“Would you invest in your man?” Maina’s question sets Kenyans on edge

Maina Kageni’s morning conversation went viral today as the man brought up a deeply divisive topic, talking about Kenyan women investing in their men.

“Apparently, women of nowadays don’t invest in their men,” he added.

King’ang’i himself had this to say, “You have to invest in your man. Hiyo pesa ya chama si umpatie afungue biashara.”

The comments came hard and fast with very many diverse opinions that I can’t even summarise cleanly. Read them below:

Maina I see potential in my husband but I don’t see us going far because I earn 600k and he earns 100k, so I need someone who is in the same level as me.”

Letting a woman invest in you is a big mistake. You are handing over the ‘instruments of power’. You will be a puppet in your own family.

The fear that women have is brought about by their peers and the older female gender who always spill the negativity of their past relationship or marriages. Women will always look at the negative cause they can’t forget the bad but the good its easy for them to forget.

Ata wao watupige support,, they should remember that you are everyday’s breadwinner, whether you have money or not.

Most women believe that their money is only for them therefore they can’t invest in their men.

It’s hard for Kenyan women to invest in their men. This because nowadays a lady earning more than her man doesn’t trust him.

Ni Urimu.

The other gender – people who listened to a snake and brought this all sufferings in the world need not to support us. Ile kukutangaza watakutangaza village ata kuku haitakua na heshima having sex in front of you.

Your statement is contradictory. You don’t see any potential in him. Kuna siku utapoteza na wewe uchekwe

This woman is just nuts, coz that’s not love she has it’s like she’s there for money only.

Ladies need to be careful because hawa watu wanaweza kugeuka.

Absolutely true these men are chameleons!!Vigeugeu!

So because you gave him money and invited he can’t breath? If you help someone don’t be thinking he or she will do the same learn to continue doing what you used to do

It all depends on the trust in one another.

Sometimes it’s risky investing in men. My husband lost his job so I bought him a car ndio afanye biashara ya kuuza vitu nayo. Three months later he started treating me badly and I know he is making money. When I ask him for money, anasema hana pesa.

Don’t judge all men, not all the same, but it will depends mnapelekana na yeye aje na wapi . So your own marriage is all about both of you and not to other people out there.

I’ve heard that lady and she’s just speaking with anger and hatred. Before she got married to the man, how much did the guy spend on her? Those white candle 🕯 dinner amesahau how it costed him? Wakubali kulipa madeni later in life.

This is very scary! It’s very risky investing in these men!! Most of them are very ungrateful!!!

As it’s always been said, a man is most humble when broke.

Like I just said she will remind you till you die did you hear the last caller.

Investing in someone foolishly could be a waste at times, modern day relationships are so unpredictable, u wed today, the next day u find urself in a divorce court, it’ll better writing an agreement so that ur able 2 get back ur resources kukiharibika.

If only you treated us well right from the beginning,we would treat you like kings and even trust you with our ATM cards, but you treated us like crap from the word go. Don’t blame us.

Nowadays ladies please don’t cheat yourself ati treating them well utanyonywa mpaka ubaki.

Hiyo upus siwezi fanya…

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Hata kusalimia dem siku hizi ni pesa! Kenyan men mourn to Maina

Maina Kageni’s topic today touched on an issue that affects most relationships more than any other-that of money. As most know, money goes a long way in a man getting a wife in this county, Maina asked what most men were doing to make that a reality in their lives.

“The reality is mwanaume lazima akuwe na pesa. So as a young Kenyan man what are you doing to ensure you are financially stable?” the host asked. He followed up with the question about whether it was wrong for women to want money?

In a rare occurrence on the show, Mwalimu was in full agreement saying, “Wakati wa kukatia msichana kwa mto iliisha. Wanaume watafute pesa!”

The comments section was filled with both men and women agreeing about the power of money. Most women spoke of its utility in a relationship as a must, while most men begrudgingly agreed it was needed to get into a relationship with a Kenyan woman.

Read all the comments below:

Maina, it’s very WRONG and I don’t condone such tabia. There’s wanting money in a bad faith but I wouldn’t relent in giving it IF whatever the money is intended to do will be of great benefit and purpose not other kosokoso.

We all need money including women kwani sisi tunakula nyama na wao wanakulanga maweee.

Kenyan men mwenye hajaoa ako na shida ju hata kusalimia dem ni pesa.

They should also make theirs, not to over-rely on men’s.

Let them look for their money and love it, not follow what someone’s son toiled for

Maina tumezoea kuachwa kwa sababu tunahustle.

No money no woman.

Maina nani alizaliwa na pesa zikiwa kwa mkono? bure nyinyi mnao abudu pesa.

Not at all, as long as they’re willing to work for it.

Maina ukweli usemwe ata sisi wanaume tunatafuta wasichana wako na iyo pesa wanataka.

And what is the lady bringing in the relationship? Love & money go hand in hand. Men are also not stupid nowadays our status should equate. Tafuta pesa pia if you want to be loved.. the biggest noisemakers in a relationship are broke ladies dating wealthy guys.

Tunatafuta wale pia wako na Pesa pia.

Maina let the truth be said, a guy could be looking for a wife but the girl he finds is looking for a bank account

No one, hawa watu siku hizi hata kumwambia coffee date utamtumia fare ya kuja iyo date.

Ladies hate poverty! The reality is men have to look for money. Hiyo nyumba ikiwa na pesa you will be treated very well.

