Kiherere mtaacha! Habits women should drop after moving into their men’s house ASAP

Women have on several occasions confessed to tricking men so that they can move in with them and men are not impressed, with many saying wanakandamizwa.

There are also things that they unconsciously do and it does not sit well with men.

Here are some of the things that women should drop ASAP

1. Kukatalia kwa nyumba yake

Ladies, whether you help  pay the rent or not you have no right kukatalia in a man’s house. Don’t forget that man is not your father so he owes you NOTHING.

2. Appointing yourself as the wife

As long as he has not introduced you to his closest friends and family, acha kiherehere ya kuambi awatu kw plot ‘by the way am nani’s wife’ – who appointed you?

3. Don’t visit his house uninvited

Women we are tired of all the drama once you find out your man showcasing his bedroom skills to someone else.

So instead of kumeza panadol juu ya heachache ya mtu mwingine, just visit only when invited if you can’t kaa kwenyu maisha ni ngumu kwa kila mtu.

4. Stop creating trouble with his neighbors

I know you might think that just because you are dating you might think you have the right to create trouble with mama wa kufua nguo, caretaker or even mama mboga.

But believe you me as long as it’s his house and he has not put a ring on it, you have no say.

5. Disorganizing his household items

With the determination to prove you are a wife material you might be tempted to rearrange or reorganize furniture or even sort out his clothes, but before you do kemea hio pepo.

Until he tells you to just seat and enjoy his company or watch the newest series.

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Ringtone declares support for Wema Sepetu after trolls hate on her struggling hairline

I never would have thought I would ever put the name Ringtone and Wema Sepetu in the same sentence? But today is that day.

The reason for that; Wema Sepetu is one of the latest celebs to love his new gospel jam featuring Christina Shusho. In a video that has since gone viral, the former Miss Tanzania 2006 is seen dancing along to the gospel song.


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Although Wema is a proclaimed Muslim, that doesn’t mean she can’t dance along to a song that can give her some respite from the criticism that she has been receiving this past weekend, something the singer hinted at in his lovely message to her on his Instagram page.


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And what criticism am I referring to? People have noticed that her hairline is struggling after they saw her without a wig for the first time. Since then the abuse has been relentless. Some of those comments are below:

Mmmmh, kiukweli umekuwa na sura personal. Midomo sasa naona imepoteza mvuto, imekuwa mibayaaa. Komwe najua ni aina ya msuko ila hapana kwa kweli. Mrudishe wema wetu. Wema kama Wema

Woiye, you used to be a pretty girl 😩😩😩😩😩you look horrible in that hair. Plus your forehead 😩😩😩😩😩😩😩 you lost soo much weight dear, not cool.

Naoana kilometa zime soma mbali kweli , uzee unakuja ujieshimu sasa . Jiangilie jinsi unakua kama panya ndani ya mtundi wa maji 🤮🤮🤮🤮

Hatimae umebaki kichwa😢

After her hairline became the topic of discussion on social media, she responded just as strongly saying “Mniache, so mumeamua wenyewe make mnichambee kuhusu hairline yangu sijui oh basi kama hamjui ndio haya majaliwa yangu”.

And Ringtone, whose song she was singing decided to chime in with his support after the hate that she has been receiving. His lovely caption read, JESUS LOVES @wemasepetu AND SHE BEING BLESSED WITH 

 

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Do you agree with Eric Wainaina’s decision to let his wife decide the fate of his illegitimate son after he cheated? (Poll)

Award-winning singer Eric Wainaina recently spoke about the cheating scandal that rocked his marriage close to a decade ago.

Eric was caught in a scandal of his own making where he cheated on his wife Sheba Hirst with former Tusker Project Fame contestant Valerie Kimani. An affair that brought forth a son who is now 10 years old.

Speaking on Churchill Show, ‘Journey Series’, Eric, who has since owned up to his mistakes, said the first challenge was how they would negotiate that particular situation.

“Now we are in a place where he is a big boy and the mother recently got married, and they have a daughter of their own. So the question now is, how will he refer to me because he calls Valerie’s husband dad?”

Eric who met his wife Sheba met in St Mary’s School said this should be done by having a tremendous degree of honesty and negotiations.

“When that whole issue was a wound, my mother told me, ‘You have to let Sheba lead in this situation.’ She is an amazing human who is just and she has stood by me.”

