Me Whipped? 4 reasons why your man is not ready for marriage 


When a man says he is not ready for marriage, should a girl wait?

Growing up girls know the natural progression is marriage, babies and everything else. But the same doesn’t apply to fellas and here is where the tag of war begins.

While details of everyone’s relation could differ, there are a couple of reasons/similarities in our experiences with men.

If your man is telling you he’s not ready for marriage, here’s why

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  1. He’s evasive about marriage: Celebrities like Diamond Platnumz has stalled several times in marrying two of his baby mam’s after publicly declaring his intention to. He never put a date to it. If he is evasive about the future and doesn’t talk or want to chat about getting married, he is not ready to take the plunge.
  2. He’s selfish: You could date for years but not really know if they’re wasting your time if the end game for the two of you is not clear – marriage- and the the details surrounding this event.
  3. Indecisiveness:  if he can’t make a decision perhaps he isn’t ready for marriage because he procrastinates way too much about personal relationships. His lack of decision making is a major sign siz.
  4. He fears marriage: Give up his freedom? NEVER! He is downright fearful. I have heard many men say they live in a constant state of fear over losing their freedom and aren’t motivated to walk down the aisle.

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What we know about Vera Sidika’s new mystery man


Vera Sidika is in love and once again teasing a new man in Nyali, Mombasa.

Vera, who relocated to Mombasa, is doing her best to hide her new boo.

A series of photos left us wondering who the mystery man might be. But we have some clues.

In his Youtube series, Vera confessed to Kiss FM’s Jalango that

“There is someone else who is special and I am so happy I have even added ‘happy’ weight. I am in a relationship and very happy.”

While showing off how she is working out daily, Vera showed snippets of her boo, just a bit to get us curious.

Showing off the results of the workout, and of course a view of Nyali, the curvylicious socialite is clearly and well over her split from her former lovers.

Vera Sidika’s journey to getting the boobs of her dreams

He is unlike Otile and the Tanzanian doctor. He is a dark skin fella, from the snippets offered to us.

He is an exercise freak. Vera spoke of how he makes her run and won’t budge. Well she also doesn’t mind because she also admitted to Jalang’o that she has added that happy weight women put on when they are in love. Exercising as a couple is good and we are here for it.


Thirdly we have spotted some tattoos on his arms.

He appears to love jewelry.


He has a sort of mohawk and it’s blonde.

Anita Nderu comes out clean that she is a member of LGBTQ community


*insert red heart emoji* C’mon Vera just show us who he is already. We can’t keep calm!

How besotted is she with this mystery man?

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I am literally living off gigs because you held my hand – Kate Actress tells Njugush

They say that no man is an island. This saying comes from a sermon by the seventeenth-century English author John Donne.

The meaning is that no one is self-sufficient; everyone relies on others. This phrase comes to mind when one thinks of Blessed Njugush’s relationship with Catherine Kamau aka Kate actress.

The thespian penned down a message of appreciation to comedian Timothy Kimani aka Njugush for teaching her how to hustle on social media.

Kate used social media platform Twitter to thank Njugush for the impact he had had on her career, saying, “An appreciation tweet for @BlessedNjugush, I am literally living off social media gigs because you held my hand, you showed me the ropes .you are appreciated litu bro.”

The object of her praise was magnanimous and responded with the message, “Thanks so much wamapupuu…..but…can 2020 look at us the way you look at me…..”.

The two who are family friends who acted together on local TV drama Sue na Johnnie. And Kate Actress isn’t the only celeb who has credited Njugush with helping her career.

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Last month, popular TV director Abel Mutua also credited Njugush with being a huge factor in his success in the last two years.

Abel said that the comedian had been “taking care” of his family for the last two years after the director helped guide his path in the film industry.

This is because Njugush allowed Abel’s wife Judy Nyawira to become his brand manager. And the earnings she has been getting has helped with the needs at their home.

Clearly, Njugush is one of those celebs with the rare combination of immense talent, perseverance, humility and above all a giving heart.

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Anita Nderu responds to critics after receiving hate for coming out as a LGBTQ member

Anita Nderu has been in the news today after news that she had finally come out of the closet as a member of the LGBTQ movement.

While some Kenyans appreciated her bold declaration, others weren’t as happy and unleashed the inevitable torrent of disdain.

One of the critiques was that she wanted kids and still be in a same-sex relationship, with Kenyans surgically describing to Anita the process involved in having kids.

