Better to hold on to the devil you know…Maina told about leaving toxic relationships

Maina Kageni’s morning conversation today was a deep dive into a quote from Baba-A term Kenyans affectionately ascribe to politician Raila Odinga.

The former PM had spoken about terrible relationships where he said, “It is unfortunate that after winning their partner’s heart, instead of going on to cherish and love them, some suddenly turn physical. If you cannot reconcile, then, leave.”

This prompted Maina to follow up and ask, “If you are in a toxic relationship why are you still there?Guys, why is it so hard to leave?”

Mwalimu King’ang’i for his part had this to say, “It’s not that easy to leave. Unatoka unaenda wapi? Na mtaambia wazazi nini?”

Many Kenyans chimed in with their own anecdotes. Some said they couldn’t leave because of the kids while others said the fear of criticism from family and society was also a consideration.

Others said that they stayed hoping that their partners would change while other Kenyans said that their peace of mind was more important than keeping a marriage alive.

Some of the comments are below;

Sometimes people stay in toxic relationships because of; 1. The children lose a lot when parents separate. 2. Pressure from the parents, society, and at times the status quo.

Maina your life matters… your happiness matter….hawa wasee wa kuimpress family….what is my family my foot…endelea kuambiwa utauliwa…and you stay…will come and sing safiri salama… Your happiness matters matters…Period…walk away.

Marriage is different from dating unless you understand the two……..is when you can either stay or walkout.

Some people stay in toxic relationships because they feel that something will change. Their partner will finally listen to them, or their dynamic will eventually shift, or they will finally convince their partner to transform a toxic part of them.

They are afraid to stand out and say they made a wrong move hoping things shall change only to end up in the grave or time wasted.

Maina you should first show us your date or wife before you break someones…

True. You should just leave.

Don’t force love….. don’t force yourself in a marriage just pack & go.

Mine I left everything I had and started afresh.

I suggest they do away with the “for worse” part and “for better” remain. 不不不不不Otherwise the worse is more you can wait “for better” to come and die before you taste it. 不不不不

Maina toxic is toxic. There’s no better way to sugar coat it. The problem with some of us is that we count material things instead of walking away. Until something bad happens is when you think of stepping out.

Don’t just walk away from marriages….rem you have a place u call your home but your children have nowhere to go….plz u r hurting us children.

Getting out of a relationship is not easy as you think, neither healing a broken heart too is not easy, so you can not basically believe that walking out is the best option.

There will never be a perfect human ata ukitoka hutapata anyone better than the one you leaving, hold on to the devil you know…

It’s so hard to leave when you’ve been together for a long time, achieved a lot together and children looking up to you, there’s a force that tries to convince you that he/she will change.

Only the faint-hearted ones find it hard to let go like their world revolves around their errant infidel spouses.

A lot of people stay because of the kids forgetting that once those kids grow and leave your house then WHAT?

Leaving is not the best solution, two parties should come together, sit down and decide the way forward.

People are crazy out there. Mimi naleft ata nikiwa na 10 children. Investments and society are not enough reason to sacrifice my peace. I ain’t Jesus y’all. People should normalize lefting toxic relationships in every sect.

People are afraid to be called single ….okay continue staying, we will be here to type RIP.

Toxic relationships don’t just weigh in your mind they show physically. That’s why so many men and women are walking around with stress bellies which are linked to diseases. Matambis don’t lie. Walk away from whacked-up relationships that weigh you down.

Im not trying to make a divorce a happy occasion, but I do believe that if you are in a toxic marriage, a divorce can be a happy occasion.

Utamu wa Ndoa ni kusumbuana Maina anapack anapenda wapi …..No marriage is 100% perfect…..

Why raise a kid in a toxic environment? If things aren’t working out…find a way to co-parent. Peace is essential in every person’s life.

Kids cement the bond.

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Tell my ex-bf who listens to Classic to return the boxers I bought him! Lady tells Maina

Maina Kageni’s morning conversation today was about the suffering many silent men go through-That of womenwho shout at their men!

He asked men what they would do if their woman shouts at them? But the conversation took an unforeseen turn afterMwalimu King’ang’i’s contribution saying, “Ladies, when you do something for your man must you remind him?”

Many men had a lot to complain about with one woman shocking Kenyans when she said that she wanted her ex to return the boxers she had bought him when they were dating.

Check out some more of the comments below;

Wengine apa wanakubuyia socks pair mbili alafu wanaenda wakitangazia watu vile walikuinua kimaisha. Kenyan ladies apana

Not really, anything I give you is yours for the taking, if you leave, leave with everything I don’t wanna see anything of you, that will remind me of you.

Most ladies we do something expecting something in return be it adoration, monogamy, tu uzuri hapa na pale so if it doesn’t work makumbushano inaanza immediately.

These ladies are also forgetting what we men do to them. What if we also decided to expose them as they are exposing us. Maina waambie tumenyamazia mengi.

It’s women nature,….it’s in their DNA,….when everything is rosy and merry she will buy everything for you, wacha mkosane, that’s when ata majirani watajua ulikua unanuliwa boxer.

Ebu ask them Mwalimu. Tenda wema nenda zako!!!

Nashangaa pia… Ata akibuy hatukujua mbona atangaze wakipart ways????

Akikupea mwambie utalipa ndio atasahau.

Yes..men are very forgetful.

These are the generations of Lot’s wife..there so salty

Maina mimi ex wangu nilimnunulia boxers, nguo na watch. I know he listens to Classic 105 so tell him nataka anirudishie hizo vitu zote nilinunua.

Maina mmy kuna siku nilikataa gift then tukakosana kwenye aliland after break up akampee unfortunately walikosana tukapata now the lady alikuwa anaitisha ile gift.

I am a giver, I don’t expect you to return anything, you’ll take me for lunch or breakfast n I’ll be delighted to pay the bill, this is me.

Na wanaume wana nunua magari na wana nyamaza ,sasa saa na chupi ndio unatupigia hii kelele yote?? Wacha kujiaibisha.

Maina I hope now umeelewa these daughters of jezebel, you been having their backs but they really don’t deserve it.

I have a friend of mine, wakikosana na bibi yake. Bibi huchukuwa boxers zote juu ni yy hununulia bwana. Ladies what’s wrong with you? Fortunately, I don’t wear boxers so when I get married, and she happens to take all of them, it won’t affect me.

Someone bring me some JD, I need to fantasize this one well.

Akinunua anyamaze. Time ulimnunulia hatukujua, Sahi mmekosana unataka arudishe. Za nini?

Maina how comes they remember everything they have done on us while us when we part we even talk of that na wametukula pesa since day one ya kudate.

These things they buy for them are done out of goodwill as a husband and wife relationship, then why complain when things go her way.

This tells you why men no longer want to marry.

Women are just noisemakers.

If a woman shouts at you, she has reached her limit and out of frustrations.

