‘Marriage is difficult’ Kenyan Housewife reflects on husbands ‘madharau’

When a woman divulges serious stuff about her marriage, you best be sure she has had it and the next step could be walking away.

A housewife sobbed while detailing the struggles she endures in her marriage to a Kenyan man.

Nasty fights have led to a troubled marriage according to a confession she made on Classic 105.

She revealed things are not in a great place

‘Men sometimes provoke us women into doing bad things to them’

She has been shut down emotionally

I have been provoked in my marriage. He shows me madharau because he is the breadwinner, and he knows I can’t do anything.

The tension is her marriage is so bad she has contemplated hurting her man

I vumulia for my children’s sake, I really try to vumulia but aii it’s too much, men have stress they bring home and the wife too has stress, so things may happen.

Dear Classic 105 fam, if your marriage is going cold, how do you keep it real? Drop your comments below.

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Dj Joe Mfalme slams fan for mocking his single status 


Mix master Dj Joe Mfalme is considered among eligible Kenyan male celebrities.

Perhaps he has been placed on the list because we don’t have a clue about his marital status.

Anyway, the spin master is celebrating his birthday and dedicated a cute message to himself that many found hilarious.

He wrote

Guy, Join me in wishing your girlfriend’s favorite DJ a Happy Birthday. 🎂🎂🎂 Asanteni sana for your love and support over the years… Nawapenda sana.

So his fans responded with the usual happy birthday messages, but one person caught the Dj’s attention.

The ‘rude’ fan according to the Dj asked something inappropriate about his marital status, and he was not in the slightest amused.

Here is how Joe Mfalme blasted the fan

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But seriously, is he married? Mafisilets would love to know so they can move on to the next celebrity crush.

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Love Is In The Air: Eve D’Souza announces engagement 


Tv host and actress Eve D Souza has shared news of her engagement on social media.

She captioned the selection of photos on her social media saying

The entire universe conspired to help us find each other and it was truly worth the wait

She added

The entire universe conspired to help us find each other and it was truly worth the wait 🥰

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It seems the couple was vacationing when he popped the question.

Clearly there’s some serious love in the air and we can’t wait to see them on the day they exchange vows.

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A guide to going out alone on the weekend

If you love to fly solo, and are not sure how to go about it, this article is for you.

We want you to stay safe in this city, while at he same time have fun, venue permitting.

1. Avoid sitting at the bar

There are times you want to be alone, but there are some occasions when you don’t mind company.  Sitting at the bar or in the centre signals that you are open to being approached by anyone for chit chat.

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Sitting away in a corner or facing away signals you are here to be alone.

2. Avoid bars and restaurants at peak hours

Going to the club at happy hour, yet you are an introvert will be a buzz kill for you. Drink at hours when everyone is elsewhere, thank me later.


3. Bring a book or laptop

The benefit of rolling solo is you can keep occupied by reading a book or surfing the net in a corner where no one can talk to you.


3. Avoid popular clubs

People who like to roll solo should not go to popular night spots, or such establishment if you’re not sure where to hang out. The music will be loud, bodies will be grinding, lots of shouting to top it off.

There are lots of venues that are less popular but with a really good experience, for instance bars in hotel, where many keep off from.


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A list of prominent Kenyans who DON’T drink alcohol (Photos)

People tend to have fun in many ways and I bet the way you enjoy your free time is not same as I do.

Some tend to visit parks, go hiking, attend church seminars while others choose to enjoy the bottle.

From spending times in clubs and indulging in binge drinking during weekends and holidays, their love for the brown bottle is outta this world.

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But did you know there are prominent people who don’t drink alcohol despite being rich? 

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Well, from Deputy president William Ruto to businessman Jimmy Wanjigi, meet the prominent Kenyans who don’t drink alcohol. 

1. William  Ruto

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The deputy president is not a 
tippler. He’s a reserved man and has never tasted alcohol. 

2. Jimmy Wanjigi 

Jimi Wanjigi and his wife Irene Nzisa
Despite the fame and money, he doesn’t drink. According to sources, he only takes tea even when in social gatherings. Dear young men and women, take notes if you want to be successful.