To them, two ladies cannot have children – and since most continue to assume that she is a member of the LGBTQ movement then there is no way pregnancy will happen!

Will Anita Nderu coming out as LQBTQ member help the movement?

Others asked what had happened between her and her long-time boyfriend, DJ Sunman. Some others also stated it was UnAfrican for Anita to be a proponent of LGBTQ rights.

Anyway responding to the criticism through her Instagram account; the 30-year-old kept cool and responded with the simple and classy, “Niko tu.”

In the past Anita had said that she does not see herself getting married, she also said she would only get kids when she was ready. “Whatever greatness lies ahead! I love you to bits and pieces! happy 30th @sunmannagram.”

Just months ago (June 2020) she had taken to her social media to celebrate her boyfriend DJ Sunman.

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If I die, bury me on the same day! Akothee tells her family

Singer Esther Akoth aka Akothee is one of the media personalities that I hold in high esteem. The reason is simple; She isn’t afraid to speak and fight for her truth, even if it might ruffle feathers.

The mother of 5 has a reputation for saying what crosses her mind and it seems that the “Sweet Love” singer has been thinking about death.

Yes, you read that right. Akothee, who is also an entrepreneur, made a bold confession on death, stating that she has informed her family that when her day of resting comes, she should be buried on the same day.

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She made her statement ahead of the burial of her sister-in-law (Sarah Anne Atieno Kokeyo) who passed away on August 20, 2020 while in Kampala, Uganda. The funeral arrangements and the ensuing issues have made her note that she doesn’t want to go through that herself.

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The musician narrated that nobody had checked up on her and find out if she needs help or even comfort her, and her family during this difficult time.

“The air is thin up here. Always attending my family’s funerals alone. With my security, PA and photographers. I am panicking, I have no one to comfort me, no one is even asking if I need anything or any help. But when people have funerals, the number of phone calls I get only God Knows. I am learning to be selfish too, I wish I could, be blessed,” wrote Akothee.

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She went on to say,  “Some people are so insensitive still calling me to send them contributions for their own funerals, no one has called to ask if they could accompany me to the burial or even when the burial is 🙏 wee. This time round I am too weak to attend & witness my brother lower his wife to rest, sijui niweke kichwa wapi ? 🙆🙆🙆💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔.”

She finished off by stating that she would like to be buried the day she died. “For me, if I die today, I have asked my family to bury me the same day 😭, the trauma my mother has gone through for a month waiting for nyabondo because of the COVID situation, I can’t stand seeing her making trips to the funeral home, May The Lord comfort everyone who lost their loved ones during this hard times 🙏🙏🙏, good morning, my love 🙏.”

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If he tells you that that is his baby mama 🤣🤣, ,just know that ,he is a martied man ,married men have changed tittles , they play confused in their relationships, but deep down,they know very well,they cant choose you over their wives " (baby mama) He just want to box you , so he can get a different juice 🤣, then later he will say, oooh let me respect her for the sake of our child 🤣🤣🤣, those people are actually sleeping together and planning their future minus you 🤣🤣🤣. You are the game 🙆‍♂️🙈, As for me , you have to choose A or B You can only side chicken me if you are paying my bills. if I am wealthier than you,and you want to play hide and sick with me 🤣🤣🤣 ,MR Man , go play with your mates in the field 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️, you can't come to me with an empty pocket & a baggage as well 🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️, where do I start Renovating you from 🤣🤣🤣🤣,then your wife will emerge and start embarrassing me for nothing 🙄🤣🤣 Women be carefull with this baby mama tittles ,its confusion, I don't know why men do this though? Why are men not proud of their wives anymore? Where are those men who use to introduce their wives to friends ,and were proud to put on their wedding rings and carry their children on their heads ? Where are we 🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️

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Last year I spent my birthday in bed – Carol Radull narrates past experience

Celebrated media personality and sports journalist Carol Radull revealed a well-hidden nugget about her life this week. Carol disclosed that she had been in bed last year on her birthday after undergoing surgery, a few days before.

Speaking today on her Instagram page, the premier sports journalist remembered that the birthday was still very special because she was surrounded by her family members.

“Last year I spent my birthday in bed. I had had surgery on my sinuses on the 12th of September and I was still in recovery. But I was surrounded by family and so much love. So it was still pretty special. Still, I promised myself I would have a huge bash this year and really let loose. But God had other plans,” read part of her post on Instagram.

