Category: Conversation Maina and Kingangi

To snag a man, let him do the chasing – Classic fan Captain Kale advises

Posted on by Maureen Waruinge

 

FACT! Most men love a good chase.

It turns out that men today say our ancestors were right- that ladies shouldn’t make the first move.

Can you imagine having to tell your children that you chased your husband and perhaps proposed to him?

Of course not.

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Some women don’t want to admit it, but we all want a guy to approach us, fall madly in love, and not be able to wait to call us.

So how do you make that happen?

Classic 105 fan Captain Kale says it’s not that complicated. He was responding to a conversation on the morning show which sought to find out why women are labelled as cheap.

He said:

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“These women have no reason to say we are cheap. How do you expect a guy who lives with his mother akuletee nyama? When a man leaves you don’t go saying that Kenyan men are bad or cheap.”

Kale insists it’s not nearly as difficult as girls make it to be.

Or is his truth about girls who make the first move very hard hitting?

Kale added about the importance of not ruining a good thing, and why he needs to call you, and when it’s okay to give it away.

‘These women don’t even have reasons. They don’t have any proof, these women are old and go looking for boys in campus, these women should go back to how it was back in the day and they wait for us to katia them. Us Kenyan men are very few and we are special’

Their answers show that the odds are against those trying to muster up the guts to do the asking first.

Do you agree Classic 105 fam? Drop your comments below

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The one thing Kenyan men do that annoys women 

Posted on by Maureen Waruinge

 

Every woman says a good Kenyan man is hard to find.

And it all boils down to the one thing they don’t do.

When a fella visits a woman’s house he must go with something. Unfortunately, many Kenyan men turn up at a woman’s house empty handed, then place demands for food and a place to sleep after the nights activities.

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Like seriously, why would a man go to a woman’s house, where he doesn’t pay rent, knock on the door empty handed and expect a good time with her? It’s no wonder, women are playing the field.

On the Thursday conversation, Maina opened up the phone lines to men about allegations from women, that men are the ones who are cheap.

Mwalimu argues men are not cheap they just pretend. ‘Kenyan men have a lot of dignity, if you think they are cheap they are just pretending, and end up gaining’

Ladies have you ever encountered a cheap Kenyan man and it astounded you? Maina asked women.

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This after on Wednesday a caller accused women of being the cheapest, that all they need to buy a Kenyan girl is a mzinga, and she falls for it.

Here are a sample of views from women about this annoying habit

Jennifer Kanyiri..
Why would a man go to a lady’s house, men need to style up and be the gentlemen they claim to be #MainaAndKingangi

@moniqueKimm..
Some men are just lazy and want everything the cheap way. He’ll come eat, sleep alafu asnore till morning lol

Angry-Black-Woman

“Kenyan men are cheap! Nowadays you will meet a guy, he will come to our house, hajakuja ata na nyama ama maziwa alafu anauliza tutakula nini? Who does that?” #MainaAndKingangi

Thaimoni wa gasmonkey..
chali kulala kwa hao ya dame iyo nayo haileti shangwe,,,nyumba hulipi wachana nayo
Rosemary..
@ItsMainaKageni Men of today are annoying!! Begging money from ladies. Sisi sio fuliza, tala, branch, okash … Cheap=Men period @Classic105Kenya

 

 

 

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What King’ang’i thinks about Kenyan newspaper headlines (Audio)

Posted on by Geoffrey Mbuthia

Maina and King’ang’i had an interesting conversation today that concerned the choice of headlines on the front page of newspapers each day.

Mwalimu King’ang’i was passionate that our headlines are chockful of politics with names like Uhuru Kenyatta, Raila Odinga and William Ruto hegemonising them.

King’ang’i spoke about the 10,000-seater state-of-the-art facility, Kigali Arena, which is a historic indoor arena and is a first of its kind in East, Central Africa.

He wondered what was up with Nyayo National Stadium and said that he had heard that Maribou Stalks are running roughshod on the stadium.

Mwalimu Kingangi reveals why he is upset with Laboso’s husband Edwin

Mwalimu added that that was the news that was front and centre in Rwanda and something that Kenyan media houses should emulate.