3. Charles Njonjo
The 98-year-old veteran politician and tycoon doesn’t drink alcohol nor eat red meat.  Hello millennials, that’s the only secret to long life.

4. Daniel arap Moi

He’s no exception. The former president survives on traditional foods cooked using traditional methods 

5. Victor Wanyama

The Kenyan international footballer doesn’t drink alcohol, unlike many sportsmen who swim in alcohol, thanks to their fat cheques.

6. DJ Joe Mfalme

Kenya’s finest DJ is not a fan of the brown bottle nor the hard drinks. DJ Joe Mfalme survives on water and Redbull during night events.

Other world leaders and celebrities who don’t drink alcohol include: Kim Kardashian, 50 Cent, 
Shania Twain, Eminem, Chris Martin, Jennifer Lopez,  Bruce Willis, Tyra Banks just to mention but a few.

Wife dumps husband after he’s jailed for Sh3.5million wedding loan



A Kiserian woman confessed to Classic 105 her man borrowed money to give her a good wedding, and that he defaulted on the loan, was jailed and now she feels nothing.

She has also moved on as she bragged on air.

I had this man we wed, he had a secret debt, that I did not know about. He said later it was for our wedding, and that he also bought furniture, kumbe he had defaulted. It was a loan of Sh3.5 million, yet our wedding was Sh700k. I don’t know what happened to the rest of the money.

Hiyo ni msalaba alijitakia she told Maina and Kingangi.

Harsh as it may sound, this woman’s story is something many can relate to.

He borrowed Sh3.5million for our wedding and we used Sh700,000 for the day, and the rest I don’t know where he took the money

He defaulted and auctioneers came for the family’s property as happens countrywide.

so I was at work my housemaid calls me to tell me that auctioneers are here and carrying away things. I rushed home I convinced them the things were under my name. He was arrested and is in Kamiti. I couldn’t help him coz he didn’t tell me what he did with the rest of the money.

The woman is not remorseful about her husbands fate saying he deserves to rot in jail, and furthermore she has moved on with her life

I was in such shock, let him stay there he brought this on himself, I don’t know where the money went, I don’t visit him. I have moved on with my life, men like showing off, where is the rest of the money? There is no way I can visit him in Kamiti

Dear Classic 105 fam, is she being harsh or does a spouse who secretly takes a loan suffer when the time comes?

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4 signs that your ex still loves you

Breaking up is hard, especially if you were madly in love with the person.

Well, the harsh truth is that things don’t always work the way we expect them to. Also, it is worth noting that the first relationship barely works. If he/she was your first, it is okay to look for someone else who can understand you better.

Don’t cry because it’s over, there still may be a chance that your ex still loves you.

Here are 4 signs that your ex still loves you:

  • Your ex tries to maintain regular contact with you

Well, I know this is a no brainer. If your ex tries to still keep contact with you then that means that feelings are still there. If you have tried ignoring your ex, but they constantly try to reach out, then that’s a clear indication that he/she still loves you.

The longer this happens, after your breakup the more it suggests that your ex wants you back. He/she may not be happy with the single life and may be wanting you back.

  • Reminiscing about the happy times

If he/she still remembering the good old days together, then that’s a clear indication that they still love you despite the breakup. He/se may be reconsidering to taking you back.

  • Your ex remains angry, emotional or upset for weeks or months after breakup

I know this may seem somewhat controversial. But often this is a great sign that your ex still loves you. If you didn’t do anything drastic to hurt your ex like cheating on them, then your ex is holding feelings of resentment and stays being angry then that is a positive sign showing emotion investments and feelings towards you.

If you want to win your ex back, you will have to make them let go of these feelings.

  • Your ex tends to send mixed signals, where one minute they say they miss you then the next they’re cold and distant

This is the strongest indicator that they still in love with you and cannot seem to let go. I have a feeling that most of ya’ll breakups lead to these mixed feelings because of conflicted emotions. Keep your options open, to getting back into the relationship. If your, ex is doing this, then that means they are not fully ready to let go.