She said that in 2020 she feels so blessed and healthy, adding that the biggest lesson people have learnt this year is that health is not something to take for granted.

Carol Radull narrates the pain of losing her two family members to cancer

She then thanked fans and friends for spreading the word about her special birthday gift request, which was that people contribute towards a support fund for former Kenyan Boxer Conjestina Achieng.

“Things are different this year but I feel so blessed to be alive and healthy. If we all learned something this year; it’s that our health is not something we can take for granted. So I am grateful to God that I get to see this day and that I am healthy and strong.”

“Thank you to everyone who spread the word about supporting Conjestina and to those who followed up with a contribution. It is appreciated.” She finished.

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Will Anita Nderu coming out as LQBTQ member help the movement?

Anita Nderu took Twitter and Kenyans by storm yesterday when she came out to reveal that she was a member of the LGBTQ movement.

Her short and succinct Twitter message read, “I hope my kids never have to go through what I have gone through for being LGBTQ+ 🏳️‍🌈❤️”.

Anita’s public dalliance with the LGBTQ movement started a few months ago when she hosted two members of the LGBTQ community and the comments were not so kind.

Anita Nderu comes out clean that she is a member of LGBTQ community

In response to the backlash, she told Massawe Jappani that she wouldn’t apologise for hosting members of the LGBTQ community on her cooking show, ‘The overdressed cook’.

Anita said she that she respected people’s opinions but that she will not apologise. At the time of the interview, Anita said that she wasn’t willing to comment on whether she was a member of the community. “When I’m ready to share, I will.”

But it seems like that time has come and her announcement has made it loud and clear. The former the Trend singer is done hiding and is ready to leave her truth with the public knowing (and good for her!).

My question is whether her decision helps the cause of the movement in Kenya. I don’t think it will and for a simple reason, Kenyans have a lot of issues that take priority than the s3xual orientation of an individual.

Things like food, corruption, Covid-19 are more pressing matters than LQBTQ issues. If one looks at countries that have allowed LGBTQ rights, they all have one thing in common, they are all very advanced-2nd world and above status.

According to Maslow’s hierarchy needs (food, shelter, clothing) are at the bottom, and then the wants come at the top. How are Kenyans going to engage on the LGBTQ topic when they are still struggling to pay rent or take their kids to school.

Even our own president sees it as a non-issue. Check out his response below on the issue;

What her coming out will do in the long-term is that it will give her a boost in publicity and not much else. But what do I know?

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Wahu reveals the two most important lessons learnt in her 15-year marriage

I recently interviewed Wahu Kagwi and she was a wealth of wisdom. One of the areas that she spoke about was the experiences she has had during her successful 15 years of marriage.

She told me she had had 2 major lessons that she had learnt during her marriage. One of them was that one shouldn’t come into a marriage with crazy expectations for it.

“You come into a marriage with a lot of expectations and with unrealistic expectations about what should happen according to society and maybe how you were raised,” Wahu opined.

She added,

“At the same time, you are two different individuals with a different set of issues that you are bringing into the marriage. Lesson number one is that everyone has some work to do dealing with their own baggage. Everyone plays the blame game in marriage but married people should take the initiative to work on themselves to become a better partner.”

She said that self-work is important for a marriage to grow. “Your marriage will only grow as much as each partner can grow individually. If one person is growing and another isn’t then the growth of the marriage is retarded.”

Her second lesson was that people realise that their significant other cannot satisfy every need and desire that they might have. A person should have a life apart from their significant other.

“Another human being(no matter how perfect they are) isn’t equipped to be the centre of your life. They can’t. I can’t be the center of my daughter’s life for example. I am human and one day I will disappoint her despite my not wanting to.”

She finished by saying,

‘And so it’s my desire and obligation to know that my opinion isn’t her centre, her opinion is her centre. It isn’t cute for a spouse to ascribe things like, “Without you, I will die,” or “you are my everything” to their significant other. I know that it sounds harsh but your spouse can’t be that to you.’

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Njugush to Sauti Sol! How your favorite celebrities have been conned

If you have lived in Nairobi or have a friend in Nairobi, then you have a story of how the con men and women of Nairobi have their ways in your life.

Well, Kenyan celebrities have shared a couple of their encounters with conmen and women.

Kuconiwa is just a part of living in Nairobi, right? And there’s nothing you can do about it, but atleast by sharing your story, someone will read and they will be careful not to be in the same situations as yours.