Am lucky my woman doesn’t shout at me… Respect them, they will respect you.

They use what they bought for their Men to bully them, intimidate, settle scores and express their outrageous frustrations after realizing that these men cannot live to their expectations and provide to them what they had desired to have in her marriage life.

Personally, I dont know how to shout but I wish I had the guts of such women. You shout to him once it becomes a warning 儭

I know several who shout to their significant other. Sema drama. 梗梗寂t’s a talent to live with a woman like that不不不不不不

It is not our wish to shout at them but the pain we feel.

I mean raise your voice at me… And it’s that.

Never saw my mum shout at my dad, I can’t tolerate the same

Men should first create a peaceful environment if they want peace of mind!!You take your woman through hell then expect her to be calm? Shame on you!!!

You give her shit, that’s exactly what you gonna get in return

Ukimwambia ni loan hawezi kumbuka. Atangoja ulipe.

It’s pain that she has been exposed to by the guy Maina. Being there for him in his thicks and thins alafu on getting the job anamistreat publicly. #Women won’t die in silence.

Women will never assist you and shut mouth, men don’t allow themselves to be assisted by ladies,

Women are wicked and they will die like that.

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If we break up, then the next man you date should take care of our child – Mwalimu King’ang’i

The conversation Maina Kageni started today concerned the issue of men taking care of their kids after they have split from the mother of the child.

He asked, “Guys, how do you expect another guy to take care of your child?”Mwalimu King’ang’i for his part said, “Tukiachana ni hivyo pia huyo mwingine asaidie.”

This prompted Maina to ask Kenyan men, “What makes you think that your responsibilities end when you separate as a couple?”

The comments to this topic were largely split along gender lines, with many men supporting King’ang’i’s viewpoint. Check out the comments below;

It’s a good investment the man will take a mature kid after 18 good years. Investment will have reached maturity.

What if the mother to the child never wanted to let me have the child to take care of…..akaamue kwenda Na yeye?…. Mwingine asaidie pia.

They should learn to stick to one woman not just roaming around with different women then instead of being responsible wanasema eti ni biashara…How now?

Their mothers go with them. Out of sight out of mind.

Am married, with 2 girls but the man of house doesn’t care what we eat, clothes hata school fees I pay for them n he literally has no time for his kids yet they all look alike.

It’s unfortunate but 90% of men worldwide think like King’ang’i. The loser is the child who, often times is never part of the transfer deal.

A true man is measured by his responsibilities. If your union ends with the woman, it does not end with your children. a good man takes care of his kids regardless of their relationship with the woman.

It’s just simple.. I’ll assist my kid if he/she is in my house… How am I even sure if I send the support kitty my son/daughter enjoys it to the fullest without the other man’s kid depending on the same kitty??

Kabisa Mwalimu!! Mkiachana Ni hivyo don’t go bothering someone, Kwanza wakiona umeanza zero Tena with someone else and you happy ndo wanaanza kurudi wakitumia watoi. Songa kusonga na usiangalie nyuma otherwise you’ll end up like Lot’s wife!!!

The best thing to do is the woman should just send the bank slips and other bills for the kid to the father. It appears desperate but for the man to be satisfied let him pay the bills himself so he knows its his role. But most women want to pay it all without involving the man.

It’s the responsibility of a man to take care of his child or children until they are adults

How do you impregnate ladies once you leave them they are married somewhere and you refuse to take care of your kid?? That’s your blood and that cant stop you to support the kid. Guys take your responsibilities coz you started it.

Maina if you impregnate a girl then take responsibility for that child please na ikiwezekana oa yeye that’s all.

Watoto ni wa mama it’s her who knows the true father. Umeskia wanatumia kibiriti. So any letter telling me to pay child support should come with +ve paternity test.

They forget that the kid will recognize the other person as their father, even when they are all grown up. They will never recognize you coz you weren’t there.

This thing is very simple. Women should let go of the kids once they part with their baby daddies. After all, mtoto ni wa baba.

From the moment anakuacha ni kama ata anakuambia huyo mtoto sio wako,hivo mbona nishughulike? Let the new guy shughulkia that kid from there

Tukiachana tumeachana unafa kwanzisha maisha ingine kwenye umeenda mm nisahau

I can’t speak for the rest of the deadbeat but a real man takes care of his children no matter the relationship is with the mother of his child/children.

I think it’s better if both the couple contribute half each of them than men alone, for child’s upkeep.

Maina kama mtu anaonyesha your child’s another man wamkol daddy then wasaindiwe na huyo

These laws confuse me more than Embarambamba

Alaaar!…si mtunyonge bas!

Maina When Take Over The Company You Inherit Both The assets and liabilities,,,,

I was married to three women. The first ex doesn’t want me to see my child so how am I supposed to take care of my kid?

If she refuses you to see your child’s then eikarie atige waaaana.

Don’t take care for smbd you are not allowed to see. That’s how I also stopped taking care of my other kid. Don’t.

Women are being favoured, everyday new tools new law

This is the problem of boys being fathers. If the relationship between the two of you is not working why compromise the relationship between you and your child?

Don’t confuse the child with two different dads. Kama you got married again and you staying with the man let the kid get used to him, they might end up disrespecting your husband coz anajua uyo si babake when the kid is older explain everything let them decide.

Mimi Kenya sihami that’s why I love this country with all my heart

Kenyan men need to know you are not related to your wife but your child is your blood. Take care of that child because one day you will regret why you were not in your child’s life.

They have to take responsibility. But what if the child’s mother hid the child totally out of your sight?? How would you as a father take the responsibility??

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Listen As People Confess To Maina Kageni That They Miss Their Exes

After veteran Uasin Gishu politician Jackson Kibor signed a divorce from his second wife of 51 years after he accused her of deserting their home and mistreating him, the court finally granted him the divorce.

Today at on the morning conversation with Maina Kageni, the discussion was based on that story.

Maina talked of how the wife in an exclusive interview say he can not move on with his life without Kibor despite their divorce.

She said that she still loves his husband, but Kibor doesnt want her any more.

Maina Kageni paused a question today and asked why some people do not want to move on after divorcing their spouses?

Mwalimu, said that there has to be a u-turn and you cant ignore them because you once shared a problem or another and even lived in the same room.

Most male caller who called in said that they miss their exes and given a chance, the would go back to them.

One even said that he loves his ex more than his current wife,

 

lListen to the whole conversation below;

 

I took the Covid-19 vaccine and my wife isn’t speaking to me now-Man complains to Maina

A majority of Kenyans are still skeptical about being vaccinated, something that Classic105 host Maina Kageni has picked up on.

Mr. Kageni was curious to know why and what it would take for Kenyans to get vaccinated?Kenyans were quick to respond, with some still able to joke during a time when the country is going through a lot.