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Good luck in taking back your ex after you have identified with these signs after the breakup. I would strongly advise not to take the friendzone avenue.

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Gabrielle Unions stepson bashed for wearing crop top and fake nails


Gabrielle Unions stepson has not had it easy since April this year.

The 11-year-old son, Zion, has been trending online for some time.

All because he identifies as gay and was recently again seen wearing a crop top and fake nails in a family photo.

On April 7, she accompanied her stepson to the Miami Beach Pride Festival, taking along her 5-month-old daughter, Kaavia, and Zion’s 17-year-old brother, Zaire.

The “Being Mary Jane” star was bashed online after sharing pictures at the parade. She defended the young man explaining what diversity and inclusion means in their household.

Her retired Miami Heat superstar husband Dwayne Wade had now had to step in to write the perfect response to the cruel comments.


Wade took to Twitter to write, “I’ve seen some post-thanksgiving hate on social about my family photo. Stupidity is apart of this world we live in—so i get it. But here’s the thing—I’ve been chosen to lead my family not y’all. So we will continue to be us and support each other with pride, love & a smile! ✌🏾


Judgmental trolls began parent-shaming the couple, leaving comments like, “Why does his son have his nails done and dressed like a girl? 🤔” and, “Smh wtf this lil boy got nails on for? I’ve lost all respect for D Wade.”

Gabby and D. Wade welcomed their first child together in November via surrogate.

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“We are sleepless and delirious but so excited to share that our miracle baby arrived last night via surrogate and 11/7 will forever be etched in our hearts as the most loveliest of all the lovely days,” the actress wrote on Instagram at the time. “Welcome to the party sweet girl!”

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Diamond Platnumz’ sister Queen Darleen weds in surprise ceremony



Queen Darleen got married in a private wedding ceremony in Dar es salaam, Tanzania.

Speaking to Wasafi TV, she said,

Ni ukweli nimeolewa na nashukuru mwenyezi mungu kwa kunijalia. Ndoa sio lazima upost mtandaoni uonekane kwamba umeolewa maan ndoa zilianza kabla hata mitandao.

Kwa hivo lile nimefanya mimi na mume wangu na familia yangu na sio lazima ningejulisha uma kwamba mimi nimeolewa au sijaolewa. Kikubwa ni nimeenda salama na namshukuru Mwenyezi Mungu tumemaliza kila kitu salama. Sasa hivi ni maamuzi yangu mwenyewe kupost au kutopost sababu kupost ni maamuzi ya mtu mwenyewe.

It’s true I got married and I thank God for the blessing. It’s not a must you post your relationship online jut to prove a point. I made a decision with my husband and family to keep it private and wasn’t a must I post photos for everyone to see. So whether I share photos or not, it’s my decision.

Diamond’s family has been re-sharing the pics and wishing the Kijuso hitmaker all the best in marriage, but we’re not sure if it was a real wedding or just a music video.

Queen Darleen’s eldest sister Esma was the first to share pics from her sister’s nuptials.

She showered Queen Darleen with love on her big day and her message read;

hongera sana ndugu yangu dadaangu Mungu akubariki katika ndoa yako akuepushe na husda za walimwengi yani daah Mungu ni mwema shem langu nakupenda sina cha kusema Wallah @queendarleen_ jishebedue wakuone 👌 ridhiki mafungu saba [Congratulations my sister. May the good Lord bleass your union and protect you from worldy things].

In another message she wrote,

Bi harusi wangu Mungu hamtupi mja wake siamini wallah shemeji kila siku nampanga leo kafanya kweli Mungu akadumishe ndoa yako ndugu yako daah ningekuwepo jana ningelia sana 😭😭😭 Shem umenisha sana @queendarleen_ @queendarleen_ nakwita tulia ndugu yangu mpende mumeo ndio rafiki yako huyo ndugu yako.

The singer’s mother also wished her nothing but the best in her marriage.

Naikumbuka Simu Yako Ya Jana Asubui Na Hakika Mungu Ametimiza Mlichokiamua Asubui Ile…. MASHAALLAH MASHAALLAH MASHAALLAH @queendarleen_ NDOA IWE NA AMANI INSHAALLAH 🤲 [I remember your call…and for sure God has done it. May your marriage be peaceful.].

