kenyatta University mortuary.

He was heading home after attending a fundraiser for fellow musician Peter Kagia’s ailing child, a close family member said.

“A road accident has taken the life of the best musician of our time, John De’Mathhew,” Nairobi governor Mike Sonko posted on Facebook.

On his part, Gatundu South lawmaker Moses Kuria mourned him as “a friend, brother and comrade.” “John was not an artist. I have always referred to him as a modern Kikuyu prophet,” he divulged on Facebook.

De ‘Mathew is arguably the King of Kikuyu music following the death of John Kamaru, in 2018. Tributes have since been pouring in for the ‘Twambe turihe thiri’ hit-maker, with fans taking to social media to mourn him.

It is reported that he had 50 albums under his name. His songs were widely known for having hidden cultural, political and social messages, like “Mene mene Tekeli” which meant “the end is near.”

Until his demise, he was the chairperson of the newly-launched Tamco Sacco that aims to uplift the welfare of musicians. Photos of the accident scene are below;

The accident scene 2
The accident scene 2
The accident scene 1
The accident scene 1
The accident scene
The accident scene


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The most elaborate baby shower has been planned for Diamond Platnumz’ third baby mama

Tanasha Donna is gearing up to deliver her unborn baby.

The heavily pregnant Kenyan celebrity has been planning her baby shower and spoke about how anxious she is.

The baby shower will be so lavish and will take place on Thursday, the 22nd of August.


The all white party that is to take place at a beach hotel in Tanzania is scheduled to start from 3pm to 7pm.

Diamond Platnumz and his mother say if you are not invited, don’t bother showing up. Tanasha also took to social media to say how special that day will be

So there is this boy whom she loved more than she loved anyone, even more than herself… He’s the one who stole her heart and he will call her “mom”

Diamond replied by writting;

I CAN’T WAIT…..🐒❤️❤️❤️

Tanasha Donna

This child is already a celebrity before being born. This will be Diamond’s fourth child and Tanasha’s firstborn.

But fans have raised their eyebrows on why Diamond has not taken part in the baby shower photo but the man seems to be so busy touring and making money.

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Ikolomani Mp Bernard Shinali in road accident after sons burial

Ikolomani Mp Bernard Shinali and his family members survived a horrible road crash a day after burying his son.

His landcruiser collided with a matatu at the Mau Summit.

The body of his late son arrived in Nairobi recently and the burial conducted at his home in Lihrembe village on August 16. A harambee was held on August 13 at the MPs house to cater for burial costs.

Chris Masaka Adema, 35, a US Marine, died in Arizona State on July 26 while on holiday with his family. There are reports that he drowned while trying to save a child in a swimming pool.

The MP said prior to his son’s death, he had been given an assignment in the Democratic Republic of Congo. By the time of his demise he was on holiday for a week.

Ikolomani MP Bernard Shinali during a service for his son in the US on Tuesday.  Image: HILTON OTENYO
Ikolomani MP Bernard Shinali during a service for his son in the US on Tuesday.

On 8th August,  Shinali has denied blocking the mother of his son who died in US from participating in funeral arrangements.

Shinali said claims by Petronilla Munyasa that she has been stopped from travelling to the US are misleading. He accused Manyasa of seeking attention.

 “I have not seen her for the last 35 years. The child was brought to my home when he was in class eight and her family demanded for payment for keeping him which I paid in cash and started educating the boy,” he said.

Additional reporting from the Star Newspaper.

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Fans plead with Zari to introduce new hubby to her Ugandan family


Five months after introducing her mystery man to social media, fans are asking Zari if she has taken her man to officially met her Ugandan family.

Zari jetted out of South Africa and landed in Uganda where she shared some pictures of her lavish arrival.

While Zari said she’s in Uganda for a wedding, her fans are speculating if she is in town to introduce King bae to her peeps.


“Hello UG Queen Bae is here,” she wrote

Next weekend she arrives in the 254 for a function with Akothee.

While we await official wedding pics, all we know is that she was bought a Sh20m ring that left us all envious.

Zari was in Uganda in July for the Miss Uganda grand finale where she was one of the judges. She caused drama on the stage with her nemesis-cum-show host Anita Fabiola.


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Pierra Makena reminds fans once again why she’s the queen of curves

Pierra Makena is snatching edges with alluring pictures of her curvy figure.