Some of the comments are below:

I will be vaccinated by I need a doctor from Russia and a professional photographer.

How can I get the vaccine and yet am at risk of getting the virus?

Mimi na hiyo vaccine ni kama water and paraffin.

Maina wacha hii vaccine iwekwe kwa pombe Kenyans watapona wote.

The only vaccine I need is any vaccine against poverty.

My question is, are we required to pay?? Or its free???

My fear is I might be that 0.0001% that gets that clot. Am not against it but am not for it until further research.

Mwingine nmeskia akisema haiwezi dungwa strungi.

I will not take it never.

Confused nation.At least 622 public and private hospitals across the country have been approved as Covid-19 vaccination centres in efforts by the state to have many take the jab as soon as possible.

Avoiding vaccination is like ignoring traffic warning road signs. You know what will happen to you ahead of you. It’s only I’m far in the queue hahaha. I’ll be the first to take when it’s available to the public.

l will never ever get vaccinated Maina, wacha nikae hivo, l only trust God pekee.

Ata Magufuli was there, kwa kutrust God pekee.

Watu wareceive jab. Personally ain’t ready for it.

Me, am not ready for the vaccine,,,

Exactly..and this ignorance is what is killing pple…there is no guarantee whatsoever that following the measures even 100% will keep you safe…and fyi the statement prevention is better than cure that one doesn’t seem to understand it..getting the vaccine is preventing!!!

Vaccination is prevention. Prevention is better than cure you’re right… don’t hesitate to get vaccinated if you get the chance.

True that…. but people need to look at the bigger picture about the vaccine….

Maina ebu wish my son happy blessed birthday!!.he is turning 19 yrs today. I am so proud of him and I wish him nothing but the very best in life. Hugs to him.

Where are under 58 yrs of age getting vaccinated?

Kwani Whats the work of vaccine? Its prevention not cure.

Vaccination is also an act of prevention.

Kwani vaccination sio prevention? Ujinga itakuua.

This one is mixed up.

But vaccine is for preventing.

Maina whats making people fear taking the vaccine. Like how fast was is developed… It takes about 5 years and above to develop a good vaccine.And this was so fast. Even if its authorised people still have fears…. and they dont trust the healthcare system

Hata mimi siwezi heri nivae mask, sanitize and avoid crowded places.

Soo much true…ata ya polio was tried around 1938 but was later approved in 1950 apo…

Maina I have been vaccinated but my wife did not want me to get the jab. As we speak she is not talking to me.

Maina I am a healthcare provider for MOH…I have already been vaccinated.. Na saa hii nko job doing gud.

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My dad refuses to take care of us, yet he takes care of another man’s kids – Maina told

Today morning, Maina Kageni touched on a subject that invariably affects many homes in Kenya-Deadbeat dads.
The host was unhappy with men who don’t take care of their kids!

Mwalimu King’ang’i himself was unbothered and countered by saying, “Women have a lot of money so what’s wrong with them raising their own children without support from the baby daddy?”

The responses to the topic by Kenyans were split along gender lines. Some of the best comments are below:

Are we saying that men are there for reproduction purposes only? I don’t think so cause when the kid is born ita like need money for this or that etc.

Maina a responsible man must not be there for financial support but their presence is so important and that’s all that matters a lot.

Women can’t survive minus men that’s y they even can’t sire children alone.. so they must be supported at all costs

Just the same way they are making us mother let them raise their kids Maina…

Kama huwezi Lea mtoi msahau. Mwanaume Ni effort no matter how little it is

Kinga’ang’i is now talking ,

Kama huwezilea mtoto, fungia hizo sperms..

We try our best Sisi kama wanaume but according to you women our best is not the best

What is the best that you try to give? You want us to take care of the babies we sired together including you while you sit there and do nothing ama or while you drink and party your money but expect us to vumilia.

If he is leaving, he should leave and never come back, because I’m not raising the child for him and he thinks he will be back in his life, never!!!

Yeah. If he decides to leave let it be for good hata mimi if I walk out of that marriage am never looking back its once and for all. But am not going to tolerate irresponsible man just cz he is the father of my kids. Oooliskia wapi?

Men and their drama, I can’t believe in the 21st century men complain of raising their children, Men, if you can’t raise your own flesh and blood what can you do??????

Every woman needs a man and we can’t argue on that! Whether they need a man to get financial support or emotional support. It’s not about the money but a MAN!

I want to tell my baby daddy to forget about his kid wacha alishwe na wanaume engine.

Kulishwa na wanaume wengine c issue ata……when the kid will start to question for his/her dad….wat will u have to answer….it will come a point u will need the dad u’re “dumping”and that’s when u will know why kuku haiendi haja ndogo.

Correct…. she is a pastoralist.Let her go for green pastures elsewhere but how long before hair turns gray.

One day he will look for his dad. If not, you will be raising a sissy

Women should accept, adjust and move on. If we have separated and I have a family where do you expect me to get money from? If it’s over it’s over!

Tell this one he should carry his baby na aende nayo me I say if you’re not ready for kids keep horniness with you
Yaani some humans are just deadbeat

My dad left a long time ago only for him to come a few yrs back vile aliskia bado Niko campus nataka fees akapotea tena. Yet he married again na analea watoto WA wanaume wengine

And they should learn that in an easy way the earlier the better.

So the kids seize to eat when you get another family?

In my opinion, Men are not fully baked in matters family and Marriage

Maina, I once slept with a lady and after the chemistry, I gave her money to buy p2 na akaniambia alitumia. Ghasia after 2 months ananiambia ako na ball and maina you still want me to take care of the kid i had not decide to have, wee wacha buaana

Maina, do you know why the devil first approached a woman, then the man listened to a woman. The time a man gives in to a woman is the start of the downfall of a man. Men should stay firm.

I thought we live in a century where men and women are equal??Both parents have equal responsibility when it comes to taking care of the kids!!

These sons of Jezebel nowadays are useless.

And women who don’t care for their kids?

Women use children as bait.

Nani alikuambia umtie mimba?

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Do Kenyan men plan when getting kids like women do? Concerned Maina Kageni asks

Today morning, Maina Kageni brought up an interesting topic. The hots asked whether Kenyan men ever factored the cost of child-raising when dating/sleeping with a woman?

He contrasted the question by pointing out that women often get a child after having done a financial evaluation on whether they can take care of it.

Kenyans were divided on the topic with some saying that even if the kid is unplanned to that they would always have a plate full of food. Others countered this sentiment saying that the hunger we witness on our TV screens can be attributed to such cavalier comments.

Read the comments below:

SISI BORA WATOI……TUNASEMANGA MTOI ATAKUJA NA MALI YAKE NA MUNGU HAWEZI KUNYIMA YAKE

Maina we live by grace I have 4 kids my account is zero, ukipata Leo shukuru mungu, ya kesho ajuae ni mungu.and we have peace. Imani inaondoa Milima.mungu analea.wengi huku hawajui hesabu.