Maina Pesa Ni Sabuni Ya Roho. MAINA No Money No Love. Maina I am Proud My Beloved Wife Njeri Amenipenda Na Sidhani Kama Ataniwacha Because Nilitengeneza Pesa Mapema Men Invest While You’re Young No Shortcut!!!!!!!!

They should come in your life the way you are and help you with ideas on how to get more money. It’s good to have a visionary lady to help you get to where you are going.

The question is “Do men love poverty?” Wanaume pia SKU izi want independent women wasichapwe na bill zote.

Respect your woman and she will help you grow together. Sup pesa

I just want to tell Kenyan men to invest in businesses when they are young and work hard. There is no shortcut!

I just want to tell Kenyan men to invest in businesses is so cliché.

No one is allergic to money! Everybody wants to live a good life. Money in not everything but it helps to get things done. I have dated a broke man but I would never marry a poor man.

The world has changed and both man and woman are all providers and in this case they have to share responsibilities, if one side is left to look for money we put relationship at risk. Money is good but putting it as the basis and foundation of relationship is risky.

I will find that money and go look for hiyo wa mtoni koz they still exist and see how you will handle being pretty…broke and without a man to marry.

Maina pesa ya kuoa haitoshangi. You’ve got to marry when you feel ready as you keep building your future. Ukisema Ni kutafuta, utaishi kutafuta pesa.

Mwanaume alikuwa akichukuwa dem anaenda naye mtoni alafu anamwambia,,” hii bahari yote,, ni ya babangu… Ukinikubalia,, utakula samaki Kila siku..

Kwani iliandikwa wapi pesa na mapenzi ni kitu kimoja

Maina, every woman dating a broken man, has a Sponsor somewhere who takes care of her needs.

Venye nilikua peke yangu bila pesa nikipata nikae peke yangu kuna shida kweli??? Must I have a girlfriend???

Money is the root of all evil. Some of us come from the most broken homes just coz of money. Brothers don’t be stressed out by these broke women. Find your gift, it’ll give you your value and people will always pay for value.

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Oolisikia wapi!? Lady tells Maina after asking why women don’t want to build with their men

The morning conversation today was one that many young men will thank Maina for having. It was a follow-up from yesterday’s conversation where most men where in general agreement that most women go for established married men.

Mwalimu King’ang’i himself asked, “Why can’t women of today start from scratch with their own man? Who are these young men going to marry?”

Maina himself asked the ladies the question, “Is there time to start from scratch?”

This is arguably one of the most commented topics that Maina and King’ang’i have brought up. Some of those responses are below:

The generation of ladies who have found their fathers making it big they forget that their mothers did help that man to be successful. They forget to ask their back history Kama wewe hujajinunulia hata simu ya mkono unaexpect aje kupata mtu ame make it in life.

Yes, I agree that money is important.. But as a parent would you encourage your 20-year-old daughter to be involved with someone over 40 or 50, we need to think about it that way.

The ladies starting from scratch with men were recently called “Bob the builders” that after building a future together from scratch the non-bob the builders will snatch them from Bob the builders cause they believe successful men like women who don’t know their struggles.

The lack of time to start from scratch for our young generation both boys and girls is the reason we have so many singles, it’s the monster eating our society from all angles. We need to talk to our youth to stick together for better for worse.

And that’s precisely where these young ladies miss the point. Whatever that sponsor has been amassed over a long period of time and his wife contributed incredibly. He’ll date you, buy you that palatial house and that sleek car but when things go south he’ll confiscate…

Maina, ladies want a shortcut in life, they are marrying those financially stable men for a reason and if one day those men will go broke they’ll run away from them cos hawana haja nao tena, they were after their money not love.

As if men are not marrying financially stable women this day?

…everything and throw you out of that house. And probably he has impregnated and infected you with HIV. But exactly the opposite we’ll happen when it doesn’t work with their wives. They’ll get divorced and share those assets equally. So who’s using who here.

Wacha nimpate na kimansion huko Runda na ki V8 tulie huko kuliko nimpate Githurai tucheke huko.

These men are unpredictable mutaanza na ye chini akiomoka utalilia choo.

Men should shine aways from earlier marriage and look for money…..koz after this ladies wamefika 28+ they will be looking for you not you looking for them.

Good morning,,,They want the good life without any struggle.

Maina ati start from scratch,how?yani niteseke Kwa nyumba ya wazazi wangu alafu niende kuteseka Kwa mwanamume,uliskia wapi?

Maina hii gender haina huruma, imagine savings ya 1yr anakam anakula in 1day.

We will marry the rejected ones.

From experience, nope there is no time to start from scratch.

Maina for me ni kutafuta pesa kwanza halafu kuoa baadaye. Sina haraka.

Women of nowdeiz can’t start frm scratch coz wanachochwa na mabeste zao wenye wana live fake life pale social media.

Oooliskia wapi? Wanataka kuchoka?

Maina I met a guy who was so broke and had rent arrears for months I paid for it. I am the first woman who took this man for dinner, I taught him how to drive but when he got the money I was thrown out to stay with the dogs.

Madem huwa wanataka wasee wako na kakitu boss.

Kama hauna pesa kaa na mama yako. Maina I am single na nataka mtu akona pesa. Maneno ya kustart from scratch iliisha.

Hawa wanaume wakipata pesa huwa wanachange. I was dating this guy for 7 years tulikuwa tunakula ugali na chumvi akapata pesa kidogo akaendea msichana wa form two. I left Maina.

