Akothee has always talked about her mzungu baby daddy and how she has suffered in his hands. Even after she gave birth, the guy wasn’t supportive and left her to do everything and raise the baby alone.
Well, Akothee has finally given the full version of her life with the mzungu baby daddy and the suffering she went through in his hands.
“I KNOW SOME OF YOU MIGHT BE IN REAL SHIT SITUATION THAN MINE , SO LET ME SHARE FOR A SISTER BECAUSE I CARE . I HAVE BEEN FORCED TO DROP MUSIC AND STAY HOME, SO THIS WILL BE MY LAST STORY TILL PART FIVE & I BRING THE PAGE DOWN. FOLLOW FOR YOUR FRIEND.
2008 , we would bump into each other once in a while , at the supermarket or tembo disco, he would give me a big smile and look at me till I disappear, most of the time we met at Nakumatt as I shop for my children , so he went and ask his fellow muzungu friends if they knew this tall dark crazy luo with a unique body ) his friends told him they only know the crazy taxi driver who turns tembo disco floor on fire , she is mad on the dance floor thats all, so he found out I had a restaurant in shanzu , the stomp 196 where my main clientel were manambas , taxi drivers and matatu drivers , Markus would come to my reastaurant eat pay and leave without ,saying a word , one day ,he invited me for dinner with my kids at kahama , we had a good time , he loved to see how I handle my 3 girls, he said I am a mother he admires so much, so when we hooked up , he never allowed me go out with him in some places like casaurina or tembo , he would take me to bobs have 1 drink and leave , I never knew his tricks , I never saw him with a woman , I was very naive, I dint know the games played down here, so we became friends , and he invited me to Switzerland , I took my 3 girls to a boarding school bahari parents , because I dint have anyone to leave them with , he was feeling sooo sweet as we walked down in basel streets , he introduced me to all his friends and all of them were wondering where he collected this beauty, he would allow me walk infront of him and watch other Muzungus go crazy over my beauty, he treated me like a queen till he boxed me , then he asked me for a baby , well ,our baby was planned, we both went for HIV test and decided to put up a family, it took 2 months pap Akothee was paged , he was happy to be a father at 50 years, as it was getting late , he said he never saw any lady in mombasa who was serious to carry his baby , all he met were party animals and so he dint have family interest in them , well ,I believed him , for I never saw him with a woman , kumbe he has all the beautiful girls contacts on his phone , he calls you at home deal with you and release you, no contacts , if he meets you next day he ignores you like never before.”
When she came back to Kenya, things were not the way she left them. Her car was spoilt and her restaurant had shut down. She had to act fast. In the process she got sick and was admitted for three days and not once did her baby daddy visit her.
“I came back from swizerland pregnant , only to come and find my reastaurant no more , and my taxi car also finished , well he gave me 100k when I came back so I repaired my car but was not able to revive my restaurant as I already started sickling , when he came to kenya the pregnancy was 4 months and already visible , I was so sick that I could not even walk , we went with him to the hospital and he never wanted to be seen with me , so my friend nancy admitted me in hospital as markus waited in the car , when he was asked for his details , he said “put her mothers names and phone number” well I was admitted for 3 days , he never visited me in hospital , he only came the last day to pay bills and we left , at home I did evrything as a wife, I remember his friend sent him a massage ” how is the crazy luo , he answered , she is a very good cook ” at midninght he would leave and come back at 7. 00 am in the morning , I could hear him hide the remaining condoms under our bed , because I was inlove , I dint want to mention . I was very weak and hurt and sickling, but went on with my job as a taxi driver , he went back to swiss , so I sent him a message told him I wanted the baby born in swizerland , & he sent me an email to abort the baby , and that I should not tell people he is the father of our son . this was a shock to me , My baby was already 4 months , it was not an accident nor forced , it was planned , so I decided to carry my baby, ooh it was not the pregnancy challenges that made me sick., I was hurting without knowing I had constant headache that no panadol would releave , well all through the pregnancy I recieved no support from him , so I decided to follow him in swiss , when I arrived at 8 months , he kept on telling hurting words eg (aman can not fall in love at 50, you have too many children ) so one day I went to visit a friend ingermany , upon coming back.in the train I recieved his massage telling me to go back to Africa he has no family to take care of me and the baby , I arrived in basel SBB at about 6.00pm in the evening , he refused to pick me up and switched off his phone , It was winter time I knew nobody in Europe he was the only hope I had , then the caffe at the SBb were closing I was very cold and tired , so I remember he intiroduced me to a cameroonian girl , called caro, I called caro and told her the story , he asked me are you sure the pregnancy is for Markus , I said yes , then caro called him fortunatley he had switched o. again., told him to pick me up or call police for him , so he came and picked me up , when we arrived at home it was 2.00 am I was so stressed that had not felt the babies movement for about 3 days , next day I contacted a few of kenyans I once met , but I could not use any of the advices like throwing away my passport , go to frauen house, all this I could not , I only saw my country kenya in my eyes , I only saw my innocent children back at home , so I woke up and told him am going back to kenya , give me money I go die ahead , so he asked me how much I said 1m. so he gave me the money and I left , at frankfurt I had to lie the pregnancy was 6 months , I could nor believe me not going back to kenya I hated Europe so much , that I just wanted to be home, This money was ment for hospital bills etc , I decided to ho give birth in a cheap hospital and invested the money , I paid my rent for 1 year and bought a second bigger car , for VIP , I was so tired I wantef the baby out , I went for induction and the sane night I was labouring he was in kenya in another womans arm, he cane few minutes before the baby was out , when the baby came out it was his copy . and be ause I wss still in love I covered everything , my friends never knew what I was going through, I could not share at that time because I was still hurting And I dint want people to give me more negative energy , its only my baby sister who knew what was going through, we broke up since conception of our son , the rest is side shows, I am a mother who sucrifice everything for the well being of my children , so I accepted him like he was ,just for our son to see his father, after 2 weeks I went back to work and met Dominic who took over my life and lightened my heart again , when Markus heard that I met someone prominent , now he wanted me back and played the role of a husband , he was even contolling who comes to my house , I had afew muzungu friends who loved my kids and would bring them clothes & gifts , he told me he doesnt want to see any man carry his baby or come to his house , all through since his son was born , he has never paid a flight ticket for his son nor buy clothes , he wanted to be in mylife and I keep Dominic too , when I learnt his tricks like he wanted free food , free car to drive and free accomodation , I kicked him out of my life and he became bitter , now he befriended Dominic and started telling him things like I have a black boyfriend everytine I released a video , all video vixens were my boyfriends and we married , he brought alot of tension between me and Dominic that we had to part ways although me and dominic we were just raising children , I left for Nairobi with the kids , & Markus wanted Dominic to leave the country so he can stay in white house with the kids , because he knew I had to travel and he loves kenya , Dominic being a gentleman left all the mess and left the country , when markus learnt that , he was so happy because now he thought I would feed him in white house because now I was datting a more loaded guy , hey remember we not having any sexual contact or anything ,he is still having his sexual life outside and expect me to provide for him because he is papa Ojwang , I rented so many houses for him because I never wanted my child in some showedy place , well let me say I had a soft sport for him & he took it for stupidity , one day I left him in white house with the kids but He even called me to send 2000 shillings for takataka , he only go to the suppermarket to buy his shaving cream colgate and condoms.”
