A woman advised women on classic 105 that they must do everything possible to get a man to shamelessly spend money on them.
the number one mistake women make with these men especially when you land yourself a stingy man is showing them you can be independent, especially financially.
You show a man you can take care of all your financial needs, rub it in his face? The day you come to him and ask for a coin, trust me aki sha zoea, whatever he will give you will be little or nothing knowing that you have money, when he gets used to being shown that you are financially independent?
Men use money to get the woman they want. While women, subtly and skillfully, use their femininity to reel in the man of their dreams.
Men know their job is to win a woman’s affection, love and commitment and they will court you with their compliments and gentlemanly manners—and whether they will admit it or not, they are fully aware that gifts are part of a woman’s love language.
Depending on a man’s level of interest in you, his finances and generosity, he will spend money to get you to go on a date with him and he will surprise you with trinkets and sparkle to woo and wow you.
He will send you flowers, wine and dine you, take you shopping for clothes and treat you to all-expense-paid trips, because in his mind, he is investing in you and his future.
Once a man is done ‘investing’ in you a woman tends to do these three things:
– felt obligated to go out with him again
– Expect to sleep with him
– Feel like a gold-digger