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Her man used to cook, clean the house and clothes (even panties) – Maina told shocking story

Maina Kageni’s topic today was about men who have been sat on by their significant others. The conversation was a fiery one with many men responding with their crazy stories.

He asked, “Today we talk about ‘wanaume wenye wamekaliwa’. Ladies, are you overly harsh on your man? because there has to be a reason.  Do these men marry devils or do they create devils?”

Mwalimu King’ang’i said, “Wanaume wengi sana wamekaliwa.” #MainaAndKingangi

The comments came in hard and fast. They are below:

Hatujakaliwa ni kupenda amani bwana.

The men contributes so much in this behavior from their ladies from time they get married. No man gets married to a lady who he knows atamkalia chapo.

In marriage, RESPECT should be paramount. If FEAR dominates then know all isn’t well. A man shouldn’t never fear going into his own house.

Some ladies will visit friends and neighbours, see something good in those houses then they come back and put pressure on you to buy. It becomes a point of attack.

Maina, in today’s topic. There’s alot of toxicity in marriage institutions.  People get into marriages with past issues and problems and subject them to their partners. And hence leads me to say both men and women are responsible

…… Are responsible for what happens in harshness and high level of mistrust and control. We’re all responsible. It’s sad. I’m not yet married. It’s evidence of how things started and where they’re headed.

Kuna like 5% of men wamekaliwa literally whom hakuna dawa but the 95% problem is you let her call the shots occasionally, eventually inakua the norm and she convinces herself yeye ndio kusema, to avoid conflict you let her be unavumilia, what keeps men in the marriage is the kids!

There’s nothing like ‘kukaliwa’That’s toxicity! Alot of women out here are toxic, narcissist but we don’t address it! Society has groomed toxicity in women they call it ‘kukaliwa.’

Kukaliwa starts when u start pulling a chair for her in the name of being romantic

Majority don’t know wamekaliwa, outsiders wanaona, they mistake it for romance…..

It’s we men who let our women kalia sisi. It’s how we treat our women that makes them revenge on us..

Ukiona mwanaume ana complain amekaliwa jua tu yeye ndo shida.

How does a lady sit on you??

Hahahaa kweli tumekaliwa si uongo.

As a man, I cannot be bossed around by my wife…
Ephesians 5.33: Wife, respect your husband, PERIOD!
…that’s the standard the Bible gives to every [email protected]

Wanawake wengine hukalia mabwana zao juu ya hizi vikundi vya wamama. Nilienda kujaribu hizo vitu on my husband and it almost ruined my marriage.

I have NEVER approved those wanawake chamas coz they are recipe for marriage breakups…..if men knew what happens in those chamas they would collapse and DIE, kwanza if it’s leaders are legendary divorced ladies kwako kutawaka moto.

This lady should be invited to this year’s MEN’S conference coz she has earned our respect, kayamba kwake
Some do it because of the in-laws kwanza kama ukona in-laws who are always after your Hubby’s money trust me utamkalia.

But why would a man accept kukaliwa for heavens sake.

Marriage/relationships last longer when you don’t tell people your business.

I have been married for 11 years and my husband cooks his own dinner. I still follow the advice was given by other women.

There is also that group of men who like that sort of treatment..they love being dominated by their wives coz it gives them pleasure.

This thing called marriage is so problematic. Not unless you stop listening to what people say and do your s h I e t how you want them done

And she will never see that plot unless ajinunilie. Ukiona mwanamme amekubali kukaliwa ako na plan, the moment his timings will be right, huyo mwanamke atapiga simu hapa tu kusema all men are dogs.

Then usikie some aunts pressuring sons of Abraham to get married. Nefa efa…

These are the kind of things that makes young people hate marriage! 

According to our tradition that’s a taboo.

Ask them why they’re being kaliwad they won’t answer coz wanajua hao ndo shida.

I know of a couple where the wife was the one controlling her huzy’s money mpaka alikuwa na his ATM so the man lied how much he earns and wud do m-banking, she was dramatic but funny enough he used to bembeleza her mum nyamaza.

Maina this gender is weak and they respond to how men treat them..we respond to how they treat us.

Maina this men claiming vile wamekaliwa are devils themselves vichwa ngumu sana don’t think the wives are mad nivile ameonyeshwa.

Men go through so much in silence! We love our women but they tend to take advantage of that fact!

Men create devil in their women. I personally know of a man who wakes up takes kids to school with his own car after the wife sold the kids school car and there is nothing he can do shopping ye ndio huendea soko.

I have been to many chamas,for more than 10 yrs,na sijawahi sikia kitu kama hiyo. Ama ni chama gani are they talking about?

Maina the men contribute so much in this behavior from their ladies from time they get married. No man gets married to a lady who he knows atamkalia chapo.

A lady was telling me that his dude would cook, clean the house and clothes (even panties) simply because he used to come over on weekends and the lady was working.

One day the lady found the guy with another lady in this house

In marriage RESPECT should be paramount. If FEAR dominates then know all isn’t well. A man shouldn’t never fear going into his own house.

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Why do wives forgive cheating husbands but not vice-versa? Maina asks Kenyans

The morning conversation today touched on cheating between spouses. Maina raised the topic by discussing how cheating is treated differently when done by the husband versus when its done by the wife.