‘When development news dominates the headlines, that is when our country will progress. At the moment we can’t move forward if we keep having politics as the mainstay in our newspapers.’ A rueful Kingangi said to the notable agreement of Maina.

If we can spend a week not dealing with politics we can progress as a nation. The two spoke about the county officials that aren’t being paid after the current stalemate between the counties and the central government over revenue allocation.

What do you think of his solution? Does it make sense? A phrase that closely correlates to the advice Mwalimu gave, was delivered by Earl Nightingale where he said,

‘We Become What We Think About Most Of The Time. We become what we think about most of the time, and that’s the strangest secret.’

Check out the video below;

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Boda Boda rider reveals how they manage to date Kenyan girls

Posted on by Maureen Waruinge

You may find them disorderly on the roads, but they are snagging Kenyan girls faster than the average man.

What’s the secret to landing that girl, that the average Brayo or Mikey can’t?

women teasing boda guy

I mean just sample this tweet from a girl

 

 

A man confessed to Maina Kageni that in between cars honking and the rushing wind, they are able to seduce and land the girl of every mans dream.

He said:

‘I meet five girls on average and manage to bed two. I do boda work, I stop my bike and they agree to go to a room. It just falls into place, out of five girls that I do, its only two I might chew, we take them slowly on our bikes while we ingiza her box’

Even KOT have noticed the Boda Boda power over girls. Here are hilarious reactions

charles maina..
I fear them so much kwanza wa murang’a, kuna mmoja alichukua girlfriend yangu those days 😂😂😂😂😂#MainaAndKingangi

Sarahllito🌼💮🌸..
Apr 8
Uta ride bodaboda… Uta ride bodaboda… Utah do what 😂😂😂🙆🙆🙆

Purity Ng’ethe..
😂😂😂😂mimi aki na si chuki ama nini msee wa nduthi hawezi niingisha box aaaaiii aca #MainaAndKingangi

charles maina…
Apr 8
Hii nimekataa, 😂😂😂😂😂 hawa wanatumia mpaka kamuti #mainaandkingangi

Rodriguez..
Kwani nowadays ladies are that cheap??

wamichira..
They have access to sure bets(warembo)

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See how easy it is?

1 in 3 Kenyan women go on dates just for FREE FOOD – Maina reacts to study

Posted on by Maureen Waruinge

 

Wait just one minute! Does this mean that Kenyan girls who post Instagram pics of food while on a date are there for the food?

A study suggests that women go on dates just for the fee food.

The 30 percent women are not interested in the man just the FREE FOOD.

The researchers at the Azusa Pacific University tried understanding the concept of ‘foodie calls’ where an individual intentionally goes on a date to enjoy free food and is not romantically interested in the other person. In fact, it can happen when the person is broke or is simply tempted to try a new restaurant. This study was published in the ‘Society for Personality and Social Psychology’ journals and was done on two different groups of women.

Classic 105’s Maina Kageni says the research is shocking.

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Maina reacted saying

To me that’s crazy ladies, women you’ve been used of being extremely cheap, ati on the first date you will go to a room

Maina posed this question

Would go on a date just for free food?

A female caller response surprised Maina

It’s true. Kenyan women are the cheapest with 10k you can have as many women as you want. Ukiwa na 2k unabuy mzinga na pesa ya gari asubuhi ( With 2,000 bob you buy her alcohol and money for a ride the next day) 

A certain allegation was also made by a man who shared his story of meeting a girl on Facebook, and their first date. He said she agreed to go to a room after the date

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Men responded that they believe Kenyan women go on dates for free food, and alcohol.

‘ I go on a date knowing I will take pictures for snapchat’ another woman confessed to Maina.

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‘I touched something very cold’ Man whispers to Maina about a leg

Posted on by Maureen Waruinge

 

A man who ignored the advice about not letting social media fool you is regretting it.

His fascinating story begins on Facebook where he said

I dated a chick kwa facebook and I told her I want to know more about you. She said we meet for a date in town.

It all seems innocent right? Wrong!!

The man met the girl and was blown away by her beauty. The two Facebook friends met and after the ‘nice date’ they moved to a lodging for some good time.

So after meeting, I saw she was physically disabled and didn’t tell me that, so when I met her face to face I was taken aback. We went to the room, and she told me to switch of the lights and we started romancing

Maina wasn’t impressed and shouted back ‘Yani, the first time you met her, you took her to a lodging, oh my God what is this?

