There are women who pursue you to get back at your wife – Benjamin Zulu


Relationship coach Benjamin Zulu is out here spiting facts.

The motivational speaker in his Tiktok platform riles many with his statements and accounts of relationships.

In one such video, he tells husbands that their side chicks are only with him to hurt his wife.

“there are women who pursue you not because of you because of your wife to prove a point, it’s a competition a contest to destroy a good thing, you should not always think that you are that handsome and attractive, when you see people after you, sometimes the reason is it’s not you”

He continued explaining

“you are just at the centre in the line of fire they are firing elsewhere, you are the convenient, the reachable target. You’ve heard of those pathological househelps maybe or people who are hired or shamba boys you hire somebody and they start having their own motives to seduce one of you to get at the other, the househelp felt mistreated by the mistress of the house, so she starts to seduce the husband to prove a point, to get back at her. Sometimes you are not the reason you are being pursued.”

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Man finds out he’s been sending fare to a married woman he’s never met


Men are not being spared by women when it comes to kula fare.

One such man amused Maina Kageni when he explained that he has been sending mpesa, and credit to a woman he has been after.

This was revealed in a morning discussion about men who can’t take rejection from women.

Maina was disgusted that men can’t take no for an answer, but co host King’angi insisted a man must be persistent and pursue whatever woman he wants until she says yes.

Mwalimu said ‘as a man you just can’t be rejected na uende, you have to keep trying mpaka aiigne ka system” But Maina asked ‘why can’t you take rejection and go away?”

“As a man you have to keep pushing until it happens’ Kingangi retorted.

This is when a man called in with his story of rejection and humiliation

“In 2016 there was this dame I katiad for almost one to two years only to find out that she is married. I was so devastated lakini. I came to find out she had a family yet alikua ananikataa lakini nikaendelkea kumtumia data na credit niendelea na hiypo form na hakuingia box na haonyeshi hanitaki hata kunihug bado sijawahi onja asali.”

He added “I found out she is married with children on social media when she shared a picture ati ‘happy family life’.I was shocked and took my L’. Yni two years I have sent her data, credit and mpesa na ilikulwa”

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Karibu Kanairo! Single woman tells of encounter with married man

Guys, explain this phrase about cheating ‘I can’t help it’.

This was the topic of the Thursday morning conversation October 21, where Maina Kageni told off men for serial cheating.

He blasted men for being irresponsible “guys do you ever think of the consequences, how do you meet someone, go toa place with her and you don’t know her name?”

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A woman told Maina of her experience with a cheating man

“Kuna jamaa alinikwamilia jana, hadi akanipea wallet I pay the bill and he is married. He had a ring then he took out his wallet and told me bebi please pay the bill. Maina I was like he he nimeangukia. I was in the club and he came to my table and ordered drinks. Who am I to refuse? He didn’t even ask for my name and he told me to go with him Since last night he has been calling me, coz I took all the money from his wallet and returned an empty one to him. I gave him my number hiyo ni jackpot, nilibeba pesa yote. I took all the money and he told me he doesn’t care for the money, he just wants me. Till now he is calling me. Those are your Kenyan men, he could not help himself”

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Mejja responds to fans request for post curfew Friday sherehe song

On Wednesday during the Mashujaa day celebrations in Kirinyaga county, President Uhuru announced the lifting of the nationwide curfew.

In his state address President Kenyatta said “”I hereby order that the nationwide dusk to dawn curfew that has been in effect from March 27, 2020, be and is hereby vacated with immediate effect,” Uhuru announced amid rapturous applause from those in the stadium.

KOT were elated and soon took to social media with memes. among those was a plea to Mejja to release a song for Friday. Here are a few

Thankyou Mr president for hearing the mwananchi’s cry and lifting the curfew. Businesses can now operate for 24hrs .yeeeyy
Na kwa Sasa mejja aamke atoe wimbo ya friday… #BoozeIsBack

Mejja in studio rn trying to brush lyrics fast before Friday

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I hope Mejja is in the studio coz we need something to sing to this Friday.

Mejja’s songs are highly used by partygoers, and it seems he heard it.

He has assured that he will release something.

He told “NiMeskia!!!! NiToe Solo Project Friday Ama………..”

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chichidave…Changamka 😂

nicks_kenya…😂😂😂😂😂😂wewe ni wetu milele😂😂toa kitu bana

blade1128….Genjeness in abundance

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You are not a dog, say NO – Maina shouts at husband serial cheaters


On the Thursday morning conversation October 21, Maina Kageni asked men why they can’t help cheating on their wives.