He gave the example below, “I have a friend who messed up. It got to a point where the wife called the other woman. Thing is they are still together even after him cheating. Ladies, do you know if it was the other way round he would not forgive you?”

The comments section was split along gender lines with most men defending the double standard while women called it out.

Check out the comments below:

Maina that’s so true……me myself I had ka girlfriend 2 years ago and ssa ikafika time ya kunyanduana …I realized she wasn’t a virgin and I had to insist who did it ….alinishow uyo kijana….nilimdump immediately but mm aliishi kupata na tuschana uko analia anamaliza story.

Maina let me ask you, would you like a key that opens many padlocks (master key) or a padlock that is opened by many keys, same thing applies to men, a man can have 6 women (master key) while a woman can’t have 6 men married to her. If you know you know what I mean.

To men its acceptable to cheat since were are easily moved by everything we see but to women its purely unacceptable and abomination to cheat.

Respect that lady she is blessed with a golden heart coz I can’t forgive.

Society has glorified cheating among men.

Maina revenge is a dish best served cold. I tried talking to my partner, praying but he never changed so I did to him what he did to me.

Tit for tat…no one will leave this world Alive

Tit for Tat has and never will be a fair game…

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Men, what do you tell your daughters and sisters about cheating? Concerned Maina asks

Today morning, Maina Kageni spoke on the topic of rampant cheating in Kenya. Maina asked men what they would tell their daughters and sisters as far as that issue went?

“Men will always cheat! So if I bring in another woman let it be drama free. I have enough love to share between the two women. Guys, Is this what you tell your daughters and sisters?” he asked.

The comments from Kenyans were hilarious and reflected the different ways of thinking among the citizenry. Some of them are below:

Good morning Maina, it will always be my duty to set a good example to my kids by showing love, respect, care, LOYALTY et. al to my wife and that will be emulated by them(my kids) when their time to have their own families come.

Women are not supposed to be used. She is also someone’s daughter. Kenyan women deserve better.

Let them carry themselves in a manner that manifests their worth for better. What I see here is attention seekers with butts and bodies, beauties as the tools of trade. Stop commoditizing your bodies and you will indeed get better.

Cheating ni kawaida, it is just an exercise-Kenyan men tell Maina

What exactly is her definition of being used?? Am listening

Kuna sababu mbona you were used..

If they really deserved better, let them behave like they deserve better. Women themselves are acting so desperate and that is where the cosmic balance comes in and men show them the way. women are their own enemies

Women hate lies, just tell her the truth and everything will be okay. 

Some truths only make things worse..she can’t handle…

Disagree, no man can survive in marriage if your duty is to be honest in everything with your wife, women love men who tell lies time to time 

We take some truths to our graves…some things just can’t be told..

Who do men cheat with? Women of course and aren’t these women people’s wives? So the blame goes both ways.

The first thing that attracts a man to a woman is her beauty and sexuality when he is not satisfied he will go looking for satisfaction.

Uganda women are husband snatchers because they are taught how to treat a man

Men or women, all cheat, have you ever asked yourself why ladies cry on their wedding Ring day⛪? They know Settling down with one man is not easy

We have to tell them the reality on the ground, men we have enough love to share between women if as a father I can love my daughter n the mother at the same time, it’s proof I can share the love equally. n this is different from the ladies, akipata kijana, mapenzi yote kwake.

You mean you have enough “lust” to share between the two women???

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Cheating ni kawaida, it is just an exercise-Kenyan men tell Maina

Maina Kageni’s morning conversation today touched on the hot-button topic of infidelity. He asked women why they were normalising the behaviour in Kenya?

“Ladies let me tell you if a man cheats on you, he will do it again and again. Why are we normalizing infidelity?”

King’ang’i agreed with one woman who called in and said,  “Maina, it’s not a matter of if he will cheat on you but when. I believe that my man will always cheat. He has even fathered a kid outside but the fact remains I will not leave him.”

“That’s a very wise woman,” King’ang’i noted.

Kenyans themselves had their own interesting opinions on the matter. Some of those comments are below:

Sometimes ni shetani but we do apologised for cheating..ladies be smart your husband can’t cheat you.

We will not normalise cheating, if he cheats thinking others also cheat atshangaa feri. Ukiwa mwizi usifikirie kila mtu ni mwizi!

A man won’t cheat on his loyal lady. It means that there is always a genuine reason behind this. Women, please be faithful for us to pay you back.

Coz, kama kalamu imejaa wino lazima isaidie homework ya jirani.

Once he cheats I begin having trust issues eventually we’ll be done.

Men are always men no matter what.

Ni kawaida na si cheating at all. Ni exercise.

“That woman is very wise! She dealt with that situation very well. So ukiona huyo mwanamke akisema hivyo jua wametoka mbali sana na bwana yake.

Cheating is highest level of betrayal this undermines trust and can destroy marriage. If you can’t be faithful then stay single 

“Men will always cheat that lady is very wise. Sharing is caring and we have a lot of love to give.”

There is this discussion on Classic 105 and it kinda makes sense. Why do women always believe that their men have other women on the side? Like a man cant be out with the boys without there being a woman involved?

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Maina is impressed with NMS county leader Badi but Kenyans are still a divided bunch

Today morning Maina Kageni’s conversation was a deviation from his regular bit on relationships. The man brought up the topic of the performance of Major General Mohamed Badi.

The general has been running Nairobi Metropolitan Services (NMS) since Sonko’s deal with Uhuru in February this year and Maina has been very impressed.