‘First of all. never take a woman to bed on the first date’ Maina Kageni interjected before the sorrowful man went on with his story about being completely blindsided on social media.

The man was not ashamed one bit and repeated ‘Yes I took her to the room, kwani’

He goes on to add

I touched her then I felt something cold like air, I panicked and asked myself is that real, I felt metal (machuma) I was scared to death. She told me she didn’t have one leg, I was scared I asked her are you a human being, let me tell you Maina I was in shock, so Facebook is all about lies

 

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Man SHAMED FOR CRYING to Maina about being dumped by wife

Posted on by Maureen Waruinge

A discussion about men being deadbeats got one Kenyan man all up in his feelings, and spilling major tea about his relationship.

Classic 105 host Maina Kageni for once was left speechless and never responded. He was hammered for taking sides with women who label men as deadbeats.

Maina sought to know from the ladies this question below to counter the accusations

Ladies: Why do you keep these children away from their fathers? Or is there something they did that you just can’t stand their presence?

This touchy subject led one man to break down in tears, while confessing his emotional life story.

He started by complaining that

She’s a totally different person from the one I met

Adding

I met her when she was pregnant for someone else. I took her in because I love her.

He was so boo’d up he overlooked all the signs there for him to see it wouldn’t work out

she was four months pregnant for another man, she gave birth and then after that she got another child, and started showing signs she doesn’t love me anymore. She left me and moved to Mombasa, but I went there to fight for my family.

 

The ‘marriage’ he had envisioned was no more as realization she had used him set in

She got a job, and left with everything, she took everything, her mother took my children, and told me she wants the kids to go and stay with her for the holidays, I have not seen my children. I have not heard, Maina I want to talk to them, she blocked me, and told me If I go back to Lanet I will be shot.

This apparently was a big issue for him as he tearfully reached out to Maina

It is now two years since, I want to see my children, even what I am getting something small nikule na watoto, I miss my children, right now I am alone, I need my children I don’t know where they are, it hurts I want to talk to my children

What would your advice to this distraught man be? Drop your comments below Classic 105 fam.

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Man MOANS about ‘deadbeat’ ex for not taking care of their child

Posted on by Maureen Waruinge

In an angry tirade, a single dad overwhelmed by bringing up his child alone, complained about the mother of his child being a deadbeat.

He said she has refused to be involved in the child’s life, and moaned to Maina Kageni what his experience has been.

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On Friday, the on air discussion was about deadbeat’s and men responding to the accusations.

A Male caller traumatized Maina when he recounted his horrific experience with a pregnant college student

I had an affair with a lady in College who was pregnant for me. When she was due I am jobless and because she was jobless I told her I would take complete care of our baby.

Can you guess what happened next?

She left for school after deliverying. I thought maybe she needs to study, so once a month she would come back to see the child.

Basically he is very salty about his situation

I used to wash the nappies, buy food. Maina let me tell you at 19 months they came back for the child, Maina do you know that she went to the Childrens court who allowed her to take the child. The worst thing ni amechukuwa ule mtoto not to be with the child but to take to ushago, now the baby is two years, and I have only seen the child once, she abuses me on SMS, and I decided it’s not worth going crazy because of being abused,

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Finishing his tirade he said

I stopped going, I decided never to go back, maybe I will heal if I think I don’t have a child anymore, let me tell you one thing about women, they are good at talking, not like men, some of us men are suffering

Dear Classic 105 fam, is this man the epitome of ‘made your bed, lie on it’?

Drop your comments below.

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‘We will see our children when we feel like it’ men tell side chicks

Posted on by Maureen Waruinge

 

If you are a mpango wa kando stay in your lane ladies.

This was the message men asked Maina Kageni to pass on to Kenyan side chicks who feel they should be paid attention, just like wives.

Their message was

Please tell our ladies with whom we have children out there that we shall come into the lives of those children when the time is appropriate, don’t force the agenda,

That could be when they start schooling, that could even later in their life, don’t rush us.

Maina Kageni turned this into the morning conversation asking ladies if they were comfortable with the message.