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This last point stuck with me cause I believe that while the advice sounds fair and right, that it wholly depends on Sheba making the right choices and a risk Eric was taking as to the potential relationship he would have with his son.

Choices that would affect the life of a kid she didn’t share any blood with, while Eric’s situation with Valerie and their son looks to be going well at the moment, I feel that their good resolution is the exception and not the norm.

See, Sheba could in all likelihood (and in an emotional state at the time) give Eric an ultimatum of her own choosing; Either he should never have a relationship with his illegitimate son or not spend a dime on him. Don’t forget she had the leverage of leaving him.

The above scenarios are all extreme but they have happened in the past with how wives dealt with illegitimate kids, so it is plausible and could have happened.

Leading me to my question below;

Do you agree with Eric Wainaina’s decision to let his wife decide the fate of his illegitimate son after he cheated? Vote below:

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Looking at what the science says about Eric Omondi’s impressive muscle gains

Eric Omondi broke the internet last week after debuting a new look to his fans. When people described Eric’s physical appearance in the past, words like skinny and thin predominated.

But not anymore. The comedian’s new body has been giving many female fans sleepless nights with words like buff, muscles and hunk to now describe him.


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And from before and after photos one can see that it isn’t hyperbole. The hype is well-earned. Eric, you see, used to weigh 48 kgs some 7 months ago.

That was until bosses from a local milk company challenged him to pack on more muscle, something he has since been able to accomplish. He revealed this through his Instagram page where he wrote;

So lato.milk gave me a challenge Seven months ago!!! I was only 48 KGs…Challenge was to build Mass and Muscles😊😎😎Challenge was accepted and the Journey is on!!! I am challenging myself to go further…

He still hasn’t revealed how much he weighs right now but I am willing to wager that he has gained between 10 and 15 kgs of muscle in his recent photos.

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The question is how did he do it? I know! I know! My question sounds redundant to some. He just went to the gym and ate more. True. But that is a simplistic answer.

Here’s the more in-depth one below

Eric’s body type from my scanning of his original photos is that he is an ectomorph. An ectomorph is a typical skinny guy, characterised by;

  • More narrow shoulders and hips in respect to height.
  • Relatively smaller muscles in respect to bone length.
  • Naturally fast metabolism makes it difficult for many to gain mass.

How to train for ectomorphs

Due to the numerous factors previously mentioned, most ectomorphic clients have developed bodies with highly active metabolisms and “lanky” bone structures, making it hard for them to put on mass and keep it on.


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For this reason, exercise techniques for hypertrophy and maximal strength should be prioritized, with a greatly-reduced focus on cardiorespiratory training to reduce overall energy utilization.

To accompany the mass gain-focused resistance training, ectomorphic bodies should eat a mass gain-focused diet. These individuals tend to burn through energy sources faster than most, so ample calories will be needed.

Low-carb, fat-loss focused diets are not recommended here, and in some cases, it may be prudent to recommend that ectomorphic clients even incorporate “mass gainer” nutritional shakes into their diets.

Ectomorphs need high levels of protein too. 1.2 to 1.6 grams per kilogram bodyweight of daily protein has been shown to be optimal for muscle growth, with some individuals requiring up to 2.2.

In short

  • Maximize muscle gain using lower-intensity hypertrophy and maximal strength resistance training with longer rest periods.
  • Consume a high-protein diet with balanced carbs and fats that maintains a positive energy balance.

So there you have it but I could be wrong and it was the milk Eric was drinking that made all the difference.


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5 feminine traits of a woman that makes a man want to commit to her

The world has changed the past century in more ways than one. The biggest one as far as the genders go is the drive to push equality of opportunities among them.

This has seen men and women compete in the school and the workplace, something that didn’t happen with the older generations.

Men had their paths, women had theirs-a distinction that lasted for millennia. And while it has been great for the progress of society, it has been a challenge in many intimate relationships between men and women.

You see, the things that make men and women succeed in the workplace can hurt women in their relationships-Things like aggression, independence, leadership, and assertiveness, which are considered traditionally masculine traits.

This has caused many women to lose out on great relationships in their personal lives while their careers soar. So what are the feminine traits that make a man want to commit to a woman long-term?

The caveat-This list is made for women seeking to attract men of value and distinction, not jokers.

They are below:

Agreeableness/Cooperative

A person with a high level of agreeableness in a personality test is usually warm, friendly, and tactful. They generally have an optimistic view of human nature and get along well with others.