Check out some con stories by our Kenyan celebrities;

Comedian Njugush

Njugush is one of the most hilarious comedians in the 254. He will make fun about all situations. right?

Well, during a live session on his YouTube channel last week, Njugush was sharing stories with his wife Cele and the topic happened to be that of whether he has ever been conned.

Well, laughing Njugush narrated to his audience of his encounter with cons.

Anita Nderu comes out clean that she is a member of LGBTQ community

“Sometimes back, being obedient cost me alot. At OTC, I met some guys. Kulikua hadi na mama wa heshima nikaona kakitu kameroll mbele yangu, so they told me, eei kijana nisaidie kuokota hiyo kitu. Kumbe it was two hundred bob.

“As a pastors child, I did that respectifully and gave a guy who appreciated me for being ‘good’. He gave me the money. As I was about to go, he calls me and asked if I wanted to win so the money would double. They were playing ‘Kamare’. I joined in and tried the first time with their two hundred but nikakuliwa. They asked me how much I had. I was in high school and so, during the term, nilikua nimejinyima kabisa and had save five hundred bob to buy a radio. So I had five hundred in my pocket.”

Njugush says he does not understand how he removed his money and all of it was ‘eaten’ including his bus fare of a hundred bob.

Njugush was left begging people to contribute money for fare to get back home.

That was his con story.


Is Nameless’s advice to young girls to keep off men with 6-packs sound? (opinion)

Sauti Sol

Bien narrated how they were swindled out of their earnings following a show they did in Congo years ago.

Speaking on the Janjaruka series, Bien said the promoter put together a disappointing show in a small venue with a very small audience, to which they still gave their best performance.

“On the day of the show, we went to the venue at like 10 in the night! The venue was a ghost town, there were like 15 people in that place, and the sound was whack,” he said.

“We gave them a stadium show still and after the show, he was supposed to give us about $10,000 (Sh 1 million) as a way of finishing off the payment.

“He was like, ‘I’ll finish off in the morning before you guys go to the airport, I need to go to the bank’,” Bien recalls.

The following day, they woke up to find their hotel room hadn’t been paid for and it took some back-and-forth phone calls between the hotel manager and their promoter to get the matter settled.

The band were desperate to leave as it was December 24 and they wanted to be home for Christmas.

“So, manze, everyone is so desperate at that point because at that point I don’t even care about the money, I just want to leave. I just want to go,” he says.

They had to decide whether to chase their money with someone who already proved to be flaky or to just abscond and walk away.

At the end of the day, they were forced to make the difficult decision to walk away from the money and catch the bus that crossed the border into Kigali, where they managed to catch their flight back to Nairobi.

Bien advised artistes before performing anywhere to make sure of 90 per cent deposit, 10 per cent negotiable or before performing because once you’re on stage, it’s in God’s hands.


‘My firstborn daughter is 19 years old,’ Ben Githae opens up about his family

Janet Mbugua

Media personality Janet Mbugua has narrated how she was conned while on duty.

Janet recalled how she went to the home of an alleged serial killer’s victim in Nairobi’s Lenana area to interview the family about the alleged crime.

Janet was working for a South African media and had come to Kenya for work. “It was in 2010, there was a trending story on Onyancha, who was allegedly a serial killer carrying out some gruesome murders in Nairobi,” she said.

“We finally identified a man who said his son was allegedly a victim and we decided and agreed to go but asked to be provided with extra security as we had very expensive equipment with us.

“All I remember is we went deep into the hearts of Lenana to capture his story.”

On reaching there, the alleged victim’s father tricked her and her cameraman to trust a group of men that he called in to help offer more security and protection for them and their expensive equipment.

He then went ahead to invite Janet to his home for tea, leaving the cameraman and driver, a group of four people, and they seemed legit.

“It was almost 5pm. The distance where I was going to record was short. I went to the house and got to know the family as I wait for the videographer to come so he films us,” she said.

“It took long, 10, 20 minutes and I was like, it’s taking long, why hasn’t he come back? It is almost 6pm, so I told them, we need to go check what was happening.

“The man who had led us to the house says lemme go check to make sure they are okay. He left the house and 10 minutes later, he ran into the house, saying, ‘Wameibiwa! Gari imeenda.

She says she was confused and all of a sudden, she remembered her handbag with her passport were all in the car.

She managed to locate a police officer who helped her go back to the hotel she was living in.

Janet and her cameraman were later that evening reunited with her cameraman with no shoes on, shaken and all their equipment gone!