She appeared to be living her best life on vacation and took to Instagram to share photos.

The reaction of fans including her celebrity pals reminds us once again why she is the queen of curves.

Dj Pierra regularly treats her fans to cute photos and this time round she posed for an array of pictures on her vacay

She is dazzling and even girl pals Michelle Katami and Massawe Japanni agree.

Call it what you want but Dj Pierra is feeling it and loving it.

The curvy girl shared a caption that read in Spanish

Como estas!

creo que estoy enamorado

Buenas noches

creo que estoy enamorado, which when translated to English means ‘I think I am in love.’


Earlier she had also shared how she felt about her vacay

I don’t wanna leave…..😲😲 This has been a good holiday.

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@pierramakenaofficial Heh! Mpaka I’m blushing! 😍 Fire! 🔥

Eish. Sorry basi
Looking really good. You lost some weight?

and shes back, u lost the weight beautifully mami, muy bueno bonita

Drippn’ sause❤️😍🔥🤤🤤

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Cancer News: Jimmy Gait slams rumors of battling serious illness


Jimmy Gait jetted off to New Delhi, India, where he hopes doctors will conduct tests on him to reveal what he is ailing from.

The Muhadhara hitmaker said on his Youtube Channel that he has been undergoing many tests and fans should stop assuming that he is suffering from throat cancer.

I have been having a throat problem for a long time and was not able to get a cure back at home. Last five days has been test after test.

There is a rumour going on social media that I have throat cancer. I don’t know where that came from. We are still doing tests and until the results are out, it’s not right to spread that. It’s already affecting my close people. They are worried about me.

Everything is going well and I can’t wait to come back home and I’m believing God that I’ll be okay.

Jimmy Gait
Jimmy Gait. photo credit: Instagram/Jimmy Gait

Gait in a past exclusive interview told that he noticed that he couldn’t hit high notes and went to seek medical attention.




Jimmy Gait

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Sheng songs spoil the youth says Man Kush

Controversial Pastor Paul Kuria, popularly known as Man Kush is angry. He wants all Sheng songs banned.

While the importance of music is to entertain and educate, most Sheng’ songs only spoil the youth, he says. They are either talking about s3*, encouraging the use of drugs or promoting other vices.

Speaking to the Star, Man Kush said the young generation is being taught bad manners by supporting artistes in releasing the ‘Wamlambez’ kinda songs.

So, Sailors, the group behind the hit song ‘Wamlambez’ did ‘Pekejeng’, a song that has been trending in the streets. We asked to know if Man Kush has heard the song.

He said the last time he heard that word was a few years ago, when someone was caught having sex with a dog in Mwea.

“The guy who was narrating used those words. He said, ‘Tulimpata na mbwaakipekejeng pekejeng’,” he said.”So artistes are corrupting the minds of the youth, but the problem with the society is they are embracing and adopting those words and using them.”

He mentioned another song you all know, ‘Lamba Lolo’, which means giving a blow job but has become a way of telling someone off. “What are you telling young people when they grow up?” Kush said.

Recently, controversial gospel artiste Willy Paul was trending again after releasing ‘Lamba Nyonyo’, which means lick a boob. The lyrics include, “Hey Ras, I am at home and I have lasses. Come over because it’s been a while since you licked boobs.”

Man Kush says the country is lacking morals. A song could be banned in Tanzania but be played in Kenya. ‘Nyegezi’ by Diamond Platnumz is a good example. Try attending a bash when schools are closed and you will see all the dirty songs being played there.

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Sponsors: Why taxi drivers love clubs along Kiambu and Langata road

Dating applications, mushrooming clubs, taxi services among other factors have made sponsors very accessible to women.

The access has been investigated by Star reporter Njeri Mbugua who says

The practice, once used by young girls from poor backgrounds to earn a little extra money, has for many become an accepted lifestyle choice.


A 2018 study on the culture among university students in Nairobi found that one in every five girls had a sponsor. The study was conducted by Busara Centre for Behavioural Economics.

Further, over 70 per cent of the respondents said a sponsor should pay for trips, rent, hair and beauty, outings, restaurant meals, food and shopping, dates and gifts.

Young man dating an old woman

The Star also learns that digital taxi applications are widely used to facilitate transactional sex.