Do you agree with them that men you have a child with and he is married with a family of his own, that his time is not your own, atakupimia masaa,

Do you understand where they are coming from ladies?

Several women called in responding with their own life stories with married men

One female caller shocked Maina when she said

It’s true, they will jipanga their time. Like for me nilipata ball and I never knew he was married, he came to see my child when he was two years and from then he comes when he feels like, he sees the child counted times, like four times in five years

And does he support his child financially?

No, maybe when he comes he says maybe nitalipa school fees, unamuwacha tuu, the first time when he say our child was when he was two years, you can’t force him, he will come when he feels like and say where is my daughter?

Another woman also concurred with her story

I have my man and he isn’t bothered being ther emotionally and financially, he has never seen our child. MMy baby is two years now, he has never seen her, he says when the time is appropriate, and when I was pregnant we were together, na kuzaa alikuwa, ehe,

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‘He did the right thing’ Maina Kageni on Sonko revealing Ken Okoths ‘secret’

Posted on by Peninah Njoki

Nairobi Governor Mike Sonko caught many by surprise during the memorial service of the late Kibra MP Ken Okoth, after announcing Ken had a ‘secret’ son.

Sonko, who seemed determined to let the cat out of the bag, stated that the son to Okoth was also named Okoth.

Adding it was only fit for his immediate family to stop pretending he does not exist.

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Nairobi governor Mike Sonko

Prominent radio personality Maina Kageni is however not impressed with Sonko’s outburst, arguing that that was not the right platform.

Was that the right platform to ropoka,

That is information the family had tried to keep away from the public.

Plus Okoth’s mother was also present.

Maina goes on to ask if Sonko did the right thing given that.

The outburst was not on the program .

No one expected thata his outburst hit peoPLE between the eyes.

In conclusion Maina says

People like Sonko have no reverse gear not brakes. I cannot keep a friend like him.

According to word on the street, Ken and his wife Monicah had trouble siring a child of their own.

The two had met while in college more than 20 years ago.

Okoth’s cremation/burial has been temporarily stopped until a decision is made by the court on the paternity of the child alleged to have been sired by Okoth.

 

‘I can’t be kept in the shadows for 11 years’ Side chick speaks up

Posted on by Maureen Waruinge

 

Should the ‘other woman’ ever tell the wife that her husband is cheating and possibly has children out there?

“Side chicks” have been investigated, discussed and explained in many formats.

A woman weighed on on the topic and making that unexpected call to his wife.

All women who have been in relationships have either felt, explored, or entertained and seek revenge in one way: and that’s the “phone call” to the wife or girlfriend of the man.

This side chick called in to the Classic 105 show and narrated her experience of being with a married man and how she handled being introduced forcibly to his family.

Here is the scenario she painted to Maina and Mwalimu:

I’ve been with a man for ten years and we’ve been hiding and we have a baby. So this weekend I’ve been telling him to go and say to his people, but he is not doing it and it has happened for long so I decided to tell the wife and his father.

She explains her thought process when making the dreaded call:

I called them, I spoke to the dad and I find it so selfish to commit with someone for all those years and hide them. At least they know I can’t continue being hidden you can’t gamble with life so that if he wants me I continue, the wife has always known I am in the picture so it’s just formal.

The father said he cannot accept me because of religion, so when he found out I had called his father he is quiet, but at least now I am known and also I want to whether I will continue being with him, and I love him. God will lead us, as for now if he doesn’t want us I will leave his life, I want people to know I have been in his life for the last 11 years.

Dear Classic 105 fam, we want to know from you: Is she right for having called the family?

Are this woman’s motivations pure as she relayed more details about the affair?

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What does a Kenya woman have to do to keep her man faithful Maina asks

Posted on by Maureen Waruinge

The Classic 105 morning conversation was something that many Kenyans discuss either silently or in groups. And not one solution to the problem has been found.

‘I feel I am in season 5 of my life’ Makena Njeri responds to cheating scandal

What am I talking about? Maina Kageni was asked by a lady to ask Kenyan men on air this question below:

What do we have to do for them to remain faithful to us? What do they want? We are ready to listen

What is it that Kenyan men want their ladies to do to remain loyal? Can you please give them a point breakdown.