She went ahead to reveal how Baba Ojwang even had the guts to borrow 2 million from Dr.
“I met him in 2008 & we broke up the same year , I met dominic in 2009 , we broke up with dominic in 2013 , I met Dr.k end of 2013 , then I moved with the kids to Nairobi , in nairobi Markus said he wanted his son to speak swiss , so he wanted his son in swizerland , we agreed to do that because our son loves his father very much , we agreed that both parties will be incharge of the children the 3 of us , we bought a house and I furnished my part , the moment the children arrived in Europe he told me to send him custody letter from my lawyer , I said no, I cant give you custody , because you dont understand anything to do with a child , after three months , he left our son in Europe and came back to kenya for his holidays , I was forced to leave my other kids here and go save my son, he was doing homework on wassap as I dont speak very good german , before I knew it he sent us an email saying he wants to relocate to mombasa and that he cant live in swiss anymore he is bored , this brought a very big fight between the 3 of us , I told them to give me my children I go back home ,as I cabt live i. Europe I have big projects in kenya , Dr. was also on my neck asking who is taking care of the investements back in kenya when am in Europe, the pressure was too much , I fought a physical war in a land I dont know , Markus put poison in Dominics heart , and I was seen as the bad one , DR came in as a mediator and told markus to be nice to the family , as I was in the car , he went behind my back and took Dr phone numbers , I came back from the US and saw atext from Markus he had sent a message to Dr asking him for 2m chf , and he told him not to tell me, , so he has contstantly been following Dr to fund his projects , I guess he is a woman , now I asked both Markus and Dominic on baby daddies wassap group , to give me their callender for childrens holiday next year ,for I need to reorganise myself as next year will be very busy and I want them to keep the boys during holidays as I will be busy too , well , Markus called Dr and told him that I asked him to come stay with the children because I will be having A world tour and I want to dump the kids, while he knows Dr is not comfortable with me doing music around the world, so Dr called me and told me to tell MARKUS TO STOP BOTHERING HIM.
WELL , I AM STILL THINKING OF WHAT TO DO WITH THIS MARKUS URS MEYER , IF I DONT ALLOW HIM CONTACT ME I HURT MY SON , BUT I THINK I HAVE TRUELY TRIED MY LEVEL BEST TO KEEP HIM AS A FRIEND FOR THE SAKE OF OUR SON. I WILL NEVER GO TO COURT FOR HE DOESNT PAY FOR HIS CHILDS WELL BEING, AM DOING EVERYTHING ON MY OWN , HE EVEN EXPECT OTHER MEN TO PAY HIS FLIGHT TICKETS FOR HIM , WELL ,I REST MY CASE BY SAYING I HAND YOU OVER TO THE LIVING GOD , LEAVE MY FAMILY ALONE GET ALIFE AND STAY OUT OF OUR LIVES . HE IS FOLLOWING MY FACEBOOK PAGE RELIGIOUSLY.”
When Markus was told that the Kenyan law states that if you stay with a woman for more than six months, she is basically your wife, he said that the government won’t know if she’s his wife.
“Well for him to help me take care of the children when I have to travell, I have to pay for his flight tickets , give him a car to drive full tank , give him atleast 2 househelps, I have been nice to him for the sake of our son , but I think there is more than meets the eye , any girl around Markus be worned ,I dont know if he is dating but this are the questions I heard him ask the lawyer when he was told , kenyan law has changed and if you stay with a woman for more than 6 months he is your wife , well I have never seen him with a girl but you know his games
look at his reactions
look at his answers
MARKUS : how will the government know
and if I dont stay with her in my house she stay in her apartment ?
Lawyer : as long as you are funding her , she is your wife
Markus : but if I dont give her money in the bank only in the hand how the goverment know this
LAWYER: yes she will still claim you are her husband because you are keeping her .
ME : poor girl over there , this idiot is not settling soon , girls be worned , me and my lawyer were suprised at how this man at his age wanna use women here in kenya for pleasure only , AWUORO. PAPA OJWANG.”