A driver speaking on condition of anonymity says when men or even women do not want their spouses to know their whereabouts, they opt to take digital taxis.

“To avoid being tracked by their partners or being recognised using their vehicles, a lot of these old men will use us to take them to hotels or lodgings with these girls,” he said. 

The driver also reveals that the increase in entertainment joints, especially out of town, also plays a supporting role in such relationships.

“During the weekends, we have very specific clubs along Kiambu Road or Langata Road where you will find most drivers parked because they know business will be good,” he said. 


“A lot of young girls will flock these clubs because they know there are rich men waiting.”

Another driver, also speaking on condition of anonymity, says they have found a side hustle.

“Sometimes when we get requests to pick up girls from hotels, we start talking to them about their sponsors. If they are not happy with the amount of money or benefits they receive, we offer to hook them up with richer men in exchange for a small fee,” he said. 

While it has become easier to get into the relationships, they are short term in nature, with controlling power belonging to the sponsor.

According to the study by Busara, sponsors know they can end the relationship any time they want.

Pregnancy, infections such as HIV or STIs, violation of secrecy and demands for exclusivity are some of the most common reasons a sponsor may leave.

Additional reporting by Kelvin Alex

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Mr World Kenya 2018 will inspire you to give back and do good


Ever since he was unveiled to Kenyans, women have been going gaga for Robert Budi.

The hunky Mr World Kenya 2018, is outchea doing what he can to make this world a better place.

Budi was spotted in the Philipines for the Tuloy foundation, doing charity for abandoned street kids.

Tuloy is a Philippines-based non-government, not-for-profit organization for marginalized children

Robert Budi

The foundation accepts children ages 9 to 17 years old. They are either given residential or non-residential care. Mr World Kenya expressed his delight saying

no kid, boy or girl should ever suffer when a humanitarian organisation like @mrworld.official brings together close to 100 gentlemen from across the globe and gives them a platform to bring change to the society and put a smile on someone’s face…the highlight of this competition was this very day for me

Robert Budi and Finali Galaiya were crowned the 2018 Mr and Miss World Kenya respectively at a colorful gala event held at The Mall in Westlands, Nairobi.

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Alicia Keys’ cute heels got a fan upset for a silly reason


As Kenyans love saying ‘nini husumbua watu?’.

American singer Alicia Keys was out here rocking polka dot stiletto heels, minding her business and sipping water.

But a fan won’t let her be great. The fan on Instagram questioned why Alicia in these streets wearing heels that she claims aren’t practical.

Alicia’s caption about the heels is so cute, one wonders what the beef is.

Stand tall 
Hands on hips 
Feel it all 
Chest out 
Shoulders back 
I am me 💜💜💜
Statin’ facts 
I am me 
There’s only one 
Hot girl vibes
Head to the sun ☀️☀️☀️

Alicia Keys shows off polka dot heels

The follower @naraya_naserian responded in a harsh way

Friendly note: Be honest. Nobody can walk on those heels, let alone run or kick if need be! We can stand tall and be hot girls without’em.  

Here is why Alicia Keys could have been rocking polka dot shoes

Polka dot printed shoes always bring out your joyful side, which we know Alicia to have. Channel a voluptuous pin-up look or a light hearted vibe in one of these cheerful styles.

Alicia Keys has had to defend herself from accusations about her life several times. in a recent Bazaar magazine interview she told the interviewer that

I think women are held to higher standards because we are that much more important to the human race. Women are always going to have to navigate a more difficult space because we occupy so many different levels within it, and that’s how powerful we are.”

Alicia and husband Swizz Beatz

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The last message rugby player Frank Wanyama wrote

Rugby star Frank Wanyama has started his 15 years journey in prison. Wanyama, together with his counterpart Alex Malaba Olaba were found guilty of gang-raping upcoming artiste Wendy Kemunto.

Rugby Players


Kemunto was raped on her birthday at Seefar Apartments in Highrise, Nairobi, on February 10 2018.

Through her social Instagram account, Kemunto said,


The players’ careers have been dimmed and Frank Wanyama, was set to join a rugby team in Helsinki soon.

Wanyama was currently dating a Finnish woman identified as Sonja Sirvio. The two were so much in love. They were inseparable. Their social media accounts are filled with photos of each other.