“Everthing we had filmed in Mombasa was gone with the equipment, worth half a million. We just cried and we could not continue with our work, but we were alive,” she said.

“The man we were going to interview is behind this whole thing. He basically set us up!” Janet recalls her cameraman telling him upon his return.

They never got a chance to ascertain if the man’s son was an actual victim to the serial killer’s crime or if the whole thing was a fake set-up from the get-go.

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Curse! Tano Tena singer Ben Githae opens up why he doesn’t drink alcohol

Gospel singer Ben Githae has revealed the reason he does not drink alcohol.

Speaking to Ala C on YouTube, Ben says he is afraid that bad things will follow him.

“My grandmother cursed me. Alisema nisiwai kunywa pombe,” he said.

Ben says that the only time he took alcohol was in 2014 but a fellow artiste stopped him and reminded him about the curse.

“In 2014, I tried drinking at a function we attended together with other artistes. I asked a Guarana but after the first sip, Muigai Wa Njoroge took it away and reminded me of what my grandmother warned.”

‘My firstborn daughter is 19 years old,’ Ben Githae opens up about his family

Ben Githae

He, however, says that there could be gospel artistes who take alcohol but people should not judge them.

“If there are artistes who drink, please stop exposing them. That will not stop them from drinking. My advise is that if it is possible for them to quit, it would be fine.”

During the interview, Ben also mentioned that despite being a gospel singer, he has strayed and cheated in his marriage and got other children out of wedlock.

“But God lifted me up again. I take care of all my kids. I have made it official about my kids. I don’t have an illegitimate kid and I now how many they are,” he said adding that he will post a photo with them.”

Ben Githae
Ben Githae

He has since overcome and moved on although he says it was not easy.

“You check the mistake and learn from it. You go back to God and ask for forgiveness. I wouldn’t want anyone to go through what I went through coz even today, I still feel the effect.”

To any person who may be in the same condition as he was few years ago, the Tano Tena hitmaker says;

“Pick up the broken pieces and start again. To any person who do not take care of their children, all kids irregardless of where you got them from, they deserve the best from you,” he said.

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Is Nameless’s advice to young girls to keep off men with 6-packs sound? (opinion)

Legendary singer David Mathenge alias Nameless is one man whose experience in the Kenyan music industry cannot be frowned upon.

Over 20 years in the game, the singer has done well for himself both professionally and in his personal life. In the home front, he has been blessed with a lovely wife in Wahu and two wonderful daughters.

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His 14-year-old daughter Tumiso has been getting a lot of publicity for the good looks she has inherited from both her parents.

And in raising daughters he has the tough work of trying to keep them on the straight and narrow, especially as concerns boys.

And maybe in anticipation of the expected visits from thirsty boys in the future, the singer shared some advice for his female fans as to the men they should avoid when dating.

Nameless warned young girls about dating men with six-packs, saying that they had no money and that they should date men with a one-pack(kitambi) instead.

“One-pack ninjaz are you there? Galchild do not be fooled by young men with six-packs, they do not have money. All their savings go to the gym and on diet. Get yourself a one pack ninja,” wrote Nameless.

Is his advice sound? I think it is but with a caveat as there are no absolutes in the sexual marketplace. There are men with 6-packs and jacked bodies who have money. Look at Bien of Sauti Sol, Savara of Sauti Sol, John Allan Namu and even the richest man in the world Jeff Bezos who all have money.

The thing that Nameless should be worried about is the old adage of, “No man hits the gym to just sleep with one woman.”

There is a reason many wives cheat on their husbands with their gym trainers. Simply put, many of these men with the great bodies are heartbreakers ala’ Diamond Platnumz, they don’t have just one woman, they have a harem. They are the consummate f*ckboys.

Those are the things Nameless should be warning these young girls about.

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Betty Kyallo recounts most special interview with Churchill Ndambuki

Betty Kyallo and Mwalimu Churchill teamed up this past week in one of the best shows of 2020. The two celebs who are from the Kamba ethnic community gave fans the time of their lives with Churchill interviewing the bubbly Betty.

The interview was such a memento for the former K24 host that she even made a note about how special it was in her latest vlog on BK Lately.

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Betty admitted that she had gambled on whether to watch her interview on Churchill or her vlog that premiered almost at the same time.

She confessed that the interview had done so well with Kenyans that the mother of one finally opened up on what made it one of the most special interviews she has had.