This trait is at the top of my list cause it goes hand in hand with submission. While it might be frowned upon, I see this trait as a major one because it shows a willingness on the woman’s part to buy into the man’s leadership. Off course, this doesn’t mean one has to be agreeable to nonsense.

Gentleness 

Gentleness describes the way in which a situation is approached and how a person deals with it.
The stresses of daily life never fail to give us the opportunity to feel and act harshly and judgmentally. The ability to step back, and speak with softness and gentleness is a much more powerful way to communicate- a woman who is able to acknowledge that fact is one that embodies true beauty.

Gentleness is the way you see little girls treat their dolls – with feather caresses and sweet kisses, with methodical swaddling and lullabies. It’s how mothers cuddle, soothe, and even discipline their children.

Empathy
The final quality I’m attending to is empathy; remember empathy ≠ servility. Empathy is one of the greatest forces of cohesion that mankind has in its favor. Being able to understand someone else’s viewpoint is integral to healthy communication, which in turn is integral to every relationship whether personal, communal, or global.

Peace-loving

Men don’t love soap operas because of all the dramas in relationships that they normally promote as normal. Most normal and smart men want a stable, peaceful(some might call it boring) relationship. That takes a woman who loves thriving in such an environment.

Even Solomon with all his wives had the wisdom to note the lengths to which a man will try to avoid a conflict-ridden woman when he wrote, “It is better to live in a corner of a roof Than in a house shared with a contentious woman.”

Vulnerability

A man wants a woman who can be vulnerable with him because it shows a trust that she trusts him. It also shows that the woman trusts the man to take care of her and keep her safe.

A person cannot be vulnerable with someone they don’t fully trust and one can’t have a long-term relationship with someone they aren’t vulnerable with.

Unfortunately, many modern women have been told that they should avoid being vulnerable with men because of the potential for pain or heartbreak but it also opens up more opportunities for deeper loving relationships.

There are many more traits but one can’t go wrong with the 5 above.

 

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Sharing your problems with your wife is like sharing your malaria with a mosquito – Man tells Maina

Today morning Maina Kageni spoke about parenting. The question the esteemed host asked men what would happen were they to die/immobilised?

His concern was whether wives were prepared to lead their homes in the absence of their husbands. “If anything were to happen to you today would your wife know where to start?” Maina asked.

The responses had a little flavour of everything

Some of the comments are below:

Maina I agree with you! Your first responsibility is your kids. When I get to work the first thing I do is to call the house girl and talk to my kids. You have to know where they are and what they are doing.

Yesterday after church where I live, there were kids playing loud music and they were drinking. We are facing a very tough time with these children.

I’m a single mother and I told my daughter akimaliza shule form four I will buy her a new phone and she had to wait. So hizi vitu zote ni mzazi.

Of course, my wife is my next of kin… All my details shall be available for her. But I can’t share my ATM pin with her completely. That’s a risky affair.

Am not a wife but I would hate to be stuck..most women are living their husband’s life and give too much they forget themselves in the process. I hope I get to live my own life. My wish

At one time we merged both accounts but one day yake ikawa nono zaidi, after I lost my job akakata network. Since then am less concerned with her earnings…imagine she even asks for fare to go to work and I always give Her.

Maina I would prefer letting my mum and children know to my wife

Bank will sort it out and for the phone nitaenda River Road. Acha wakae nazo Maina. Technology will work for us

Hio ni tricky Sana juu hakuna kitu anajua kunihusu juu akijua atanimaliza

Hata Kwa Dawa Maina Mimi siwezi kumwambie pin yangu.

There is an unclaimed assets authority.. Ama!!

Sharing all the problems with your wife is like sharing your Malaria with a mosquito and then you expect healing. It’s practically impossible.

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Nameless reveals the biggest thing he has learnt about Wahu this year (exclusive)

This year has been one that has exposed many relationships. Some have fallen and others have become more formidable.

One of those is the long-lasting marriage of Nameless to his wife Wahu. I recently spoke to the musician who revealed some of the things he had learnt about their marriage.

The biggest one according to him was the different worldviews that he and his wife had that he wasn’t aware of before the pandemic forced them to be together for great periods of time.

We are trying to align our worldviews. That is something that causes issues in relationships that people don’t realise. We have started reflecting. Being together has forced us to learn and unlearn things. One thing I realised is that we are normally set up to fail in life, in that society gives you rules and the wrong tools to succeed.

