The morning conversation today was one that many young men will thank Maina for having. It was a follow-up from yesterday’s conversation where most men where in general agreement that most women go for established married men.
Mwalimu King’ang’i himself asked, “Why can’t women of today start from scratch with their own man? Who are these young men going to marry?”
Maina himself asked the ladies the question, “Is there time to start from scratch?”
This is arguably one of the most commented topics that Maina and King’ang’i have brought up. Some of those responses are below:
The generation of ladies who have found their fathers making it big they forget that their mothers did help that man to be successful. They forget to ask their back history Kama wewe hujajinunulia hata simu ya mkono unaexpect aje kupata mtu ame make it in life.
Yes, I agree that money is important.. But as a parent would you encourage your 20-year-old daughter to be involved with someone over 40 or 50, we need to think about it that way.
The ladies starting from scratch with men were recently called “Bob the builders” that after building a future together from scratch the non-bob the builders will snatch them from Bob the builders cause they believe successful men like women who don’t know their struggles.
The lack of time to start from scratch for our young generation both boys and girls is the reason we have so many singles, it’s the monster eating our society from all angles. We need to talk to our youth to stick together for better for worse.
And that’s precisely where these young ladies miss the point. Whatever that sponsor has been amassed over a long period of time and his wife contributed incredibly. He’ll date you, buy you that palatial house and that sleek car but when things go south he’ll confiscate…
Maina, ladies want a shortcut in life, they are marrying those financially stable men for a reason and if one day those men will go broke they’ll run away from them cos hawana haja nao tena, they were after their money not love.
As if men are not marrying financially stable women this day?
…everything and throw you out of that house. And probably he has impregnated and infected you with HIV. But exactly the opposite we’ll happen when it doesn’t work with their wives. They’ll get divorced and share those assets equally. So who’s using who here.
Wacha nimpate na kimansion huko Runda na ki V8 tulie huko kuliko nimpate Githurai tucheke huko.
These men are unpredictable mutaanza na ye chini akiomoka utalilia choo.
Men should shine aways from earlier marriage and look for money…..koz after this ladies wamefika 28+ they will be looking for you not you looking for them.
Good morning,,,They want the good life without any struggle.
Maina ati start from scratch,how?yani niteseke Kwa nyumba ya wazazi wangu alafu niende kuteseka Kwa mwanamume,uliskia wapi?
Maina hii gender haina huruma, imagine savings ya 1yr anakam anakula in 1day.
We will marry the rejected ones.
From experience, nope there is no time to start from scratch.
Maina for me ni kutafuta pesa kwanza halafu kuoa baadaye. Sina haraka.
Women of nowdeiz can’t start frm scratch coz wanachochwa na mabeste zao wenye wana live fake life pale social media.
Oooliskia wapi? Wanataka kuchoka?
Maina I met a guy who was so broke and had rent arrears for months I paid for it. I am the first woman who took this man for dinner, I taught him how to drive but when he got the money I was thrown out to stay with the dogs.
Madem huwa wanataka wasee wako na kakitu boss.
Kama hauna pesa kaa na mama yako. Maina I am single na nataka mtu akona pesa. Maneno ya kustart from scratch iliisha.
Hawa wanaume wakipata pesa huwa wanachange. I was dating this guy for 7 years tulikuwa tunakula ugali na chumvi akapata pesa kidogo akaendea msichana wa form two. I left Maina.
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