“Badi is the new sheriff in town, is getting things done and he has been in office less than a year. Guys, tell me one person who comes close to Badi in terms of development?” Maina asked.

Maina Kageni
Maina Kageni

The majority of Kenyans praised the military man’s performance but some weren’t as keen on his performance and thought it was all hype.

Comments from the Kenyans are below:

I’m happy with the way this man has performed. Mungu amubariki kabisa and may God continue guiding him.

I want to tell Badi congratulations for what he is doing. These leaders need to work hard for their money

Let’s be honest he has done a lot. Nairobi ilikuwa inakaa vibaya sana. Badi is doing an amazing job.

What is all this hype about Badi? Whatever he’s doing is just PR! Iko wapi hosipitali amejenga?

If we have people like him in the barracks they should come out because he is doing a great job.

Not close yet there UHC medical professionals that have not been paid for over 4 months
What is he doing about it ..

No one,wasted resources with the benchmarking governors,who have done nothing. Thumbs up to the guy.

Unless he addresses roadside dumping in eastlando we aren’t seeing things done

Hamna kitu huyu jamaa amefanya. PR mamenos.

Kidero never performed, he was not replaced by army men, this is tribalism

What exactly has he done so far? I’m still seeing garbage everywhere, pot holes in my hood, insecurity bado iko, ni nini amefanya?

He has done absolutely nothing

Oparanya

This shouldn’t be a topic. NMS is an illegal entity and anything they shouldn’t be praised by any Kenyan of sound mind.

No Badi.

I like how the city is now clean& a little decongested!
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They drink Jack Daniels like a man! Maina told about bibi mang’aa

Maina and King’ang’i spoke about wives who create chaos and suffering for their very loving husbands. The host was shocked that women like this (mabibi mang’aa) existed.

The presenter wondered how this could take place in a country where the men were reported to be the heads of homes. King’ang’i explained to him that it was happening more than people actually knew and that the husbands of these women were normally some of the coolest men out there.

I know my wife is cheating with many men and I can’t leave-Man tells Maina

Comments from listeners are below;

I can’t remember the last time I got home before my wife-A man sadly said about his bibi mang’aa.

Some times you visit someone and you see the way the wife behaves, I tell myself that I would like 10 minutes with that woman so that I can deal with her and make her a good wife-A man said.

Don’t such women know that they are inflicting fear on men who want to get marrie?-A woman asked.

Those kids called kababa are doomed. You are the head of the home and should behave as such. This women start by testing you. How can a man confess that his woman is seating on him? Leave her and go to another one that you can handle. Whether you are a billionaire, all women love an authoritative man-A man said.

Jacque Maribe’s father tenderly comforts distressed-looking Jowie(photos)

They are the first generation of women after the Beijing conference. That is why they are behaving like that-A man told Maina.

My grandfather once told me that there are no good women-A man told Mr. Kageni.

A woman has become like the men she is supposed to marry, drinking and acting like men-A woman told Mr. Kageni.

Those crazy women are there. Wanawake visirani wako. They should learn how to control their emotions. You don’t want to deal with one-A woman said.

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Tell women the truth and you will end up making love to yourself – Man tells Maina

Maina Kageni brought up an interesting conversation today that concerned men who lie to women while dating. The man was incredulous at the lengths to which men will go to get women they are dating enarmoured with.

Maina asked, “Kenyan men! Why do you borrow someone’s car and lie that it’s yours, live in a house you can’t afford? Why can’t you be honest with your women?

He also asked Kenyan ladies whether they had been with men who had lied to them only for the truth to come out later?

The answers were illuminating with both genders confirming that lying was indeed a feature of modern dating.

Some of those comments are below:

They don’t like the truth. If you don’t have money don’t tell them, let them find out the truth on their own. We are living a life of deceit! So we must lie to them by the time the find out wako ndani already.

Hiyo ni utoto…. You should let the lady know you from the beginning.. Let her know umeweka mattress chini unalala hapo, let her know you survive with one meal, let her know everything about you coz when she realizes later you lied your personality she will end up leaving you.

Lie until it becomes a lie no more, they also cheat on us, waende uko,, ikijulikana God anaingilia na anakutetea.

Women are told what they want to hear.

Tell them the truth and you will end up making love to yourself entirely!!!

I don’t agree with the caller hao watu lazima wadanganywe.

Tell us the truth we will love just they you are…. I believe when woman loves she loves for real good day

Fake It till you make that’s what they say

Women love lies.Tell the truth and never get married

Maina wanajua hudanganywa,that’s why as their daughters grow up they tell them usidanganywe haraka na mwanaume

The same way women fake themselves. maina av you met a woman who has faked her look with makeup??u sleep with Agnes u wake up next to steve. And being a man ain’t easy,Can u imagine someone daughter needing your money urgently??? Women av commodified themselves.

I was dating a guy who didn’t have money and I had my money so I was the one doing everything and when he gets money it was his. He was selfish and stingy. He wanted me to buy him a car and build him a house.”

I’m married and I lied to be with my wife by the time she realized the truth it was too late. Fake It till you make that’s what they say

Women love lies. Tell the truth and never get married

My boyfriend once told me that too. And am still in for it like a fool😂😂😂😂🙆‍♀️

Doesn’t make sense, to live borrowed life in the name pleasing another human being,

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You think you are players, your women are the coaches! Maina Kageni warns Kenyan men

On Thursday morning, Maina Kageni spoke about a topic that would inevitably get many men apoplectic. Mr. Kageni brought up the issue of women having other men who they deal with other than their men that aren’t strictly platonic.