‘I paid my own bride price but he keeps cheating on me’ Shouts woman

It’s very simple according to the thoughts of Mwalimu Kingangi who says women should do ‘nothing’.

wakae hivo wachane na sisi. They don’t need to do anything, there are things you can’t change.

You know when a man saw you on day one, that is the image they have, do you get it ? So this metamorphosis yako they are not part of it, they still have that mental picture of when they first met you.

A male caller totally agreed with Kingangi saying

‘There is nothing they can do, hakuna even if you whine your waist, there is nothing, men want diversity and we were made that way by the way.’

A woman also supported this point of view leaving Maina skeptical.

Eko Dydda’s wife Cynthia exposes his cheating

‘I am not a man but I can tell you there is nothing that woman can do. I am a living experience.

I have given everything to the one I have, you can give a man everything but he will still go out, it’s only the man who wants, no matter what you do, it’s his vision not yourself.’

A similar view was held by two others in the thoughts below:

‘Listen good, a man was created with a default setting of being a polygamous man you cannot reset it, even the way you bought your phone you cannot reset it, you either work with it or nothing’

How sad is that posed Maina Kageni saying,

Are you telling me that you will just accept and go to bed knowing he is doing things challenged Maina as he asked for more reactions from listeners.

What’s been your experience girls?

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Is it normal for your spouse not to EVER meet your parents asks Maina Kageni

Posted on by Maureen Waruinge

 

Even if you’d like to, you can’t avoid them forever. If you’re lucky, you only have to see them once in a blue moon. If you’re not so lucky, you find yourself needing to engage them a few times a year.

This formed the basis of the morning conversation on Classic 105, where Maina Kageni and Mwalimu Kingangi argued out their points of view.

Ladies why do you live with men, have their babies and they have never seen your parents
How do your parents know where to reach you?

You cannot live with someones daughter and you’ve never met them,

if you’re a lady in one of those arrangement do you ever ask your self what your mother thinks?

His co host Mwalimu Kingangi whispered Maina let me tell you something this a very sensitive topic, out of respect there are lives you need to create.

Not all the times some times you cannot encourage you go every weekend, si umeppewa?

Hao wengine ni wezi, we are talking about those wamepewa na they have takena while, sio kila othe weekend unaenda huko,

Here are comments from listeners, contributing their personal experiences and opinions on the topic.

@kale_vincent..
There’s a reason as to why you’re called Mrs Kale, not the other way round,it simply means you belong to my family now, my parents are your parents. Your family members shouldn’t step in my house the way they want, only mine can

@abillalily.
I know of my neighbour who at his wifes death, and these traditions of ours could not bury his wife because he had never even taken a spoon to his wifes home. that man never appreciated the wifes family.
@pieremutongah27..
I miss those days when our parents organised and planned marriages for us. Hizi tunapanga sisi wenyewe hazipangiki…
@moniqueKimm..
@ItsMainaKageni Women should know that if you haven’t seen your in laws then just know you’re not a wife full stop!! @Classic105Kenya #MainaAndKingangi

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Reasons why even the smartest women love blindly

Posted on by Maureen Waruinge

When it comes to matters of the heart, all of these apparent facts of smart, successful seem to go right out the window. Suddenly, these women are so overcome with the possibility of love that they forget to take their own happiness, both future and present, into account. They settle.

Why is it men make the most intelligent women so stupid?

Former Tv presenter Esther Arunga is trending after it emerged she lied to a court about knowing about the circumstances that led to the death of her son to protect her husband.

Why is it that even when you know in your gut it’s wrong, you still go ahead with it?

Many smart, successful, entrepreneur women continue to make horrible romantic choices.

‘Ivy Wangechi was killed for ignoring Kinuthia’s calls’ – Police

 

WE CHOOSE EMOTION OVER RATIONAL THOUGHT

We ladies are so great at thinking with the plentiful logical facets of our brains… until, of course, we fall in love.

Suddenly, even the most rational among us become hot emotional messes.

Our judgment becomes clouded. No longer can we see the situation at hand with our usually inquisitive minds, but instead we are like lovesick teenagers, thirsty for affection. We can’t see clearly. We just think with our hearts.