I really wanted to be a nun, maybe Ivanna will become one – Betty Kyallo tells Churchill

She recounted, “It was like I was reciting my life story directly to the lens and I got so emotional, at one point I nearly broke down but I tried to hold myself and be strong. I was literally being honest with myself in that interview; I accepted my not-so-pretty past and I openly spoke about it.”

She also came clean on her very rough relationship with her dad, but that how spoke about her during his interview with Churchill touched her.

He called me “daddy’s girl”. He was so proud of me and that was so special to me. I even texted him and said, “dad thank you so much for saying all those amazing words to me”. Because I never got to hear them many times while growing up. I got to hear what he actually thought about me.

And it wasn’t only her dad’s words that impressed Betty, her mom and sister’s words also amazed her,

“I’m happy I was alive to hear what my family had to say about Betty. In life, tell the people you love, what you think about them, what you love about them, what they do that makes you happy. Don’t wait to say it to them at their funeral or on their sick bed,” she urged her fans.


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Weight gain? No problem! Teacher Wanjiku proves as she flaunts curvy figure

Carolyne Wanjiku Tharau alias Teacher Wanjiku is proof that comedians can not only be funny but can also be very attractive to look at.

The comic who made her name on Churchill Show recently left her many fans in awe after she debuted a new rounder and fuller look.

She herself acknowledged this fact with her caption reading, “Who else has gained since COVID came? I have filled the photo as well. Ati who do I look like? The sexy is back!”.

One could see that her weight gain had in fact enhanced and accentuated all her curves and in the right places as her figure-hugging dress showed.

One could be even forgiven for forgetting that Teacher Wanjiku is a mother of two, prooving that some women do age like fine wine.

She is that old!? Teacher Wanjiku finally reveals adorable daughters age

Many other celebs filled the comments section with some like comedian Mammito, actresses Sandra Dacha alias Silprosa and Jacky Vike alias Awinja chiming in with support.

And her photo has inspired me to look back into her profile to remind Kenyans of just how beautiful the charismatic thespian is. Enjoy;

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Mimi? Mimi nikasema Mimi?…….. Goodmorning!

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‘My firstborn daughter is 19 years old,’ Ben Githae opens up about his family

Gospel singer Ben Githae has opened up a bit about his marriage life.

Well, very few know that Ben Githae got married to his wife 20 years ago.

They were then blessed with two kids.

Speaking in a YouTube interview with Ala C, Ben said he first met his wife in church.

“My daughter is 19-years old. She is in second-year Jkuat doing accounting, the other one is in class seven,” he said.

“I got married 20 years ago, and I met my wife in church. She was a singer and I was also singing in church.

She went to college and we separated. Later, we got in touch and she used to call me via the late Benga musician Kamaru’s phone number. We developed a relationship and got married later through a church wedding.”

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Ben Githae
Ben Githae

During the interview, Ben says he strayed and cheated in his marriage.

Ben got other children out of wedlock.

“But God lifted me up again. I take care of all my kids. I have made it official about my kids. I don’t have an illegitimate kid and I know how many they are,” he said adding that he will post a photo with them.

He says some of his fellow gospel singers criticise him yet he is taking care of his children.

“They are all beautiful and bright kids. Take care of your kids, leave mine alone. I love them all and they call me daddy. Most of those who have been criticizing me, they have either aborted or helped someone abort and that is why it is not in public. Others have even killed the girls they asked to abort,” he said.

Ben Githae
Ben Githae

Ben says that the industry is full of hypocrites who hide in the gospel industry.

“Even if I didn’t have the ability to give birth, it would still be a topic to people, so there is not problem. Others admire if I could get a child with them. Others walk around with P2 and condoms.

He has since overcome and moved on although he says it was not easy.

“You check the mistake and learn from it. You go back to God and ask for forgiveness. I wouldn’t want anyone to go through what I went through coz even today, I still feel the effect.”

To any person who may be in the same condition as he was few years ago, the Tano Tena hitmaker says;

“Pick up the broken pieces and start again. To any person who do not take care of their children, all kids regardless of where you got them from, they deserve the best from you,” he said.

List of the most egregious things Kanye West has said and done-Part 2

Kanye West is in the news again for another controversy. The father of 4 castigated fellow musicians on Twitter airing some of his grievances which included not releasing more music.

The rapper went on to demand an apology from rappers J. Cole and Drake while referring to himself as Nat Turner, a black man famously known as a slave rebellion leader back in the 1830s.