Every Kenyan woman has an office husband. There is a man for money, for feeling good, for validation and that man isn’t you. You ain’t all that. You think you are the players, your women are the coaches. I have a very good friend and I know the wife’s other man. But I don’t interfere in others’ affairs. 

The sensitive nature of the conversation was troubling even for Mwalimu King’ang’i who was unhappy with the topic Maina had chosen, even telling him, “I already have a head-ache. You are starting World War 3.”

The responses were to be unexpected with some men going ape-sh!t with some others confirming what Maina had said. Most women on the other hand agreed with Maina’s assertion but said that he shouldn’t let some ignorant men in on that truth.

Check out some of the comments from Kenyans below:

What nonsense is this I am hearing on Classic 105… Eti Nairobi women have another man they confide in and tell all their problems yet they have husbands Man gesturing ok.

These women have that one man they go to when things are not okay in the relationship anaenda kuambiwa. They have men that make them happy.

“I could never share anything with my ex but I had someone who used to listen to me and I could talk to him anytime.

Maina its true! I have one guy I call when my husband stresses me out. He has always been there for me.

Whatever you are saying Maina is the truth. A lot of women open up to me and she will tell you all her problems.

This is the look in the men when they hear their women talk about the other guy’s apart from them 

It’s true coz these men have become so busy to an extent that they feel when they provide for you and give you money then you are not supposed to be complaining. They forget the emotional bit which is very important. They don’t have time for family talk.

Good morning my brother. Today’s discussion, but what about a man being his wife’s best friend then husband? Why do they need some other shoulders out there? Don’t we have shoulders? This gender!!

Aki this gender but it is what it is. Whether they sugar coat it or not. Life has to go on. It’s a two-way traffic. #MainaAndKingangi did you watch the video that trended of a man bring killed for infidelity?!

Good morning Maina, I’m just taking notes. Maina are those *men* benefiting from our ladies?

Maina we cant avoid nature but accept matokeo. It’s true that woman have spare tires out there so as the car does. Why don’t men look for theirs too….This a free world hakuna makasiriko. Utakufa tu bure na depression. Good day

What else can best describe that if not unfaithfulness Maina?

Maina what are these women saying here..?Flushed faceFlushed faceFlushed face.so wako na wanaume wengine huko nje wa kuwatuliza..?.OOOLISKIA WAPII..?.#MainaAndKingangi #MainaAndKingangi #MainaAndKingangi #MainaAndKingangi #MainaAndKingangi #MainaAndKingangi

This thing’s are there and it’s happening. I just decided not to marry. Cause Maina the things that I’ve heard. Hizi vitu na deep state are same whatsapp group.

It’s true. I have an office lady who discloses to me everything about her life and her husband…..

We don’t care, she can call whomever.

Wazidi kua nao tu,

Men are the ones who start these things. What you are saying Maina is true. There are men who help you without even you asking. Let them stay in the dark, these men don’t need to know.

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Niliambia mzee nampenda akaniuliza, kwani mimi ni mamako? Man tells Mike Mondo

Mike Mondo who was seating in for Maina Kageni today morning introduced a fascinating topic today. The sultry-voiced presenter brought up the issue of why kids (men in particular) didn’t tell their fathers that they loved them.

“Why can’t you tell your brother I love you. Is that not a case of toxic masculinity. If you could tell your dad today that you loved him, would you?”

The most common responses from men were in agreement with Mike that they indeed couldn’t tell their fathers that they loved them. One of the most hilarious responses is below:

Mike kuna siku niliambia mzee nampenda akaniuliza kwani mimi ni mamako?

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The women who responded meanwhile said that they would/did tell their fathers about their love for them.

I wish he was alive, I would tell him every day. I wish he was alive I would tell him every day.

That is business for women.

That is tricky sana. You know old man is someone we aren’t close together with.

Hiyo ni kazi ya wanawake hama wasichana. Mimi siwezi kuambia babangu eti nampenda…. labda nimfanyie kitu ya kumunyesha nampenda.

Every time I talk to my dad I tell him I love him and thank him for raising me.

We do passionately love our fathers, we don’t necessarily have to pronounce it on them.

I don’t have one. I wish I had I tell him a thousand times until he hates me.

I tell my dad frequently I Love him, it comes naturally and I don’t see it’s a problem. He is special to me.

“I lost my dad when I was very young but I know they say hakuna mtoto nachukia hapa that’s their way of saying I love you.”

That I love you thing will depend, how u were brought up, and your generation, sisi wale wa nahapo b4 hiwezi. At first men don’t boost bond between them and boyshaud,and this is the reason we got no guts to tell dad ‘I Love You’ is absolutely tricky.

Mike if u grew up as a man and witnessed only your mom would tell you I love and your father never used that name all of your life ,wea will u start telling him u love him ? That’s why it’s hard for them ,to used the word

Mwalimu the world love is said to an opposite sex…that is way it’s very easy to say that to our mums

“We love our parents but siwezi ambia baba yangu napenda ni ngumu kidogo.”

No it isnt. Depend on how you were raised, if there was open communication or was taught to supress you emotions, -“not to sound feminine”. Most children to appease & please, tend to ‘live’ their parents’ ‘truths’ without questioning its validity.

Tunaogopa ngumi. 