Wanasema mtoto anakuja na sahani yake na hata nguo hakuji nazo. You have to plan and budget or else utakula shida. This is not 1990.

Mimi nilisema ata nikue billionaire only two kids heri ni invest na hawa wawili na savings wasikule shida mimi nilikula nikihustle.

Maina, I guess people should learn to plan.

Mungu akileta mtoto huleta na Sahanai yake.

Ooliskia waapi?Saa hii Maina mtoto nimuexpensive kuliko gari yako. Na wewe unataka watoto wanne ukona kichwa mzuri? These men need to look for money because children are very expensive.

I budget even for zile mboga nakula ugali nazo every week, so u can imagine bigger things lk watoto. Life isn’t just abt siring kids, there are other things to accomplish na ukizaa bila mpango u’ll drag yourself into absolute poverty

Every coin count,Maina sikupenda kwetu so mtoto akikuja tunalea tu. I have two kids one is 13 the other one is 6 years old na ile pesa iko kwa account in thao moja tu.

People should know giving birth is a 20-year project.

Street family wanalea watoto bila kakitu kwani lazima uwe tajiri.

Every normal human being should sire kid’s that they can be able to give the best life! The problem with some men is the mentality “many kid’s make him a hero” yet he can’t provide, shame!

I have three kids na wakizaliwa sikuwa nimesave pesa. I was only working. Watu husema ati mtoto hukuja na sahani yake I don’t believe a word of this.

They do come na sahani only that the plate is empty you have to feel it every day and it get’s tough.

The moment you found out you are pregnant forget about the man and everyone else and ask your self, “Am I able to raise this kid on my own?” If not well start finding an alternative.

Sio sahani,but Ni bahati tu mtu huwa nayo..just like Jungle birds..hazilimi,hazipandi but sir God na maajabu yake meen.
From now saving muhimu…. Hiyo kidogo to ita okolea.

A kid comes with responsibilities. So it’s either you be more serious with life or you’ll regret having it.

Indeed kulea ni plan, na kuwa creative.

The guy is very smart …so we say kulea mtoto ni plan tu.

Imagine having kids there without proper planning,,Githeri chemsha daily, Most Men after pregnancy normally leave responsibility to their wives, sad reality.

That’s where men go wrong leaving everything to the women.

Very few men do help. Wengi huhepa responsibility zao.

Watu wa budget please! Hiyo maneno ya mtoto anakuja na sahani yake utashtuka sana. Nowadays kids are picked up by school bus sikama sisi tulikuwa tunatembea mguu.

Nasikianga watu wakisema mtoto huja nasahani yake. Pata bila mpango ndio utajua sahani ni mzazi hutafuta. If anything ata kama anakujanga nayo, inakujanga ikiwa empty. Plus kama io story ni ya ukweli, wenye tunaona kwa t.v wakifa njaa, kwani yao ilienda wapi?

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Thou shall not get pregnant if you are a side chic – Maina told by Kenyan men


The conversation today touched on an unwritten rule that Maina Kageni had heard. The rule stated that a mistress should never get pregnant when dealing with a married man.

“Guys, is this true? and how does it work?” the morning host inquired. King’ang’i himself had this to say on the matter,“Women don’t just get pregnant, they do that to get money from those children.”

Kenyans as usual split their opinions along gender lines with men supporting men and women supporting women.

Some of the comments are below:

These ladies ni kututesa tu koz so wanajitambua when in danger zone?…mbona ukubali if you know you aren’t in safe DayZ?..wakwede huko,,ummh!!!

Wakule pesa yao…. Wapelekwe shopping london. But kids never. It’s fun they all want to have with this slay Queens… There is no responsible lady out there doing these slay queen things. Ni this lazy girls who want an early ticket out of poverty. Kids should not be your way out.

First of all, this is a trap. Kwani guys we can’t use condoms? Why fall in this then complain? We end up losing everything then.

All over suddenly unfaithful men have become victims. Now, what will the innocent babies be? Then when these babies grow and become something they once again become very proud fathers who were very absent.

A lady will not just get pregnant. Ovulation circles are taught in primary school, plus other preventive measures. A lady will never get pregnant unless she wants to.

Never should they even think of it? Pregnancy is a no-go.

Remove the so-called child support and boom, no woman will get pregnant out there.

Talk of selfish creatures, infidelity should be made an expensive affair. Married men stick to your wives.

Yes, they should not because we care for our family.

That’s RUBBISH!!

Kama huyo mwanaume ako uhai he should be able to take care of his kids because the children are innocent. Kuhanyahanya should be made an expensive affair.

Of the parliament removes the child support clause TRUST ME NO WOMAN WILL GET PREGNANT OUT THERE IF SHE’S NOT MARRIED. They know what they’re doing and we got them 100%.

It takes 2 to tango, ladies are more to be blamed for their actions.

Most women are opportunists. They see payslip for the man, they seduce the man and end up having a kid with then they come out claiming that the man amekataa majukumu.. wanawake Bure kabisaaa.

If she can have the kid, then let her take care of the kid, she should not let her take Panadol for her headache. Kilio cha kujitakia haina kilio.

I know a lady who got pregnant for two pilots…..huyo unataka kuniambia Hana Nia?

Hapo team Tanga Tanga ntakuwa nmewezwa I seh!!..wah

Who wrote that rule? Mababu zetu. We came and found it in existence. Thou shall not get pregnant if you are a side chic.

I support that bill because these women just want your money.

Na sponsors wanataka nini?

Maina there are rules in everything why should you get pregnant what was the agreement.this applies even to ladies real chick let’s not use kids to trap men utabaki pekeako ukilea that’s not Tedybear Ni mtoto.

Maina Kama huyo mwanaume ako uhai he should be able to take care of his kids because the children are innocent. Kuhanyahanya should be made an expensive affair.

 

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Bars in our area are owned by cops! Who will arrest who if the curfew continues?

Mike Mondo brought up the topic of the curfew restrictions that have been in place in the country for the past year due to the Covid pandemic.

The host who has been filling in for Maina Kageni asked whether the curfew had worked? Many Kenyans felt that the curfew should be removed so life can go on but many were skeptical that it would happen under the current conditions.

Read the comments from Kenyans below:

The curfew should be removed, ata ikibaki watu wataendelea kufungiwa kwa club this is just a nonsense country yenye ata haielewi iendako.

The curfew should be removed aki, but anyway it won’t make any changes coz vitu zisharudi normall as far as am concern.

My opinion the president should abandon this curfew because it lacks sense when public rallies are carried out with no masks and no social distance yet restriction are carried out on curfew…

Honestly curfew has no direct impact in compacting covid 19 … nowadays its ur own responsibility to observe the measures laid down.

Dear President do away with the curfew for the sake of our economy.