The new tweets might be shocking to some but it continues a controversial character trait he has since became well-known for.

The rapper has had so many controversies over the years that I have compiled two lists of them. Part one is below:

List of Kanye West’s most controversial moments ever! Part 1


This is part two:

Kanye puts on a MAGA Hat-April 2018

The music producer etched his support for Trump more forcefully in 2018 when he was spotted wearing a Make America Great Again hat in April 2018.

That wasn’t all, Kanye who was able to get the hat signed by the president himself tweeted that Trump was his “brother”.

His support for the Republican president was the last straw for some who couldn’t reconcile his criticism for George Bush during his presidency(who was a Republican) while supporting Trump.


Kanye claims that slavery was a “Choice”-May 2018

Another low point for the controversial entrepreneur was his claim that slavery was a choice for black people. Mr. West made this claim in the offices of popular tabloid, TMZ

“When you hear about slavery for 400 years. For 400 years? That sounds like a choice. You were there for 400 years, and it is all of y’all?”

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Yesterday in Tempe, AZ. 🌵#sundayservice #kanyewest

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Kanye defends R Kelly-January 2019

As if defending Bill Cosby wasn’t enough, Kanye went all in again to defend his fellow musician, R Kelly. This happened after the condemnation the R and B crooner had received following the release of the documentary, Surviving R Kelly.

Yeezy alleged that fans should continue to listen to his music and that we should separate the art from the artist. His wife Kim Kardashian promptly defended him saying that his words were taken out of context.

Kanye announces that he will run for the presidency-July 2020

Maybe the second time’s the charm for the musician? The rapper who had already made a prior declaration like this in the run up to the 2016 elections dropped the bombshell on July 4th.

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Yeezy X Tesla 🤔🚘 #kanyewest #elonmusk

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That wasn’t the only crazy part! Even Tesla CEO, Elon Musk supported Kanye saying that he had his “full support”. L

Kanye criticizes Harriet Tubman-July 2020

As if his claim that “slavery was a choice” wasn’t enough, the born-again musician went on a rant about the prestigious historical figure, Harriet Tubman.

Harriet, was an African American woman who escaped slavery and helped fellow black men and women escape the clutches of slavery.

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Don’t be afraid to be different. @gq #kanyewest

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But Mr. West has his own version of history saying that Tubman “never actually freed the slaves, she just had them work for other white people.”

Kanye Turns on His Family-July 2020

It seems like July was a particularly busy month in Kanye’s mind as he went all out against his wife and extended family in his most epic rant ever.

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Forever 🙏🏾 #kanyewest

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Kanye published an array of tweets against his wife, Kim and mother-in-law, Kris Jenner.

“Kim was trying to fly to Wyoming with a doctor to lock me up like on the movie Get Out because I cried about saving my daughters life yesterday,” he tweeted.

He went on to say that Kim had wanted to abort North West when she was pregnant with her. He also claimed that the matriarch of the family, Kris Jenner would never force North’s career choices as she did to Kim – AKA her Playboy shoot.
Kanye Talks Abortion, Breaks Down-July 2020

Clearly abortion is a sore spot for the talented entertainer, as he broke down claiming that his father wanted to abort him, but his mother chose to save him.

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Rate this fit. 1-10 🤔🔥 #kanyewest #paris

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At the mention of his late mother, Kanye burst out in tears clearly in pain after the loss of his rock in 2007.

NB-The rapper was diagnosed with bipolar disorder a few years ago. Many of these outbursts might as a result of his condition.


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Wahu speaks about her beauty secrets and her political aspirations (exclusive)

Wahu Kagwi is one of the most beautiful women in Kenya at any age. And what is more impressive is that she has maintained her looks even after been blessed with two daughters with her husband David Mathenge aka Nameless.

How has she been able to keep herself looking so youthful throughout the years? What has been her secret? The “Sweet Love” singer humbly said that even though people might feel that her skin is goals for them that she still doesn’t feel that her skin is that great.

“I don’t think I have great skin. As we speak, I am getting my make-up done.”

Adding, “I put on a bit of foundation. I honestly don’t have even skin. I would be lying if I told you that I do. It’s not the break-out type of skin but it’s not as perfect as I would like it to be.”

And what does she do to keep her skin looking camera-ready? “I use pregnancy masks and I also hydrate and I do a lot of veggies and exercise. I do put on a bit of foundation,” reiterated Wahu.