He told men in no uncertain terms that they are not dogs to behave like that.

“Not only did I hear some good news from the President, but I also met some gentlemen and I want to know why it is impossible. These two gentlemen  did not go home on Tuesday night, and then when curfew was lifted they extended their night. They had women that they picked up the night before and when I asked he said he cannot help  it that me when I see anything in a skirt I cannot help it”

This riled the presenter who asked ‘why cant you say no gentlemen? this woman is probably coming for you because you have some money but you cant say no? what do you mean you can’t help it, wewe sio mbwa”

He continued challenging men that “what is it about you that you cannot say no hata hujui her name and two days later you still don’t know her name and when you are asked you say you cant help it?

His morning question was ‘explain this phrase about cheating ‘I can’t help it.  Guys do you ever think of the consequences?’


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 Proof that Billionaire Jay Z loves taking pictures of his wife Beyonce


Do you have to ague with your man to take your pictures or he is cool about it like Jay Z.

The internet has realized that the billionaire loves to take pictures of his wife and what’s more she loves to pose for him as he does so.

People are also saying that any man that has a crush on his wife will always be ready to take pictures of his wife.

So girls, does your man tell you that his gallery is full as an excuse not to take your pics?

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They understood the assignment! Fashion moments at Mashujaa day 2021



Happy Mashujaa day fellow Kenyans.

October 20th marks the public holiday Mashujaa day and if you are watching it on Tv, we have all the must see fashion moments..

Most of the women leaders attending the even came in stunning outfits. It was all we noticed.

From Kirinyaga Governor Ann Waiguru to Martha Karua and women parliamentarians, they came decked out looking very queen like.

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Kirinyaga Governor Ann Waiguru and husband Kamotho Waiganjo arrives at Wanguru Stadium in Kirinyaga County during the Mashujaa Celebrations on October 20, 2021. Photo/ Fredrick Omondi

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NARC Kenya party leader Martha Karua arrives at Wang’uru stadium in Kirinyaga county the Mashujaa day celebration on 20, October 2021./MERCY MUMO

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Nairobi Governor Ann Kananu arrives at Wang’uru stadium in Kirinyaga county for Mashujaa day celebrations on 20, October 2021./ MERCY MUMO

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Murang’a women rep Sabina Chege

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Nyeri Deputy Governor Caroline Karugu arrives at Wang’uru stadium in Kirinyaga county for Mashujaa day celebration on 20, October 2021./ MERCY MUMO

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Nairobi Deputy Governor Ann Kananu and her Nyeri counterpart Caroline Karugu arrives at Wanguru Stadium in Kirinyaga County during the Mashujaa Celebrations on October 20, 2021. Photo/ Fredrick Omondi

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Members of Parliament from the ODM party arrives at Wanguru Stadium in Kirinyaga County during the Mashujaa Celebrations on October 20, 2021. Photo/ Fredrick Omondi

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Vera Sidika gets a pregnancy belly cast in countdown to birth


After a successful baby shower held on 10th October, Vera Sidika is counting down the days to the birth of her baby girl.

And to prepare for that process, Vera showed fans she was getting a pregnancy cast. She also told that her pregnancy journey will make part of her reality show when it premiers.

She noted it was ‘creating memories with pregnancy. Watch out for my reality show. So much juice on it!’

Belly casts are 3D plaster molds of a mother-to-be’s growing bump or full torso, usually done a couple of weeks to a month before giving birth.

Vera wrote “belly casting today. I’m such a last minute person But!!I always get it done. “

She added “it’s extremely heavy apparently about 6-7kgs”

According to Wikipedia, Belly casts are most often made toward the end of the third trimester of pregnancy, though a series of casts may also be made during the pregnancy. They are made by preparing the skin with a coating of Vaseline or a similar lubricant and adding strips of wet plaster gauze over the abdomen to make the cast.

Vera also celebrated her glowing baby bump noting she is set to undergo a CS in November.

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Victor Wanyama and Serah Teshna’s amazing pregnancy and baby news

Congratulations on your amazing journey!

Footballer Victor Wanyama and girlfriend actress Serah Teshna welcomed a baby 40 days ago.

The couple shared cute family photo shoot to tell the world their baby is now 40 days old.

Serah wrote “2021. God showed up and Showed out.