Mimi ningetaka afungue na kila mtu ajichunge because during the day people still interact.

More people interact during the day than the number at night so he should lift the curfew.

Curfew helps nothing he should put emphasis in other measures like masks, gathering, etc but not curfew.

Sisi tumekuwa tukikunywa the whole night na hii curfew bado.

Kama saii Raila tests +ve curfew ni miezi ingine tano.

How crazy are you? Is Raila Kenya?

Na bado Hata wakiweka curfew noon we must sanitize Bottle with popping cork.

Pia sisi but sisemi ni wapi.

What am suggesting is that His excellence Should lift down some measures today.

I predict 90 more days since baba ako na Covid19 we adapt the new normal.

Afungue tumechoka kama saii Raila tests +ve curfew ni miezi ingine tano

Just wait. You will know what you know you don’t know.

Most of the bars especially hii mtaa yetu are owned by senior police officers…. Who will arrest who???

Even the government is aware. They just pretend nothing is going on. I think is time economy to be opened.

Afungue kila apambane na hali yake hii curfew hakuna kitu inasaidia.

Guys maybe it’s only in big towns where curfew is strict… Here in local places no story for curfew…

Afunge kabisaa, kahaba wakose kazi.

What real to happen, we find that Covid-19 cases starts to rise up in the last week when our president is preparing to update the nation… This is a real scum… We need him to uplift this thing called curfew.

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Would you rather laugh in a bicycle or cry in a Mercedes? Kenyans respond

The trending topic this week has been the explosive interview thatPrince Harry and Meghan Markle had with Oprah Winfrey.

Today morning Mike Mondo touched on the couple’s decision to leave the trappings of money and power to become average people.

The host who is filling in for Maina asked Kenyans whether they would be willingto leave the money and fame to just be with family? “Would you rather laugh in a bicycle or cry in a Mercedes?”

King’ang’i himself was a firm believer in the importance of peace saying, “At times peace is of essence. You just want happiness .”

Kenyans were split in their responses. Check them out below:

Peace of mind is very important I rather ride a bicycle.

Happiness and peace of mind surpasses everything.

Wacha mimi nililie kwa Mercedes this life is too short…….

Family first and the rest will follow.

Values are priceless. Peace is invaluable.

Bicycle works well.

Shida si kuishi na familia..Utaishi yes Handshake but sota kidogo tu; hapo ndo utajua kuwa korona kweli itaisha..

Kusema ukweli we lia kwa mercedes Yako..We only live one life..Kifo na kilio ni same

Lemmi cry in a Mercedes

Peace of mind is everything.. Harry saw the mum went through and he didn’t want a repeat.. Anything affecting your mental health leave it.

To me peace of mind and feeling free is my best feeling.. being a prisoner of my own conscience is my worst thing to experience .. money is needed to live but sometimes its not everything.

Mike crying in a benze has a comfort in it. . aiiiiiiiiihhhhh….

My happiness comes first.

Laugh in A Bicycle.

Mike heri nililie kwa mercedes hakuna mtu ataniona huko ndani.

On A bicycle everyone will see your cry and will let a hand in. Hizo Mercedes utakufia ndani.

Both. I cry on a bicycle coz I want a mercedes, then cry in a mercedes coz am in it

I love my peace of mind , let me laugh on a bicycle.

What a backward thinking in 2021!

Better laugh in a bicycle.

Let me cry in a merc coz its just croc tears.

Please let me just cry in a Mercedes.

Wacha nikae kwaa mkokoteni and im happy.

Both. I cry on a bicycle coz I want a mercedes, then cry in a mercedes coz am in it.

Wacha nipanguze machozi nikiwa kwa Range rover. Money is very important.

Pesa ni mzuri na tamu when you work for it. You also become more responsible cause you know how you got it.. lakini hii ingine ya wizi ama kujiuza hio ni mbaya.. its furahia sikuchahe hizo zingine nimachozi.

I agree with you……money is very important but remember money is not everything.

My love for soft life,weh.. mimi wacha nililie kwa dollars.. peace will eventually come..

Am with king’ang’i’ Hundred points symbol ,I love my peace of mind.

Better have peace than all the wealth full of depression!! Sometimes it’s good to pave way while still in good health at least you can look for your own wealth!Meghan and Harry did the right thing,to walk away from -ve energy.

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“Would you invest in your man?” Maina’s question sets Kenyans on edge

Maina Kageni’s morning conversation went viral today as the man brought up a deeply divisive topic, talking about Kenyan women investing in their men.

“Apparently, women of nowadays don’t invest in their men,” he added.

King’ang’i himself had this to say, “You have to invest in your man. Hiyo pesa ya chama si umpatie afungue biashara.”

The comments came hard and fast with very many diverse opinions that I can’t even summarise cleanly. Read them below:

Maina I see potential in my husband but I don’t see us going far because I earn 600k and he earns 100k, so I need someone who is in the same level as me.”

Letting a woman invest in you is a big mistake. You are handing over the ‘instruments of power’. You will be a puppet in your own family.

The fear that women have is brought about by their peers and the older female gender who always spill the negativity of their past relationship or marriages. Women will always look at the negative cause they can’t forget the bad but the good its easy for them to forget.

Ata wao watupige support,, they should remember that you are everyday’s breadwinner, whether you have money or not.

Most women believe that their money is only for them therefore they can’t invest in their men.

It’s hard for Kenyan women to invest in their men. This because nowadays a lady earning more than her man doesn’t trust him.

Ni Urimu.

The other gender – people who listened to a snake and brought this all sufferings in the world need not to support us. Ile kukutangaza watakutangaza village ata kuku haitakua na heshima having sex in front of you.

Your statement is contradictory. You don’t see any potential in him. Kuna siku utapoteza na wewe uchekwe

This woman is just nuts, coz that’s not love she has it’s like she’s there for money only.

Ladies need to be careful because hawa watu wanaweza kugeuka.

Absolutely true these men are chameleons!!Vigeugeu!

So because you gave him money and invited he can’t breath? If you help someone don’t be thinking he or she will do the same learn to continue doing what you used to do

It all depends on the trust in one another.

Sometimes it’s risky investing in men. My husband lost his job so I bought him a car ndio afanye biashara ya kuuza vitu nayo. Three months later he started treating me badly and I know he is making money. When I ask him for money, anasema hana pesa.

Don’t judge all men, not all the same, but it will depends mnapelekana na yeye aje na wapi . So your own marriage is all about both of you and not to other people out there.

I’ve heard that lady and she’s just speaking with anger and hatred. Before she got married to the man, how much did the guy spend on her? Those white candle dinner amesahau how it costed him? Wakubali kulipa madeni later in life.

This is very scary! It’s very risky investing in these men!! Most of them are very ungrateful!!!

As it’s always been said, a man is most humble when broke.