Here are the photos from her wedding

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The sad reason Maureen Waititu believes she can’t keep a man 


We are still breaking down the end of what seemed like a perfect relationship between Maureen Waititu and Frankie Just GymIt.

As of last week, she had confessed she still and will forever love Frankie but she does not want to work things out with him to fix their broken relationshi

In an interview with on Radiojambo with Massawe, she said the thing she will never forget about the gym enthusiast is his presence as a father to their two adorable children.

“He was a very patient man. I wasn’t perfect I made mistakes too and when it comes to parenting, he was there for me even in the labor ward and delivery room where I was bitting him. It is rare to see a man in the delivery room.” She admitted


Some wondered if his presence in the delivery ward could have led to their breakup,  which she responded to by saying,

No that was not it. It did not affect our se3 life. There is more to that.

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Maureen Waititu in blue

Maureen Waititu revealed that there was a time in her life she blamed herself for their broken marriage.

Unfortunately, I have been raised alone. Just me and my mum. My father has never been in my life. It has affected me and my marriage and I realized this after the break down of my marriage. And I started blaming myself saying maybe it is because of how I have been raised without a father which makes me not know how to keep a man.


She added,

But with therapy and counseling, I have come to forgive myself but then again there are so many children who were raised in single families and they turn out okay.

Maureen then explained how she has tried reaching out to her father who was not present in her life but it backfired and she gave up on building that relationship.

“My father is very much alive he just decided not to be in my life. He left when I was young in fact I do not have memories of him. I tried reaching out to him and he does not want anything to do with me and that made me stop following him because the rejection is too much to bear.” She revealed.

She admitted it has been a bit hard for her dealing with marital and daddy issues without siblings who  act as support systems.

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‘There’s no shame’ Amber Ray advices over doing odd jobs


Many celebrities have taken up odd jobs before launching their careers, and that is the message Amber Ray has for us.

In a new and revealing social media post Amber wrote about being famous

If you know me well you will know that I’ve never wanted to be famous but fame chose me but I don’t depend on it either, that’s why I’m free to do whatever I enjoy…

She made the revelations on Instagram, where she admitted,

Most of us known faces are trying to impress you… the actual truth is they don’t care that much😏

So I’ve learnt what is most important… be you and invest in anything that you think will make you that extra bob, trust me, even if it’s selling Makaaa … the only person who will judge you is these wannabes who don’t understand Biashara .. no business minded person will judge you… I don’t know who needs to hear this but be you, live your life!

The pressure she has felt has touched fans who have responded with encouraging comments with one fan saying ‘Kwanza I remember you na ugali asubui. You are as real as they come’


Another wrote virobgrami ‘I love just how you are yourself. You don’t pretend and you don’t Care what someone will think.’

Another stiflerz254 added that ‘okay ni sawa the message very on point.’


Socialite Amber Ray aka Faith Makau, has been traversing the globe after her unceremonious divorce from her hubby.

Amber and her rich hubby Zaheer Merlahi Jhanda made headlines when she revealed she was tired of being wife number two.


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‘Naamini ndoto zangu’ Rashid Badalla gushes over sweet moment with daughter

Rashid Abdalla is a father of three who is clearly smitten, sharing a number of social media posts about his feelings for his family.

The Citizen TV presenter took to Instagram to share a snap of their baby girl Kiran.

He wrote saying

Kupitia kwako mwanangu nimejifunza KUPENDA na kujua nini maana halisi ya MAPENZI. Nashukuru Mungu kwa uwepo wako kwani kupitia kwako nathamini MAPUNGUFU yangu na naamini NDOTO zangu.

One follower wambui914. congratulated him saying …Wow. So lovely and Adorable

We are treated to rare pictures of their children and luckily for us this is one such moment.

The celebrity couple kept the birth of their third child secret for some time, perhaps to spend undisturbed time with their new born before telling fans on social media.