Adding, “They tell you how you should do, how you should believe, when you should get married, how you should raise your kids. All these things with the wrong tool and you end up struggling in life. That’s when you take a step back and re-evaluate all the rules and tools that you were given, to see if you can get better ones.”

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The “Sunshine” singer explained that he was also learning how to see the beauty in the differences he and his wife shared. “I am also learning that there are strengths to our weaknesses and how am I benefiting from the difference instead of it causing conflict. That has been growth on our part and we want to work more and more together.”

Nameless told me that through his meditation and reevaluations had made him have a more cooperate view of family telling me;

You kind of have to look at your family like a company and you have to go through a reflection of what you believe is success. One person might think success is happiness while another might think that it is money. If you have different views of it then you will be clashing.

His focus was the success a couple can have when they work with synergy combining all their values and talents towards one goal.

How does a couple then look at what their joint belief system is? That’s when you borrow each other’s energy as a team and get something that both of you can successfully work at. I don’t think we went through that process in the beginning.

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They had 55k for a trip! Things to know about 44 teens busted at party

 

Detectives on Saturday November 21 arrested 44 school going children at a party in Mountain View Estate.

Social media has since reacted tot he news calling it outrageous.

Here’s what you need to know about the teens and what was found as they partied.

1.They had Sh55,000 and it’s said they were planning on going to Malindi for vacation

2. The children – 26 boys and 18 girls – were aged between 14 and 17 years

3. During the operation, police found various brands of alcohol and bhang, that included different brands of Whisky and Vodka.

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4. Their host, Millicent Kithinji, aged 41, was picked up for questioning by detectives based at Dagoretti

5. Preliminary investigations revealed the children were from Nairobi, Kiambu, and Machakos counties.

6. They were invited via Instagram

Maina shared his thoughts about it saying. “My goodness even it was crazy. DCI has warned of gangs recruiting online, as a parent what is going through your mind. The teens told cops don’t put us under undue pressure, what do you make of it all? Coz at the end of the day you are the one going to deal with the mess as a parent”

He added that

“Is there a disconnect and as a parent when you read the ages involve there, what is broken? back in the day when you were told be home at five you obeyed, and you could not leave the gate if told don’t leave there”

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Classic 105 listeners reacted to the news with shock. Parents spoke about being horrified below.

A male caller said “those kind of kids have alot of time, they are home and the things they do on their phones, even us adults cant do, imagine where did they find all that money even us adults don’t have”

Harun from Kitale called saying “it is a nationwide thing its just that these two[parties were exposed. I’m Kitale living at a rented house and next to me is a group of young boys and one is in university with a form two bother, the same thing is happening next to my house, yesterday after church loud music was being played and I was not comfortable. They were drinking, so Maina as a teacher my hands are tied, when schools wee opened I knew there would be a disaster even in school we struggle with class seven and form twos and form threes”

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God will vindicate you – Jowie Irungu’s wife says in powerful birthday message

Jowie Irungu stunned Kenyans a few months ago when he unleashed his wife, a tall model with legs for days. Many wondered when the previously incarcerated Jowie had got such a beautiful woman. Not only that, that he also got married.

Many people have doubted the authenticity of the marriage, some calling it a sham done for clout and fame. But despite the uncertainty that their relationship elicited the two are still going strong.

How strong? A recent post by Jowie’s wife shows that the couple are happy where they are while wishing her man a happy birthday.

Her message was filled with platitudes of wisdom, hope and belief in an Instagram post seen by Classic105 . She reminded him of how kind, God-fearing, innocent and sweet he was. The single mum then added that every mouth that gossiped Jowie would one day declare that he is innocent.

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 Writing, “I admire the resilience and courage you take in spite of what you have been through..they do not know and they do not need to,” she wrote.

The tall, lean lady also went on to add that God will soon rebrand her husband and every foot that rushed to bear false witness against him would be put to shame.

“I Eleanor Musangi serve a living God with whom I have undeniable evidence and testimony of who He is,” she continued.


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In a past interview, Ella said she heard a voice instructing her to take care of Jowie explaining that Jowie was her man considering that their relationship was not made from this world.

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It’s not easy! Burale says about not engaging in intimacy before marriage (exclusive)

Robert Burale and I spoke this past week. The chocolate-skinned man of God was gracious enough to delve into tough topics that many well-known celebs like skirting.

