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Betty Bayo’s recent posts show her deep regret at leaving Kanyari

Betty Bayo has become more vocal this year, especially on issues that touch on relationships. The advise that she has been giving this year has really made us take note.


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Why? The nature of it. Two recent examples come to mind. First off, Betty encouraged Size 8 to stay with her husband Dj Mo after allegations broke that he had cheated on her. She wrote;

“Size 8 am soo proud of you ..fight for your marriage cheating is a minor offence.. if I ever get in a marriage worth fighting for I will… On my knees I will fight for it… I’ll prove to all of you marriage works… And for those telling me to go back to my past… don’t you think I know the way…

Her advice got me thinking. Was it possible that Betty regrets leaving controversial pastor Victor Kanyari after he was exposed for scamming his followers?

Betty Bayo and Pastor Kanyari
Betty Bayo and Pastor Kanyari

Could her advise to Size 8 be applied to her that she should have fought harder or maybe I was reaching for something that wasn’t there? Maybe…

Why does she keep mentioning me on social media? Kanyari asks about Betty Bayo

But my initial suspicion that she might be having regrets about leaving Kanyari was re-animated again this past week when she posted another controversial message on her social media.

Her message was to urge women to stay in their marriages through most trouble. The only caveat she gave women was women were allowed to leave if their man told the woman to leave.

She wrote;

“Attention!!! TO ALL WOMEN

DON’T leave your man coz he got broke

DON’T leave your man coz you got richer than him.

DON’T leave your man coz he can’t perform his duties .in bed

DON’T leave your man coz of Peer pressure .

DON’T leave a man coz his going through shame instead stand with him.

Don’t leave a man coz of social media

LEAVE A MAN ONLY when HE TELLS YOU WITH HIS MOUTH TO LEAVE..don’t force your self it will cause more harm .. . my sister livuuu obedient is better than sacrifice…

These 3 lines particularly stand with me,

DON’T leave your man coz of Peer pressure .

DON’T leave a man coz his going through shame instead stand with him.

Don’t leave a man coz of social media

They are exactly the things Betty was facing when Kanyari was exposed by Jicho Pevu. Is it possible that Betty sees her life now and sees the mistakes she made during that period? I think it is possible.

Such a clear rebuttal of her earlier stances and behaviours is quite fascinating and shows that she might be having second thoughts about leaving Kanyari after his crazy scandal.

But I could be wrong and  Betty’s advise only applies to women apart from herself…

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