We are so excited to share this amazing journey with you. God is the greatest. #40daysOfBabyCuddles ”


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Somali businessman Jimal Roho Safi’s cute confession about wife Amira

Somali businessman Jimal Roho Safi is out here gushing over his wife Amira.

In a hearty Instagram post Jimal told eager fans that the most expensive property he owns is his wife.

What is the most expensive property you own right now? Me? my wife”

He shared this emotional confession in a picture with his two sons in their home.

The boys were seated in the kitchen being served a meal by Jimal as they happily bonded.

Jimal in another post told that Amira is currently away. he admitted that it has been a tough four days without her, but adores her all the same.

There’s an echo int he house” he captioned, adding “For the last 4 days”

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Jay Z invests sh190million in marijuana software company


Billionaire Jay Z in 2019 entered a multiyear partnership with a California-based cannabis company Caliva as the chief brand strategist and announced his first marijuana line titled Monogram.

He then curated a playlist dedicated to the strain(s) on his streaming App,

The brand’s website is live at and on Instagram at @MONOGRAMCOMPANY.

Jay Z has now invested in a tech company that helps marijuana dispensaries process payments.

According to a report from Forbes on Oct. 12, the billionaire rap mogul has invested $19 million in Flowhub, a cannabis point-of-sale company, based in Denver, that helps make the lives of dispensaries much easier.

Flowhub, founded by Kyle Sherman six years ago, assists marijuana dispensaries with processing sales transactions, monitoring inventory, tracking analytics, complying with state cannabis laws and more. Additionally, the company handles over $3 million in weed transactions for more than 1,000 businesses across over a dozen states each year.

The company now has a reported value of $200 million, following his investment.

On Hov’s participation in the growth of Flowhub, the company’s founder was quoted saying, “When Jay says, ‘I’m not a businessman, I’m a business, man,’ it’s true. He’s got incredible business acumen—he really knows how to surround himself with brilliant people and build great companies.”

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Girls have money, treat her right and she will spoil you – Smitten man tells

Fellas, kindly take note of this piece of advice from a fellow man.

He says women have money and rather than fumble the bag, all you gotta do is treat her right.

He adds that a woman who likes you will notice things you need in your life, go out and buy them.

He said it speaks volumes in a viral Twitter thread where other men agreed with him.

Another man also advised the same. They must be right, right?


Man you ain’t never lied lol. My ole lady got me a wallet with my dads face engraved in it for Christmas after he passed away last year. I don’t even know how she got the picture I was speechless when I opened it. Everything she’s ever got me was thoughtful af.

Bruh, when I cut my hair I usually just put a towel down. My lady brought me a cape that latch to the mirror that catch the hair, Nigga…I almost cried lol

They’d kind of finding out what you like most and what you need by asking you sometimes then when they got money they’d just surprise you bringing it without expecting. I fancy those kinda womens

You’re right. Invited this chick over, the next day. She came handed me a gift basket full of stuff. Asked her, what was this for. She said, I did a bit of snooping around and noticed that you need all of this. I blocked her number later that night.

I bought my my man bath and body wash so he’d smelled as handsome as he looked.

Lol, a lady bought me a garage can, and mop. I was using plastic bags and rags.

I get him beard oil, fancy soap, various hot sauces, and hoodies.

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The one simple thing a man means when he calls you trouble

If the man you are talking/dating, tells you that you are trouble, girl, he is married and getting ready to cheat with you. You are a potentially distracting person he likes and that he could easily get into trouble with you.

A woman online asked this question and was told just as much.

One man told her “That he shouldn’t be talking to you, but he enjoys it. You finna be woman #2 if you keep on ma’am”.

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Means he’s got a girl but you’re making him think about throwing away his relationship to be with you.

The trouble is actually all the shit he will get from his wife/gf when he breaks up with her or gets caught cheating with you

Mean either he thinks you’ll get him in trouble with whoever else he’s dealing with. Or if he’s single single you’ll be the one that gets him in his feelings quickly and he’s not sure if he’s ready for that or maybe he could be. Some women make men nervous

He’s cheating and you’re the side chick.

Not so precise. Means wanted a fling but on get close really enjoys your company and vibes, but weighing if your sassy, wild self is really worth being with you for the long run.

it means run

He’s married. Has two long term girlfriends (4 kids) and needs a new person to pursue!!
Like Sir. Do not look my trouble and allow me please!!

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Ignore your friends advice, shave shower and get an uber – Women told

While it may seem laughable, relationships in Nairobi are hard to decipher and friendships don’t make it easier.