Frank Wanyama
Frank with his girlfriend

On July 17 this year, Wanyama wished his heartbeat a happy birthday and his special message read,

A happy born day to my person @sonjasirvio 🐈.You’ve brought so much light and joy to my life and as you celebrate this special day may it bring the same kind of happiness and love. Yours 🍪🦁.

Last year, he also wished his mzungu bae a happy birthday and his message read;

A happy birthday to this blondie Nanjala Wanyonyi that I call mine. Through the storm and the CIRCUS you’ve always been a pillar of strength and a blessing that I will forever be grateful for. Comme vous devenez un an plus vieux et moins sage continuer à briller au reste du monde.

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2 Kenyan rugby players sentenced to 15 years by court for rape

The two Alex Mahaga and Frank Wanyama were found guilty of rapping a musician last year at the Highrise Estate. This comes despite the defense praying for a noncustodial sentence.

The Court was told that the two Kenya Harlequin FC players raped the singer overnight on her birthday at Seefar Apartments in Highrise, Nairobi, on February 10 last year.

Since the judgment was read in camera, their lawyer Wafula Simiyu told the Star that chief magistrate Martha Mutuku said she went with the defendant’s version of events.

Rugby players found guilty
Rugby players found guilty

“In her judgment, no one was present at the house except for the three of them. The action of the accused of deleting the sex tape they made was an expression of guilt on the part of the accused,” Simiyu said.

Simiyu said lady Justice Mutuku found the sexually assaulted musician’s testimony more believable than that of the accused.

Here are things to know about rugby players involved in Wendy’s rape saga

The lawyer further revealed that the magistrate held that there was no express consent of intercourse.

Last month, the police were looking for one of the rugby players, Mahaga, after he failed to appear in court for two consecutive days for judgment.

Mutuku was ready to deliver her verdict on July 12 but the Kenya Harlequin player failed to show up.

This prompted the court to push the verdict to Friday afternoon during which the prosecution applied for a warrant of arrest after Mahaga after he absconded for the second time.

Appearing in court on July 17, Mahaga through his lawyer, appeared in court and said he was unwell.

The Kenya Sevens players will appeal.

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Huddah Monroe makes it to the September issue of Harpers Bazaar

Huddah Monroe aka the boss chick appears  to exist in perpetual motion.

She is doing it all and she isn’t slowing done just yet.

She is still young, with a bubbly attitude towards life.

Recently she was in the United States of America, for almost five months. Something that looked like the boss lady was on holiday but nope, she was securing the bag.

Being an international businesswoman, Huddah never stops oozing out with bright and sensible ideas to create a business empire.

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I'm a big believer that change is good.To me LA is like the world's greatest party,known for its Mediterranean climate, ethnic diversity, Hollywood, the entertainment industry, and it is the “misunderstood city”. . If you're lucky enough to travel anywhere , this is a place you have to go & make the most of it. Have fun, take advantage of the opportunities and meet as many people as you can. . Thank you Harpers Bazaar US Magazine for helping me share this experience on the SEPTEMBER ISSUE . I never in one day imagined I’d be in one of the Worlds biggest fashion magazine ….. CLICK LINK ON BIO to Check out Full story! 🍾🍾 . Magazine: @harpersbazaarus Writer: @kevinkwan Photographer: @dennisleupold Fashion Editor: @menamorado  Hair: @peter.savic Makeup: @valgherman Editor: @alisonssscohn . #AfricanSauce

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In a recent Instagram post, she posted claiming how she is a big believer that change is good.

She wrote, “To me, LA is like the world’s greatest party, known for its Mediterranean climate, ethnic diversity, Hollywood, the entertainment industry, and it is the “misunderstood city”.

She continues to add, “If you’re lucky enough to travel anywhere, this is a place you have to go & make the most of it. Have fun, take advantage of the opportunities and meet as many people as you can.”


Check out Huddah Monroe cashing out in America

Clearly, she is never shy when any opportunity knocks at her door. She takes every opportunity by the horns and milks everything out of it.

The beautiful African sauce can’t hide her excitement any longer as she is on the September issue of Harpers Bazaar Us Magazine.

She continues by saying, “I never in one day imagined I’d be in one of the Worlds biggest fashion magazine ..”

As she appreciates the magazine for sharing her story just as she would have wanted them to do.