Wahu reveals the books that have inspired her successful 15-year marriage (exclusive)

The singer has been in the music industry for many years and has ascended the rungs of success along the way. Does the singer have other aspirations, political maybe? I put the question to the singer who was cagey at first telling me that she didn’t want to comment.

But after some cajoling, she went on to say that the thought had crossed her mind.

“I don’t think I would run in 2022. The thought has crossed my mind once or twice but not in the near future.”

And why didn’t she want to run in 2022?

She replied, “I am not saying that there is anything holding me back. It’s just that I have not decided. It’s just something that I look at and say, I am passionate about ABCD…Considering it doesn’t mean I am going for it.”


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A list of prominent Kenyans who DON’T drink alcohol (Photos)

People tend to have fun in many ways and I bet the way you enjoy your free time is not same as I do.

Some tend to visit parks, go hiking, attend church seminars while others choose to enjoy the bottle.

From spending times in clubs and indulging in binge drinking during weekends and holidays, their love for the brown bottle is outta this world.

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But did you know there are prominent people who don’t drink alcohol despite being rich? 

Well, from Deputy president William Ruto to businessman Jimmy Wanjigi, meet the prominent Kenyans who don’t drink alcohol.

1. William  Ruto

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The deputy president is not a 
tippler. He’s a reserved man and has never tasted alcohol. 

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2. Jimmy Wanjigi 

Jimi Wanjigi and his wife Irene Nzisa
Despite the fame and money, he doesn’t drink. According to sources, he only takes tea even when in social gatherings. Dear young men and women, take notes if you want to be successful.

3. Charles Njonjo
The 98-year-old veteran politician and tycoon doesn’t drink alcohol nor eat red meat.  Hello millennials, that’s the only secret to long life.

4. Daniel arap Moi

He’s no exception. The former president survives on traditional foods cooked using traditional methods 

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5. Victor Wanyama

The Kenyan international footballer doesn’t drink alcohol, unlike many sportsmen who swim in alcohol, thanks to their fat cheques.

6. DJ Joe Mfalme

Kenya’s finest DJ is not a fan of the brown bottle nor the hard drinks. DJ Joe Mfalme survives on water and Redbull during night events.

Other world leaders and celebrities who don’t drink alcohol include: Kim Kardashian, 50 Cent, 
Shania Twain, Eminem, Chris Martin, Jennifer Lopez,  Bruce Willis, Tyra Banks just to mention but a few.

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WAP rapper Cardi B files for divorce from Offset

Cardi B has filed for divorce from her husband and fellow hip-hop star Offset, from the band Migos. The New York rapper described their marriage as “irretrievably broken”.

The couple were wed in secret in 2017, and have a two-year-old daughter named Kulture.

Court records obtained by the PA news agency show that Cardi is asking for “primary physical custody” of the child, and wants Offset to contribute for “support and maintenance”.

Cardi, 27, whose real name is Belcalis Almanzar, filed for divorce on Tuesday in her husband’s home state of Georgia, where the couple has been living.

Legal documents state that Cardi B and Offset – whose real name is Kiari Cephus – are now living in a “bona fide state of separation”. There are “no prospects for a reconciliation,” they said.

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Me and my babe 🎀

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Cardi B, whose hits include WAP, Bodak Yellow and I Like It, is asking for their assets to be split evenly.

Cardi B and Offset married in a private ceremony in 2017, and did not publicly reveal the news of their nuptials until around a year later.

She announced they had split in December 2018, amid rumours of his cheating.

After apologising on Instagram for being being a “selfish, messed-up husband”, Offset then asked for forgiveness on-stage in front of a crowd at her Rolling Loud concert, where he pulled out a sign made of roses that read: “Take me back Cardi.”

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I miss my granny

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The rather public display of affection and apparent remorse was received poorly by Cardi B’s fans online, with some calling the move “toxic”.

However, she urged people not to bash him for trying. “I’m not saying that I’m gonna get back together with him, I just don’t like that bashing online thing,” she wrote on social media at the time, before the couple got back together.

In an interview with Cosmopolitan earlier in the same year, the provocative Grammy-winning Bronx performer said she wanted to work on the relationship, noting what he did was “not right” but that “I ain’t no angel”.

She celebrated their second wedding anniversary with a post on Instagram last year, alongside a picture of the two of them together. “We keep learning and growing. That’s what marriage about,” read the caption.

However, the relationship now appears to have come to an official end.