Like I just said she will remind you till you die did you hear the last caller.

Investing in someone foolishly could be a waste at times, modern day relationships are so unpredictable, u wed today, the next day u find urself in a divorce court, it’ll better writing an agreement so that ur able 2 get back ur resources kukiharibika.

If only you treated us well right from the beginning,we would treat you like kings and even trust you with our ATM cards, but you treated us like crap from the word go. Don’t blame us.

Nowadays ladies please don’t cheat yourself ati treating them well utanyonywa mpaka ubaki.

Hiyo upus siwezi fanya…

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Hata kusalimia dem siku hizi ni pesa! Kenyan men mourn to Maina

Maina Kageni’s topic today touched on an issue that affects most relationships more than any other-that of money. As most know, money goes a long way in a man getting a wife in this county, Maina asked what most men were doing to make that a reality in their lives.

“The reality is mwanaume lazima akuwe na pesa. So as a young Kenyan man what are you doing to ensure you are financially stable?” the host asked. He followed up with the question about whether it was wrong for women to want money?

In a rare occurrence on the show, Mwalimu was in full agreement saying, “Wakati wa kukatia msichana kwa mto iliisha. Wanaume watafute pesa!”

The comments section was filled with both men and women agreeing about the power of money. Most women spoke of its utility in a relationship as a must, while most men begrudgingly agreed it was needed to get into a relationship with a Kenyan woman.

Read all the comments below:

Maina, it’s very WRONG and I don’t condone such tabia. There’s wanting money in a bad faith but I wouldn’t relent in giving it IF whatever the money is intended to do will be of great benefit and purpose not other kosokoso.

We all need money including women kwani sisi tunakula nyama na wao wanakulanga maweee.

Kenyan men mwenye hajaoa ako na shida ju hata kusalimia dem ni pesa.

They should also make theirs, not to over-rely on men’s.

Let them look for their money and love it, not follow what someone’s son toiled for

Maina tumezoea kuachwa kwa sababu tunahustle.

No money no woman.

Maina nani alizaliwa na pesa zikiwa kwa mkono? bure nyinyi mnao abudu pesa.

Not at all, as long as theyre willing to work for it.

Maina ukweli usemwe ata sisi wanaume tunatafuta wasichana wako na iyo pesa wanataka.

And what is the lady bringing in the relationship? Love & money go hand in hand. Men are also not stupid nowadays our status should equate. Tafuta pesa pia if you want to be loved.. the biggest noisemakers in a relationship are broke ladies dating wealthy guys.

Tunatafuta wale pia wako na Pesa pia.

Maina let the truth be said, a guy could be looking for a wife but the girl he finds is looking for a bank account

No one, hawa watu siku hizi hata kumwambia coffee date utamtumia fare ya kuja iyo date.

Ladies hate poverty! The reality is men have to look for money. Hiyo nyumba ikiwa na pesa you will be treated very well.

Maina Pesa Ni Sabuni Ya Roho. MAINA No Money No Love. Maina I am Proud My Beloved Wife Njeri Amenipenda Na Sidhani Kama Ataniwacha Because Nilitengeneza Pesa Mapema Men Invest While You’re Young No Shortcut!!!!!!!!

They should come in your life the way you are and help you with ideas on how to get more money. It’s good to have a visionary lady to help you get to where you are going.

The question is “Do men love poverty?” Wanaume pia SKU izi want independent women wasichapwe na bill zote.

Respect your woman and she will help you grow together. Sup pesa

I just want to tell Kenyan men to invest in businesses when they are young and work hard. There is no shortcut!

I just want to tell Kenyan men to invest in businesses is so clich矇.

No one is allergic to money! Everybody wants to live a good life. Money in not everything but it helps to get things done. I have dated a broke man but I would never marry a poor man.

The world has changed and both man and woman are all providers and in this case they have to share responsibilities, if one side is left to look for money we put relationship at risk. Money is good but putting it as the basis and foundation of relationship is risky.

I will find that money and go look for hiyo wa mtoni koz they still exist and see how you will handle being pretty…broke and without a man to marry.

Maina pesa ya kuoa haitoshangi. You’ve got to marry when you feel ready as you keep building your future. Ukisema Ni kutafuta, utaishi kutafuta pesa.

Mwanaume alikuwa akichukuwa dem anaenda naye mtoni alafu anamwambia,,” hii bahari yote,, ni ya babangu… Ukinikubalia,, utakula samaki Kila siku..

Kwani iliandikwa wapi pesa na mapenzi ni kitu kimoja

Maina, every woman dating a broken man, has a Sponsor somewhere who takes care of her needs.

Venye nilikua peke yangu bila pesa nikipata nikae peke yangu kuna shida kweli??? Must I have a girlfriend???

Money is the root of all evil. Some of us come from the most broken homes just coz of money. Brothers don’t be stressed out by these broke women. Find your gift, it’ll give you your value and people will always pay for value.

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Oolisikia wapi!? Lady tells Maina after asking why women don’t want to build with their men

The morning conversation today was one that many young men will thank Maina for having. It was a follow-up from yesterday’s conversation where most men where in general agreement that most women go for established married men.

Mwalimu King’ang’i himself asked, “Why can’t women of today start from scratch with their own man? Who are these young men going to marry?”

Maina himself asked the ladies the question,“Is there time to start from scratch?”

This is arguably one of the most commented topics that Maina and King’ang’i have brought up. Some of those responses are below:

The generation of ladies who have found their fathers making it big they forget that their mothers did help that man to be successful. They forget to ask their back history Kama wewe hujajinunulia hata simu ya mkono unaexpect aje kupata mtu ame make it in life.

Yes, I agree that money is important.. But as a parent would you encourage your 20-year-old daughter to be involved with someone over 40 or 50, we need to think about it that way.

The ladies starting from scratch with men were recently called “Bob the builders” that after building a future together from scratch the non-bob the builders will snatch them from Bob the builders cause they believe successful men like women who don’t know their struggles.

The lack of time to start from scratch for our young generation both boys and girls is the reason we have so many singles, it’s the monster eating our society from all angles. We need to talk to our youth to stick together for better for worse.

And that’s precisely where these young ladies miss the point. Whatever that sponsor has been amassed over a long period of time and his wife contributed incredibly. He’ll date you, buy you that palatial house and that sleek car but when things go south he’ll confiscate…

Maina, ladies want a shortcut in life, they are marrying those financially stable men for a reason and if one day those men will go broke they’ll run away from them cos hawana haja nao tena, they were after their money not love.

As if men are not marrying financially stable women this day?

…everything and throw you out of that house. And probably he has impregnated and infected you with HIV. But exactly the opposite we’ll happen when it doesn’t work with their wives. They’ll get divorced and share those assets equally. So who’s using who here.

Wacha nimpate na kimansion huko Runda na ki V8 tulie huko kuliko nimpate Githurai tucheke huko.