In the magazine issue, the personality claims that she is planning on opening a Huddah Cosmetic U.S flagship stocking her popular liquid lipsticks and eye-shadow palette for the independent dark skin tone girls as LA is like her second home.

It doesn’t hurt how the lass is photogenic, but what’s remarkable is her rise to fame, a girl from the slums of Nairobi. She continues by saying how she loves dressing up and looking good.

You may mistake her for going to an “award show.”

Her beauty is unmatched.

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Maina Kageni speaks to Nameless and King Kaka about MCSK controversy

Maina Kageni interviewed Nameless and King Kaka about the issue of MCSK paying Kenyan musicians peanuts for all the work that they do.

He spoke to the host and revealed that he used the 2.5K he received to pay for a jet ski.

He also revealed that the situation was very frustrating for him noting that,

The solution is at the board level and that level of leadership is very important. I feel the leadership is lacking. People are refusing to work together. We need to be real as artistes and be honest. We need technocrats and only 3 musicians on the board. So that we get people who have the business savvy to get control of the situation. 

Wahu in the arms of her husband, Nameless
Wahu in the arms of her husband, Nameless

Maina asked if it was fair that established musicians were being paid the same amount as artistes no one knew about.

He replied,

We are supposed to be paid for the rotation but things aren’t like that. They are many artistes who will not be earning if they were paid just for the play that their music receives.

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Nameless finished off by saying that he did not see the terrible situation changing anytime soon. Maina also spoke with the musician mirroring Nameless’ sentiment.

He told Maina,

We are been taken for a ride. Writing music is not easy and shooting music videos is very expensive. I feel that they are not transparent. There is no way that these guys only collected Ksh 37 million.

King Kaka
King Kaka

Maina interviewed Nameless and King Kaka about the issue of MCSK paying Kenyan musicians peanuts for all the work that they do.

King Kaka added that he was disappointed that the organisation’s administrative costs were estimated at between 60-70 % of what they collected!

He said the solution could come after they seat down with MCSK. Adding that, they could even disband the current MCSK and start another one of their own.

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Good news! More coaches to be added on SGR, demand from travelers is high!

Knowing Kenyans and going to the Coast over the holidays is a must and they go in large numbers. Since the Mombasa–Nairobi Standard Gauge Railway was introduced to Kenyans as a faster, a more safer and convenient for passengers to travel by compared to buses, its demand has increased than expected.

Kenya Railways has announced on their twitter page that from next week, they will add more coaches to the Standard Gauge Railway (SGR) passenger service between Nairobi and Mombasa.


It is not a rare act for the railway service to increase coaches during the holiday season. As this continues, it is promoting active tourism and also will generate revenue for the government. A win win on both ends.

This is a very smart move and it will see more people travel and miss out on the train tickets due to its nature of always  being fully booked during peak season.

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Nairobi SGR Terminus

The train is currently pulling 16 coaches on economy class tickets and two (72 passengers) on the first class tickets.

SGR train

For those who have not yet traveled  by this locomotive should include it on their bucket list agendas, to experience comfortably and a more faster ride to and from Mombasa and Nairobi. Currently with the 16 coaches it has, it can take 1652 people.

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Excitement as Jose Chameleone carries last-born daughter on his back (photo)

Jose Chameleone is one veteran Ugandan musicians that has consistently churned out hit song after hit song. The man whose real names are Joseph Mayanja is also known to be a great family man and a loving husband.

Chameleon wedding day
Chameleon’s wedding day 11 years ago

He was recently spotted carrying his last-born daughter on his back while on the streets of Minnesota. The thing that caught many people’s eyes was the way he did it; not in front with his hands but on his back as has been captured poetically many times by African women.

Chameleone with his lastborn daughter on his back
Chameleone with his lastborn daughter on his back

His tongue-in-cheek caption read;

It’s you to instill the values you expect out of your children. When they are born they are empty as a new flash drive, it’s you to load the data.

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The image was met with excitement from many of his Instagram followers who were amazed that he was confiednt enough to carry the child on his back. Some of the comments are below;

leilakayondo Best pic so far. Last month to this month 😍❤️
chimoga254 Well said brother 🇺🇬🇺🇬💪🏿💪🏿🔥🔥
kennethsargent Now that’s the kinda shit y’all should be posting. That’s what I call real man! But some dumb asses think that taking care of children is woman only.

