Its probably very confusing when someone ignores you or starts becoming uncertain about you. Have you ever been to a date and thought it was successful only for the other person not to reply back with either a call or a message?
We have all been ignored one time or another, and we all know that terrible feeling that follows. You keep asking yourself questions, trying to put the pieces together of what you may have done wrong or what may have happened to them.
Sometimes it may not be your fault, but it may be an act of just not being liked or you did something provoking to receive the silent treatment from either your peers or loved ones.
10 Reasons Why People ignore you;
- Your presence doesn’t grab attention
When people talk about first impressions, simply means what people think about you or perceive about you when they first meet you. People pay more attention to those who are more self-confident. Maybe the reason why people ignore you is that you don’t give people enough to capture the eye’s attention. This may be the chance to work on your body language, self-confidence and how you approach other people. These things are key to grabbing attention.
- You are too needy
People tend to ignore or avoid people who can not stand on their own. Your over reliance will make them feel suffocated. Step back, give them some space, don’t always be the one who goes after them, let them also come to you.
- You have negative energy
People don’t want to be around someone who will drag them down and pour water onto their ideas. As much as in life we may go through rough patches, that doesn’t give you the chance to be negative all your life. Learn to work on your problems, as people tend to be more attracted to positive people.
- You worry too much about being liked
If you try too hard to be liked, then officially you’ll push people away. People pleasers are everywhere, always trying to hard to please people an act that drives people away.
- You are too intense.
Having opinions and being passionate about the things you like is good. In fact, it is very important to have a belief system that you believe in, but if you are too passionate, rigid and too intense ready to argue then you will only chase people away. Tone down on your intensity and reserve your arguments for the right time.
- You are not serious in anything you do
If you have come to be known for not keeping promises or always arriving late or cancelling, you shouldn’t wonder why people are ignoring you. They may claim you are not serious and wouldn’t want anything to do with you. If you don’t take people seriously, neither will they take you serious as well.
- You don’t contribute much
Have you ever been in a relationship that ended up you just giving? A one sided relationship is not enjoyable, thus driving the other party away.
- You are selfish
Qualities that generate a well satisfying relationship is selflessness. Thus selfish people normally have a hard time keeping friends and hence most people tend to ignore selfish people.
- You are dishonest
Sometimes we tell lies to guard our private lives to those we do not trust. But if you are the person who constantly tells lies, then trust is hard to be built.
- Boasting to much
Occasionally people like bragging over the accomplishments they have made. Doing this once in awhile is not harmful but doing it over and over makes you repulsive and seem arrogant. Let your achievements talk about themselves for if you’ve made it, those achievements will be seen.
All in all, feeling ignored by people may be a very unpleasant thing to feel but if you find this problem in one or two relationships in your life then the problem ain’t you but them.