These men are unpredictable mutaanza na ye chini akiomoka utalilia choo.

Men should shine aways from earlier marriage and look for money…..koz after this ladies wamefika 28+ they will be looking for you not you looking for them.

Good morning,,,They want the good life without any struggle.

Maina ati start from scratch,how?yani niteseke Kwa nyumba ya wazazi wangu alafu niende kuteseka Kwa mwanamume,uliskia wapi?

Maina hii gender haina huruma, imagine savings ya 1yr anakam anakula in 1day.

We will marry the rejected ones.

From experience, nope there is no time to start from scratch.

Maina for me ni kutafuta pesa kwanza halafu kuoa baadaye. Sina haraka.

Women of nowdeiz can’t start frm scratch coz wanachochwa na mabeste zao wenye wana live fake life pale social media.

Oooliskia wapi? Wanataka kuchoka?

Maina I met a guy who was so broke and had rent arrears for months I paid for it. I am the first woman who took this man for dinner, I taught him how to drive but when he got the money I was thrown out to stay with the dogs.

Madem huwa wanataka wasee wako na kakitu boss.

Kama hauna pesa kaa na mama yako. Maina I am single na nataka mtu akona pesa. Maneno ya kustart from scratch iliisha.

Hawa wanaume wakipata pesa huwa wanachange. I was dating this guy for 7 years tulikuwa tunakula ugali na chumvi akapata pesa kidogo akaendea msichana wa form two. I left Maina.

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Her man used to cook, clean the house and clothes (even panties) – Maina told shocking story

Maina Kageni’s topic today was about men who have been sat on by their significant others. The conversation was a fiery one with many men responding with their crazy stories.

He asked, “Today we talk about ‘wanaume wenye wamekaliwa’. Ladies, are you overly harsh on your man? because there has to be a reason. Do these men marry devils or do they create devils?”

Mwalimu King’ang’i said, “Wanaume wengi sana wamekaliwa.” #MainaAndKingangi

The comments came in hard and fast. They are below:

Hatujakaliwa ni kupenda amani bwana.

The men contributes so much in this behavior from their ladies from time they get married. No man gets married to a lady who he knows atamkalia chapo.

In marriage, RESPECT should be paramount. If FEAR dominates then know all isn’t well. A man shouldn’t never fear going into his own house.

Some ladies will visit friends and neighbours, see something good in those houses then they come back and put pressure on you to buy. It becomes a point of attack.

Maina, in today’s topic. There’s alot of toxicity in marriage institutions. People get into marriages with past issues and problems and subject them to their partners. And hence leads me to say both men and women are responsible

…… Are responsible for what happens in harshness and high level of mistrust and control. We’re all responsible. It’s sad. I’m not yet married. It’s evidence of how things started and where they’re headed.

Kuna like 5% of men wamekaliwa literally whom hakuna dawa but the 95% problem is you let her call the shots occasionally, eventually inakua the norm and she convinces herself yeye ndio kusema, to avoid conflict you let her be unavumilia, what keeps men in the marriage is the kids!

There’s nothing like ‘kukaliwa’That’s toxicity! Alot of women out here are toxic, narcissist but we don’t address it! Society has groomed toxicity in women they call it ‘kukaliwa.’

Kukaliwa starts when u start pulling a chair for her in the name of being romantic

Majority don’t know wamekaliwa, outsiders wanaona, they mistake it for romance…..

It’s we men who let our women kalia sisi. It’s how we treat our women that makes them revenge on us..

Ukiona mwanaume ana complain amekaliwa jua tu yeye ndo shida.

How does a lady sit on you??

Hahahaa kweli tumekaliwa si uongo.

As a man, I cannot be bossed around by my wife…
Ephesians 5.33: Wife, respect your husband, PERIOD!
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Wanawake wengine hukalia mabwana zao juu ya hizi vikundi vya wamama. Nilienda kujaribu hizo vitu on my husband and it almost ruined my marriage.

I have NEVER approved those wanawake chamas coz they are recipe for marriage breakups…..if men knew what happens in those chamas they would collapse and DIE, kwanza if it’s leaders are legendary divorced ladies kwako kutawaka moto.

This lady should be invited to this year’s MEN’S conference coz she has earned our respect, kayamba kwake
Some do it because of the in-laws kwanza kama ukona in-laws who are always after your Hubby’s money trust me utamkalia.

But why would a man accept kukaliwa for heavens sake.

Marriage/relationships last longer when you don’t tell people your business.

I have been married for 11 years and my husband cooks his own dinner. I still follow the advice was given by other women.

There is also that group of men who like that sort of treatment..they love being dominated by their wives coz it gives them pleasure.

This thing called marriage is so problematic. Not unless you stop listening to what people say and do your s h I e t how you want them done

And she will never see that plot unless ajinunilie. Ukiona mwanamme amekubali kukaliwa ako na plan, the moment his timings will be right, huyo mwanamke atapiga simu hapa tu kusema all men are dogs.

Then usikie some aunts pressuring sons of Abraham to get married. Nefa efa…

These are the kind of things that makes young people hate marriage!

According to our tradition that’s a taboo.

Ask them why they’re being kaliwad they won’t answer coz wanajua hao ndo shida.

I know of a couple where the wife was the one controlling her huzy’s money mpaka alikuwa na his ATM so the man lied how much he earns and wud do m-banking, she was dramatic but funny enough he used to bembeleza her mum nyamaza.

Maina this gender is weak and they respond to how men treat them..we respond to how they treat us.

Maina this men claiming vile wamekaliwa are devils themselves vichwa ngumu sana don’t think the wives are mad nivile ameonyeshwa.

Men go through so much in silence! We love our women but they tend to take advantage of that fact!

Men create devil in their women. I personally know of a man who wakes up takes kids to school with his own car after the wife sold the kids school car and there is nothing he can do shopping ye ndio huendea soko.

I have been to many chamas,for more than 10 yrs,na sijawahi sikia kitu kama hiyo. Ama ni chama gani are they talking about?

Maina the men contribute so much in this behavior from their ladies from time they get married. No man gets married to a lady who he knows atamkalia chapo.

A lady was telling me that his dude would cook, clean the house and clothes (even panties) simply because he used to come over on weekends and the lady was working.

One day the lady found the guy with another lady in this house

In marriage RESPECT should be paramount. If FEAR dominates then know all isn’t well. A man shouldn’t never fear going into his own house.

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Why do wives forgive cheating husbands but not vice-versa? Maina asks Kenyans

The morning conversation today touched on cheating between spouses. Maina raised the topic by discussing how cheating is treated differently when done by the husband versus when its done by the wife.

He gave the example below, “I have a friend who messed up. It got to a point where the wife called the other woman. Thing is they are still together even after him cheating. Ladies, do you know if it was the other way round he would not forgive you?”