Chameleone in black and white
The artiste posing

The star has a history of going all out for the four kids that he and wife Daniella Atim Mayanja have been blessed with. Closer to home, Kivutha Kibwana the Makueni Governor posted a photo on his Facebook timeline on Saturday, June 16, 2018, carrying a young girl on his back.


Kibwana who had in the past moved hearts of many Kenyans with rare acts of humility for a man of his stature said it was all in the celebration of the Day of the African Child marked every June 16.

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Things you should know about displaying a firearm in public


According to numerous people, having a gun is the new status symbol in Kenya.

Countless celebrities/personalities have been spotted in public with these weapons, and some of them arrested after a public outcry. From Paul Kobia to Prezzo to Steve Mbogo, the list is endless.

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Senator Paul Njoroge in gun drama

Article 88 of the penal code prohibits brandishing of weapons in public, warning that “any person who goes armed in public without lawful occasion in such a manner as to cause terror to any person is guilty of a misdemeanour, and his arms may be forfeited”.

space lounge dj firearm

If you legally own a firearm and want to show off in public, it is important you read these laws about brandishing a firearm.

The improper exhibition of a firearm could land you a jail term.

Whats is brandishing?

It is pointing, holding a firearm or an object similar in appearance. It’s unlawful for any person to point, hold or brandish any firearm whether capable of being fired or not, in such a manner as to reasonably induce fear in the mind of another of being shot or injured.

j Moh Spice arrested after showing off gun

Githurai thug

If you lose your ish real quick, then owning a firearm could be a problem, and you may need to re-think carrying a gun

The officer then tables the application before the district security committee (DSC) with his recommendations.

The documents are then forwarded to the provincial police officer (PPO), who places them before the provincial security committee, which deliberates on the application and makes its recommendations.

The PPO submits the PSC’s recommendations to the Inspector General of Police for final approval.

The Inspector General then forwards the application to the Chief Licensing Officer, who in turn informs the applicant in writing on the decision that has been taken.

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If the application is successful, the applicant receives a firearm certificate allowing him or her to purchase the weapon he or she applied for.

Section 33 of the Firearms Act states that “any person who is drunk, or who behaves in a disorderly manner, while carrying a firearm shall be guilty of an offence and liable to imprisonment for up to one year or up to Sh10,000 fine, or both.”


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Sorry Sis! 6 signs you may just be a booty call

Is your man serious or is he just looking for a good time in bed?

If you’ve ever asked yourself that question, you already know. But you may want to read on just to be sure.

In some situations, it’s easy to get confused about what’s going on between you and a potential beau. A guy may just be taking things slowly, like a cautious young man. Other guys may just be casual, you know nothing serious there, mate! Or, others may consider themselves players you may have been classed as the dreaded booty call, and you don’t even know it yet.

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Signs you are just a booty call:

  1. He is very secretive when on his phone to a point he does the bob and weave with his phone hiding the contents of his phone from you. This also can imply that he is se3ting with another beau behind your back.
  2. The conversation that revolves around the both of you is just plain old msolokombo. Feelings and gratification revolve around pekejeng. If you claim not to be well informed about his life and the things that he likes, then girl you his booty call or rather his side dish for when his main ain’t available.
  3. If he doesn’t check up on you, or ask you how your day has been? That’s a red flag that he ain’t with you emotionally and that he doesn’t care about your feelings whatsoever. Just contacts you when he wants to “nyandua” you.
  4. Not part of his daily life. If he doesn’t involve you in his day to life or the both of ya’ll do not hangout in public places other than the time he only wants you in his bed then you are his clandestine. Also when you try bringing in the question of being  in a serious relation with your “man” and he casually shrugs it off or makes flimsy excuses then, you just ain’t that special to him.
  5. Its all about relieving s33ual tension or some sort of fantasies he’s always been skimming up his sleeves. No real bonding, just being physically satisfied and when all that is said and done, he will give you the boot, no sleeping over when the deed is done or if he is at your place he will leave with no hesitation.
  6. Nyanduaing is mostly on his terms and whenever the both of ya’ll are tispy or drunk. No point will there be any intimate moment when the both of you are sober.

What are or were some of the red flags you have or came across that you knew you were just a booty call?

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