The morning conversation on Classic 105 got rather heated when Maina Kageni suggested that a lot of married women are unhappy in their marriages for the simple fact that they have fallen out of love with their husbands.
So ladies confessed to Maina that the reason they are unhappy in their marriage is because they stopped loving their husbands.
One female caller said, ‘at times we blame ourselves. I have been married eight years and the love ended like three years ago. Its all abut pretense. For me I am not after anyones money, but at the moment I am planning myself. When I feel I am ready I will exit.’ He knows I don’t love him anymore after I told him coz I can’t pretend. He just looked at me, we struggle to some levels. I can’t move on coz my kids go to school, but I am slowly planning myself. Being in the same bed everyday is crazy’.
Another woman called in saying she has been married for four years but fell out of love after two years
She narrated, ‘I realized he wasn’t the man for me. When we are in the house we are like brother and sister. When we go to bed we sleep far away from each other and when he tries to force himself on me I really cry I feel like he is my brother and I can’t remove my clothes. I feel like he is not supposed to look at me. When he is in the house we don’t even talk, I don’t know what I am doing there. I think I fear what people will say because our wedding was big, we spent so much money. But Maina when I try to leave he can’t let me go. One time when I tried I went to work then returned home but someone must have told him because he showed up and locked me in’.
‘Most of the time where we live, I guess he told the watchman because anytime I leave he calls me to ask where I am going. What am I going to do Maina, I don’t love him. Even when I see him with other women I don’t feel bad, honestly what do I do?
Classic 105 fam, what would you advice this sad woman to do? Also listen to the audio below of the full conversation as Maina gives his own advice.