If your friend is not in your business telling you what to do, others mind their own business even when they see red flags in your relationship.

So one woman on Twitter aptly put it that you should just do you. She wrote


Dear Classic 105 fam, do you agree? Remember, only you know him best.

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Curvy Tanzanian model Poshy Queen gets sh2 million allowance a week


Have you received your girlfriend allowance for the month? No? Ok!

Popular Tanzanian socialite Poshy Queen aka Jacqueline Obed is still giving men sleepless nights despite being off the market.

In an interview with Wasafi Tv’s Diva The Bawse, Poshy admitted that men still DM her but she is not interested because she is taken.

Poshy is dating a Nigerian man who lives and works in Dubai.

The two have a daughter together and gushed over body being as natural as they come

“I have never gotten a fake body. I’m just curvy since high school if you check my pictures.”poshy queen 3 (1)

Diva wanted to know how much her bae gives her to maintain her lifestyle and she said around 1 or 2 million a week.

“Napenda pes, and with Gods blessing anatumanga mara nyingi siezi hesabu hizo hela sometimes he sends me two milolion every week,. I have a child who has needs na anamatumiuzi. Mimi siezi kaa bila pesa kama mke wa mtu na mtoto wake. Bado mi ni mke wa mtu, he lives in Dubai, and we are atill together,. I don’t know where rumros of a divorce have come from. He is Nigerian”


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Wema Sepetu and Elizabeth Michael in fallout over lovers death


Recently, Wema Sepetu hosted the late Steve Kanumba’s mother on her cooking show where she asked the grieving woman whom she thought killed her son.

This question has led to problems between Wema and Elizabeth Michael who was jailed for killing Kanumba.

Mama Steve Kanumba is still bitter with actress Elizabeth ‘Lulu’ for pushing her son who accidentally hit the edge of the bed and sadl succumbed to his injuries.

Elizabeth Michael was sentenced to two years in prison by a Dar Es Salaam High Court which found the actress guilty of manslaughter. 

Elizabeth this past weekend October 16, was interviewed and asked if she is still friends with Wema inspite of the question. Lulu said no.

“Mimi na yeye sidhani tunamatatizo. Yeye aliongea yenye ilistahili kuongeleka, reaction yangu mimi nahisi yeye aliona kila kitu iko sawa lakini mimi unless kama anahisi she is guilty if she think we are good then we are good unless she thinks otherwise.”

Lulu added

“Nilimunfollow an aliwahi kunitumia message sijawahi mjibu katika text zake hakuhisi kama amefanya vibaya, yeye haoni kama amekosea”

“That question  she asked ni kama uchochezi. Kuanzia hapo hatujawahi kuwasiliana, yeye haoni kama amekosea nadhani pengine hapo ndo ubinadamu wangu uliponishika.” Lulu answered.

Lulu was speaking while unveiling her new shop LizyPayLess.

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Photos of Zari and mystery man in Uganda excites the internet

Zari Hassan popped up in Uganda a couple of days ago, much to the surprise of netizens.

She shared a picture atop a vehicle which someone accused her of always using strangers cars to pose on Instagram.

Paschal Kamata wrote, “Unapenda kupiga picha gari za watu.” Zari said, “Touch your heart & ask God to bless you too so that you stop seeing people’s lives in a bad way.”

In other photos leaked online, we see Zari in what looks like a family gathering/introduction ceremony looking cozy, and speculation was that she got married secretly or was introducing him to her family.

Zari has since denied it was her wedding. And the identity of the man in question is being speculated that he is her late husbands best friend King Lawrence.

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Wolper stylish writes hilarious note to husband after cheating accusations


Tanzanian socialite Jacqueline Wolper has challenged a businesswoman to provide proof that she stormed an office building to fight her husbands alleged side chick.

The businesswoman claims Wolper went to the building to beat up her employee who is having an affair with Wolpers baby daddy. She says Wolper disrupted work.

Wolper has vehemently denied doing such a thing and said her marriage is intact.

She gushed over him writing ‘baba mtoto wangu love of my life rich mtindfo nakupenda sana. cheq tabasam hilo kijana kajua kunipa mbegu huy mungu muweke nimpe watoto 7 mie. sijawahi kumfumania na siku ikitokea nitawapa menyew habari hio wala amtozitafuta so acheni ngenga ubwaa coco”

Wolper wrote this message on October 14, days after allegations of the confrontation made its way on social media.

The businesswoman claims to have CCTV footage and is threatening to make it public to disprove Wolper.


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