The first time Rashid shared a picture he broke his silence with sweet words for wife LouLou gushing over her for being an amazing mom.

loulouhassanJust ask any Kenyan woman about birthing, it is not easy.

But having a husband who supports you through the process and truly appreciates all of your sacrifices makes all the changes you’ve gone through totally worth it. So huge props to Rashid for sharing such thoughtful and heartfelt words not just for his incredibly strong wife, but for others to see.

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Kingangi astonished at man who paid the price of a probox for ‘twa twa’


A househelp has been jailed for three years after he employer alleged she had stolen Sh1.3 million from him.

The housemaid stunned the courtroom when she insisted the man had paid her for some good ‘twa twa’.

Ruth Khaecha testified in January that she did not steal Sh1,350,000 from employer Paul Mwang at Balozi Estate in Muthaiga. She said she earned the money, Sh800,000 as a reward for providing “good twa twa”.

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We prefer housemaids because they are natural like kienyeji chicken

Kenyan men have confessed that they sleep with maids because they are natural in all ways.

Apparently women who smell naturally as opposed to those who wear perfume give men more stamina in anticipation for twa twa.

This discussion was generated on Classic 105 after a story of a domestic worker denying stealing money from her employer and insisting that her male employer paid her Sh800,000 for good twa twa.

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Ruth Khaecha, was jailed on Friday for three years. She was found with Sh800k from her boss, but she claimed it was pay for good lungula.

‘I played my role well’ Maid defends taking Sh800,000 from boss for ‘twa twa’

She testified in court on January 15th this year denying she stole Sh1.3 from her employer Paul Mwangi at Balozi Estate in Muthaiga.

Makadara chief magistrate Heston Nyaga found Khaecha guilty of stealing from Mwangi and sentenced her to three years in prison.

During the trial, the 28-year-old househelp said, “I played my role well in bed.”

Maina asked men why they prefer maids, giving his opinion that ‘I thought we were done with this thing of househelps’.

Many men who called in told Maina Kageni that men prefer natural women and not the ones with makeup and lots of perfume.

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Here are some confessions:

You see we are being told to eat natural food because that is what is good. and housegirls like natural food are very tasty, they give you a nice time, leave these girls of town. The natural smell is the one that makes the machine wake up so if a woman is smelling perfume they can’t entice you, that’s why men go with maids they have a natural smell, they entice men. We have been told to eat natural food and any woman that is natural is attractive, that is what attracts a human being, like kienyeji chicken, that is why men go with housemaids, that is what makes men perform.

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Another added

we like natural ladies, its true, leave perfume, and makeup, these things kill us, the natural women are soothing to us men, because I had one from shags and from town, and the one from town it takes me time to twa twa with her, the natural odor works better for men

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‘I played my role well’ Maid defends taking Sh800,000 from boss for ‘twa twa’

It wasn’t theft, it was payment for good ‘twa twa’.

That’s what ex-househelp Ruth Khaecha said, denying she stole Sh1,350,000 from employer Paul Mwang at Balozi Estate in Muthaiga. She said she earned the money, Sh800,000 as a reward for providing “good twa twa”.

That’s what she testified on January 15.

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But after an intriguing hearing on Friday last week, a Makadara chief magistrate Heston Nyaga found Khaecha guilty of stealing from Mwangi and sentenced her to three years in prison.

The court also ordered that the land she bought worth Sh570,000 be sold to recover the cash stolen from her boss. The accused had also given her father Sh500,000 and Sh70,000 more was found in her handbag.

During the trial, the 28-year-old househelp said, “I played my role well in bed.”

She started working on November 25 and had worked for a month before Mwangi started making advances, she told the court.

Khaecha said she then started to develop feelings for him and after telling him her difficult life’s story, Mwangi promised to help her,” she said.

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Whenever Mwangi was home and his wife was gone, they had twa twa, she testified.

On January 3, she testified, Mwangi came home early with a bag containing envelopes. He told her the envelopes contained money and even showed her.

…this time I decided to give him perfect service like never before, as I was aware it was going to be a life-turning moment for me and my children.