One of those is about his dating life. Was he seeing someone at the moment? “I don’t have the grace to be single. I will get married soon. I know it will happen one day.”


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When I asked him whether he was seeing anyone special, he was a bit cagey telling me to keep my ear on the ground. He, however, reiterated his earlier point that he hadn’t been born to be single for the rest of his life.

Burale made me chuckle when he confessed that staying single for the rest of his life was something that he didn’t want to do cause it would be too tough for him, especially in the part of s3xual matters.


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My message to youth at the moment is about purity and it would be bad for me to go and have s3x despite what I am preaching. I can tell you that It’s not easy!!!

And what is the father of one’s stance on getting more children?

If God allows me to have more kids then fine. If not then I am still O.K but I might adopt many others. Many people ask me why I didn’t get more? I am not a believer in having s3x outside marriage. I cannot by the Grace of God! If I had I would be having at least 4 to 5 kids My grandfather had many wives and many children, the exact number I don’t know. I am very open, I love children. . 

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Bridget Achieng speaks for the first time on her relationship with her baby daddy (exclusive)

Bridget Achieng has lived a life that would make great memoir material if she ever decides to write one in the future. The mother of one has seen a lot and one of those areas is in her relationships.

In a recent interview I had with her, the voluptuous lady spoke about how she views relationships at the moment, saying;

When I was last in a relationship my heart was torn into pieces.  I don’t want to be in an entanglement. I have accepted the way the world works. I have accepted if I get it then fine. That if there is that one guy that maybe God has for me, maybe but I don’t want to kill myself for that.


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She also explained that dating today is very different from how it was in the past;

This era isn’t the same as one of our parents. People don’t sacrifice together anymore. People are getting tired of each other so quickly. The relationships aren’t like the one my mom and dad had in the past. Relationships are scam. Love is overrated.

Adding;

You want a relationship like the one your parents had but your partner might not want that. I decided that God has blessed me, I have a few things here and there, I get a good guy, I like him, we get a kid and I move on. 

Bridget also explained how her relationship with her baby daddy was going on at the moment;

Even if Sekani’s dad was trying to come back it just didn’t work out, I still felt the trauma. I just felt that he could leave the same way he did the first time. Yes, he is trying but we aren’t there yet. When someone is trying you have to give them credit. He wants to be in his son’s life. I don’t want any drama.

She finished off by explaining what it would take to date her, telling me; ‘I am a strong woman, the man has to be twice. Getting that isn’t easy. The other day my friend told me, “This guy likes you but he is scared.” Like why is he scared. Because he can’t handle me. I am at a peaceful place.’

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Zari visits crash scene of late businessman Ginimbi with his ex-wife in tow

Zari Hassan has been travelling a lot the past few weeks. Earlier this month, the mother of 5 visited the father of her two youngest children, Diamond Platnumz in Tanzania.

Her highly-publicised visit coincided with the tragic death of Zimbabwean businessman Genius Ginimbi who was a close friend of the socialite.

That Zarinah wasn’t able to attend the funeral made sense as she couldn’t leave her two kids in Tanzania on the fly. But now that they are back safe and sound in South Africa, the Ugandan has found the time to go and visit the ex-wife of the late businessman.

Via her Instagram stories on Friday, November 20, the South Africa-based Ugandan socialite shared short videos spending time with Ginimbi’s ex-wife, Zodwa Mkandla.

Zodwa herself also shared some clips spending time with Zari on her IG page with one clip showing the two cruising together in her car. “Welcome to Zimbabwe Zari. I missed you,” she told Zari.

Adding, “Thank u @zarithebosslady for coming to share my pain. True friendship in good times and in bad. Rest in Eternal peace Mtenessnwa @ginimbi,” she wrote.

Zari responded to the post saying: “I love you more than words can express. Your my wife, my family, my sister, God is with us through this trying time.”

Zarinah also visited the site where the Zimbabwean billionaire perished with Zodwa accompanying her. The flashy tycoon died in a grisly road accident on Sunday, November 8, that claimed the lives of video vixen Mimie Moana and two others.

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We will expose their side chicks! Sonko warns fellow leaders

Mike Sonko will go down in Kenya as arguably the most colourful politician that we have ever had. The Nairobi governor has a history of making interesting and controversial remarks that are either downright brilliant or leave you scratching your head.