WE’RE ADDICTED TO WHAT FEELS GOOD INSTEAD AND IGNORE ALL CONSEQUENCES

Similarities between the murders of Ivy Wangechi and Grace Kagure

We’re so entranced by the feelings of infatuation that we cannot see in the long-term. We live so in the moment.

We can’t see outside of our new love and ourselves. The world becomes constructed of just the two of us — so beautiful and passionate and so utterly idiotic. It’s so unusual for the intelligent woman to think so narrowly.

That is how we get entrenched in these fickle romances: We don’t see the outcome of our poor decisions until it’s too late, and we’re too forgone to go back.

WE CRAVE OUTSIDE VALIDATION

How can this happen to such smart, wonderful women?

We go from being these mighty, awe-inspiring women to these puddles of self-conscious mush. It’s truly horrifying.

We no longer look at ourselves in the mirror and take that as the nod to perfection but instead need to have that same reflection dancing the in the eyes of a man to contain the same meaning.

THE POWER OF LUST OVERCOMES THE POWER OF INTELLECT.

We forget to get to know a man’s mind because we are so stricken with a helpless desire to be forever intertwined with his body.

Esther Arunga admits to lying to cops about sons death to protect husband

WE SUFFER FROM RELATIONSHIP MEMORY LOSS.

We just never learn our lessons.

We continue to make terrible choices and excuses for those choices despite what our obvious histories have clearly shown us.

We pretend the patterns aren’t there. It’s completely bonkers.

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‘Why’? Maina Kageni whispers to Esther Arunga admitting to lying to protect husband

Posted on by Maureen Waruinge

 
Former KTN TV presenter Esther Arunga admitted to misleading Australian police about her son’s death.
She told a court that she had gone to the bathroom on the night of June 17, 2014, only to come out and find Quincy hitting Sinclair in the stomach.
She said, her pastor, co-founder of Finger of God kept saying

THERE’S A DEVIL IN SINCLAIR’S STOMACH, I HAVE TO GET IT OUT.

The 38-year-old lawyer had lied to paramedics that Sinclair had fallen down the stairs.

Arunga is set to be sentenced on Thursday.

Esther Arunga admits to lying to cops about sons death to protect husband

Maina Kageni weighed in on the topic, asking women why they lie to protect their men.

I admire the loyalty aspect 100 per cent, but look at her she is facing sentencing for lying for her man, a forko jembe man, me if that happens I don’t know what I will do.

ARUNGAANDSON
Esther Arunga and son Sinclair

Is this love or stupidity? Maina posed the question.

In this case where a man in your life kills your child and you lie for your man, how?

Girls, have you ever lied to cover up for your man?

And they are never good for you. Why do you defend them, Maina asked.

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Should it matter how many men a woman has had before you asks Mike Mondo

Posted on by Maureen Waruinge

 

 
Judging from online conversations and with friends, the question of lover statistics is as compelling as ever.

It is understandable to be curious what number you are but what will you do if you love this person?

Posh and class at Kirinyaga Governor Anne Waiguru’s traditional wedding -Photos

Too many men are still raised to see bedroom matters as crude competition, in which bedding a woman who has already had a lot of lovers counts less than scoring with a woman who is “hard to get.”

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But I think the average guy’s worry is simpler than that. The more men his girlfriend has slept with, the greater number of lovers to which she can compare his skills. It’s easier to win a contest against two than against 20, he figures. And even easier to rank first when he’s the only one to have ever played the game. No wonder so many men are obsessed with finding a virgin.

A woman called in and told her story.

I have been in 20 relationships

I haven’t found him yet and I can go through another 20 declared a defiant woman.
that’s how I can learn them I have gone through 20 of them and I haven’t found mine.

Shoud it matter asked Mike Mondo to which Mwalimu responded sharply saying

‘My husband’s side chick just gave birth to his child’ Cries betrayed city woman

You know you can have a masterkey but if you are a padlock it’s a problem.
Sasa what is she looking for Kingangi posed to Mike Mondo shocked she has gone through 20.

Congratulations Kingangi said

It’s good for a lady to maintain her values, you now when you go with a man they go with part of you spiritually so minimize that especially when you are a lady. The reason you see most marriages back in the day succeed is because the woman didn’t have many men.

