On the morning conversation on Classic 105, it was all about how ‘Ladies mumechomewa picha’ by Manu Chandaria.
Mzee formalized his mariage last week after 64 years of being together. They went to the AG’s office, signed a piece of paper and spent 9k and went back home.
Mwalimu questioned why Kenyan women are always in a hurry to marry men.
hii haraka ni ya nini many Kenyan ladies want to marry so quickly. They take men mbio why the hurry why do they rush us so fast, where is the hurry?
Maina wasn’t convinced with this argument demanding to know how long women should take before asking for commitment.
if you don’t make your man commit, what do they do?
What are you doing with a man for seven years and he is not marrying you, how!! shouted maina
Do you know the kind of life that Manu Chandaria has given that woman? She has lived like a queen for those 64 years!
No no no they started from the bottom argued Mwalimu
Maina opened up debate to listeners on air and those online to contribute.
Ladies how long have you been with a man? A woman should never move into a woman’s house before marriage, you can build chemistry out there.
Ladies why have you been with a man for so long without getting married?
What are you doing in a mans house for five years giving him babies, aieee!!
How long have you been with your man and why hasn’t he married you yet?
A man called in with some deep thoughts
Why are you helping people who can’t help themselves, they bring themselves to us, and then they sit there like a tick. Kenyan women are gold diggers, they stick like ticks they don’t want to move out, they mark their territory and so they can’t be helped. We won’t marry them.
Another man said
I call it the emancipation of the boy child, finally we have a trick as a boy. I don’t have to marry her until I’m 100, I don’t have to sign papers, I am in a long term relationship about six years, and I don’t intend to marry her, let’s build a future together first, there is no hurry
Maina was astounded by his confession and advised his unidentified woman,
‘If your that’s your man, woman you are living a wasted life, sweetheart your are not a wife you are a maid with no options, six years and he has not married you ,what is he waiting for jesus christ to comeback?
If it’s been two years and he’s not talking of a future together, he is wasting your time, If he doesn’t even give you an engagement ring he is wasting your time, if he is living with you and doesn’t marry you he is wasting your time
kitu ya kujiuliza ni moja tuu what was the objective of being with this woman? If it was children why waste money marrying her, we don’t just do things with no objectives in mind, like me let me not cheat you, you will never find me in a car written just married. I have better things to do with my money, the definition of money is go to her parents and that story ends there si they know me? This stupidity of marriage is useless, concentrate on life, she is here hearing em and I am not shaken, she is standing here listening to me
there is no Kenyan woman who will stand with you from the bottom up,
I don’t think it makes sense to have a wedding if we are living together already, I am not married at 35 I’m not dating and if that time comes I don’t think it will happen immediately it will come after two or three kids
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