His most recent fascinating remarks come after the death of Matungu MP Justus Murunga. As is the norm many times when a high-profile male politician died, a woman claiming to have had kids with the late has come out of the woodwork, something that hasn’t sat well with Mr. Sonko.

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Mike Sonko

Using his popular Twitter page the politician explained how shameful it was that most men live a double lives when they are on Earth, then let their wives deal with the shame after their death.

“Many of our leaders are not transparent to their wives and when they die, side chicks come from everywhere,” Sonko wrote.

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He called out the behaviour saying it was hypocrisy and condemned it strongly, saying that he would expose such evils no matter what positions his colleagues hold in the country. “We shall expose with evidence all the leaders who have been lying to their wives,” the governor added.

Matungu Murunga died on Saturday, November 14, at St Mary’s Hospital, aged 60. Shortly afterwards, his mistress Anne Wangui rushed to court on Wednesday, November 18, demanding to be recognised and included in his burial arrangements.

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Her request was granted after Milimani Law Courts Principal Magistrate Agnes Makau directed the family to stop any burial plans until her case was heard and determined, something to which Murunga’s widows Christabel and Grace argued against citing that the burial date had already been set and postponement would lead to a lot of inconveniences.

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It has been a blessing in disguise – Nameless about 2020 (exclusive)

Nameless like most artistes in Kenya has seen some tough times this Covid affected year of 2020. I spoke to the “Nasinzia” singer and he told me about the evolution he had had to go through this year.

He told me that like most Kenyans his income had been affected by the virus.

It has been rough because one of my main income streams was cut off without any plan. Obviously, I earn a lot from doing live shows and performances and that was one of my main revenue streams. It came without warning and that definitely affected me.

And that had forced him to get out of his safe space.

But also it has forced me to get out of my comfort zone. There are many other things that I am exploring among my interests that I can’t talk about now. It has definitely made me see things differently also and get out of my comfort zone.

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And what was out of his comfort zone?

There are things I wanted to do that I had been pushing but now I am forced to do them. That some things have been halted I have had to get into them. That has been a blessing in disguise. Also staying at home with my wife and kids has made us connect on higher levels. Like many people, I am looking at things very differently. 

And what has he been doing to improve himself?

“It has been a rough year. There has been a lot of learning and unlearning this year. I look at myself as a creative. I am looking at relationships differently. I have been moving from passion to purpose like thinking about what more to do? I have been doing a lot of introspection. Don’t forget that I am bang in the middle of life. It’s half-time for me. Not just be driven by my passion for music but what can I do that is more lasting and impactful. In short, my legacy.”

He finished off by saying, “I am finding out the reason I was placed on this world. In 2021, I will be sharing more, a different side of me.”

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Habits you should avoid when going to a club

When you gong to a club there are some habits that you should avoid to have a good time. They include;

Mixing drinks

Mixing drinks can really put your liver at risk. It can lead to vomiting as it may tamper with your digestion system. It is advisable to take such drinks in dilute form with either water or a soft drink.

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Leaving your items unattended

You should be careful with your items especially your phone and cash. Not everyone goes to the club with good intentions. Other go with intentions of stealing from the drunk people, so more reason you should be careful.

Wearing high heels

If you love dancing, wear comfortable shoes. Six inch heels are cute to look at, but you won’t be able to dance.You could even fall and break your ankles if drunk.

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Taking stranger’s drinks

Taking someone’s drink that you don’t know is way too dangerous folks. In this day and age of spiking drinks, you need to be careful about this bad habit girls.

Getting wasted taking too much alcohol

Medics constantly berate us with messages that consumption of alcohol is harmful to ones health. When in the club, it’s important to limit how much you drink, plus also know the limits because of your health and your security too. If you get too drunk chances are that you may black out and in the process people can take advantage of you.

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Sijapona vizuri! Esma Platnumz’s responds to troll who accused her of aborting

Many people were worried after images emerged of Diamond’s sister Esma Platnumz’s in hospital. Many wondered what was going on as she had been spritely and full of life just a few days earlier.

So what had happened? We still don’t know for sure but the great news is that the mother of 2 was finally discharged from hospital.

Esma Platnumz in hospital
Esma Platnumz in hospital

The rumours swirling around are that Esma might have procured an abortion after breaking up with her estranged husband Msizwa.

This came about after her flashy husband (with whom she has had issues with) posted a message on his social media of a lit candle (which normally signifies death). His caption read, “Binadamu tuwe na huruma 😭😭😭.”