They then had twa twa before Mwangi placed one envelope on her chest, she told the court.

Khaecha said she decided to leave because his wife, Jane Wairimu, seemed suspicious “based on how quarrelsome she had become”.

She stated that she worked for two and a half months, earning Sh6,500 per month.

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Mwangi, she said, gave her Sh800,000 which she kept in her bedroom and only got to count it after she got to her home in Kakamega.

“It was not the first time but this time I decided to give him perfect service like never before, as I was aware it was going to be a life-turning moment for me and my children,” she told the court.

“I asked him what was in the envelopes when he started caressing me and he said it was money. I took one of the envelopes and confirmed that.”

But Mwangi told the court that last year on December 28, he withdrew Sh500,000 from KCB Bank and hid it in his wardrobe in the bedroom.

He again withdrew Sh700,000 on January 10 from Equity Bank, he said.

Mwangi stated that on January 15, a security guard at his Balozi Estate in Muthaiga called him and asked whether he was aware that his househelp was leaving. He said he and his wife were not aware of that.

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Joyce Omondi gives rare insight into marriage with Waihiga

TV personalities Joyce Omondi and Waihiga Mwaura attended the Kalasha Awards last weekend.

Omondi had been nominated for best TV host 2019 for her show Full Circle with Joyce on Switch TV.

Omondi, who addresses life’s issues on her show, gave some marriage advice when Word Is caught up with her.

Waihiga Mwaura with his wife Joyce Omondi at dinner
Waihiga Mwaura with his wife Joyce Omondi at dinner
“Put God at the centre of it all. That’s my biggest advice. I don’t know how people do it without God. For me, that has been the best thing ever,” she said.

“Marriage takes work, but it works.” She and Waihiga have kept their relationship off social media.

Omondi also spoke about her show and what fans can expect next year.

“I was grateful and in shock for the nomination and was also grateful to my fans, who make the show what it is,” she said.

Joyce Omondi
Joyce Omondi with her hubby Waihiga Mwaura

“It’s important to always have sobriety. It means I should work harder and keep trying and appreciating the people that come together to keep doing what I do.”

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‘My husband washes me, plus my soiled knickers’ wife reveals

When you walk down the aisle, you take a vow to stick together through thick and thin.

It’s something we say but don’t really ponder for long because our wedding day is supposed to be happy, right?  So, what does it really look like to live out this vow?

That is exactly what one Kenyan man is doing, to the outrage of many.

He told Maina Kageni on Monday that he even washes her inner wear, especially when she wakes up late in a rush to scrub her panties. He says when he finds them when he get home before her, he will wash them for her, and put them outside to air. because she forgot to wash her panties, he helps her washing it. She cleans my boxers so why not?


In another scenario, a female caller shocked listeners on Wednesday with her tale of what her husband does for her that is so romantic.

She narrated

I have a man. He washes my panties, I don’t tell him to do it, he just wakes up washes his and mine, and when I’m cleaning the house he also helps. I hate ironing clothes, so he does so and even for our daughters, he doesn’t complain.

Cleaning floor using rag
Cleaning floor using rag

Even when I’m sitting down at home, he cleans, this is a man I really appreciate I don’t have to tell him to do stuff. He also washes my panties, you know at times ladies soil their panties but he washes them. It’s not a matter of being controlled, there are men out there who are good, even when I’m sick he washes me, he takes a basin puts hot water, scrubs me and will serve me any food in bed.

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Ali Kiba turns 33 with hopes of reuniting with wife Amina


He is currently ruling the airwaves with his hit song ‘Mshumaa’ that Classics Maina Kageni says is a must listen to.

The song many say is a dedication to his estranged wife Amina, who has been separated from the singer for a while.

In the song, Kiba sings, “I miss you, we will see each other. Even when God plans that I die tomorrow, I believe, we will see each other.”

Adding, “Let me remind you, when I put a ring you, you said you’ll never leave me until I die. Your presence was my being.”


The two split, and it was only after rumors swirled that he addressed the speculation, confirming that indeed his wife left him.

Ali Kiba is celebrating his 33rd birthday and what a year it has been for him.


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