I don’t say so coz he doesn’t. But I show him through actions, like we always do.

The word means something else, loving a man is said in actions

Fathers deserve respect not love

He knows,,, si lazzma

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Parents tell Mike Mondo their biggest concerns about schools re-opening

The topic of conversation today during the morning conversation touched on the government’s decision to re-open schools after the long closure due to Covid-19.

Mike Mondo who was standing in for Maina Kageni asked parents the questions on what was their biggest concern as their kids went back to school? “Do you have any concerns that the kids are going back to school? What is your biggest concern?”

Most parents were in agreement that it was hard for them to send the kids to school as they were worried about the lingering effects of Covid-19.

Some of the comments are below:

Things on the ground are very different. You can’t tell kids to wear the mask. I work in Mwingi where there is no water. The masks the kids came with on Monday were already dirty. It’s really hard to control the kids. I wish they had given them until December.

I am still observing. I will see what I will do next week but it’s not looking good.

Adults are showing a very bad example. Even if Covid-19 was to spread, many aren’t following the examples. Grown-ups should start showing a better example. If the adults were serious, our curve would flatten.

First thing I have no job. Secondly, the teachers didn’t have the facilities to support the kids. If I can’t help my kids at home, how will kids be controlled at school?

The problem isn’t with the govt but with us. We aren’t maintaining the discipline. We should maintain it so the kids can do so.

This Covid-19 is a scam. The govt can’t risk the children going to school. The infections are very low. 

My child is a candidate. Things are not safe at the moment even at home. Let the kids stay at school cause they are safer there. 

I am a teacher and mother. I teach at a posh school in Kilimani. I don’t want the kids to go back to school. I won’t take my daughter back to school until I feel comfortable.

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Morning conversation: “Would you wash your man’s boxers?”

Whether or not, you would wash your man’s boxers was the conversation this morning on Maina and King’ang’i. Well, Classic105 listeners came out to give their personal experience and opinion on the matter.

One lister said it is the man’s personal responsibility to cater to his personal hygiene and that she would never do it.

Another one said it is every woman’s responsibility to make sure that her man’s boxers are clean and well kept.

“I do not tolerate any kind of laziness and uncleanness,” tweeted a listener

Another listener said he is free to wash his woman’s under-garments without fear of being judged.

Morning Conversation: Kenyans have this habit of giving unsolicited advice

Captain Kale, a die-hard fan of Maina and Kingangi in the morning said,

“How can a man wash his woman’s underwear? There are some things a man should never do. The moment you start doing these things, you are done.”

Adding

“A woman who is a wife material will never be told to do this and this, that’s why I paid for you to come to my house, I paid the dowry.”

“If you give the housegirl that job, she will become your co-wife. I wash her underwear as who? Those are not men, they are boys.”

“She should be able to even buy and bring the boxers to her”

I own more than 200 pairs of underwear – Maina Kageni declares

Maina Kageni and Mwalimu King’ang’i engaged in a hilarious conversation today about inner-wear or underwear whichever you prefer to call it.

Maina introduced the topic when he quoted a recent study that showed that a fifth of men didn’t change their innerwear every day.

“A recent study shows that 22% of men don’t change their innerwear every day. Doctors have warned that that is a health risk. I have 200 myself. I think they are even more.”

King’ang’i himself felt that it was OK for men not to have too many underwears in their closets. “There is a reason it is called innerwear. You aren’t Superman.”

Some comments from Kenyans are below:

Real men have 3-4 underwear. Any more than that and you are a slay queen.

Me, I have 2 and I change them monthly.

The fourth one is a show-off. 

2 things men struggle with changing underwear, washing a sufuria for ugali.

I don’t want to say the number. We men don’t go above 2 underwear. I can wear innerwear for one month. Even two months.

I don’t wear underwear. I only do so when visiting ladies. 

Yes, you heard right. One month one underwear. 

Me, I only have two and they have holes in them. Until they change colour. 200 underwear? Kwani wewe ni mama?

Mwanaume ni underwear 3 zaidi. I have two at the moment. And one is Sunday best and the other to survive.

I have had two for the past 5 years. And it’s not that I don’t have money. That’s the way it should be.

Soldiers don’t change their underwear when in battle. We are not like women with their sanitary needs. Will you think of getting new boxers or getting money. I have 5 and I see that they are too many.

We are not like women. Two will suffice. A woman needs to have many she can change.

This is why you see them walking about and they are always scratching.

Atakama ni gangster points, hiyo imezidi. I have more than 60 boxers. I don’t like washing every day, so I have many.

Our caretaker has one boxer. It looks like a fishing net. And he has been told to go and buy new boxers.

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If a side-chick calls my wife, she will laugh and tell her he has many more – Man tells Maina

Maina Kageni brought up an interesting topic today about side-chicks. The popular radio presenter gave an interesting anecdote of how some side-chicks will call the wives of the men they have been seeing.

He wondered why they would do such a thing and what wives who had been done for that thought?

“If you are the other woman, why would you call the wife? Is there a sense of satisfaction that comes with that. Have you ever called the wife as the other woman or have you been called as the wife?”

King’ang’i opined that those women were spoilers looking to end a man’s marriage. “That is spoiling a relationship. That is the final straw. She should at least go to the police station. She wants to set fires for someone’s home.”