That set the gossip mills rolling and Tanzanian blogs went into hyperdrive speculating about what his post meant. That it coincided with Esma’s hospital stay didn’t help matters leaving a lot of unanswered questions.

One of Esma’s courageous fans commented on her latest post accusing her of aborting Msizwa’s child. “Umepona ee kutoa mimba sio vizuri,” read his comment.

The mother of two, who as married to Msizwa as a third wife savagely responded to the fan and she wrote, “Sijapona vizuri ndio najisikilizia.”

Wah! That level of sarcasm! But is she confirming a truth or is she just playing the part? Who knows, only she does.

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I wrote “Nairobi” while listening to Miriam Makeba-Atemi says of her favourite song

The lovely Atemi Oyungu sat down and gave a wonderful interview this week. The singer with the vocal cords of an angel was candid and open about her musical journey.

I enjoy doing many different types of music. Initially, I started out doing R and B with a group called N2 and that genre was the in thing. After I met Allan Rimbui is when we started experimenting with different styles of music, with one of them being neo-soul. I loved neo-soul so much because it was heavily influenced by R and B which I love but also has hip-hop and jazz influences in it. At the moment I am doing a bit of Afro-pop. 

Atemi also revealed her most memorable song so far in her impressive career. She said;

“My most sentimental song was Nairobi. I wrote it when I was listening to Miriam Makeba and I called my mom for some of the Luyha translations in it. I look back on the song and I am proud of myself.”

And on the different types of music in Kenya at the moment? Atemi defended gengetone (Which gets a lot of hate from musical purists) saying that she loved listening to the style of music. She admitted that although she couldn’t perform that style of music, that doesn’t mean that all genres of music shouldn’t be allowed to be explored fully. “There is room for all different styles of music.”

The singer who like many before started singing publicly in church at the age of 10 will be performing this Sunday 22nd November, at the Oyster Bay Lounge, Jazz comes alive with the Classic 105 & Smooth FM Acoustic Brunch, Bubbly and Jazz!

The singer was so jazzed about the event especially because she could perform in front of a live crowd in a year where shows and concerts have been all but curtailed due to Covid-19. She said;

I’m actually pretty excited about this show tomorrow…in front of real actual people!!! 💃🏾I hope you can be there too…we will be safe and observe all Covid 19 safety protocols. So come with your bubble people to brunch and Champagne. Let’s have a lovely, social distanced but delicious time together ❤️. Come to the event. There will be champagne, we will allow requests. We have had a tough year. Come with the person you care about and you will enjoy yourself.

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Jacque Maribe’s admission about Eric Omondi calls into question why she got a kid with him

Jacque Maribe recently had a deep interview with True Love magazine. She revealed some intimate information about her relationship with Eric Omondi.

She said that they had had a great relationship with each other for 5 years before they made the decision to start dating.

Jacque admitted that she got pregnant shortly after she began dating Eric but was unsure about what he would do/say.

“By the time we realized that we were expecting, I was very excited. I really wanted a baby and had gone through all the motions of trying to get one. I was at a space where this was what I wanted and was genuinely actively working towards it.”

According to Maribe, at the time Eric had been juggling his career and women – something Maribe was not ready to put up with. That wouldn’t be the worst of her troubles with the father of her son, Zahari.

Eric would later deny that he was the father of her child after one of his friends blurted it out after much speculation about the identity.

While many might empathise with Jacque here on this terrible situation she faced with Eric, I don’t. Why? Simple. She chose the father of her child.

The two had known each other for more than 5 years, plenty of time to vet a potential husband and father of your children.

Most men would sleep with anything ( a sad admission I must admit as a man) and the decision on which man’s seed will propagate (under normal circumstances) is left on the woman.

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A woman decides the man who will get to pass his genes. She can either not sleep with a man or abort the child if she doesn’t want the child.

In Jacque’s case, she knew what she was getting into when she started dating and sleeping with Eric-It didn’t come as a shock when he acted out who he was. A man who still wasn’t ready to be a father at that time, although that publicly changed last year (lucky for Jacque)

While I might sound harsh on Jacque my reason is simple-Women should choose their husbands and fathers to their kids with wisdom-Men who will not only participate in bedroom gymnastics but also provide, protect and stick around afterwards.

And why does this matter? Don’t deprive your child of a father because you chose poorly for a mate-A deadbeat who only knows how to pump and dump.

 

But what do I know?

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