The comments section was split along gender lines with most men defending the double standard while women called it out.

Check out the comments below:

Maina that’s so true……me myself I had ka girlfriend 2 years ago and ssa ikafika time ya kunyanduana …I realized she wasn’t a virgin and I had to insist who did it ….alinishow uyo kijana….nilimdump immediately but mm aliishi kupata na tuschana uko analia anamaliza story.

Maina let me ask you, would you like a key that opens many padlocks (master key) or a padlock that is opened by many keys, same thing applies to men, a man can have 6 women (master key) while a woman can’t have 6 men married to her. If you know you know what I mean.

To men its acceptable to cheat since were are easily moved by everything we see but to women its purely unacceptable and abomination to cheat.

Respect that lady she is blessed with a golden heart coz I can’t forgive.

Society has glorified cheating among men.

Maina revenge is a dish best served cold. I tried talking to my partner, praying but he never changed so I did to him what he did to me.

Tit for tat…no one will leave this world Alive

Tit for Tat has and never will be a fair game…

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Men, what do you tell your daughters and sisters about cheating? Concerned Maina asks

Today morning, Maina Kageni spoke on the topic of rampant cheating in Kenya.Maina asked men what they would tell their daughters and sisters as far as that issue went?

“Men will always cheat! So if I bring in another woman let it be drama free. I have enough love to share between the two women.Guys, Is this what you tell your daughters and sisters?” he asked.

The comments from Kenyans were hilarious and reflected the different ways of thinking among the citizenry. Some of them are below:

Good morning Maina, it will always be my duty to set a good example to my kids by showing love, respect, care, LOYALTY et. al to my wife and that will be emulated by them(my kids) when their time to have their own families come.

Women are not supposed to be used. She is also someone’s daughter. Kenyan women deserve better.

Let them carry themselves in a manner that manifests their worth for better. What I see here is attention seekers with butts and bodies, beauties as the tools of trade. Stop commoditizing your bodies and you will indeed get better.

Cheating ni kawaida, it is just an exercise-Kenyan men tell Maina

What exactly is her definition of being used?? Am listening

Kuna sababu mbona you were used..

If they really deserved better, let them behave like they deserve better. Women themselves are acting so desperate and that is where the cosmic balance comes in and men show them the way. women are their own enemies

Women hate lies, just tell her the truth and everything will be okay.

Some truths only make things worse..she can’t handle…

Disagree, no man can survive in marriage if your duty is to be honest in everything with your wife, women love men who tell lies time to time

We take some truths to our graves…some things just can’t be told..

Who do men cheat with? Women of course and aren’t these women people’s wives? So the blame goes both ways.

The first thing that attracts a man to a woman is her beauty and sexuality when he is not satisfied he will go looking for satisfaction.

Uganda women are husband snatchers because they are taught how to treat a man

Men or women, all cheat, have you ever asked yourself why ladies cry on their wedding Ring day? They know Settling down with one man is not easy

We have to tell them the reality on the ground, men we have enough love to share between women if as a father I can love my daughter n the mother at the same time, it’s proof I can share the love equally. n this is different from the ladies, akipata kijana, mapenzi yote kwake.

You mean you have enough “lust” to share between the two women???

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Cheating ni kawaida, it is just an exercise-Kenyan men tell Maina

Maina Kageni’s morning conversation today touched on the hot-button topic of infidelity. He asked women why they were normalising the behaviour in Kenya?

“Ladies let me tell you if a man cheats on you, he will do it again and again. Why are we normalizing infidelity?”

King’ang’i agreed with one woman who called in and said, “Maina, it’s not a matter of if he will cheat on you but when. I believe that my man will always cheat. He has even fathered a kid outside but the fact remains I will not leave him.”

“That’s a very wise woman,” King’ang’i noted.

Kenyans themselves had their own interesting opinions on the matter. Some of those comments are below:

Sometimes ni shetani but we do apologised for cheating..ladies be smart your husband can’t cheat you.

We will not normalise cheating, if he cheats thinking others also cheat atshangaa feri. Ukiwa mwizi usifikirie kila mtu ni mwizi!

A man won’t cheat on his loyal lady. It means that there is always a genuine reason behind this. Women, please be faithful for us to pay you back.

Coz, kama kalamu imejaa wino lazima isaidie homework ya jirani.

Once he cheats I begin having trust issues eventually we’ll be done.

Men are always men no matter what.

Ni kawaida na si cheating at all. Ni exercise.

“That woman is very wise! She dealt with that situation very well. So ukiona huyo mwanamke akisema hivyo jua wametoka mbali sana na bwana yake.

Cheating is highest level of betrayal this undermines trust and can destroy marriage. If you can’t be faithful then stay single

“Men will always cheat that lady is very wise. Sharing is caring and we have a lot of love to give.”

There is this discussion on Classic 105 and it kinda makes sense. Why do women always believe that their men have other women on the side? Like a man cant be out with the boys without there being a woman involved?

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Maina is impressed with NMS county leader Badi but Kenyans are still a divided bunch

Today morning Maina Kageni’s conversation was a deviation from his regular bit on relationships. The man brought up the topic of the performance ofMajor General Mohamed Badi.

The general has been runningNairobi Metropolitan Services (NMS) since Sonko’s deal with Uhuru in February this year and Maina has been very impressed.

“Badi is the new sheriff in town, is getting things done and he has been in office less than a year. Guys, tell me one person who comes close to Badi in terms of development?” Maina asked.

Maina Kageni
Maina Kageni

The majority of Kenyans praised the military man’s performance but some weren’t as keen on his performance and thought it was all hype.

Comments from the Kenyans are below:

I’m happy with the way this man has performed. Mungu amubariki kabisa and may God continue guiding him.

I want to tell Badi congratulations for what he is doing. These leaders need to work hard for their money

Let’s be honest he has done a lot. Nairobi ilikuwa inakaa vibaya sana. Badi is doing an amazing job.

What is all this hype about Badi? Whatever he’s doing is just PR! Iko wapi hosipitali amejenga?

If we have people like him in the barracks they should come out because he is doing a great job.

Not close yet there UHC medical professionals that have not been paid for over 4 months
What is he doing about it ..

No one,wasted resources with the benchmarking governors,who have done nothing. Thumbs up to the guy.

Unless he addresses roadside dumping in eastlando we aren’t seeing things done

Hamna kitu huyu jamaa amefanya. PR mamenos.

Kidero never performed, he was not replaced by army men, this is tribalism

What exactly has he done so far? I’m still seeing garbage everywhere, pot holes in my hood, insecurity bado iko, ni nini amefanya?

He has done absolutely nothing

Oparanya

This shouldn’t be a topic. NMS is an illegal entity and anything they shouldn’t be praised by any Kenyan of sound mind.

No Badi.

I like how the city is now clean& a little decongested!
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