Most of the comments from both men and women agreed that side chicks should stick to their lane. One woman gave a hilarious story of how she would deal with a potential side chick. It is below:

She is just a side-chick. She is a rental and when someone gets tired they move on to another one. When you call me now, why didn’t you call me when stuff was good? When you are called by a woman like that you tell her that you are glad that God has removed a weed from my farm and pray for her to get her own. If you are a side chick, play your role.

Some other comments are below;

Personally, if I know your side chick I will give her credit she calls your wife. That’s being selfish for a country with a ratio of 1:1.

Stick to your lane. You are the other woman. Play your role.

Someone has already burnt the house the moment they stray. I got a kid with a married woman. He refused to take care of the kid. I had to threaten that I would call his wife for him to behave.

What is a wife to me? When you were with me you didn’t tell me you had a wife. I also have feelings, I will call at anytime I want to tell her.

Look for a song called Sidechick by Ikaya. It will tell you everything.

The moment you date a married man, you should keep your end of the bargain.

Be ready to be used when you date a married man.

Maina, what are you championing for? It’s like calling the Nation Media CEO to help with issues at Radio Africa.

When you are dating a married man, don’t you know he is married? They should know that they are rental cars. 

What nonsense is this? If you call my wife I will get another. The ratio of men to women is 1 to 7. If you call my wife, she will laugh at you and tell you that he has many more. It is me who started it and it is me to end it.

Cheating is a choice but a very expensive one.

There is no option for the second woman.

 

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Maina, we have tolerated you for too long! Upset Kenyan man tells morning host

Maina Kageni had the bit in his teeth today when he spoke about a topic that has him perplexed. The issue at hand, was why many men had a problem with women who smoke.

The radio presenter issued an impassioned appeal to men speaking about his female cousin who not only smokes but is successful and has been married for 30 years.

Women smoking will dissuade men from having relationships with women. My cousin is married and she smokes and drinks. My cousin has never smoked or drank and he has been with his wife for more than 30 years. She is a good mother. She is a doctor, she is doing business. How does smoking make someone a bad partner? Would that one thing alone not make you get married to a woman?

King’ang’i himself was almost apoplectic about the notion Maina was advocating and said that most men didn’t want women who smoked.

The reason Maina Kageni’s revelation about SK Macharia being his “father” makes sense

In an interesting turn of events, most callers(male and female respondents) seemed to agree with King’ang’i which rarely ever happens.  Some even said that women who smoked were akin to prostitutes.

Check out some of the comments from the morning conversation below:

Some are smoking bhangi with his wife. Many people don’t like it.

I appreciate that the government has put a rule about smoking. I have 3 women right now and none of them is smoking. It is about managing deals, that’s how we deal.

Weed ni muhimu.

A woman who smokes belongs to the streets.

When I started dating my GF seriously we both stopped smoking.

There was a news anchor who was beautiful that I admired until I saw her smoking bhang and cigarettes. That was the day my crush for her ended.

Smoking makes a woman’s body sag. They age 5 times as worse as men who smoke.

A smoking woman kills the s3xual desire.

Maina, we have tolerated you for too long. How should a wife smoke when her husband isn’t?

In Kikuyu land a woman who smokes is a prostitute. Imagine you go with a woman to shags and she starts smoking. She will be seen as a prostitute

Why should someone smoke especially a woman? If a lady smokes that’s the end of any relationship with that woman.

 A lady who smokes is a turn-off and let-off.

Me and my husband used to smoke bhang until I got pregnant but we stopped.

Why is it OK for men to smoke and not for women.

There is no place that smoking and prostitution go hand in hand.

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The govt. should pay for parents to take kids back to school – Wakanai tells Maina

The government this week announced that schools would be re-opening on October 12, an announcement that Maina Kageni saw fit to speak about this week.

The silky-voiced radio presenter brought up the topic stating that it had trended online and was causing a fracas among many Kenyans. He asked whether Kenyans were ready for the opening?

Parents agreed almost unanimously that they weren’t ready for the re-opening with many faulting the government for the hasty announcement.

The reason Maina Kageni’s revelation about SK Macharia being his “father” makes sense

Constant caller Wakanai also commented on the topic and made a point which Mwalimu King’ang’i agreed with. He said;

Can anything emanating from Covid be met by the government in terms of expenses? Can the parents be exempted from paying for anything that is related to paying for Covid-19 related expenses? The government must provide money for parents to take their kids to school. 

Other comments from Kenyans are below:

People celebrate when bars open. It’s also good when schools open.

There was talk of doing this in January. How are you supposed to pay for a new school, uniform, books? Then you are supposed to do it in 5 days.

Those scheduled for exams. When did they learn? Are the kids in form one also ready?

We confused our parents with different schedules. Magoha had told people to wait until 2021, now he makes this announcement.

I have 2 students. All the Covid-19 requirements will be placed on parents. We aren’t ready for this. They are arm-twisting and pushing us. Trying to get a mask even for us parents is hard.

Even students aren’t ready, the same way parents aren’t.

I was chased from my home because of rent. My son is in class 8 and has grown bigger. I don’t have school fees, transport or even uniform money. I don’t have a job at the moment.

This is a great shock as a teacher. Even teachers aren’t ready for this re-opening. This is an ambush and is unexpected.

What does this government to do for our kids? Even transport we don’t have.

Most parents weren’t prepared for this. Many were anticipating a January start.

What happens to candidates when they do exams? And even kids who joined form 1 this year.

This is a problem. Every person working for govt is being paid while people in the informal sector don’t even have money.

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