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But again, why is it so important to know an exact number? What difference does it make? Knowing whether a potential girlfriend has ever been in love before is important; discovering (slowly and patiently) how her past experiences have impacted her view of men (for better or worse) is important.

See the day Anne Waiguru’s hubby saved a Kenyan man’s shaky marriage

A male caller differed with men by siding with women on this issue. He said

Don’t be preoccupied with how many men she’s had. My cousin is those ladies who don’t like nonsense. She has been with more than 40 men in the past 15 years, so that should not matter whether she has had many men, just accept that she is with you. Why do we expect women not to have a past like men do?

Another female caller told off men shaming women

Stop being obsessed with my past that’s not your business, leave us alone and keep walking forward. I have 16 men actually probably more and they are all a problem. If I have to get to 100 men so be it. Kwanza Giriama men are terrible, it’s actually all Kenyan men you must sample. Hii kitu sio sabuni, haikwishi.

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‘It will pay off one day’ Kenyan women defend dating many men

Posted on by Maureen Waruinge

 

 

It’s more tricky for a woman to find Mr Right as opposed to a man finding Miss Right.

Those are the sentiments many female Classic 105 callers gave in response to questions about dating multiple men in their lifetime.

A lady called in yesterday talking about people being dumped over petty issues. She explained she would ideally want to explore a lot of men.

She defends her idea of kissing 100 frogs before finding her prince.

This life is all about moving on. You stick to one person you will never enjoy this life, sawa? This world is all about explore, not sticking with one, never, ..I have to explore many men, this world is about exploring, nijue this man is like this, so that if am in my 30’s I know better otherwise I can’t advise my daughter what to do.

Another woman called in saying

You can get married as many times as you wish and find happiness, and that only be done when you correct yourself, even a hundred times. It’s all about happiness, it’s all abut you.

This prompted Mike Mondo to ask

I want to know this morning is that the best way to find happiness, do you have to kiss 100 frogs before you find the one? Is that what you need to do as a woman nowadays?

Here are more comments over the topic

We learn by experience, on average a woman should go through a 100 men that’s when I can learn them, I have gone through 20 of them and I have not found him yet

Do you know why? It’s because it’s not easy to get a good man, okay since I was 26 I have gotten only one good guy and after that I find bad ones and since I have been with ten. I am not done seeing more men.

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Why Kenyan women want men who earn six figure salaries

Posted on by Maureen Waruinge

 

Do you watch the dating show Perfect Match on Ebru TV? Some episodes are so cringeworthy, and it’s all because of what the girls say.

The demands by the young girls to the fellas makes many upset. From wanting a man who drives a Range Rover, to wanting a tall, light skinned man.

Young women are not shying away from declaring that they won’t date a man without a car, or one who doesn’t earn six figure salary.

They have no time for a man who can’t provide for their needs.

Mike Mondo and Mwalimu Kinga’ngi discussed this on the morning conversation.

Mike described why he wanted to open up discussion about slay queen dating demands.

I want to share with you Kingangi, yesterday I went to my child’s school today and I meet these young ladies who were having this conversation that was so interesting it got heated.

They were saying they want a man to have a job, to make six figures, I want him to be driving, to be paying a mortgage.

I was listening and I asked them what about you. So you want all these from the men, what are you bring on the table. We got into this conversation. Isn’t it time men start making lists about women?

Yes you are pretty but aside from your physical attributes what are you bringing?

Those expectation that you put on men, what is it that you are putting on the table?

He opened up discussion to listeners and most who commented were women.

A woman said:

ehh tunaleta watoto so we are like the shamba you cultivate it uweke manure ukiweza fertilizer we carry your babies so that its the main thing in a marriage, we brign children. the key thing in a marriage children are very important, so he has to have everything a woman wants and she brings children, that’s why we are looking for men with six figures, and those who drive big cars na waende shule poa in fact I should go in that house with a leso only.

Another said:

‘I you see its been made for women to get tot that im talking froma point of experiecne you come in you support your husband you help him in everythign you build an empire you have property at the same tike you are a woman you are carryign children and then along the way ehen the an feels comfortable because you hae been supporting thim he goes for another women than he goes for a younger woman. what have men given back aothe than mpango wa kando 

 

Dear Classic 105 fam, what do you think. Drop your comments below.

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